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DonEvarest:
very true. Just saw a facebook post in a group which enjoined the members who are single and searching to post their pictures with their names, country, and age attached for probable finding of a partner. Omo, wetin burst my bubbles is that majority of those that posted their pictures seeking for "a real man who'd take" them for who they are and love them and their kids are ladies above 26 years, divorced with kids, single mums and the likes. Funny enough their standards never go below loving, caring, fat account for their sought out partners. The Redpill never lies about female nature indeed. They'd always seek provisioning from Kings (men) and some folks would rather make you believe that men ain't the price. Haha

At the beginning, women are the prize because they've been blessed freely with all that's needed to fulfill their feminine imperatives - looks, and early fertility. At a younger age, these women are chased by men that have accomplished several things for themselves and men still struggling at the bottom see them as golden calves. At that age, she is a goddess, men just wrestle and filter themselves to win her heart.

The wall is the game changer. The few men that survived and are at the top have everything that women wants and have more beautiful women younger than her around them.

She rejected him at the earlier stage and it was temporal. If he doesn't commit, his rejection is permanent. Women always come to reality after they have wasted all their cards. If she ever finds a man that commits after the wall, it is never a win for her. That commitment she will resent with a smile on her face. Simps will always create that win for them.

Wise women will make use of that short window period to enhance themselves because they know they don't have much time. The foolish ones will want to play as men.

Men are the prize because, in the end, all that they've lost is rebounded in folds.

Thanks.

Once you hear ‘real man/nigga’, they expect you to be a simp and a fool. It’s always expectations and more expectations from these “real men”, nothing to give in return.

Wife material. Continue cooking

AkuOlisa:
Wife material. Continue cooking

Can you imagine, but now she remembers to reply. That thief, famzin don start.. they always wait at the finish line to give fake love.

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Someoneschild2:
The closing statement

You don't care about money but you're upset that he is planning to put his property under his sister's name ?

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ubunja:
i actually like this. Seems like you put her in that rare space where she felt comfortable enough to open up. And she seems smitten enough with you. Hope you didn't act shocked when she told you all this cause that would prevent her from doing it again. Women abhorr being judged because the most important thing they have is their reputation. And so they tremendously value men who are open minded and can tolerate their nature without getting disguisted. Every time a girl says she has done terrible things she's ashamed of always tell her you're in the same boat. Even if its a lie. Women are always looking for a partner-in-crime , someone they can walk the dark side with. And that someone must be you. If you can't realistically present yourself as a freak , at the very least, present yourself as someone who's never been out and about but is willing to learn and experiment and have been looking for that chance since forever.

Nice one bros.

I won't lie, I was taken aback, before I would have showed it but I then went on to tell her how people misjudge me to be perfect and innocent when in fact I have made out with someone in a secluded open space, and also levelled up with some truths and half truths and blatant make up of my sex life so as not to make her feel weird.


In the days of 2go, there was this lady who was extremely naughty with me for over two years. We chat video call and all. I had never had sex then and the day I came out clean like babe I have never had sex before was the day I chopped blocking and lost all connections.


Of course she said something like "and u made me spread my bad side with u all along by pretending what u r not" before she blocked me.

So yep, I'm not making such a mistake again.

Food for thought, For that want to learn and face the reality

CaveAdullam:
1. This is where y'all always get it wrong: you think hypergamy is a straight jacket and women jumping from one man to another every second, minute, hour, and day. If that's the case no woman would have settled for a short-term relationship not to even talk for a desire to get married and raise a family. Because there are men everywhere.

2. Relationship for women is two ways: she wants it because it fulfills her feminine imperative: to raise a family and have a man that will provide and protect her and her children. And, women can stay long without a relationship because they are not as sexual as men - testosterone hormone is lower than in men.

3. Women are not on a fvcking spree or 'hooking up in different culture' because they are sexually starved, they do it because of the money. Prostitutes don't get sexually satisfied after sex, they are satisfied when you pay them their money. It is men that are satisfied.

4. Genuine desire is when a woman chooses you. She keeps coming to you despite any limitations between both of you. Which man is the center of her life/relationship? That man at the center is who she has a genuine desire for.

5. Is it possible to cheat on that man and disobey him sometimes? Yes. But does the man has the key to heart? Yes. Who will she put first? It is that man she has a genuine desire for, the man who didn't persuade her to love him or cajoled her with wads of cash.

