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emmaodet:
And funny enough, she has been holding on since her 20’s, banging different rich guys all in the name of relationship to secure them but dem dey chop clean mouth.
All of a sudden, she found herself in her 40’s.
Unaccomplished, no kids, no family, no reasonable relationship and to make it worse, she is not even financially prepared for the life in her 40’s and above without a support from a man.
What a life

GboyegaD:
This doesn't make you sound reasonable because you don't know her story. Learn not to make hasty conclusions.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

pansophist:
Wetin make I do na? I just tire for women reasoning really. A full grown up adult no go sabi think well.

Make me as I de so, agree to carry you enter my house, hustle 100k monthly with chance of increasing income, and somehow, one women wey no de earn anything see me as not good enough for her. Help me make it make sense abeg.

sweetman2022:
Let's I forget, please it is insane and crazy for an individual who is jobless to ask if she can start a family with someone earning 100k.

Blessedmercy8:
These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

GboyegaD:
If at the age you guys are you need so much time to know if each other are what you really want then, there is fire in the mountain.

I am sure you were not pressured to say yes to dating him thus, you guys should be able to tabl the most important things you are looking for in a partner and size each other up to know if it is worth it.

Blessedmercy8:
These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Blessedmercy8:
These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Donpenny:
41 years old old woman who sees a reasonable man at her age still dey make yanga when well to do ladies in their 20s are still finding it difficult to get married. Keep looking at economy and doom day news on aljazera and CNN before you marry . Go marry yahoo boys and leave that man alone pls don't fustrate his life. At 41 no child, no husband and not even financially viable. Shame

November24:
Stop being useless.
Continue your body counts. Or what's stopping you from marrying a man that earns more monthly, or you are not their class. Una go suffer later ehn, but we dey church dey wait una

Es350:
41 year old woman, earns next to nothing, beauty falling everyday (that's if there's anything still left of it), probably achieved nothing in her 20s/30s, approaching menopause etc and a man came for you but your problem is that he earns 100k monthly?

You women are so so delusional. Don't worry, you'll probably die alone with this mentality.

Get a cat or dog instead (that's if you can feed it). Rubbish.

mrblessed:
Baba, abeg allow her to feel fly. She seems to derive relevance in this graveyard that she can't get in the real world. Her stories change just as the way she changes monikers.

emmaodet:
And funny enough, she has been holding on since her 20’s, banging different rich guys all in the name of relationship to secure them but dem dey chop clean mouth.
All of a sudden, she found herself in her 40’s.
Unaccomplished, no kids, no family, no reasonable relationship and to make it worse, she is not even financially prepared for the life in her 40’s and above without a support from a man.
What a life

pointblank247:
Fuuuulish people every where.
Correct level headed and educated men making less than 50k a month are getting married on the daily to beautiful ladies with content.

Its not about how much you are making, it's about your potentiality. Its not about where you are, but where you are going.

Marry someone going somewhere and both of you will get there together. If you are about marrying a lady that is more concerned with how much you are making now, please run, she has nothing to offer rather she is a destiny eater.

ITbomb:
70 percent of government workers (civil servants) do not earn more than 100k, yet they have lovely families

It is not how much you earn, it's more of how discipline you are

Rubyjade:
Sweetie, he would not earn that forever, is he the lazy type? Do you see both of you building a future together?
Life is not a bed of roses, support your man in every area but if money is important, you could both set up a business to augment what's coming.
Life is a mistery

Blessedmercy8:
God bless you.
Only you saw it from my perspective!

I know what I'm saying because as a single, I know the expenses I incure not to talk of when the number increases. I'm not saying we are going to remain at a level but the naira no longer has value. Under 2 weeks 100k is gone except you want to be forgoing so many things that make life comfortable and who doesn't want comfort?

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Kaycee54321:
And the 100K guy don already dey make wedding prep for e mind oh

While the more pragmatic female partner is weighing pros & cons.... trying to figure out the economic logistics involved in the venture of marriage...

Lol,
Dear, 100K per month for a guy is too small for a guy to talk about marriage in Nigeria of 2022 oh. Especially if that 100K is the ONLY source of income.

Forget the stories of others are doing it, if you enter there, you go see crazy

You can date while improving your finances. If Raba enters, you legalize your union. Except of course, due to age, you really wanna conceive...and that's a NO NO on 100K per month from the man, in Nigeria in 2022.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

emmaodet:
Just imagine if a woman close to menopause, no more in her prime, beauty dropping drastically is still making this kind of request, just imagine how entitled, pompous, selective and arrogant she would have been in her 20’s and 30’s

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mercychen, you mean you are 41 already?