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Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by ashewoboy(m): 7:37pm On Aug 12, 2022
Click like if you will get married.


Share if you will not get married.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by ashewoboy(m): 7:37pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by ashewoboy(m): 8:39pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Divay22(f): 8:44pm On Aug 12, 2022
Maybe if we stop lieing to ourselves that it will forever be bliss...
Communication with your partner will go a long way in sustaining your marriage....

Marriage is a beautiful union, it's just your partner that you don't know well enough before agreeing to do life with them.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Ballzproblemm: 8:46pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Ballzproblemm: 8:48pm On Aug 12, 2022
ashewoboy:
Click like if you will get married.


Share if you will not get married.
leave them joor , they'll start to blackmail you emotional , telling you you will be lonely, your kids will be very young why you will be old ,blah blah blah , don't listen to anybody , everybody get their cross , nobody go leave theirs carry your own

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by odinson1(m): 8:52pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nonexisting: 9:10pm On Aug 12, 2022
Marriage is for the strong, weak men like me are not interested. I can neither survive hot water treatment from daughters of Delilah that call themselves wives nowadays nor afford to be stabbed by them. A man getting married to vaginarian of this generation has unconsciously signed up for early death which is why there are numerous widows out there. Early death is not my family thing and I don't want to be the first to start it so I say FUCCK MARRIAGE.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 12, 2022
If you are a single man & you are doing well, please just avoid marriage. Kindly remove it from your agenda. The chances that you will end up sad, months after getting married now is very high unlike before. Trauma is now ubiquitous.

Before you consider such decision, Kindly & quietly ask yourself what the woman will be doing for u that you can't get with your money & effort?
Just name what men get in marriages, you can't get as a single man? My advice. Ponder on it.

Don't ever ever rush into marriage.
It's most likely not going to worth it in the end especially with the category of ladies we have now & the devices at their disposals . If it were in the era of our mothers, i would advice one to jump in blindly. Marital disharmony & killings are now on the high side. People should start learning to live solo. This applies to the Ladies too. Since they can't take shit from men, since na only men dey shit, you Ladies should start learning to remain single, however that won't stop you from having kids if you so desire.
Civilization & human advancement comes with its challenges and this is one of them.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by CSTRR: 9:50pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by kelspinall(m): 10:01pm On Aug 12, 2022
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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Samfloxin(m): 10:23pm On Aug 12, 2022
Nonexisting:
Marriage is for the strong, weak men like me are not interested. I can neither survive hot water treatment from daughters of Delilah that call themselves wives nowadays nor afford to be stabbed by them. A man getting married to vaginarian of this generation has unconsciously signed up for early death which is why there are numerous widows out there. Early death is not my family thing and I don't want to be the first to start it so I say FUCCK MARRIAGE.
You are not up to 30 years. Perhaps,when you clock 35,let me see if you still have this mundane view

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by rocknation62(m): 10:27pm On Aug 12, 2022
Divay22:
Maybe if we stop lieing to ourselves that it will forever be bliss...
Communication with your partner will go a long way in sustaining your marriage....

Marriage is a beautiful union, it's just your partner that you don't know well enough before agreeing to do life with them.

Best comment so far.

You said it all

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by rocknation62(m): 10:31pm On Aug 12, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
If you are a single man & you are doing well, please just avoid marriage. Kindly remove it from your agenda. The chances that you will end up sad, months after getting married now is very high unlike before. Trauma is now ubiquitous.

Before you consider such decision, Kindly & quietly ask yourself what the woman will be doing for u that you can't get with your money & effort?
Just name what men get in marriages, you can't get as a single man? My advice. Ponder on it.

Don't ever ever rush into marriage.
It's most likely not going to worth it in the end especially with the category of ladies we have now & the devices at their disposals . If it were in the era of our mothers, i would advice one to jump in blindly. Marital disharmony & killings are now on the high side. People should start learning to live solo. This applies to the Ladies too. Since they can't take shit from men, since na only men dey shit, you Ladies should start learning to remain single, however that won't stop you from having kids if you so desire.
Civilization & human advancement comes with its challenges and this is one of them.


Small question na em you write this epistle?

You suppose dey write project for pple

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by 2rez: 10:31pm On Aug 12, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
If you are a single man & you are doing well, please just avoid marriage. Kindly remove it from your agenda. The chances that you will end up sad, months after getting married now is very high unlike before. Trauma is now ubiquitous.

Before you consider such decision, Kindly & quietly ask yourself what the woman will be doing for u that you can't get with your money & effort?


Just name what men get in marriages, you can't get as a single man? My advice. Ponder on it.

Don't ever ever rush into marriage.
It's most likely not going to worth it in the end especially with the category of ladies we have now & the devices at their disposals . If it were in the era of our mothers, i would advice one to jump in blindly. Marital disharmony & killings are now on the high side. People should start learning to live solo. This applies to the Ladies too. Since they can't take shit from men, since na only men dey shit, you Ladies should start learning to remain single, however that won't stop you from having kids if you so desire.
Civilization & human advancement comes with its challenges and this is one of them.

