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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by blues343(m): 6:38pm On Jan 03, 2018
Na wa ooo. This your Organization of Words from the begining to the end just dey like d way Man Utd dey play ball dis season..Anyhow... Try learn Man City pattern Biko nu Op.

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by millomaniac: 2:46pm On Mar 11, 2018
frozen70:

My sister has separated from her husband because for 16yrs of marriage,heade her go thru depression.
From the very day of their traditional marriage, after few days he told her he won't wed her and because of that she started nursing bad feelings about her husband. He is so lazy that he believe that he can't labour himself to feed his family.
As god will have it she was progressing in her place of work and was running the how with 3 children successfully. With time the husband became jealous of her and because he has an I don't care attitude towards her ,she made sure the husband has no access to the money she is marking, rather she she built houses in her husband village and a duplex some where in ikorodu. At a stage the husband told her he will kill her. Mind you she is the one paying the house rent they are leaving, school Fee's of children, medical and freeing
When she discover that the husband is displaying more if his wicked act because they have issues almost every day ,he told her he will frustrate her.
Finally she organized some touts and they came and drove the husband away fro their house. Since then she is no longer depressed and also stop falling sick.
Pls house what advice do you have for her.

The woman getting thugs to drive the husband out of their matrmonial home is exreme arrogance and depicts an aggresive and immoral woman. Even thou i am yet to hear from the man. Rather she should have left the house for him since she has the resources.

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Mar 11, 2018
frozen70:

My sister has separated from her husband because for 16yrs of marriage,heade her go thru depression.
From the very day of their traditional marriage, after few days he told her he won't wed her and because of that she started nursing bad feelings about her husband. He is so lazy that he believe that he can't labour himself to feed his family.
As god will have it she was progressing in her place of work and was running the how with 3 children successfully. With time the husband became jealous of her and because he has an I don't care attitude towards her ,she made sure the husband has no access to the money she is marking, rather she she built houses in her husband village and a duplex some where in ikorodu. At a stage the husband told her he will kill her. Mind you she is the one paying the house rent they are leaving, school Fee's of children, medical and freeing
When she discover that the husband is displaying more if his wicked act because they have issues almost every day ,he told her he will frustrate her.
Finally she organized some touts and they came and drove the husband away fro their house. Since then she is no longer depressed and also stop falling sick.
Pls house what advice do you have for her.

She should kill herself.

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 6:57am On Oct 02, 2018
blues343:
Na wa ooo. This your Organization of Words from the begining to the end just dey like d way Man Utd dey play ball dis season..Anyhow... Try learn Man City pattern Biko nu Op.

It's 'AUTO CORRECT' that causes this kinda of sh!T this days. If I could turn mine off on my phone I will gladly do that. It doesn't only inputs words you don't intend but it's starting to affect my ability to spell words correctly off mind. Gradually making LAZY brain off me.
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 11:06pm On Oct 07, 2018
WORDWORLD:


It's 'AUTO CORRECT' that causes this kinda of sh!T this days. If I could turn mine off on my phone I will gladly do that. It doesn't only inputs words you don't intend but it's starting to affect my ability to spell words correctly off mind. Gradually making LAZY brain off me.


Thanks dear for the detailed explanation

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Tundeobama(m): 1:39pm On Oct 10, 2018
frozen70:
Thank you all for your contribution and understanding in these matter. The lesson their is no woman must remain in an abusive relationship, any man that's is lucky to have a woman that will be willing to provide and run his family should thank God for such woman.
Women of these days are getting wiser and wiser every day, respect and appreciate such woman, if you can't contribute or carry your family financial responsibilites, then try very had to do the domestic aspect of it which doesn't cost a dine. Being cocky or proving tough that you are a man and so you can't descend low to help her in other areas, you are giving her room to grow rougher and rougher and when she graduats from such ,honestly you will mean nothing to her in that marriage.
kindly add up
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2018
Tundeobama:

kindly add up

As in, the updates so far
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Tundeobama(m): 3:46pm On Oct 10, 2018
frozen70:

As in, the updates so far
Do that and will give you details of what i want to share with you.
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 4:07pm On Oct 10, 2018
Tundeobama:

Do that and will give you details of what i want to share with you.


OK, uptil now the husband wants only the two of them to settle their issues without involving their families

But the wife insist on both families to come and listen to what led to the separation
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by desoul2004(m): 5:28am On Apr 18, 2019
When a woman has the greater amount of cash she will turn it into a knife to be used to constantly stab the man's ego. Many men are really suffering from emotional trauma....

