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Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 10:15pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:



I only have one thing
And that's
Fix it
I sure will ..
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 10:15pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:




once had a guy who broke up with me
And come back pleading, I forgave
And he did it again
Is this called gaslighting
Nawa o..
Only u get all the bad relationship experience ni??
I don read like 29 issues from u Alone
Takw am easy na
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 10:16pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:


Your welcome
Was once in your shoes
really.. I would like to hear your story. Why not let's have a date sometime to talk about it
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 10:16pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by TanyLoe(f): 10:19pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
really.. I would like to hear your story. Why not let's have a date sometime to talk about it

That will happen when have gotten a good feedback from you
Concening this issue
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by TanyLoe(f): 10:20pm On Dec 15, 2018
luminouz:

Nawa o..
Only u get all the bad relationship experience ni??
I don read like 29 issues from u Alone
Takw am easy na

Lol
Goodnight
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 10:20pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:


That will happen when have gotten a good feedback from you
Concening this issue
ok...I will straighten out things with her..
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by piagetskinner(m): 11:25pm On Dec 15, 2018
Too long to read... relationships and wahala...



Abeg na money person suppose de think of
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Zanxx(f): 11:28pm On Dec 15, 2018
luminouz:
Thank God u left. Now come to big daddy Darling!


lol i dey come
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Zanxx(f): 11:32pm On Dec 15, 2018
luminouz:
Are u a prisoner?? grin


was blinded by love then
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Ayobami7(m): 12:09am On Dec 16, 2018
Noted
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 5:56am On Dec 16, 2018
Zanxx:




lol i dey come
I dey wait u oooo

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Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 5:57am On Dec 16, 2018
Zanxx:




was blinded by love then
No worries...it happens to the best of us.... wink
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 7:15am On Dec 16, 2018
luminouz:

I dey wait u oooo
ashawo cheesy
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 9:43am On Dec 16, 2018
dingbang:
ashawo cheesy
U get ur own naaaa smiley
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 9:52am On Dec 16, 2018
luminouz:

U get ur own naaaa smiley
all the girls wey u dey toast for nairaland dey tell me say u be ashawo cheesy

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Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 10:58am On Dec 16, 2018
dingbang:
all the girls wey u dey toast for nairaland dey tell me say u be ashawo cheesy
Lolz!!!!
U must admit dou DAT I have very fine taste in women.. I only toast fine babes here..not these frustrated and embittered ogres on NL!!! N that Zanxx Geh is darn fine...she is courteous and she doesn't sound frustrated too!!!

Don't know if she gat a big ass dou!!! tongue
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 11:06am On Dec 16, 2018
luminouz:

Lolz!!!!
U must admit dou DAT I have very fine taste in women.. I only toast fine babes here..not these frustrated and embittered ogres on NL!!! N that Zan Geh is darn fine...she is courteous and she doesn't sound frustrated too!!!

Don't know if she gat a big ass dou!!! tongue
you may not know, she may be on my whatsapp list too... wink

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Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Casemiro(m): 12:55pm On Dec 16, 2018
> it is well



women are manipulators but they are not smart





choi shocked big momas garden
Natural home remedies
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 1:04pm On Dec 16, 2018
dingbang:
you may not know, she may be on my whatsapp list too... wink
Gerrarahia!!!! Olé!!! wink grin
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Zanxx(f): 6:06pm On Dec 16, 2018
luminouz:

Lolz!!!!
U must admit dou DAT I have very fine taste in women.. I only toast fine babes here..not these frustrated and embittered ogres on NL!!! N that Zanxx Geh is darn fine...she is courteous and she doesn't sound frustrated too!!!

Don't know if she gat a big ass dou!!! tongue



hahahhahahaha ass paaa
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 6:10pm On Dec 16, 2018
Zanxx:




hahahhahahaha ass paaa
So u have yeah tongue

Besides....u never do the needful na.....I sent u Xmas gift tongue
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by Zanxx(f): 11:18pm On Dec 17, 2018
luminouz:
So u have yeah tongue
Besides....u never do the needful na.....I sent u Xmas gift tongue


Did you get my reply?
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by luminouz(m): 11:33pm On Dec 17, 2018
Zanxx:




Did you get my reply?
Lol...already replied ur reply babe grin wink
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by kunleweb: 4:41pm On Jan 04, 2019
Nnwane. DukeofNZ how you see these facts.
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by rumenase(m): 8:57pm On Aug 10, 2022
dingbang:
11. They're Always Just Joking





This is a manipulation in two parts. The first part is the one where they say hurtful things or criticize you, but it's you're fault for getting upset because they were totally just kidding. It doesn't matter how cruel they were, it only matters that you're too sensitive and can't take a joke. The second part involves making jokes about you in public and in front of others. If you respond negatively in front of others, you're making a scene or ruining the fun. This is a way to get their digs in and grind you down without having to take accountability.

What to do:

You don't have to worry about ruining the fun or being too sensitive. It can be a difficult thing to confront your partner when they hurt you, and to risk looking like the bad guy, but standing up for yourself is important. Even if the manipulator will likely try to shame you for it.

The more you recognize manipulative behaviors, the more you'll be able to shut them down. If you're dealing with a serious manipulator, though, adds are your best bet is to split.
my ex used to do this, when I get upset she will be like “person no dey follow you play”
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by rumenase(m): 8:58pm On Aug 10, 2022
Richdad50:
Dear Men,
A woman is fully capable of being faithful. Temptation is not her weakness, all she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry, and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy. Pay attention to your woman and never make her feel single or she will act as such.

Dear Ladies,
Don’t marry that Man who singles you out from the world. Marry the one to whom you are the world. Such a person is hard to find but easy to love. Such a spouse will stand by your side when the whole world is against you. Why? Because you are their whole world.

#Richdad
na so you go take turn SIMPle man
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 4:58pm On Aug 23, 2022
rumenase:
my ex used to do this, when I get upset she will be like “person no dey follow you play”
women will always and when i mean always, i mean always be testing you to see grounds that you are soft on, and remember that anything you allow, becomes a norm. So if she becomes manipulative and you sense it, chastise her so that she doesn't try it again.
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by rumenase(m): 5:28pm On Aug 23, 2022
dingbang:
women will always and when i mean always, i mean always be testing you to see grounds that you are soft on, and remember that anything you allow, becomes a norm. So if she becomes manipulative and you sense it, chastise her so that she doesn't try it again.
I did chastised her; anyway I’ve kicked the b!tch out!
Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by dingbang(m): 6:26pm On Aug 23, 2022
rumenase:
I did chastised her; anyway I’ve kicked the b!tch out!
great

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