Words of weedsdom... Collect. Bless you for this weedsdom bruh.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 12, 2022
One way to know a promiscuous and wasted man is the fear they nurse towards marriage. Marriage is for the disciplined and reserved, you cannot finish wasting your life with brothel and hook up ladies and still have the courage to enter into marriage , the ones that managed to enter are either broken or experiencing all sort of abuse.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 11:18pm On Aug 12, 2022
Rosrozz:
One way to know a promiscuous and wasted man is the fear they nurse towards marriage. Marriage is for the disciplined and reserved, you cannot finish wasting your life with brothel and hook up ladies and still have the courage to enter into marriage , the ones that managed to enter are either broken or experiencing all sort of abuse.
As if clergymen don't have marital issues nor get divorced. MARITAL DISHARMONY respects no profession, gender, financial status nor physical looks. Better retrace your thinking steps.
My humble advice

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Faber(m): 11:47pm On Aug 12, 2022
Divay22:
Maybe if we stop lieing to ourselves that it will forever be bliss...
Communication with your partner will go a long way in sustaining your marriage....

Marriage is a beautiful union, it's just your partner that you don't know well enough before agreeing to do life with them.

Yes o, what else are you expected to say. We all know that marriage is you folks retirement plan from the streets.
Who on Earth will kick against a scheme that favours him or her

Now let me ask you, Name five things men gain from marriage...that they cannot get as bachelors.

You can be governor or president as a bachelor
You can go anywhere live your life as you want... infact make I just lock up

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Faber(m): 11:55pm On Aug 12, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
If you are a single man & you are doing well, please just avoid marriage. Kindly remove it from your agenda. The chances that you will end up sad, months after getting married now is very high unlike before. Trauma is now ubiquitous.

Before you consider such decision, Kindly & quietly ask yourself what the woman will be doing for u that you can't get with your money & effort?
Just name what men get in marriages, you can't get as a single man? My advice. Ponder on it.

Don't ever ever rush into marriage.
It's most likely not going to worth it in the end especially with the category of ladies we have now & the devices at their disposals . If it were in the era of our mothers, i would advice one to jump in blindly. Marital disharmony & killings are now on the high side. People should start learning to live solo. This applies to the Ladies too. Since they can't take shit from men, since na only men dey shit, you Ladies should start learning to remain single, however that won't stop you from having kids if you so desire.
Civilization & human advancement comes with its challenges and this is one of them.

Like tomorrow wey be Saturday now, from 3:00pm, I don dey entertain myself for my house with EPL, for Night La Liga go show. I go anywhere I want to go. Come back anytime I want. Sleep anywhere I like, groove and wear anything I want.

I pay my bills, food dey for my kitchen, no strength to cook them, I just look at them, smile and go to any eatery of my choice and enjoy myself, nobody dey drag remote control with me.

Tomorrow now, a lowlife from God knows where will come and be giving me orders in my own house based on say na my wife. Way be say na me use my money go buy the headache from her papa house. Carry another man stubborn daughter come put under my roof.

The thunder way go fire marriage ehn, God never create am sef

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by checkmatez: 3:43am On Aug 13, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
If you are a single man & you are doing well, please just avoid marriage. Kindly remove it from your agenda. The chances that you will end up sad, months after getting married now is very high unlike before. Trauma is now ubiquitous.

Before you consider such decision, Kindly & quietly ask yourself what the woman will be doing for u that you can't get with your money & effort?
Just name what men get in marriages, you can't get as a single man? My advice. Ponder on it.

Don't ever ever rush into marriage.
It's most likely not going to worth it in the end especially with the category of ladies we have now & the devices at their disposals . If it were in the era of our mothers, i would advice one to jump in blindly. Marital disharmony & killings are now on the high side. People should start learning to live solo. This applies to the Ladies too. Since they can't take shit from men, since na only men dey shit, you Ladies should start learning to remain single, however that won't stop you from having kids if you so desire.
Civilization & human advancement comes with its challenges and this is one of them.
but you are married

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 4:40am On Aug 13, 2022
checkmatez:
but you are married
I am married, and it's good u asked but I meant what I typed. I rarely attend weddings diz days.
It's not worth it these days. IF you can't get the quality of our mothers in your Financee (undiluted respect from your wife to be) then the marriage is already marked for extinction.

Let's take Flavour, David & Wizkid... for examples.
Let's also take Genevieve for example too.
IF these People had gotten married ab intio, their marriages would have collapsed.
The more advanced humans become, the more complicated they get.

Our LADIES are now empowered & advanced.
They can no longer take shit from men. IF you can't take shit, why get married?
Mere glossing over spouse's phones for side chicks have led to numerous avoidable deaths.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 4:49am On Aug 13, 2022
Meanwhile, our GreatGrand Fathers married more than one and had absolute peace. In Fact, they were well respected. It was a measure of a man's prowess then.

