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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:37pm On Aug 14, 2022
Funny

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:43pm On Aug 14, 2022
#trp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:50pm On Aug 14, 2022
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:50pm On Aug 14, 2022
Simple as this #trp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2022
For your own good.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:55pm On Aug 14, 2022
Redpill

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 0neal(m): 5:27pm On Aug 14, 2022
ubunja:
The jobless troll is at it again, guess the bbnaija threads are boring today....

That so-called ubunja pic has suffered,, I know it's owner is tired by now....

Moving along...i hope red pillers are watching the Passport Movement on YouTube. When hypergamy goes unchecked and becomes uncontrolled , men end up walking away. Black American men are getting their passports and jetting off to other countries to get women , mainly Brazil at the moment. And black women are getting bothered about it. What will we do as Africans when those men finally decide to come to Africa for women? Its gonna be messy.

Then they will see there's little or no difference from the african-american women they are running from in the states.

I heard about it from Fresh&Fit podcast on youtube, Colombia is also another destination AA guys go to get marriageable women, the Fresh&Fit crew were cancelled for saying they don't deal with AA women because they are too masculine and aggressive.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 5:43pm On Aug 14, 2022
0neal:


Then they will see there's little or no difference from the african-american women they are running from in the states.

I heard about it from Fresh&Fit podcast on youtube, Colombia is also another destination AA guys go to get marriageable women, the Fresh&Fit crew were cancelled for saying they don't deal with AA women because they are too masculine and aggressive.



The real enlightened ones (mostly redpillers) among them know that women are the same everywhere, those ones are not moving an inch..
These brothers don’t know this same women they’re trying to bring to the States will screw them over in a heartbeat when they know the amount of power the government give to women in the States, they’re only playing along and pretending to love them now because of the green card benefits and all that.. They’ll learn cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:54pm On Aug 14, 2022
1. A man must build himself for his well being. And as a result, he becomes a person people respect, love, fear and want to relate with.

If you don't respect yourself as a man, nobody will. Self-respect will always culminates into general respect.

But I do disagree with you on some cases.

Let's go.

Pukkalolo:

What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

2. Do you still remember alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Who impregnates women and make them single mothers and baby mamas? Is it the guy focus on his study or business. Of course you know, many of these men are players, bad boys, thugs, jerks. A man of self-respect will not.

Who are the men that are friend zoned? The ones that want to deal with women from a self-respect level. They want to always take things cool and easy with women.

Please, don't interpret me wrongly. I'm not saying self-respect is not important when dealing with women or for you to fvck women you must turn into a bag of shit. But what you must understand about women is that they don't view things from a moral and ethical point of view. They go where their feelings dictates. They don't care.

All of us have guys who are called "street urchins" in all of our environments, these are guys you will not want mingle with because you carry yourself with self-respect, however, they are the ones impregnating sister angels.

3. Do women respect self-esteem and high value men? Yes. But that isn't going to their pvssy. They must be stimulated emotionally and sexually for you to fvck them. If they really care about self-respect, guys would not be complaining of being friendzoned.

4. "COME TO MY HOUSE" is a direct game. He cares for nothing. It shows that he's on the pedestal and will not waste time jumping around texts and phone calls just to get her attention. He shows that he respects himself and time.

5. For example: I have a female friend in another state, we've known for close to 5 years now online. She has been asking me for some help, and I have told her several times, that if she wants anything from me, she should COME TO MY HOUSE. She always say that if she comes she will not go back the same way, and I always tell her is just one baby noy in her womb. Has she come to my house? No. Have I been preaching about sex to her? No. Have she received a dime from me? No. Does she respect me? Yes. Do I respect her? Yes (at least she has sense more than the average Nigerian girl).

6. Commanding what you want from a woman at a short period of time reeks self-respect for your time and well-being. It doesn't mean you are a bag of shit.


Pukkalolo:
Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

7. You built yourself because of pvssy, and you said you were not pvssy focused?

This is not meant to be a mockery but an evolutionary sexual instincts. Whatever women desired in men, men evolved to become that thing. And same for women.

"COME TO MY HOUSE" is a command.
"I'm a self-respect guy" is an attitude.

Both boils down to pvssy. What matters is one or both not metamorphosing into something stupid just to get pvssy.

Pukkalolo:
The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.

8. If you know your worth as a man and have an understanding about women, by virtue of your worth, women will help you filter themselves. If you are a man of self-respect, you'll encounter with idiotic women less because you're not always around idiots.


Pukkalolo:
I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.


