ubunja:
I have been thinking on your comment trying to learn more on YouTube on the Caucasian aspect of this movement. Material is scant though. What I could find as concerning white men was sex tourism,, not really going abroad to find wives. I think I have to dig deeper.

BigBashiru:
brethren of the pill, please I hv a dilemma - i hv been confused for a while... i want to get married (pls dont discourage me as its what i want)...however, most young gals dont wanna get married until they are 30.... and i cant be stuck with a 30 yo all my life... i need something young.... so im now forced to get married for children but no delight in fuckkking the woman cos no sex appeal... those girls 25-26 still dey select and still think they got a lot of time.... the whole marriage institution is disorganized.... and actually young girls do not want to settle down....it appears marriage is a secondary market for used up old women.... what redpill advices do you hv for guys that want to get married to YOUNG women...

BigBashiru:


Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....

emmaodet:


Authority: Self-Respect

orchin:


Would you want to settle down in your prime years?
They need to enjoy life, den settle later.

CaveAdullam:


Lol.

Thank you sir.

BigBashiru:


If i dont get some of the prime years then why should i stress myself financially for the so called wife?? I hv no problem marrying a 30yo but these are the conditions:

1. She cannot restrict which girl i talk to or sleep with.

2. She needs to fend for herself financially....

heartofcity12:


The real enlightened ones (mostly redpillers) among them know that women are the same everywhere, those ones are not moving an inch..
These brothers don’t know this same women they’re trying to bring to the States will screw them over in a heartbeat when they know the amount of power the government give to women in the States, they’re only playing along and pretending to love them now because of the green card benefits and all that.. They’ll learn

BigBashiru:
brethren of the pill, please I hv a dilemma - i hv been confused for a while... i want to get married (pls dont discourage me as its what i want)...however, most young gals dont wanna get married until they are 30.... and i cant be stuck with a 30 yo all my life... i need something young.... so im now forced to get married for children but no delight in fuckkking the woman cos no sex appeal... those girls 25-26 still dey select and still think they got a lot of time.... the whole marriage institution is disorganized.... and actually young girls do not want to settle down....it appears marriage is a secondary market for used up old women.... what redpill advices do you hv for guys that want to get married to YOUNG women...

emmaodet:


Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

0neal:



Social media and offline attention from guys over inflates most of the early-mid 20s ladies head.

Even if she knows a hard working guy's motive are genuine towards her but the flashy guys in her DM promising to buy her IPhone 12 and ready do anything for her won't let her think straight.

BigBashiru:

Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day?? Don't get me wrong I will be happy and smiling but not excessively happy like most guys typically are...@ the bolded most guys these days dont even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage....

ubunja:
the miseducations are dead. At least on Nairaland. They'll continue on another site, hopefully one that I'll own personally. And yes,, I've shared a lot of stuff here that no one has to miss the miseducations.

emmaodet:


Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

BigBashiru:

Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Donnt get me wrong il be happy & smiling but not excessively happy like most guys typically are...@ the bolded most guys these days dont even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage....

Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day

heartofcity12:


Majority of them get severely fvcked and have several abortions in between their tertiary education to working class period, it’s a wise decision when men only want to associate with virgins(who are needles in a haystack) alone for a serious thing and this notion really hurt these damaged women so much, but who cares..

emmaodet:


It is true and tbh, if i am to become single today due to any factor (be it death of wifey(God forbid) or infidelity or she just decides to leave because she is tired of the marriage), whatever the reason may be, bro, i am categorically telling you i will stay far away from marriage.
Don't get me wrong - i am not trying to mislead the upcoming ones nor am i having any issues or problems in my marriage nor am i discouraging guys t marry.
This is just my personal opinion, i will stay away from it.
I don't have any issue with the institution but with what have seen so far, it is messed up. Too many damaged women.

0neal:



Social media and offline attention from guys over inflates most of the early-mid 20s ladies head.

Even if she knows a hard working guy's motive are genuine towards her but the flashy guys in her DM promising to buy her IPhone 12 and ready do anything for her won't let her think straight.

emmaodet:


It is true and tbh, if i am to become single today due to any factor (be it death of wifey(God forbid) or infidelity or she just decides to leave because she is tired of the marriage), whatever the reason may be, bro, i am categorically telling you i will stay far away from marriage.
Don't get me wrong - i am not trying to mislead the upcoming ones nor am i having any issues or problems in my marriage nor am i discouraging guys t marry.
This is just my personal opinion, i will stay away from it.
I don't have any issue with the institution but with what have seen so far, it is messed up. Too many damaged women.