But now, a man can get killed for coming home late from work. It's not worth it at all.
After all, all a man desires are kids. These you can get without getting married.
Davido, Wizkid, Flavour, Timaya are presently enjoying absolute PEACE despite being Fathers, meanwhile TUFACE, PSQUARE and many more get screwed on daily basis for being Husbands.

It's not worth it at all.
We all have limited time on earth. One should enjoy his or her Life and maximize it. Don't you think Genevieve is happier? It's obvious she wouldn't want to be answerable to any man. So it's better she stays solo & have her peace.
This is not about being promiscuous.
There's nothing that supersedes peace of mind.
Pls. Bear my Long reply!

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by toujurs: 4:53am On Aug 13, 2022
Divay22:
Maybe if we stop lieing to ourselves that it will forever be bliss...
Communication with your partner will go a long way in sustaining your marriage....

Marriage is a beautiful union, it's just your partner that you don't know well enough before agreeing to do life with them.
communication is key, but when quarrel starts and the man ask what happened, or what is it?, it is the same your gender, that said communication is key, that would reply with ''nothing''.. You guys can be so annoying. I swear. It only takes patience for a man to stay with a woman, if not, not every man can tolerate nonsense.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 5:01am On Aug 13, 2022
toujurs:
communication is key, but when quarrel starts and the man ask what happened, it is the same your gender, that said communication is key, that would reply with ''nothing''.. You guys can be so annoying. I swear. It only takes a patience for a man to stay with a woman, if not not every man can tolerate nonsense
Honestly, MODERN MARRIAGE was designed to deprive many men of peace of mind. A MAN can comfortably have kids without getting married.
All that is required of him is to show undiluted responsibility towards the kids.

Similar things are happening across the World.
WHITEMEN hardly get married these days.
Call your Friends in Europe & the Americas and ask them the number of weddings they have attended in a single year. Most Diasporans haven't seen what wedding card looks like in Europe & America.
Meanwhile, in Africa, MEN save up cash to marry Ladies who end up demeaning & Insulting them.

Ask most Ladies who relocated abroad how many men have approached them?
MEN hardly get close to them now not to talk of interact for fear of being slammed with charges.

Most married MEN in Europe & the US have multiple cameras overseeing their apartments for fear of being slammed with LIES by the women whom they professed Love for..
IF marriage gets to that Level, then it's USELESS!

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by seanwilliam(m): 5:29am On Aug 13, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

Honestly, MODERN MARRIAGE was designed to deprive many men of peace of mind. A MAN can comfortably have kids without getting married.
All that is required of him is to show undiluted responsibility towards the kids.

Similar things are happening across the World.
WHITEMEN hardly get married these days.
Call your Friends in Europe & the Americas and ask them the number of weddings they have attended in a single year. Most Diasporans haven't seen what wedding card looks like in Europe & America.
Meanwhile, in Africa, MEN save up cash to marry Ladies who end up demeaning & Insulting them.

Ask most Ladies who relocated abroad how many men have approached them?
MEN hardly get close to them now not to talk of interact for fear of being slammed with charges.

Most married MEN in Europe & the US have multiple cameras overseeing their apartments for fear of being slammed with LIES by the women whom they professed Love for..
IF marriage gets to that Level, then it's USELESS!
Omo. Things are getting worse o

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by Nobody: 5:47am On Aug 13, 2022
If you look deep into those men complaining about marriage, you’ll see how wasted they’ve lived their life. Marriage is not your mate, if you have lived a decent life you’ll never have fears going into marriage, but unfortunately so many people are so damaged unknown to them.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by jeromestarks: 6:31am On Aug 13, 2022
Rosrozz:
One way to know a promiscuous and wasted man is the fear they nurse towards marriage. Marriage is for the disciplined and reserved, you cannot finish wasting your life with brothel and hook up ladies and still have the courage to enter into marriage , the ones that managed to enter are either broken or experiencing all sort of abuse.
If I tell you what's on my mind the mods will block me. Let me just keep quiet.

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Re: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by jeromestarks: 6:32am On Aug 13, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

Honestly, MODERN MARRIAGE was designed to deprive many men of peace of mind. A MAN can comfortably have kids without getting married.
All that is required of him is to show undiluted responsibility towards the kids.

Similar things are happening across the World.
WHITEMEN hardly get married these days.
Call your Friends in Europe & the Americas and ask them the number of weddings they have attended in a single year. Most Diasporans haven't seen what wedding card looks like in Europe & America.
Meanwhile, in Africa, MEN save up cash to marry Ladies who end up demeaning & Insulting them.

Ask most Ladies who relocated abroad how many men have approached them?
MEN hardly get close to them now not to talk of interact for fear of being slammed with charges.

Most married MEN in Europe & the US have multiple cameras overseeing their apartments for fear of being slammed with LIES by the women whom they professed Love for..
IF marriage gets to that Level, then it's USELESS!
You're correct bro

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