9. Maybe you are misconstruing that every woman a man sets his eyes upon he must fvck. Will men want to fvck any woman? Yes. Will a particular man fvck all the women he comes across? No.

If the women that helped in you in your areas of life opened their pvssy for you will you fvck them?
Sex may never had been an open objective dealing with them, but that sexual instinct was lurking under your skin.

10. There are gender roles. Women nurture, clean, cook, serves as companion. Men provides protection and provision.

Women have nothing to offer because a man can get everything a woman provides on his own. Even other men can do it for him. The only reason for women is sex and reproduction.

Except for independent women, women can't protect and provide for themselves and kids. Even the state is made up of men who provide and protect them on a macro scale. Women can't get commitment or provision and protection from other women; any different men. And they also need men for sex and reproduction.

Men want women. But women desire and need men.

A woman can't boldly say "all what a man can give is just provision and protection" - because they are expensive, everybody desires it. Any woman that says that is a pathetic liar.

But a man can "say all a woman can provide is sex", and he can get it from different women.

Pukkalolo:
If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

One of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.

Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

11. Men can't care less about sex because they are damned by the hormone testosterone. You can deny it but you can't erase it.

It was even men of old that care much about pvssy, they became hunters and warriors to secure more women.

According to recent statistics, marriage rate is declining, the rate of active sexual men is declining. Incels are on the rise. MGTOWS are on the rise.

Men are not desperate for sex per se, it is an evolutionary instinct that makes them desire women in a haste where the sexual market place is deregulated. In ancient times men can easily get women because the rate of inequality was low compared to this day. Women will settle for men in their community because they don't have social media to scan men from different geopolitical zones.

The seeming desperation is because, 100% women are only focus on 20% of men in the society totem pole and are not interested in the other 80% of men.

Is self-control important yes. Is self-respect important yes.

Pukkalolo:
99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.
Refer to 8 above.

Thanks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by oyetpel(m): 6:01pm On Aug 14, 2022
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:36pm On Aug 14, 2022
oyetpel:
grin
grin grin

Don't mind them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kenogidi: 6:42pm On Aug 14, 2022
Pukkalolo:



What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.
Guy nothing concern Toto with respect. You just dey talk off point!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 6:58pm On Aug 14, 2022
heartofcity12:
#trp
the sad irony is that, many guys don't even take this serious... working yourself out has a lot of benefits...

see ehn, let me tell you something that will hurt your feelings... it is your duty to not be a fat piece of shit.. this will benefit you and with your redpill knowledge, it will even increase the respect women has for you, because it shows you're disciplined... do not allow fatness in your house. do not raise fat kids...

ever since I started working out, my mindset and everything changed... my dedication towards work and perspective even changed... I don't even care if I have to wake up early to workout before doing my normal hustle business...

there was a time my sister friend came to visit, unfortunately I wasn't wearing any clothes (top) because I wasn't expecting anybody.. I'm a guy that doesn't like showcasing my body... bro, I overheard my sister friend telling her "wow, your brother is well built oo and all that", the way she said it, you go don know say this one don fall already.... she thought I was gone, she didn't know I was listening... before she left, the way she looked at me when our eyes met says everything I needed to know without exchanging words sef... pure masculine energy...

see if you're a fat piece of shit, and you're living a tenant life, and you have a neighbor who's well built, handsome and love to showcase his body, your girl or wife will be inclined to relate with him... If you are well built and you normally showcase your body, it's the same as those young woman dressing half naked... you'll attract attention... if you also have an average looks or handsome with it, then you're a god...

go and get yourself shredded...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Intelligentguy5: 7:00pm On Aug 14, 2022
Lol @ LifestyleTonite that’s Harvey from suits and not Gabriel.

Regarding making it before chasing girls, it’s only when you have nothing that you can find genuine love/interest. You don’t want to be the guy who is only desired because he is doing well. You would just be fulfilling someone’s mating strategy.

The richer i get, the less likely I’d deal with women. Same way, the better dressed i am, the less likely it is for me to approach women.