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by nurex01(m): 2:17pm On Jul 16, 2019
desoul2004:
When a woman has the greater amount of cash she will turn it into a knife to be used to constantly stab the man's ego. Many men are really suffering from emotional trauma....

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 7:15am On Jul 30, 2022
frozen70:

thanks I will pass it to her


Good morning ma'am

Hope you are doing great

Can I mail you
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 10:44am On Jul 30, 2022
azraeljaheel:



Good morning ma'am

Hope you are doing great

Can I mail you

Good morning my dear brother, I hardly accept mail, sorry about that

But if it's very important you can, though subject to my approval after reading

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jul 31, 2022
frozen70:


Good morning my dear brother, I hardly accept mail, sorry about that

But if it's very important you can, though subject to my approval after reading


Your reply is enough to lit a dark soul

.Please just go through my thread ma'am
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Acidbath: 1:02pm On Jul 31, 2022
frozen70

There is no advice. She has succeeded in getting rid of that parasite.

All he can do is visit the children and leave.

Oops...this thread is old. Why am I seeing it among new topics? angry
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 9:28pm On Jul 31, 2022
azraeljaheel:



Your reply is enough to lit a dark soul

.Please just go through my thread ma'am

I Saw your mail notification but could not open it, probably because I am using a new phone because I do see and read mails notifications on the previous ones
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 8:54am On Aug 03, 2022
frozen70:


I Saw your mail notification but could not open it, probably because I am using a new phone because I do see and read mails notifications on the previous ones


Good morning. I want to believe you and your family are doing great

Happy new month

I just sent you a mail ma'am
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 10:20am On Aug 03, 2022
azraeljaheel:



Good morning. I want to believe you and your family are doing great

Happy new month

I just sent you a mail ma'am

Good morning
We are fine
Since I got another phone my mail has not be active yet I saw your mail I try to open it but it's not responding
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Aug 03, 2022
frozen70:


Good morning
We are fine
Since I got another phone my mail has not be active yet I saw your mail I try to open it but it's not responding



Good afternoon
Thanks for the swift response
I subtle joke (since you got another phone can you bless me with old on lol)

Can I actually come out clean with you ma'am about what i want to request via the mail?
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 9:09pm On Aug 03, 2022
azraeljaheel:




Good afternoon
Thanks for the swift response
I subtle joke (since you got another phone can you bless me with old on lol)

Can I actually come out clean with you ma'am about what i want to request via the mail?

Go ahead pls
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 9:16pm On Aug 03, 2022
frozen70:


Go ahead pls

Here is my diary ma'am https://www.nairaland.com/6796546/diary-cheap-labourer-daily-bread/30#115269455


Really don't know how you can help me

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Aug 05, 2022
frozen70:


Go ahead pls


Good afternoon ma'am
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Amumaigwe: 1:03pm On Aug 05, 2022
ibkayee:

Lol this guy your points would make sense if he’d been described as a decent character just down on his luck job wise or something, the husband is allegedly lazy, jealous and wicked

How else do you expect a wife that happens to provide for the home for just one week describe the husband?

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by frozen70(f): 1:16pm On Aug 05, 2022
azraeljaheel:



Good afternoon ma'am

I Saw your account details, you will get it tomorrow, but not directly from my account as I don't want my details to appear

Once it's done I will notify you immediately
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 05, 2022
frozen70:


I Saw your account details, you will get it tomorrow, but not directly from my account as I don't want my details to appear

Once it's done I will notify you immediately

Thank you so much ma'am

Really sorry about the inconveniences I might be causing you.

Got a quick question...
Do I reach out to my mum? Someone told me last night. . That I need to forgive myself(forgive myself for someone else's carelessness) before I could genuinely forgive her. .


I see individuals with their families and I feel my heartache (would call it envy)
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by ibkayee(f): 5:58pm On Aug 05, 2022
Amumaigwe:


How else do you expect a wife that happens to provide for the home for just one week describe the husband?
Why are you now responding to a comment I literally posted in the 1800s?

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Acidosis(m): 6:37pm On Aug 05, 2022
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by ibkayee(f): 7:15pm On Aug 05, 2022

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Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by Acidosis(m): 7:33pm On Aug 05, 2022
ibkayee:

shocked shocked shocked grin


Oh my God. Where have you been? cry
Re: Separation Is The Best Option For Now. by ibkayee(f): 7:54pm On Aug 05, 2022
Acidosis:



Oh my God. Where have you been? cry
Nowhere really grin

Hope you’re well smiley

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