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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Herbworks: 10:49pm On Aug 13, 2022
CaveAdullam:
Happy birthday, daddy Ubunja. Long live you!

Cc. Herbsworks, Hedgefunds, smartb0y, lordcassy, et al., hope you guys are doing fine.

Uncle Ichidodo...let me not talk. How are you?

I am fine bro! Just been shuttling two jobs and it has been stressful but money must be made.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 11:08pm On Aug 13, 2022
ubunja:
you're not wrong. But the truth is not always straight forward. consider the pic below.
You're right. I'm already testing your theory.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RikudoSennin: 11:23pm On Aug 13, 2022
ubunja:
The jobless troll is at it again, guess the bbnaija threads are boring today....

That so-called ubunja pic has suffered,, I know it's owner is tired by now....

Moving along...i hope red pillers are watching the Passport Movement on YouTube. When hypergamy goes unchecked and becomes uncontrolled , men end up walking away. [b]Black American men are getting their passports and jetting off to other countries to get women , mainly Brazil at the moment. [/b]And black women are getting bothered about it. What will we do as Africans when those men finally decide to come to Africa for women? Its gonna be messy.

Not only black americans, the caucasians are doing this. I am on this path as well. Asia, Slavic countries, Mediterranean and Caribbean. Let them have their only fans and feminisim.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ProphetJeroboam: 11:54pm On Aug 13, 2022
If you want to see a beta cuck in all his full glory then you should watch this video and observe the white boyfriend to the white lady.

https://twitter.com/mdnazeal/status/1558149275028262912?s=21&t=VfkBIojnOYatDcwpFoHkAw

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:33am On Aug 14, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
If you want to see a beta cuck in all his full glory then you should watch this video and observe the white boyfriend to the white lady.

https://twitter.com/mdnazeal/status/1558149275028262912?s=21&t=VfkBIojnOYatDcwpFoHkAw
WTF?
They idiotts wan come walk the black dude out.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 1:35am On Aug 14, 2022
Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the golden test of female sexual attraction/genuine desire can be summed up in one demand on your part: ''COME TO MY HOUSE''. If she doesn't give in to this demand of yours (or any other similar demand that will isolate her with you and leave room for physical escalation and seduction), she isn't interested in you sexually. MOVE ON!! Remember SEX FIRST all other things ( like dates, relationships, outings, commitment, attachment etc) should NOT MUST come later.


What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 3:24am On Aug 14, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:


I saw the gist but I couldn’t copy the link. I’ll look for it and post it if it isn’t already in the thread.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/8/multiple-women-expose-chats-where-solomon-buchi-begged-them-for-money-after-he-warned-men-not-to-date-broke-women-2.html

I was able to find this link, see if you can get the full story from here.
Which Kind disgraceful Man be this you no beg fellow men for money na women you dey beg for money undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 3:38am On Aug 14, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
If you want to see a beta cuck in all his full glory then you should watch this video and observe the white boyfriend to the white lady.

https://twitter.com/mdnazeal/status/1558149275028262912?s=21&t=VfkBIojnOYatDcwpFoHkAw
Serve Them Hot grin grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 6:35am On Aug 14, 2022
Smh

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:44am On Aug 14, 2022
when the dust settles,I think black women will be at the receiving end.

ubunja:

Moving along...i hope red pillers are watching the Passport Movement on YouTube. When hypergamy goes unchecked and becomes uncontrolled , men end up walking away. Black American men are getting their passports and jetting off to other countries to get women , mainly Brazil at the moment. And black women are getting bothered about it. What will we do as Africans when those men finally decide to come to Africa for women? Its gonna be messy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:49am On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:


As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:55am On Aug 14, 2022
I love how the boyfriend got served,notice how the lady became calm all of a sudden grin she thought the black guy would walk away grin

The girl was even protecting her boyfriend from the other guy's punches grin

ProphetJeroboam:
If you want to see a beta cuck in all his full glory then you should watch this video and observe the white boyfriend to the white lady.

https://twitter.com/mdnazeal/status/1558149275028262912?s=21&t=VfkBIojnOYatDcwpFoHkAw

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 7:08am On Aug 14, 2022
Danycrusoe:



Ubunja everything you said and others have been saying about women enjoying sex the more is true.

I lost it when she said she was already on board for two guys to Bleep her at once, she had already linked up with one of the guys.

Whether she hid the truth about doing it or not is what I don't know but from her tone and everything, that lady is someone very adventurous and she did all this while being a key worker in church. Hallelujah somebody.