I guess i hate to be someone’s catch.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 7:15pm On Aug 14, 2022
Reminderz:

the sad irony is that, many guys don't even take this serious... working yourself out has a lot of benefits...

see ehn, let me tell you something that will hurt your feelings... it is your duty to not be a fat piece of shit.. this will benefit you and with your redpill knowledge, it will even increase the respect women has for you, because it shows you're disciplined... do not allow fatness in your house. do not raise fat kids...

ever since I started working out, my mindset and everything changed... my dedication towards work and perspective even changed... I don't even care if I have to wake up early to workout before doing my normal hustle business...

there was a time my sister friend came to visit, unfortunately I wasn't wearing any clothes (top) because I wasn't expecting anybody.. I'm a guy that doesn't like showcasing my body... bro, I overheard my sister friend telling her "wow, your brother is well built oo and all that", the way she said it, you go don know say this one don fall already.... she thought I was gone, she didn't know I was listening... before she left, the way she looked at me when our eyes met says everything I needed to know without exchanging words sef... pure masculine energy...

see if you're a fat piece of shit, and you're living a tenant life, and you have a neighbor who's well built, handsome and love to showcase his body, your girl or wife will be inclined to relate with him... If you are well built and you normally showcase your body, it's the same as those young woman dressing half naked... you'll attract attention... if you also have an average looks or handsome with it, then you're a god...

go and get yourself shredded...

Well said bro. So true.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:20pm On Aug 14, 2022
"I can never do without you"
"you are my world"
"you are my energy"
"I need you"
"you are my everything"
"I don't know where I would be if I didn't met you"
"you're my only option"

this is what you should say to yourself and your hustle everyday, not to your woman... wake the fvck up bro... don't waste these energy on women who don't care about you...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:22pm On Aug 14, 2022
the more time you spend developing yourself, the less attention you give to women who don't give a fvck about you... go out there in the world, there are many milestone to achieve.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:27pm On Aug 14, 2022
have you ever seen a high value man man 'who's aware of his value', worry about women? NO, because there are so many important things to worry about in his life... women is the least of them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:27pm On Aug 14, 2022
women can only use you, if you allow them to use you... so don't blame women for your misfortune, but yourself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:35pm On Aug 14, 2022
If you only waste your youthful life on trying to accrue as many partners as possible, instead of building up yourself and looking for opportunities to climb the social ladder and escape the matrix, then you're a shortsighted person wasting his energy on cheap dopamine pleasures...

you don't need to sleep with many women in order to prove yourself or stroke your ego... in fact the people who makes a fuss about accruing many partners are those that are either virgins or haven't had enough sex.. they can be easily manipulated be with sex... when they cum, they'll definitely come to their senses..

conquer the world first, then you'll automatically conquer women... never beg or seem desperate for anything in life except for yourself...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:39pm On Aug 14, 2022
men, do not make the same mistakes feminists made when they turned the movement to a man hating agenda... always remember, the red pill is to save men not hate women... note the difference.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 7:42pm On Aug 14, 2022
ashewoboy:




Ubunja will not like thischeesy. Sex first.
Even Sex You even have to do it in Respect Way.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:44pm On Aug 14, 2022
it's not that women aren't capable of being logical, it's just that they'll rather go with what they feel rather than what the truth is... men can be emotional but they are known to be more in control of their emotions than women, hence they have the ability to stay logical in terms of extreme pressure... I can't say the same for the modern/pussified men.. in fact, modern men are shifting more towards the emotional side... gone are the days when we have more stoic men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BigBashiru: 7:58pm On Aug 14, 2022
brethren of the pill, please I hv a dilemma - i hv been confused for a while... i want to get married (pls dont discourage me as its what i want)...however, most young gals dont wanna get married until they are 30.... and i cant be stuck with a 30 yo all my life... i need something young.... so im now forced to get married for children but no delight in fuckkking the woman cos no sex appeal... those girls 25-26 still dey select and still think they got a lot of time.... the whole marriage institution is disorganized.... and actually young girls do not want to settle down....it appears marriage is a secondary market for used up old women.... what redpill advices do you hv for guys that want to get married to YOUNG women...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:59pm On Aug 14, 2022
a working husband and a working wife... but the man still pays for everything in the house? she only save her own money for herself? she never bought or contributed anything in the house? she didn't even pay some bills herself without your knowledge? she asks you money for every single thing...? she has never bought a single thing for you out of love but expects you to do that to her every single time? she only spends the money she earns on her selfish needs and material stuffs? she only have sex with you only when she feels like? taking care of the home is a burden to her?

tell me how exactly she helps reduce your burdens? tell me how you won't die early as the man? make it make sense to me.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 8:00pm On Aug 14, 2022
RikudoSennin:


