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loswhite:
You must also change location too o...lol. You have to leave Nigeria

HoePimp:
Jeon

where are you sweetheart

advanceDNA:
Its funny....broke people..with no car..no wealth calling a other person broke...saying they wont settle for less...this nigeria is just funny.....
The article from psychology today she posted takes its research sample size from america...

nigeria where virtually most women are broke ..dey do 5k, 10k hookup seff dey form form not settling for less.....this is hilarious

siofra:
A redpiller who's miserable and lonely will come here and try to threaten nairaland women with spinsterhood and Shiloh. Wonders shall never end

Jennyclay:
Just imagine an emotional immature man without a job, house, car, business and money is professing love to me. Nawa oo!! Who wants to settle for less with Mr Nobody? Am i going to eat Love? Sir put your love inside your pocket. Biko.

Personally, I'm allergic to broke and poor men. Their wahala is just too much!!

siofra:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men%3famp

I wonder if this applies to romantic relationships in Nigeria too because as for me, I'm not settling for any ashy, emotionally immature guy like these redpillers.

Jennyclay:
Please keep quiet!

Just saw your profile now, You've been looking for a cheap phone to buy. I hope you've bought the cheap phone already?

Your mate are buying iPhone 12 and above you're here looking for cheap phone to buy. Mtchheew!!

Broke men everywhere!!

iLegendd:
I didn't bother reading this post. Loneliness is subjective.

Akon sang a song called lonely. Does that mean he was lonely? No. He just wanted to make money by exploiting human, especially lonely women. He has too many options.

A man who has a purpose in life can never be lonely. He can be alone for years without a woman on his side, but not lonely. He's addicted to his purpose and loneliness doesn't exist for him — only quietness does.

Loneliness is when you don't have money and don't have a purpose in life.

If you're a man and you have either money or a purpose, you can't be lonely. In fact, you'll even prefer to be left alone 90% of the time.

Don't mix loneliness and productivity.

A lonely man is a man who is alone and thinks about being alone 90% of the time. He has no purpose.

A productive man is a man who is alone, but doesn't think about it — he's productive 90% of the time because he has a purpose.

So, only weak men without a purpose or money can be lonely.

Real men with a purpose or money can't be lonely.

Unfortunately, most men are weak and they don't have money or a purpose. So, your post may be right in this regard.

But, it's worse when you turn the table because most women don't also have a purpose in life.

All they care about is 1. Raw sex and shawarma 2. Cheating with a guy who has money or a big dick 3. Makeup and fashion. 4. Tiktok and social media. 5. And finally, bleaching cream and tattoo.

Does what I listed above look like a purpose? No. It's distraction.

So, woman are more artificial, materialistic, and lonelier than men. Only a few women have a purpose and fewer have money compared to the male gender.

Even the women that have money, more than 50% of those money were stolen or extorted from men. Most of the ones that make legit money work in a company owned by a man. So, men bear the brunt most times.

On the loneliness scale, women are 70% lonelier than men and they easily become depressed about it.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Hahaha you're d one to talk.. Here come someone that lives in a cheap war thorn state like borno that her father sold to a paedophile to feed dares calls me a church rat.. Hahahaha same asswipe that went to schools that their student sits on d ground to take lesson just fvcking called me a church rat.. This same scrawny motherfvcker that has not seen d four walls of a uni calls me a church rats bitch if u call me a church rat then you are better referred to as a gutter rat... Wonder shall never end..

PrinceofAgoAre:
Crap... Your depressed self was d one letting u think most pple are trying to hurt.. To think i've defended u a couple of times against trolls makes me sick to my stomach.. As from nw on, anyone that comes will be backed by me.. U will nw knw what trolling is.

Electrochemistry:
You never can tell when prosperity will creap in. It's impossible for all men to be rich and wealthy when they are married. The wealthy can fall from grace at any moment and the depraved can become something sometime in the future. What is more important is not immediate riches but character, attitude and compatibility. These are more difficult to acquire when compared to wealth and they're the ground essentials of all relationships.

babajero:
I think anytime they arrest any Yahoo boy, fraudster, armed robbers, kidnappers, infact any criminal at all, their girlfriends and wives should be prosecuted as well. But the main criminals we need to eradicate are politicians.

shaybebaby:
And THAT is precisely what the article is all about. Women are beginning to realise that material things do not compensate for emotional intelligence in relationships.

However, men, as you can see even on this thread, have spent all their time developing the latter and are sorely lacking in the former.

As a consequence, even if wealth tempts women to give such men a go in the first instance, it's only a matter of time before they jump ship with the realisation that their mental health is worth more than pennies men throw their way.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Yet u came doing aproko when no one called u.. D funny thing is u've got shiit load of stuff i could use to send u to depression in that diary of yours yet i chose not too.. Well this is ur last warning.. Come at me again like u did tonight, i swear u no go rest, i swear..

PrinceofAgoAre:
Crap... Your depressed self was d one letting u think most pple are trying to hurt.. To think i've defended u a couple of times against trolls makes me sick to my stomach.. As from nw on, anyone that comes will be backed by me.. U will nw knw what trolling is.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Lol.. Everything is right there on my profile. Like i said begging is something everyone does, so me doing it should never be a big deal. Bt saying i scammed someone or linking me with any moniker apart 4rm koffos is false accusation.. I rest my case

Choilila:
Church rat where are you?.

Is this what you meant? by @bolded

Tweiker:
Begging is your birthright ba?
BegAt40 come and see something

Tweiker:
Begging is your birthright ba?
BegAt40 come and see something

Choilila:
Church rat where are you?.

Is this what you meant? by @bolded

emmaodet:
You raised good points but in my opinion, i think men are lonelier than women. How? No matter the situation, a woman will always have someone (Men mostly) who want to associate with her, keep her company even though we know it is sex the man is looking for.
Women are hardly alone or lonely. Their phones will always be receiving calls, messages etc
Men life can really be very very boring and lonely. A man can go for 4 months without anybody calling his phone unless he has money, no gifts, no invitation to any party or event, nothing.

shaybebaby:
And THAT is precisely what the article is all about. Women are beginning to realise that material things do not compensate for emotional intelligence in relationships.

However, men, as you can see even on this thread, have spent all their time developing the latter and are sorely lacking in the former.

As a consequence, even if wealth tempts women to give such men a go in the first instance, it's only a matter of time before they jump ship with the realisation that their mental health is worth more than pennies men throw their way.

fman:
She dey on ban

NewSoul:
I don't know what's you look like but with the things I have seen you post on nairaland. You must be a very miserable and lonely person that no man wants to come close to. Wake up dreamer No high value man is coming for you. Keep rejecting the pot bellied ones that are coming for you very soon you'll look old and haggard for even those men. Even if you are the last woman on earth and they hand you over on a platter I will reject you. Spits