6. Genuine desire is hormone based: women secret more oxytocin bonding hormone during sex, making them more emotional after sex and cling to their partner. She becomes invested in the relationship. If she can no longer bond, it is an indication that she has been with several men. However, among these men, there is still one she will choose any day or time even though now unreachable. This reason is why women still affix themselves to their toxic boyfriends.

7. Not all greenlights are greenlights. Women are manipulative, they can chameleon themselves to get whatever they want, hence, you must vet any woman beyond the greenlight zone. Greenlight is her telling you: "hey man, I'm interested in you". Vetting is you telling her: " hey woman, I want to know you".

8. If she has a genuine desire for you, she will pass your vetting process. Vetting doesn't mean that she is void of her nature, you must maintain frame, be on guard and be watchful.

9. Genuine desire correlates with her (emotional) investments in the relationship and the probability that she will trade it for nothing or other men will fall low.

10. Women that find it difficult to leave any relationship are women that have invested much in their relationship. If she swings to and fro, she never had a genuine desire for you and has not invested in that relationship.

11. What keeps a man glued to a relationship is not sex but his commitment. If a man should follow the dictates of his libido distributing his resources alongside, no matter her wealthy he is, within a small time, he will be relegated to penury.
In the same way, a woman will be relegated to disgust by men when she has uncountable notch counts. Where men value their resources but want to fvck freely, women value their pússy but want commitment from different men.

12. Any woman that doesn't bring herself to your knee, to know how true a leader you will be to her and her children, to know the place you are leading them to, your hopes, passions, and ambitions do not have a genuine desire for you.

Greenlight can be the first step to genuine desire and as well a bait. Man must learn to differentiate one from the other.

DAY 224, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be smart and vigilant.

Apt

ProphetJeroboam:
A female celebrity’s advice to Women.

Who is the celebrity?

CaveAdullam:
At the beginning, women are the prize because they've been blessed freely with all that's needed to fulfill their feminine imperatives - looks, and early fertility. At a younger age, these women are chased by men that have accomplished several things for themselves and men still struggling at the bottom see them as golden calves. At that age, she is a goddess, men just wrestle and filter themselves to win her heart.

The wall is the game changer. The few men that survived and are at the top have everything that women wants and have more beautiful women younger than her around them.

She rejected him at the earlier stage and it was temporal. If he doesn't commit, his rejection is permanent. Women always come to reality after they have wasted all their cards. If she ever finds a man that commits after the wall, it is never a win for her. That commitment she will resent with a smile on her face. Simps will always create that win for them.

Wise women will make use of that short window period to enhance themselves because they know they don't have much time. The foolish ones will want to play as men.

Men are the prize because, in the end, all that they've lost is rebounded in folds.

Thanks.

Nicely put. The best shot for men is to keep grinding. The booty never goes to extinction.

Danycrusoe:
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I won't lie, I was taken aback, before I would have showed it but I then went on to tell her how people misjudge me to be perfect and innocent when in fact I have made out with someone in a secluded open space, and also levelled up with some truths and half truths and blatant make up of my sex life so as not to make her feel weird.


In the days of 2go, there was this lady who was extremely naughty with me for over two years. We chat video call and all. I had never had sex then and the day I came out clean like babe I have never had sex before was the day I chopped blocking and lost all connections.


Of course she said something like "and u made me spread my bad side with u all along by pretending what u r not" before she blocked me.

So yep, I'm not making such a mistake again.

"you made me spread my bad side with you"...
That's all women are looking for. A man to show their darkness to. Women spread their darkness to other women all day long. If you have ever eavesdropped on that girl chat you'll know women are very very explicit in their sexual talk, like Indecency explicit, and they use the most vulgar terms ever,, but when they interact with men they switch to clean vocabulary. But they really love a guy they can be explicit and vulgar with. So when they find such a guy he becomes valuable. Now to learn later on the guy was just faking everything,,,, well it pisses them off.

What we fail to realize as men is that the world is like one big prison for women. It's a man's world. Women can't speak, dress or live the way they really want cause they've to project that image that will be favorable with men so they can benefit from men.

Which means women ,for the most part, live fake lives to impress men. So that one man who has it in him to allow a woman to express her truth and show her darkness, that man they'll love. It's one of the reasons why women will always have a special place in their heart for players, thugs and lowlife jerks. Those guys are not fazed by female nature. They have the darkness to match the darkness of women. And in them women find a kindred spirit.