Not only black americans, the caucasians are doing this. I am on this path as well. Asia, Slavic countries, Mediterranean and Caribbean. Let them have their only fans and feminisim.
I have been thinking on your comment trying to learn more on YouTube on the Caucasian aspect of this movement. Material is scant though. What I could find as concerning white men was sex tourism,, not really going abroad to find wives. I think I have to dig deeper.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 8:14pm On Aug 14, 2022
BigBashiru:
brethren of the pill, please I hv a dilemma - i hv been confused for a while... i want to get married (pls dont discourage me as its what i want)...however, most young gals dont wanna get married until they are 30.... and i cant be stuck with a 30 yo all my life... i need something young.... so im now forced to get married for children but no delight in fuckkking the woman cos no sex appeal... those girls 25-26 still dey select and still think they got a lot of time.... the whole marriage institution is disorganized.... and actually young girls do not want to settle down....it appears marriage is a secondary market for used up old women.... what redpill advices do you hv for guys that want to get married to YOUNG women...
what I will say is that... do not let the desperation of trying to get married make you settle for what you would regret getting into later.. take your time... you have the luxury of time as a man.. because if things goes south,. you have lot more to lose.

and for getting married to a young woman, believe me, there is.. it's just depends on where you are looking... since you're thinking of marriage, I wouldn't bother asking if you have the necessary stuffs and resources available because I believe someone who isn't physically or mentally ready shouldn't even be talking of marriage...

believe me as long as you have what it takes, you don't need to worry about anything... are they turning you down because you aren't attractive to them or you don't have what it takes, or you are asking the wrong calibre of women out? don't forget that, as long as there are some women just looking to have fun, some are also looking for something serious who's ready to get married between that age range also provided that you have the power for it and they even have something to offer in the marriage, but they are kinda rare... but you know scarcity is what gives it value...

maybe you have to change where you're looking at, or asking the wrong people out.. anyways, do not be desperate for marriage as a man, na woman dey always dey desperate to marry not a man... If a lady knows you're desperate to get married, she will use it against you especially if you are high-value or have the resources available for it... in fact, if you're talking to a lady, don't tell her you actually plan to settle down with her or planning to marry her... let her play herself out to you first, then you'll actually get to know who she is.. then you'll know the next move to take... in chess, as in life, make your move carefully...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BigBashiru: 8:21pm On Aug 14, 2022
Reminderz:

what I will say is that... do not let the desperation of trying to get married make you settle for what you would regret getting into later.. take your time... you have the luxury of time as a man.. because if things goes south,. you have lot more to lose.

and for getting married to a young woman, believe me, there is.. it's just depends on where you are looking... since you're thinking of marriage, I wouldn't bother asking if you have the necessary stuffs and resources available because I believe someone who isn't physically or mentally ready shouldn't even be talking of marriage...

believe me as long as you have what it takes, you don't need to worry about anything... are they turning you down because you aren't attractive to them or you don't have what it takes, or you are asking the wrong calibre of women out? don't forget that, as long as there are some women just looking to have fun, some are also looking for something serious who's ready to get married between that age range also provided that you have the power for it and they even have something to offer in the marriage, but they are kinda rare... but you know scarcity is what gives it value...

maybe you have to change where you're looking at, or asking the wrong people out.. anyways, do not be desperate for marriage as a man, na woman dey always dey desperate to marry not a man... If a lady knows you're desperate to get married, she will use it against you especially if you are high-value or have the resources available for it... in fact, if you're talking to a lady, don't tell her you actually plan to settle down with her or planning to marry her... let her play herself out to you first, then you'll actually get to know who she is.. then you'll know the next move to take... in chess, as in life, make your move carefully...

Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by orchin(m): 8:36pm On Aug 14, 2022
BigBashiru:


Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Would you want to settle down in your prime years?
They need to enjoy life, den settle later.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 8:43pm On Aug 14, 2022
BigBashiru:


Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body.... they have been getting attention since 16.....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center.

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found?
it is not your duty to save any woman... if they can't give you their most fertile years, why do they deserve all what you've also worked or laboured for? they are turning you down because maybe you don't have what it takes...

the chances of meeting such person in places like school, offices, mall is slim.. ...but the irony is that, these type of women are mostly found in religious gatherings or schools.. as long as I hate to say this, the best women to get yourself wedded to and have a high chance of staying in marriage are Muslim women who hasn't been brainwashed by social media or society... if you're a well known in that community, you can easily be matched with these type of women.

the rate of immorality is low compared to the typical damaged modern women...

one of the reason I don't blame all these northern people about getting their kids married in early is that, it will curb the rate of immorality in the society to a greater extent.. what is the essence of sending your daughter to school for 5-6 years only to be ran through by dicks through all those periods or exposed to something that will change the way they think or perceive the world?? I don't hate the idea of getting women married off early, I only hate the way it's done.. some girls have hardly passed the puberty stage and some don't even have the necessary means available to carry it out... the women there are made to believe that it's family over everything else not chasing career and living the non challant lives which is why we still have women who came from this type of environment more reserved and respected in the society than the other areas...

the rate of divorce, single mothers, damaged women and infidelity is low in these type of society or areas compared to other parts of the world..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:57pm On Aug 14, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. A man must build himself for his well being. And as a result, he becomes a person people respect, love, fear and want to relate with.