The worst thing is to form holy as a guy when u actually want to Bleep. Go in hard and give a Bleep if she wants to take d Bleep. If she doesn't them move on.

You will never know the bad side of a woman from the good side, play with the mud in her presence, she will most likely join in.



Go and read "on scantily dressed girls" and "sex with a stranger"cheesy by ubunja.

Awon religious girls n though yaticheesy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 7:14am On Aug 14, 2022
geedot:
Knowing how to say NO is a talent I should be scored at least 96% in. It will be easier if they know you can afford it but just don't want to give. Instead of them quarreling with you, they won't but try to re-strategize with a better format which is also waiting for a Capital NO from me.

I don't have shame when it comes to turning ladies down. Some guys misquote bf role with fatherly role. cry . I only give when I feel like, not when I'm told to!
Below is one of those billings last night.



How old is this your girlfriend?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:14am On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:



What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.



Ubunja will not like thischeesy. Sex first.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:19am On Aug 14, 2022
heartofcity12:
Smh


Money will not buy genuine interest.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 8:31am On Aug 14, 2022
MJBOLT:
when the dust settles,I think black women will be at the receiving end.

it's gonna be messy bro. On one hand women are celebrating over that study that more and more men are lonely and not dating,, on the other hand polyamory is rising at record speed, Bolt there's a lot happening in the US sometimes it gives a headache trying to make sense of it all or trying to predict the future.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by geedot: 8:45am On Aug 14, 2022
heartofcity12:


Lol, you get her time.. you keep stringing her along.
Because we kinda dating. If not, na to read make e paint am blue and not respond.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by geedot: 8:46am On Aug 14, 2022
ashewoboy:




How old is this your girlfriend?
Why'd you ask?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Intelligentguy5: 8:50am On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:



As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

Wow, your submisison was soo beautifully written. Well done and thanks so much! You gained a new follower.

You, kipaji, Jeshal and a handfull of others are why i visit this thread

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 8:57am On Aug 14, 2022
ashewoboy:




Ubunja will not like thischeesy. Sex first.
well he has said he doesn't care for sex or a relationship only respect.

Its an open secret that red pillers hate talking about sex. I've seen this being talked about elsewhere. The manosphere will talk about women all day but if the topic becomes about the nitty gritties of sex everyone is silent. How many Red Pill videos on Youtube teach men HOW TO FUCC? How many red pill videos you know that teach guys how to make their GF climax? its like sex is a dirty topic in the manosphere. Everyone avoids it. Which is funny cause we are the same community that screams "Alpha Fuccs, Beta Bucks".
Yet we're more comfortable discussing business than discussing sex. The same men who understand well what " alpha fuccs" mean are the same guys too shy or too afraid or too disguisted to talk about sex. It's like a cruel joke.

But if we're saying women are the biggest cheaters of all time then we'll have to understand sex really really matters TO WOMEN. And it deserves our attention. Cause no matter how much a girl likes you, her puccy is not going to fucc itself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:19am On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:



What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.
its easier for a woman to respect a man who makes her puccy wet , than it is for her to get wet for a man she respects. Your aim must be the same thing you've been taught all along on this thread,, deal with women's lust, it's key. If she likes you, gets wet for you, and you lay the pipe she's going to respect you either way.
Don't get it twisted, modern women will only submit to good dick.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Shittaakeem(m): 9:19am On Aug 14, 2022
ubunja:
well he has said he doesn't care for sex or a relationship only respect.

Its an open secret that red pillers hate talking about sex. I've seen this being talked about elsewhere. The manosphere will talk about women all day but if the topic becomes about the nitty gritties of sex everyone is silent. How many Red Pill videos on Youtube teach men HOW TO FUCC? How many red pill videos you know that teach guys how to make their GF climax? its like sex is a dirty topic in the manosphere. Everyone avoids it. Which is funny cause we are the same community that screams "Alpha Fuccs, Beta Bucks".
Yet we're more comfortable discussing business than discussing sex. The same men who understand well what " alpha fuccs" mean are the same guys too shy or too afraid or too disguisted to talk about sex. It's like a cruel joke.