Remember women are drawn to men more depraved than themselves because 1)no judgment 2)women feel at home around these men 3) women feel a moral superiority 4)women get to satisfy that "beauty saving the beast" instinct in them by trying to purify the man.

Many times a woman will dump a good man and go back to her lowlife ex boyfriend who has no morals and lives a depraved life cause she feels at home in that moral darkness and there's no judgment. Where the good guy had a moral superiority over her and she kept trying to live up to his standards,,,, with a lowlife thug SHE has the moral upper hand and the jerk has to struggle to live up to her standards. For many women this is a far better setup than having a man who's morally better than you who makes you look like the devil of the couple. Women want to be the angel of the couple.

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the golden test of female sexual attraction/genuine desire can be summed up in one demand on your part: ''COME TO MY HOUSE''. If she doesn't give in to this demand of yours (or any other similar demand that will isolate her with you and leave room for physical escalation and seduction), she isn't interested in you sexually. MOVE ON!! Remember SEX FIRST all other things ( like dates, relationships, outings, commitment, attachment etc) should NOT MUST come later.

I saw this on Facebook. How would some guys commit without sex. This guy is in a big mess.

ProphetJeroboam:
This is why I wrote up there that the modern woman is a feminist at heart but the vast majority of them mask up so that they can enjoy the best of both worlds. The ones with the pink hair, black lipstick, social/ gender studies art school graduate are the foot soldiers, these ones are outspoken and have nothing to lose. When these foot soldiers speak out, they get usually unspoken unanimous support from modern women because it speaks their deepest thoughts. Modern day feminism is blatant jealousy, greed and penis envy, if you conjure up someone to blame, then it takes off pressure from you to self improve because you will convince yourself that you are continuously oppressed and not allowed to succeed.

The bolded is true. People would rather have someone else do their dirty work for them so as to maintain their "saintly reputation."

ubunja:
"you made me spread my bad side with you"...
That's all women are looking for. A man to show their darkness to. Women spread their darkness to other women all day long. If you have ever eavesdropped on that girl chat you'll know women are very very explicit in their sexual talk, like Indecency explicit, and they use the most vulgar terms ever,, but when they interact with men they switch to clean vocabulary. But they really love a guy they can be explicit and vulgar with. So when they find such a guy he becomes valuable. Now to learn later on the guy was just faking everything,,,, well it pisses them off.

What we fail to realize as men is that the world is like one big prison for women. It's a man's world. Women can't speak, dress or live the way they really want cause they've to project that image that will be favorable with men so they can benefit from men.

Which means women ,for the most part, live fake lives to impress men. So that one man who has it in him to allow a woman to express her truth and show her darkness, that man they'll love. It's one of the reasons why women will always have a special place in their heart for players, thugs and lowlife jerks. Those guys are not fazed by female nature. They have the darkness to match the darkness of women. And in them women find a kindred spirit.

Remember women are drawn to men more depraved than themselves because 1)no judgment 2)women feel at home around these men 3) women feel a moral superiority 4)women get to satisfy that "beauty saving the beast" instinct in them by trying to purify the man.

Many times a woman will dump a good man and go back to her lowlife ex boyfriend who has no morals and lives a depraved life cause she feels at home in that moral darkness and there's no judgment. Where the good guy had a moral superiority over her and she kept trying to live up to his standards,,,, with a lowlife thug SHE has the moral upper hand and the jerk has to struggle to live up to her standards. For many women this is a far better setup than having a man who's morally better than you who makes you look like the devil of the couple. Women want to be the angel of the couple.

Ubunja everything you said and others have been saying about women enjoying sex the more is true.

I lost it when she said she was already on board for two guys to Bleep her at once, she had already linked up with one of the guys.

Whether she hid the truth about doing it or not is what I don't know but from her tone and everything, that lady is someone very adventurous and she did all this while being a key worker in church. Hallelujah somebody.

The worst thing is to form holy as a guy when u actually want to Bleep. Go in hard and give a Bleep if she wants to take d Bleep. If she doesn't them move on.

