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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ganjafama(m): 9:30am On Aug 01, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:Calm down bro! This woman is caught in the middle of a tug of war between the husband and his baby mama. Why bring your special needs child to drop with the father two months after he got married? Besides, the man hid this from his wife. That's marriage by deceit. You are making it seem as if the pregnant woman is at fault. She is justified if she decides to quit the marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 9:40am On Aug 01, 2022 |
sooperrescue: Cerebral palsy is only found in the US and Europe? You see how stupid you are? How can your hands be full when you can adopt and marry her for one of your son. Finally, it is your way calamity is coming. Your children will have calamity over them. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:42am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Ganjafama:please try and read her responses to everyone giving her advice you will understand why my response this way, if you advise her to run and leave her husband, she will thank you, if you advise her to stay and forgive her husband and stay, she will insult you and blast you, why then did she come to public opinion forum to seek advice. Just go through comment section and see for yourself. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 9:44am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Curdlebug:next time read and understand so that you will not be reigning courses on you and your children. It may be the same reason why your father and his children were cursed. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 01, 2022 |
The man should have told you that before marrying you, if he can keep secrets like that from you, who knows hw many more he is keeping? Leave him now, that you can, cos do you really want to spend the rest of your life taking care of another woman's abandoned offspring? Can you do that 5-10 years from now everyday, sacrificing all your dreams and aspirations why he goes around flexing and bringing more cerebral palsy products into the country? Think well, dont believe anything he tells you, he married you to use you as his maid period. The choice is yours sha. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 9:45am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino:If you are not mad, why are you sounding mad? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ganjafama(m): 9:51am On Aug 01, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:Whatever rocks her boat. She is wearing the shoe and she alone knows where it pinches. If she's made up her mind to leave the least we can do is wish her all the best and a safe delivery. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by sunnymighty(m): 9:55am On Aug 01, 2022 |
sooperrescue: I can't believe what I just read! Are U for real? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:57am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Ganjafama: Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:58am On Aug 01, 2022 |
quentin06: Thank you I already left the house I am at my brother house and I am going back to the village on thrusday. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 10:01am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Ganjafama:it's like both of you are thesame, nobody is is forcing her to stay, neither asking her to leave, but public conducts, insulting people on public forum must generate opposite reaction |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:14am On Aug 01, 2022 |
kollinz1234: It is your enter generation that is mad. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 10:19am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino:So why are you the one sounding mad 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:24am On Aug 01, 2022 |
kollinz1234: It is your children that are mad. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Curdlebug(m): 10:32am On Aug 01, 2022 |
kollinz1234:you still a big fool... Accept that first... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ulunne777(f): 10:39am On Aug 01, 2022 |
sooperrescue: Omg! Am I the only one seeing this post? For ppl using religion to manipulate the Op,hear firsthand from the mother of one.This is the child David,a Nollywood actor abandoned for Jodie because of Cerebral palsy. Child Abandonment is normal for Nigerian men. Born triplets,they run.Twins,thy run.Albino,they run.Cerebral palsy,they run. 4 Likes
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:46am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Ulunne777: He is a mad man 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:19am On Aug 01, 2022 |
Ulunne777: The idiot man thinks children with cerebral palsy don’t exit in Nigeria because they kill them here. In my place, they are called snake children and are usually abandoned in the bush at night or thrown into a stream. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Cassie74: 12:11pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
15k.. nobody pays that in Abuja right now..30k self is by begging uote author=H0711 post=115247435] Yes oo even his salary of 15k he might even be a lie for a security guard to be receiving 15k in abuja but I stand by him with that 15k and why should I add another burden of raising a child that I didn't know she even existed in her condition too. Well my brother said I will not go there again my younger brother will go there in the evening. [/quote] |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Myahuza: 12:22pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Thx for the story bye |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Prokaryote: 12:40pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