If you don't respect yourself as a man, nobody will. Self-respect will always culminates into general respect.

But I do disagree with you on some cases.

Let's go.



2. Do you still remember alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Who impregnates women and make them single mothers and baby mamas? Is it the guy focus on his study or business. Of course you know, many of these men are players, bad boys, thugs, jerks. A man of self-respect will not.

Who are the men that are friend zoned? The ones that want to deal with women from a self-respect level. They want to always take things cool and easy with women.

Please, don't interpret me wrongly. I'm not saying self-respect is not important when dealing with women or for you to fvck women you must turn into a bag of shit. But what you must understand about women is that they don't view things from a moral and ethical point of view. They go where their feelings dictates. They don't care.

All of us have guys who are called "street urchins" in all of our environments, these are guys you will not want mingle with because you carry yourself with self-respect, however, they are the ones impregnating sister angels.

3. Do women respect self-esteem and high value men? Yes. But that isn't going to their pvssy. They must be stimulated emotionally and sexually for you to fvck them. If they really care about self-respect, guys would not be complaining of being friendzoned.

4. "COME TO MY HOUSE" is a direct game. He cares for nothing. It shows that he's on the pedestal and will not waste time jumping around texts and phone calls just to get her attention. He shows that he respects himself and time.

5. For example: I have a female friend in another state, we've known for close to 5 years now online. She has been asking me for some help, and I have told her several times, that if she wants anything from me, she should COME TO MY HOUSE. She always say that if she comes she will not go back the same way, and I always tell her is just one baby noy in her womb. Has she come to my house? No. Have I been preaching about sex to her? No. Have she received a dime from me? No. Does she respect me? Yes. Do I respect her? Yes (at least she has sense more than the average Nigerian girl).

6. Commanding what you want from a woman at a short period of time reeks self-respect for your time and well-being. It doesn't mean you are a bag of shit.




7. You built yourself because of pvssy, and you said you were not pvssy focused?

This is not meant to be a mockery but an evolutionary sexual instincts. Whatever women desired in men, men evolved to become that thing. And same for women.

"COME TO MY HOUSE" is a command.
"I'm a self-respect guy" is an attitude.

Both boils down to pvssy. What matters is one or both not metamorphosing into something stupid just to get pvssy.



8. If you know your worth as a man and have an understanding about women, by virtue of your worth, women will help you filter themselves. If you are a man of self-respect, you'll encounter with idiotic women less because you're not always around idiots.




9. Maybe you are misconstruing that every woman a man sets his eyes upon he must fvck. Will men want to fvck any woman? Yes. Will a particular man fvck all the women he comes across? No.

If the women that helped in you in your areas of life opened their pvssy for you will you fvck them?
Sex may never had been an open objective dealing with them, but that sexual instinct was lurking under your skin.

10. There are gender roles. Women nurture, clean, cook, serves as companion. Men provides protection and provision.

Women have nothing to offer because a man can get everything a woman provides on his own. Even other men can do it for him. The only reason for women is sex and reproduction.

Except for independent women, women can't protect and provide for themselves and kids. Even the state is made up of men who provide and protect them on a macro scale. Women can't get commitment or provision and protection from other women; any different men. And they also need men for sex and reproduction.

Men want women. But women desire and need men.

A woman can't boldly say "all what a man can give is just provision and protection" - because they are expensive, everybody desires it. Any woman that says that is a pathetic liar.

But a man can "say all a woman can provide is sex", and he can get it from different women.



11. Men can't care less about sex because they are damned by the hormone testosterone. You can deny it but you can't erase it.

It was even men of old that care much about pvssy, they became hunters and warriors to secure more women.

According to recent statistics, marriage rate is declining, the rate of active sexual men is declining. Incels are on the rise. MGTOWS are on the rise.

Men are not desperate for sex per se, it is an evolutionary instinct that makes them desire women in a haste where the sexual market place is deregulated. In ancient times men can easily get women because the rate of inequality was low compared to this day. Women will settle for men in their community because they don't have social media to scan men from different geopolitical zones.

The seeming desperation is because, 100% women are only focus on 20% of men in the society totem pole and are not interested in the other 80% of men.

Is self-control important yes. Is self-respect important yes.

Refer to 8 above.

Thanks.

Authority: Self-Respect

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