You will never know the bad side of a woman from the good side, play with the mud in her presence, she will most likely join in.

ubunja:
"you made me spread my bad side with you"...
That's all women are looking for. A man to show their darkness to. Women spread their darkness to other women all day long. If you have ever eavesdropped on that girl chat you'll know women are very very explicit in their sexual talk, like Indecency explicit, and they use the most vulgar terms ever,, but when they interact with men they switch to clean vocabulary. But they really love a guy they can be explicit and vulgar with. So when they find such a guy he becomes valuable. Now to learn later on the guy was just faking everything,,,, well it pisses them off.

What we fail to realize as men is that the world is like one big prison for women. It's a man's world. Women can't speak, dress or live the way they really want cause they've to project that image that will be favorable with men so they can benefit from men.

Which means women ,for the most part, live fake lives to impress men. So that one man who has it in him to allow a woman to express her truth and show her darkness, that man they'll love. It's one of the reasons why women will always have a special place in their heart for players, thugs and lowlife jerks. Those guys are not fazed by female nature. They have the darkness to match the darkness of women. And in them women find a kindred spirit.

Remember women are drawn to men more depraved than themselves because 1)no judgment 2)women feel at home around these men 3) women feel a moral superiority 4)women get to satisfy that "beauty saving the beast" instinct in them by trying to purify the man.

Many times a woman will dump a good man and go back to her lowlife ex boyfriend who has no morals and lives a depraved life cause she feels at home in that moral darkness and there's no judgment. Where the good guy had a moral superiority over her and she kept trying to live up to his standards,,,, with a lowlife thug SHE has the moral upper hand and the jerk has to struggle to live up to her standards. For many women this is a far better setup than having a man who's morally better than you who makes you look like the devil of the couple. Women want to be the angel of the couple.

Hmmmmmmmmm

heartofcity12:
Y’all know what comes next after that.. billing. Beware

Knowing how to say NO is a talent I should be scored at least 96% in. It will be easier if they know you can afford it but just don't want to give. Instead of them quarreling with you, they won't but try to re-strategize with a better format which is also waiting for a Capital NO from me.

I don't have shame when it comes to turning ladies down. Some guys misquote bf role with fatherly role. . I only give when I feel like, not when I'm told to!
Below is one of those billings last night.

heartofcity12:
TRP

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This one is true is very true ... I have a story I'd like to share...

Vulcanheph:
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This one is true is very true ... I have a story I'd like to share...

Feel free to share

geedot:
Knowing how to say NO is a talent I should be scored at least 96% in. It will be easier if they know you can afford it but just don't want to give. Instead of them quarreling with you, they won't but try to re-strategize with a better format which is also waiting for a Capital NO from me.

I don't have shame when it comes to turning ladies down. Some guys misquote bf role with fatherly role. . I only give when I feel like, not when I'm told to!
Below is one of those billings last night.

Lol, you get her time.. you keep stringing her along.

Danycrusoe:
Ubunja everything you said and others have been saying about women enjoying sex the more is true.

I lost it when she said she was already on board for two guys to Bleep her at once, she had already linked up with one of the guys.

Whether she hid the truth about doing it or not is what I don't know but from her tone and everything, that lady is someone very adventurous and she did all this while being a key worker in church. Hallelujah somebody.

The worst thing is to form holy as a guy when u actually want to Bleep. Go in hard and give a Bleep if she wants to take d Bleep. If she doesn't them move on.

You will never know the bad side of a woman from the good side, play with the mud in her presence, she will most likely join in.

a lot of men fail with women cause they're afraid of angering a woman by going sexual so they keep things friendly as long as possible.

If you want sex you'll have to venture into the emotional territory and provoke a woman. Not necessarily anger her but get her emotional. Women give up the cookie mostly under emotional circumstances,,, and the exact type of emotion doesn't matter. A woman will go to a funeral, cry and come back and fucc. A woman will go to a wedding, cry for joy and come back and fucc. Women are creatures of emotion, Emotions is the key to getting your way with them. Stay away from logic.provoke her emotions and watch her fold.

But men are disgusted by emotions and do their best to stay away from them by being logical from start to finish. Emotions can be dirty to work with (like mud) but the payoff is always worth it.

Now, one of the easiest ways to provoke a woman is to get her angry. When a woman is angry she becomes INVESTED in you because guess what? Emotions are a woman's currency. To women emotions are like money. The more emotions she wastes on you -- good or bad emotions--- the more you stay in her head. Take men's Sunk Cost Fallacy , exchange money with emotions , and you've an idea how women work.
The absolute worst way for a woman to be with you is to be INDEFFERENT. To not feel anything for you. That's a non starter. You have no way of getting in.

