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emmyluizzz:
you need a clue and the first place on your mind is nairaland..lol




is like your brain is paining you

Shascky33:
I have seen intelligent people on nairaland who give mature and rational responses to funny and complicated questions. Not everybody on this platform is like you. Besides its a faceless forum.

emmyluizzz:
oh okay ...you want to insult me


be very careful

Shascky33:
thanks for the hints but i swear to you it has nothing to do with lust. She is indeed attractive but her personality outweighs her beauty. This lady is intelligent.

Shascky33:
insult u keh, i dey craze nii?

MrDoGood:
You've started failing yourself already.

Are you not intelligent?

Up your game man.

Go straight and own it and stop shaking from a far.

And be ready to move out from that area to earn more respect and build the relationship if you want her to spend more time with you.

Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?

vastolord4:
38! Try your luck.. she might just be tired of relationships (heart breaks), she's divorced, she could even be a reincarnated soul (real talk).. just stay positive and be mature in every statement and move you make.. But I'm very sure it's lust you have for her

SocialJustice:
Pay her a visit and tell her, she's not different from any other girl.

Folastar11:
Are you sure it's not lust? If not try and make friend with her get her number. The more communication the more you know her and try to be a guy of good sense of humor Ladies love that

Nyascobar1414:
Reincarnated soul?
Fr?

Abeg elucidate more on this

vastolord4:
A man stayed in my area for a very long time I can't recall, he stayed alone and no visitors. He one day came to mum's shop to buy don Simon(the 1L pack).. paid but didn't collect it claiming we keep it for him.. nigga died in his room that night and started decaying also did the don Simon on the shelf started swelling and smelling and the expiring date was far ahead.. nobody asked of the man after somedays cos he walked alone.. till he stared smelling, the day mum disposed of the don Simon was the day he's body was found..

rickleye:
Easy ! From experiences.

Know what you want . Is it casual relationship or serious relationship.

- get to know her. -establish a relationship
- ask her out to a place ( nothing fancy) see what you both have in common.

- for me, I was living alone and didn’t have a vehicle , but this is where preparations meets expectation. - so prior to the date , my place was clean with drinks in the fridge, bedsheets changed. I had R Kelly , nice 90’s music on my
playlist ready.

We talked -I engaged her interest so much that we both didn’t want the night to end and so I invited her to my abode.
Told her, nothing would happen. She actually passed me her keys and asked that I drive to me place . Informed her what my intentions were - I really dig her and would like for both of us have a relationship.
She brought up the age and I laughed because I was prepared
- I quoted Aaliyah ( age ain’t nothing but a number .)
- who cares about age ( it’s all about maturity and confidence )
- men are scarce and wouldn’t she want a man with sensitivity, a man like me .. someone who could love you …. ( she laughed, hilariously $

She kept saying - this boy o , this boy …
I looked into her eyes and said I know I promised nothing would happen but I lied just like Michael Bolton said “ said I loved you but I lied” . Can I show you my feelings instead of talking.
Gbam !! I didn’t reach 3rd base but heavy petting that day. She asked that I come over to her place but I said not that day.
She called the next day and asked that I spend the weekend with her. Bro, I spent many weekends.

It didn’t turn into anything serious because
1. I wasn’t ready for commitment
2. She was succumbing to pressure and her clock was ticking.

Till today - when we talk you can hear the smile in her voice.
She was one of many. I prefer older ladies - they are matured , confident , sexy, classy , giving …

Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?

Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?

Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?

Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?

Shascky33:
I work bro, and am single.

Nyascobar1414:
Reincarnated soul?
Fr?

Abeg elucidate more on this

Nyascobar1414:
Word!

Nyascobar1414:
daahh.. Things dey dis life oo..

So how come you know he was reincarnated?
Any other scenario cos this one ain't really convinceable

Albertone:
What was the age gap?