BigBashiru:

Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Donnt get me wrong il be happy & smiling but not excessively happy like most guys typically are...@ the bolded most guys these days dont even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage....

emmaodet:


Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Tbh, i don't know also.

@ the bolded most guys these days don't even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage - To this question -
1. Most don't know. They are not aware about the past of their spouse else they would have taken to their heels.

2. Let's be frank, most men out there are sexually starved and invincible to women. SO when a man sees a lady that is even ready to give him attention, to give him a listening ear, they fall over heels to have her and finally secure her from the preying eyes of many sharks lurking around like you BigBashiru (lol)

Do you know how many guys who have never received any gift from ladies are very high? even here on nairaland, i can bet more than 50% of guys have never received gifts or money from women. Something an average lady gets regularly.
There are many things to say but just have to leave it here

orchin:

Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

orchin:

Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

emmaodet:


Totally correct bro and unfortunately, that same pussy has been ravaged by previous guys with little commitment, yet a brother will be very happy to personally secure it for himself which comes at a very very expensive price of slaving throughout is remaining life.

Reason why the lower class and upper lower class of women would fight vigorously against men who are kicking against marriage because it is their retirement plan.
It is not a bad idea to a slave after all to do the rigorous job of looking for money.

orchin:

Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

emmaodet:


I know of a lady at ibadan, she graduated 4/5 years ago.
She has been looking for work but for where. The ones she even got are private school teaching jobs of 15/20k.
She coded sleeps with married men now out of can we just say frustration.
During our discussion, do you know what she told me? That she is tired with the rigorous life she is living and she is eager to marry.
Atleast, she won't be staying in her father's house or asking him for stipends .... in other words, she is looking for a slave to shoulder her problems. Mostly financial.

emmaodet:


Another one.
She is my SIL
Very beautiful during her prime and even still beautiful. I think she is close to 40. No husband nor kids. Frustrated and always crying and praying to God for hubby even though she has been changing men like diaper...........my wife claimed it is the men who are not serious for relationship and just doing chop and clean mouth.....okay now
When in her prime..... she was carried away by the beauty and regular attention
Then, she was very selective and materialistic (not a bad quality if you ask me anyway)
Red flag ..............she stays at Omole estate alone in a 700k apartment.
Who does that ?
Even me wey dey do better work is a salary far more than her own no go try am.
She works with FIRS and i will guess her salary is not more than 150k. Unless there is something i don't know sha.
When i pointed out that red flag, wife told me she has a side business now .......buying and selling of gold abi jewelries from Dubai... Okay now
During one of their conversations, she blurted out that she is tired of paying the yearly 700k, that is is taking a toll on her. So she can't wait to just get married so that the man will be the one footing that bill.
It is all about the mindset of the modern woman.
It is never about how to run an effective home/family rather how to use a man.

emmaodet:


It is true and tbh, if i am to become single today due to any factor (be it death of wifey(God forbid) or infidelity or she just decides to leave because she is tired of the marriage), whatever the reason may be, bro, i am categorically telling you i will stay far away from marriage.
Don't get me wrong - i am not trying to mislead the upcoming ones nor am i having any issues or problems in my marriage nor am i discouraging guys t marry.
This is just my personal opinion, i will stay away from it.
I don't have any issue with the institution but with what have seen so far, it is messed up. Too many damaged women.

emmaodet:


Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Tbh, i don't know also.

@ the bolded most guys these days don't even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage - To this question -
1. Most don't know. They are not aware about the past of their spouse else they would have taken to their heels.

2. Let's be frank, most men out there are sexually starved and invincible to women. SO when a man sees a lady that is even ready to give him attention, to give him a listening ear, they fall over heels to have her and finally secure her from the preying eyes of many sharks lurking around like you BigBashiru (lol)

Do you know how many guys who have never received any gift from ladies are very high? even here on nairaland, i can bet more than 50% of guys have never received gifts or money from women. Something an average lady gets regularly.
There are many things to say but just have to leave it here

heartofcity12:


Majority of them get severely fvcked and have several abortions in between their tertiary education to working class period, it’s a wise decision when men only want to associate with virgins(who are needles in a haystack) alone for a serious thing and this notion really hurt these damaged women so much, but who cares..

emmaodet:


Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

orchin:

Men are stupid, very stupid when it comes to sexual relationships...
Why will you marry, pay a price for a non virgin? Why? Even the religious books doesn't support it....
The game the women are playing is clear, (hook up culture, FWB etc)...they don't want marriage, buh men are still bringing it to them...haaah. it's so sad.
Makes me sad when an olosho dey even talk about the standards she wants in a man when she wanna settle .