But if we're saying women are the biggest cheaters of all time then we'll have to understand sex really really matters TO WOMEN. And it deserves our attention. Cause no matter how much a girl likes you, her puccy is not going to fucc itself.
Deep

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Streak47: 10:04am On Aug 14, 2022
ubunja:
its easier for a woman to respect a man who makes her puccy wet , than it is for her to get wet for a man she respects. Your aim must be the same thing you've been taught all along on this thread,, deal with women's lust, it's key. If she likes you, gets wet for you, and you lay the pipe she's going to respect you either way.
Don't get it twisted, modern women will only submit to good dick.

What ubunja said is d absolute truth. Although, it may not sit well with the religious folks. I'm talking from experience. Because Ive done both sides of the coin.

a woman cannot trust u completely, respect, open-up completely, if u haven't found ur way to unlock the jar. She would always suspect u of having ulterior motive and can simply walk away from u in the relationship. And when unlocking the jar try ur best and do it diligently.

For the religious folks when dealing with any lady u r attracted to. I always go by this rule. If u don't wanna be hurt:

"It's either you're Fxcing Them(non-conformists) or u'r Marrying Them(religious folks). Anything in-between is a total waste of your time & resource & would get u incredibly burnt"

Don't be that nigga dts neither Fx*cing nor Marrying them. Except u want them from ur heart as just friends and we all know sometimes when a goat and yam meets...

So when u go out today, and u see dt girl u like ask ursef what do I want....2 fx*ck or to marry. If it's for marriage then u do ur vetting and 4 fxcks don't play any gentle man..don't be the in-between guy.

Any other stuff can come later: Mr hard guy, principles, outings, laying ur terms and conditions, giftings etc..but if u happen to b playing all of the principles stuffs, giftings etc nd u haven't laid the pipe and u neither marrying her asap! U might jst b soon to receive ur biggest shock.

And sometimes, u save a good gurl by quickly laying the pipe ..u save her from the streets. From the stress of hoping thru all dixcks..nd u b good guy she looks up to for guidance...nd if she decides to see what's on the otherside, u simply let her go.

Somethings in life become clear with experience. When u hv multiple girls in ur contacts u can quickly notice similar patterns and behavior. Such that for any approach u use on any new girl u already know what the outcome in the end would be...This is me! I have intentionally done simp, gentle man, hard guy, no sexcks, religious, stingy, benovelence, dominant, sexcks freak, direct, indirect and have seen the results....similar pattern. And Redpill is the truth.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by deniguy01(m): 10:20am On Aug 14, 2022
I stupidly gave my girl y 12 pro max while o collected her iPhone 7. Now im in diaspora, I can’t take pictures til i get a new phone cos of a bitch. This said bitch posted herself flexing in a guy benz with my phone . I was so pain . This is like the 5th girl im dating and buying phones. I just discovered this redpill page. I’m working on setting her up with some guys that’ll snatch te phone.��.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Streak47: 10:27am On Aug 14, 2022
deniguy01:
I stupidly gave my girl y 12 pro max while o collected her iPhone 7. Now im in diaspora, I can’t take pictures til i get a new phone cos of a bitch. This said bitch posted herself flexing in a guy benz with my phone . I was so pain . This is like the 5th girl im dating and buying phones. I just discovered this redpill page. I’m working on setting her up with some guys that’ll snatch te phone.��.

At least u have learnt from experience...d 5girl. A pattern. Now you know what to do with the next girl..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Francis95(m): 10:28am On Aug 14, 2022
My main girlfriend is an obsessive one. She loves me like mad. She has caught me so many times cheating but still forgive me after crying her eyes out. She's the type that checks my phone when I fall asleep, she will open my phone security and start reading my chats from Facebook to WhatsApp after which she will cry her eyes out. She has done this 3 times. Now the new development is if I reply any girl on Facebook she starts stalking the girl and chatting them up consequently making these girls hate me when they find out I have a girlfriend. I have warned her several times to stop chatting these girls up. Now , these girls are girls I benefit a lot from, they buy me things, food, money, sex . This my main girlfriend is broke but very beautiful, fair and tall.
A girl visited me , made videos and posted on her Facebook story I don't know how my main girlfriend managed to see it. She added the girl on tiktok and started asking her useless questions. Now this girl have blocked me. She have done this 3 times with 3 different girls now these girls hate me like mad. Please what do y'all think I should to do this girl. She just wants me all for herself and i can't do that as Redpill is strictly against that to avoid oneitis though I was the one that deflowered her.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by monerozi5590: 10:29am On Aug 14, 2022
deniguy01:
I stupidly gave my girl y 12 pro max while o collected her iPhone 7. Now im in diaspora, I can’t take pictures til i get a new phone cos of a bitch. This said bitch posted herself flexing in a guy benz with my phone . I was so pain . This is like the 5th girl im dating and buying phones. I just discovered this redpill page. I’m working on setting her up with some guys that’ll snatch te phone.��.