Instead of trying to reason with a girl about what a good guy you are and just how much she can benefit from being your GF (the logical approach), try to anger her (an emotional approach),, then when she hates you invite her to give you a small chance to prove to her you're not that much of a bad guy as your initial encounter hinted,, tell her she owes you a chance to part in good books , then treat her nice.that nice after the initial assholeness hits different and can, many times, flip her emotions. As in manipulate her emotions.

There needs to be deep understanding of women's emotional nature...
If you've a GF and she's just broke up with you and she has blocked you, it means she's still feeling something about you,, even though maybe at that point its hate. The fact that she FEELS means there's Still a door back to her cause you still hold her emotional key. There's a very very thin line between love and hate and sometimes these two emotions are indistinguishable from each other. That's why in many works of literature "love" and "war" are placed side by side.
Which means if you're with a new girl and she's still angry, like dead angry, with his last BF, you gotta understand the ex BF still has a hold on her. And that hold is emotional. And emotions can be manipulated.
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To win with women first get them emotional,, doesn't matter the emotion. Then manipulate that emotion to the one you want. You may have seen how a lot of guys on the street start off by insulting a girl they like, then when the girl is angry they go to her and apologize then comfort her then get all sweet and nice to her, until the girl is smiling and laughing.
Its a clear formula: step 1)get girl emotional [in this case get her angry] step 2)manipulate that emotion to the one you want [in this case be sweet and make her happy] ,, now she's a little invested. Just a little. It's up to you now to boost the emotions to get where you want....

Okay I ended up off topic....

Danycrusoe:
Whether she hid the truth about doing it or not is what I don't know but from her tone and everything, that lady is someone very adventurous and she did all this while being a key worker in church. Hallelujah somebody.

@ the bolded.....Ameeeeeeeen Brother Dan

ubunja:
a lot of men fail with women cause they're afraid of angering a woman by going sexual so they keep things friendly as long as possible.

If you want sex you'll have to venture into the emotional territory and provoke a woman. Not necessarily anger her but get her emotional. Women give up the cookie mostly under emotional circumstances,,, and the exact type of emotion doesn't matter. A woman will go to a funeral, cry and come back and fucc. A woman will go to a wedding, cry for joy and come back and fucc. Women are creatures of emotion, Emotions is the key to getting your way with them. Stay away from logic.provoke her emotions and watch her fold.

But men are disgusted by emotions and do their best to stay away from them by being logical from start to finish. Emotions can be dirty to work with (like mud) but the payoff is always worth it.

Now, one of the easiest ways to provoke a woman is to get her angry. When a woman is angry she becomes INVESTED in you because guess what? Emotions are a woman's currency. To women emotions are like money. The more emotions she wastes on you -- good or bad emotions--- the more you stay in her head. Take men's Sunk Cost Fallacy , exchange money with emotions , and you've an idea how women work.
The absolute worst way for a woman to be with you is to be INDEFFERENT. To not feel anything for you. That's a non starter. You have no way of getting in.

Instead of trying to reason with a girl about what a good guy you are and just how much she can benefit from being your GF (the logical approach), try to anger her (an emotional approach),, then when she hates you invite her to give you a small chance to prove to her you're not that much of a bad guy as your initial encounter hinted,, tell her she owes you a chance to part in good books , then treat her nice.that nice after the initial assholeness hits different and can, many times, flip her emotions. As in manipulate her emotions.

There needs to be deep understanding of women's emotional nature...
If you've a GF and she's just broke up with you and she has blocked you, it means she's still feeling something about you,, even though maybe at that point its hate. The fact that she FEELS means there's Still a door back to her cause you still hold her emotional key. There's a very very thin line between love and hate and sometimes these two emotions are indistinguishable from each other. That's why in many works of literature "love" and "war" are placed side by side.
Which means if you're with a new girl and she's still angry, like dead angry, with his last BF, you gotta understand the ex BF still has a hold on her. And that hold is emotional. And emotions can be manipulated.
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To win with women first get them emotional,, doesn't matter the emotion. Then manipulate that emotion to the one you want. You may have seen how a lot of guys on the street start off by insulting a girl they like, then when the girl is angry they go to her and apologize then comfort her then get all sweet and nice to her, until the girl is smiling and laughing.
Its a clear formula: step 1)get girl emotional [in this case get her angry] step 2)manipulate that emotion to the one you want [in this case be sweet and make her happy] ,, now she's a little invested. Just a little. It's up to you now to boost the emotions to get where you want....

