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This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 8:34am On Aug 08, 2022 |
I created a post some days back about a man that came to me for remedy for erectile dysfunction and how he later said if the issue is resolved, we can get married. I laughed it off. I also mentioned how he proceeded to know more about me beyond the biz and all that. Now, just when I thought it would stop at that, he's gone further to chatting me up on a more private level and hammering seriously on the marriage. What do I tell him now? He seem like a nice guy but I'm just scared cos of the manner of his approach. I hope he's not pretending or even lying. He's 40, meaning I'm a year older but he doesn't know my age yet and he looks older than me. Though he's a young man. I'm confused cos I don't know where this thing is carrying me to. I'm also scared because of something he said. That maybe... God used this condition to tame him to save him from trouble. So I'm wondering what if he gets cured, is he going to be the randy type? Judging from his tribe again. I'm not comfortable but.... This chat right here suggests something I don't like about men. Is it normal to be saying that? 1 Share
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by robinso01(m): 8:38am On Aug 08, 2022 |
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by advanceDNA: 8:43am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: You are 41 and you want to get married?? But you are afraid to give someone a trial.. Will you marry him the day you say yes...get to know him naaa. ..at 41.....i'm assuming you have experience on your side.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by anthonyuncle(m): 9:01am On Aug 08, 2022 |
afraid ke? aunty we know that you are happy and jubilating jare. don't be carried away by the happiness o! try to know him before committing to him. 41yrs is a long time on earth, but till death do us part is longer. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Mkelv0106(m): 9:09am On Aug 08, 2022 |
The fact that you haven't told him no bluntly, means you're considering him. If you weren't interested, you wouldn't be chatting with him privately, you would have kept it strictly on a business level, if he was still disturbing you, you block him and move on. If you're interested,but unsure, try knowing him, and going on a few dates, if you don't like what you see, move on. But make sure the dick is working, this one the man is treating erectile dysfuction so 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Cypress042(m): 9:09am On Aug 08, 2022 |
This days good men are scarce, hold the one that have your time strongly. To avoid story that touches the heart |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 9:09am On Aug 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I'm not sure he's what I want but then I don't have anyone at the moment making it look like a perfect situation. My heart is not settled with the whole idea. I want someone on a neutral ground. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 9:20am On Aug 08, 2022 |
anthonyuncle: Jubilating? Far from it. I'm really confused here. Like, I used to think he was married; that was before the lockdown when he came to me for the stuff. So it was a shock to me when he told me recently that hes still single. Mkelv0106: Why I'm still chatting him is because he did me a little favor sometimes last week and I'm still monitoring his condition and following up to make sure he's taking the herbs I prescribed properly and it would be unfair to just cut him off like that. That's why I'm still communicating with him. Just not comfortable with the way the whole thing is going pari pasu. I just want him to sort himself out first but don't how to tell him that especially now he knows Im still single. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 9:26am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Love can be found anywhere....forget about how u guys met or the condition that brought u both together...just give him a chance if he pesist. At 41 you should know what u want in a man.....if you don't want or feel comfortable with him, you can turn him down amd move on....stop being indecisive at your age. Peace be into you |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 9:27am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Cypress042: That's the issue. How did you know he's a good man? You know how a condition can humble you men and make you act like you're good and nice. That's my fear. Like if he was not having that condition, would I be his choice? Though he has seen my pics and videos I posted and confirmed that I'm good looking and what he wants but he doesn't know my age yet. On a norm, would he go for someone my age or condition is making him settle for the "available" kinda thing. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 9:32am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz: Ok. But how to tell him because for now he's more like my patient and I don't want the psychological trauma from the news to affect his healing process because I really want him to heal. So I have to be professional about it. The "how" is what I don't know. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 9:33am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lady pls stop sounding like u will be with him out on PITY, if you don't fancy him pls don't ever enter into a relationship with him...from beginning u are sounding confused and indecisive, if u no like the oga pls tell him now to avoid giving him hope...but if u want the relationship come out straight.......LOVE can be found anywhere. At your age anty u need to be decisive Blessedmercy8: 2 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 9:38am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:if that's the case then just simply tell him you will decide after his treatment and healing is done, make him understand u aren't putting him off by the way u say and tell him ok....don't give him the impression that you are rejecting him or forming for him ooo........u know what u want just go for it...if you fancy him and see him as someone u can get down with fine and good but if not leave him...but after the treatment...aunty be bold ok...no fear u no be 18 year old ok.... 1 Like |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 9:41am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Meanwhile