Lol. I am sorry but i just hv to laugh.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Streak47: 10:41am On Aug 14, 2022
Francis95:

A girl visited me , made videos and posted on her Facebook story I don't know how my main girlfriend managed to see it. She added the girl on tiktok and started asking her useless questions. Now this girl have blocked me. She have done this 3 times with 3 different girls now these girls hate me like mad. Please what do y'all think I should to do this girl. She just wants me all for herself and i can't do that as Redpill is strictly against that to avoid oneitis though I was the one that deflowered her.

Both of u r young. Couple of years down the line..you would be more focused on your finance. She will get over you and might have done 10x relationships..she may become all the men r scum gang or maybe a submissive housewife. And when the time u r ready to commit emerges.. u may end up not getting a girl that genuinely desires u...now they eyeing the bag.

Irony of life...

I have no advice for u.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brokeloser: 11:11am On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:



What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm certain the redpillers on this thread have stated severally that if a woman disrespects you in any manner whatsoever you should walk away.Thats why abundance mentality is constantly stressed here on a daily basis.This is something I believe everyone who has spent at least a month here should be aware of.

The guy you quoted was merely reminding us to avoid time wasters.If a female wants your MEAT but dribbles you when you demand for sex then she must be dumped.

Sorry for quoting the long post.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 11:18am On Aug 14, 2022
Francis95:
My main girlfriend is an obsessive one. She loves me like mad. She has caught me so many times cheating but still forgive me after crying her eyes out. She's the type that checks my phone when I fall asleep, she will open my phone security and start reading my chats from Facebook to WhatsApp after which she will cry her eyes out. She has done this 3 times. Now the new development is if I reply any girl on Facebook she starts stalking the girl and chatting them up consequently making these girls hate me when they find out I have a girlfriend. I have warned her several times to stop chatting these girls up. Now , these girls are girls I benefit a lot from, they buy me things, food, money, sex . This my main girlfriend is broke but very beautiful, fair and tall.
A girl visited me , made videos and posted on her Facebook story I don't know how my main girlfriend managed to see it. She added the girl on tiktok and started asking her useless questions. Now this girl have blocked me. She have done this 3 times with 3 different girls now these girls hate me like mad. Please what do y'all think I should to do this girl. She just wants me all for herself and i can't do that as Redpill is strictly against that to avoid oneitis though I was the one that deflowered her.

You simply break up with that gf of yours and block her in all apps. There is nothing dangerous like an obsessive partner, they’re capable of doing any evil, she’s already making you lose a lot, you simply cut her off, she’s a big red flag. If you had started this thread from page one and read all through, you wouldn’t need to ask this question, you can start that now. Peace.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by adambeatz(m): 11:19am On Aug 14, 2022
ubunja:
its easier for a woman to respect a man who makes her puccy wet , than it is for her to get wet for a man she respects. Your aim must be the same thing you've been taught all along on this thread,, deal with women's lust, it's key. If she likes you, gets wet for you, and you lay the pipe she's going to respect you either way.
Don't get it twisted, modern women will only submit to good dick.

Even the good dick isn't a guarantee that she'll remain loyal, speaking from experience I recall years back when I wasn't working and still on a bleeping spree. Had this girl I was dating, she was an addict and I was equal to the task, we even kept scores of who tapped out first and I made sure I wasn't found lacking in that department, Las Las she still left after uncountable back blowing sessions in za other room.

It's something that's hardwired into their very nature, it seems like it's an abomination for them to stick to one man. They must sample the cuisine no matter what it takes, hence they have a man for everything ranging from mind blowing sez to who foots the bills.

Some few years ago when we meet & she found out I'm financially okay, guess who started flashing green light like a peacock. Smiling & been all friendly didn't mean Jack to me cause I've come to the conclusion women will always monkey branch no matter what.
It's in their very nature to always want to sample every cuisine.

One can only increase his chances by being financially okay, look & scent good, always set boundaries, & most important of all don't be a dog that barks and doesn't bite. This can't be over emphasised enough, it's better to not bark but bite than only bark.

I'd rather my fellow man bleeps me up & I'll over look it but you see that gender that ate the forbidden fruit, I'd rather have a brain concussion and go mad than let them rubbish me in a any way

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