This child came from the loin of a man you are about to bear a child for. It isn't going to be easy due to pregnancy and stressbut divorcing is not a good option. If you can get house maid it will ease things for you.for the love of God and for the love of Children, make your marriage work. I wish you the best oazeez1991: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tonididdy(m): 1:23pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino: ... it takes a mad man to know another mad man. So if I cajole a woman into believing dangote is my father, the idiot woman will just accept my words and not do her own digging to verify my claim. A man you want to marry, has a child outside and you are not aware? YOU ARE THE MAD ONE? a desperate bride. Goto his parents talk one on one, ask questions, be curious of everything, go on his Facebook. there were signs but she didnt find them. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 1:46pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Curdlebug:You are too mad to have a relevant opinion |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 1:48pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino:can't you just realize that you are not normal? When last did you do a brain check up? If your father was normal, won't he have just waste a wasted child like you, instead of breeding mad people everywhere |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Housing(m): 2:23pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
mabea: You said she wants divorce because of poverty. Despite the fact that she had stated the challenges and the difficulties she is presently facing. I didn't encouraged her in making that choice. That is why I said it is a passing phase. Having said that divorcing because of poverty is not a crime either. Most of us male can't stand broke friends of many years even buddies that had been there for us in the past but will be quick to condemn females making same choice. Staying with a sick family member with such sickness is depressing and killing that is why people outsource such duties to Care Givers. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by justiz5(m): 3:35pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:It is you who who will find yourself in a similar situation, because as a woman you should have understood the delicate nature of the condition (pregnancy) she is in. But you went ahead mocking her. You refused to put yourself in her shoes. I have put myself in her shoes and I understand how she feels. She was deceived and by no means should she be forced to take care of a child she had no knowledge of. In your case you decided to lay blames on her. It is the primary responsibility of the husband's family members or that the mother of the disabled child to take care of their child and not the innocent woman. I can see how you added more to her pains and pray again that in your quest to find solutions to your problems, people will give you the same harsh reply that will leave you in severe pains just as you did to the woman. One would wonder why you did not blame the original mother who abandoned her child. So I pray God brings a similar event to you or your Children so that you will see how it feels and God has answered my prayer already. How on earth would a woman abandoned her Child for another woman to take care of for Christ sake and you are here supporting woman that abandoned her responsibility. You see not wrong with it. Rather you chose to attack the woman that is heavily pregnant who may not be in the right mental state to give care to that child that with disabilities. Tell me if you will be able to do it. Do you want that innocent woman to loose her pregnancy and even risk her life for a mistake or sin she did not commit? You are simply been wicked. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by justiz5(m): 3:35pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:It is you because as a woman you should have understood the delicate nature of the condition (pregnancy) she is in. But you went ahead mocking her. You refused to put yourself in her shoes. I have put my shoes in her condition and I understand how she feels. She was deceived and by no means should she be forced to take care of a child she had no knowledge of. In your case you decided to lay blames on her. One would wonder why you did not blame the original mother who abandoned her child. So I pray God brings a similar event to you or your Children so that you will see how it feels and God has answered my prayer already. How on earth would a woman abandoned her Child for anotherwoman to take care of for Christ sake and you are here supporting woman that abandoned her responsibility. You see not wrong with it. Rather you chose to attack the woman that is heavily pregnant who may not be in the right mental state to give care to that child that with disabilities. Tell me if you will be able to do it. Do you want that innocent woman to loose her pregnancy and even risk her life for a mistake or sin she did not commit? You are simply been wicked. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by mabea: 3:48pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Housing:I came to that conclusion based on her subsequent comments. One can't just run away from her marriage because of another person's child. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by justiz5(m): 4:00pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino:Are a Tiv by tribe? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zoby: 6:21pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino: True. But not everyone has the special capability to care for a child with severe disability challenges. At the end of the day the child will be the one that suffers. For the sake of the child, things should have been handled differently. You do not expect a new pregnant wife to take care of a child at this stage. Again, the child will be the one that suffers; mother caring and loving a child cannot be duplicated. The father should figure out how to give his full support while the disabled daughter lives with her mother. He should not only support his baby mother but also give her a break from time to time by picking up his daughter every other wkend. NOTHING ELSE MAKES SENSE. |
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