u made mention of treatment of infection using herbs....pls mind telling me the kind of treatment u take care of and where u are base.... |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by maureensylvia(f): 9:43am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: This Kain bait for marriage |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by advanceDNA: 9:50am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Look...it won't always happen exactly the we want in life....im sure u planned to be married by now...but here you are....i wanted my first car at 16 too.... my point is...there is no harm in being cordial first...u don't have anyone now...so It's not a bad idea to have someone checking on you...taking you out.....what are you afraid of...?? What's the worse that could happen..?? |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 9:57am On Aug 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA:Hmmm.... To think I just recently started itching for a chat buddy. Though I didn't plan to have one in this manner. Cos anytime we are chatting, my heart just keeps beeping, "be careful, be careful " alarm. The thought of what brought us together keeps shutting him out of my heart for anything serious. It's making me see him in a different light from what I envisaged with the chat mate I had in mind. Huh! |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by advanceDNA: 10:05am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: What often pain you women the most is your body...keep sex off the table...u hardly spend your money on men..so I dont see you losing financially here... .regardless of how you met...keeping things slow is always recommended....look out for redflags...and keep your options open... I've learnt not to write people off completely in this life.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 10:12am On Aug 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA:or better still she should forget him and not go into any relationship with him...she has my doubts even when she has started with him or get close to him... Make she no come date am out of Pity tommorow she go fraustrate the man because from beginning she isn't into him |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 10:13am On Aug 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Yeah. Thanks bro. You've really spoken well. I just hope I don't end up hurting him though. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by advanceDNA: 10:15am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz: Her doubt is based on nothing to me.... She said she wants someone she will meet on a neutral level....people meet in different ways..so I dont get her doubts .. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 10:20am On Aug 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA:she is just indecisive and doesn't know what she wants....at her age she shouldn't be indecisive like a teenager |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by crackhaus: 10:43am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:You will definitely end up hurting him. Just tell him you're not interested. T for Tenks. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 11:09am On Aug 08, 2022 |
crackhaus: I think thats what I'm going to do based on our last chat. advanceDNA:Here's my doubts. From the way he sounded in our last chat few mins ago, I don't think he my kinda man. Is it proper for him to be telling me this.?
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by crackhaus: 11:23am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:I think what he's trying to say is that the "remedy" you've been giving him for erectile dysfunction is working. Even born-agains are allowed to get hard nau... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 11:42am On Aug 08, 2022 |
author=crackhaus post=115499607]He has not even started taking it. Don't mind him. Not like he doesn't get an erection at all but he says it doesn't last. That's what he wants to treat Even born-agains are allowed to get hard nau...Lol.. yeah I know but why say that to me? Such lines are suggestive and I'm not comfortable with it due to my spiritual stance. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 12:08pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
If your spiritual stance doesn't allow or welcome his behavior or stance concerning u both then I will advice u politely tell him u aren't interested..... personally from ur chats I feel he might just want to play around you and move on.... . So he gets erection whenever he chats with a woman just like that?...aunty blessedmercy8 free the guy man..him wan use u catch cruise.....wish you your heart desires.. someone serious |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 12:18pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz: Hmmm... So it's not normal for a man to get an erection by just chatting with a woman?Ok. Thanks. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Wizywiz(m): 12:25pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:to me it's not normal telling a lady u are trying to win over such, especially when the said lady isn't your girlfriend or partner yet. U fit get erection but telling her so sudden sounds desperate to me..if am a lady I will feels u are in just for the sex..when am not a call girl 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 12:36pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz:. Exactly why I've been worried about the whole arrangements. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by anthonyuncle(m): 12:43pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:this means you didn't do your job well. one very important act in healthcare is counseling. this is one thing that differentiates pros from quacks. you went ahead to treat someone without knowledge of his family/social history. what if he was a rapist that wanted to enjoy his evil acts more? eh? Blessedmercy8: are you happy about this yes or no? the way my mind is seeing this thing, e be like you don already carry this bros enter your land of Canaan or preparing to |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Serious N Hes confirmed my fears. Pics by Nobody: 12:46pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
anthonyuncle: You're getting it a twisted. Ok, I've heard you. |
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