Okay I ended up off topic....

The last part is very funny but true, that's when u hear friends ask her but I thought u hate that guy, how come u two are now together..... Lol

heartofcity12:
Lol, you get her time.. you keep stringing her along.

Another set of people we should learn how to say no to is our guys.

Your guy go lie bill you and you pay only for him to use it to carry woman.

Danycrusoe:
The last part is very funny but true, that's when u hear friends ask her but I thought u hate that guy, how come u two are now together..... Lol

Bro, you stay in Abk.
Don't mind if we connect?

Danycrusoe:
So I was discussing with a lady who used to claim no sex before marriage on her WhatsApp post and at the end of the discussion I discovered I haven't done 1/3 of her sexual adventure.


Heck I couldn't even say anything cus this is someone who's in the chorister and no nonesense. I was shocked not because I expected her to be a virgin but because I wasn't prepared for all I heard. Lol

So same lady has bleeped and be fingered in church, one time on a Sunday in her choir regalia. Done foursome, wanted tirisum with two guys and also had a lesbian partner.

She has been laid by two siblings and also said she has a body count of ten. She is 24 and claims born again since last year.

Don't worry o bros ur wife is a choir and sings every other day. She never see dick before and of course "no sex till marriage".


Hoe phase is real and ladies are not innocent.


MODIFIED

Tbh, i can't stomach what some ladies do tell me oo when it comes to sex.

Men dey learn where women dey for sex.
It is not their fault though, it is very hard to withstand the temptation of not having sex when you get paid or gifts to do it.
Imagine the rate at which men are having sex or want to have it despite paying through their nose to have it.
Now imagine men being paid to have sex, many of us go cut rope.
Many men want to fvck their problems away, they are tired of hustling and stuck in endless poverty and generational struggling or working hours that puts their life at risk or about to break their neck.
They want to fvck these problems away or at least use a ''Pussy Bail-out'' to reduce the stress and suffering drastically.

It is very very hard for women to resist sex bcus they get paid for it. Most will ditch it if they have to pay for every sex they receive or the their body count will drop drastically.

Regex:
Another set of people we should learn how to say no to is our guys.

Your guy go lie bill you and you pay only for him to use it to carry woman.

True....and that is why i look at people who criticize guys spending on women, saying if their guys come he won't help.
There is one funny/bad attitude about humans in general, when you help them, they keep coming back when they need more.
Their brain won't tell them enough or to reciprocate first before asking for another.
It is always a one-sided relationship and not balanced or mutual....Always parasitic.
I have many of them who have dropped their asses.
One always ask me for money.........He is wise enough to be spacing it every 3-3 months so that it won't look obvious.
Every time he will be sharing experiences of ladies he has banged. I don't have a problem with that, just don't put your burden on me because i am not putting min on you and i am trying my best to plan my life so as not to put my burden on you. So if you don't plan your life, don't disturb who is planning his.

What a life, I don't blame them though. It's their nature.

heartofcity12:
TRP

Some won't even give you a yes or no answer, just to keep you on standby. SAME ENERGY, MOVE ON!

emmaodet:
True....and that is why i look at people who criticize guys spending on women, saying if their guys come he won't help.
There is one funny/bad attitude about humans in general, when you help them, they keep coming back when they need more.
Their brain won't tell them enough or to reciprocate first before asking for another.
It is always a one-sided relationship and not balanced or mutual....Always parasitic.
I have many of them who have dropped their asses.
One always ask me for money.........He is wise enough to be spacing it every 3-3 months so that it won't look obvious.
Every time he will be sharing experiences of ladies he has banged. I don't have a problem with that, just don't put your burden on me because i am not putting min on you and i am trying my best to plan my life so as not to put my burden on you. So if you don't plan your life, don't disturb who is planning his.

Exactly. I have one guy who is always coming up with different stories to nick money off of me. The last one was a basket ball exam he said he is taking and that he needs N180k to take the exam and he only has N60k.

Only God can save you from any form of manipulation, how many of you are ready to follow him?

machote:
Some won't even give you a yes or no answer, just to keep you on standby. SAME ENERGY, MOVE ON!

Exactly, they’re time wasters, you just move on.