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Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

.... As for me it doesn't matter how much the man take home as a monthly salary, or the amount the woman being home as a salary...the most important thing is how the little one they are getting is being managed.... You can be getting over a million naira every month and still not having anything to show for it, if both of you understand each other you guys can plan better, there are alot of people out there, thst are not collecting less dan 100,000 naira and they gave married and they are living their life....they cut their clothes according to the clothes....that is why you need to marry a lady who loves you for who you are, who will be able to join you to build your own, not a lady that is always demanding and collecting!

Mjshexy:
If he earns 80k, the lady should as much as possible be engaged with a job that pays her at least 50k so both of them can build their relationship well.

God bless you ooo... You and your husband won't smell joblessness

Rozross:
Ok, that’s 130k monthly from both of them, please ma can you put us through on how this 130k would comfortably cover all expenses in this era? A breakdown will go a long way ma

Use it to stake 2odds ...

UyaiIncomparabl:
It's due to the harsh economy, my dear.

I told him earlier that when he has money in the true sense of it, spoiling a woman won't be alien to him. At least, I have seen proof.

If ur man can't spoil you because he's going through some financial difficulties,,spoil him too and stop being a liability...I even forgot dat u re a golddigger looking for rich sugerdaddy/man to spoil u...the last time I even checked majority of Naija women rarely spoil their boyfriends,, it's always the other way round and no be say una even get anything to offer,,,only una Toto...

No need responding, but since you requested such, my one cent contribution;the OP is an idiota living by Clitocurrency, get a useful livelihood outside fu*k & cash out. Pussy hustle nor dey last!
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Rozross:
Ok, that’s 130k monthly from both of them, please ma can you put us through on how this 130k would comfortably cover all expenses in this era? A breakdown will go a long way ma

. There are people who earns below 50k and dey live happily. It all boils down to management and understanding

I swear u be very wicked man indeed

VeryWickedMan:
I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Tallesty1:
One of the beautiful thing about being a woman is that you can easily reject a man for not giving you what you can't give yourself. A question like this was asked a long time ago when things were a bit better. One sister said that she can't marry a guy who is earning N100k because one can't run a family with N100k. I asked her how about N150k and she said that's okay.

I said okay then, he's earning 100K already, go earn the remaining 50k, you're his partner.

Lolzzzs....

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Here's a simple solution:

Go out there and make your own 100k or above, and complement what he has.

The common name for someone who benefits from someone without contributing anything is... parasite.

Rozross:
I’m interested on the breakdown, simply break it down for me on how you spent such money monthly, please

u had to share ur comment yourself. u're so on ur own here.

TheirFADA:
She no go fit say anything again

You wicked ooo

Fearyourcreator:
Use it to stake 2odds ...

that is why you are still where you are now... 2odds will not allow you move forward.....

Rozross:
Don’t be sad by this post, we are all here to learn

. Go and date yahoo boys. They will provide all ur needs. No wonder most women are used for ritual purposes. Reaping where dey did not sow

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Oga on the average I earn between 60k to 80 per month. I live well with my wife who earn 30k from her teaching job. Though the money excludes my rent coz I only pay rent when I win a well paying painting job. Inside I pay nepa bill, GOTV sometimes , put food at home, transport my self around the city, do low budget faaji n make very little savings. It’s not easy sometimes but we haven’t begged neither have I taken any Loan from bank or app. I know dey do pass myself n my wife have been given me the most peace any man can think of. I hope things change real fast for me sha

VeryWickedMan:
I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Lols oraimo cord will do more justice sir �

Ingredient88:
that is why you are still where you are now... 2odds will not allow you move forward.....

You too mumu ... Whats my name ... Tell me about me ... You over mumu ...

Rozross:
I’m interested on the breakdown, simply break it down for me on how you spent such money monthly, please

you're mumu simplified. You think you're smart...with your maggot infested brains

Kinzo0917:
. There are people who earns below 50k and dey live happily. It all boils down to management and understanding

Stop lying please

BeanmanX:
If ur man can't spoil you because he's going through some financial difficulties,,spoil him too and stop being a liability...I even forgot dat u re a golddigger looking for rich sugerdaddy/man to spoil u...the last time I even checked majority of Naija women rarely spoil their boyfriends,, it's always the other way round and no be say una even get anything to offer,,,only una Toto...

No long talks from me. Hope you find solutions to your problems.

Are ladies always into relationship for poverty alleviation or what?

Rozross:
I’m interested on the breakdown, simply break it down for me on how you spent such money monthly, please

get out, people have different ways of managing their income. On which standard are you telling him to break it. There is no standard 8n spending, there are people who earn 30k yet they manage it well and lived happily

Toks2008:
One of the dumbest threads I have ever seen on nairaland.

Are ladies cursed with the mindset of being a leech to a man?

What will happen if a lady also hustles to make her own money thereby complementing the guy's efforts.

Stupid thread.

What do u expect from Iyaebe/zzor before?,,,,,

Segzy19:
Are ladies always into relationship for poverty alleviation or what?

Not all of them...

.but all of them have the mentality that their money is for them alone..but their husbands money is for both...so they will always base their decision on the the man's income only....

I don't blame you at all, I blame the Simps you've been meeting, if not what's all this over bloated ego for someone who can't provide her basic needs?
Have you sat down to ask yourself, what if there were no men to cater for me, how would I cope?

UyaiIncomparabl:
If you read the previous mentions I gave your ilks, you would see where I said I love my men providing for me. At least, my needs. And I have been getting nothing less than that. It's only on social media I get to see all these never-ending theories you people never get tired of dissecting. On the outside, it's not a big deal.

There are men, and there are men.

Rozross:
Don’t be sad by this post, we are all here to learn

Stfy zzor you broke and got nun to offer so there is nothing for you to learn

UyaiIncomparabl:
No long talks from me. Hope you find solutions to your problems.

Between me and u who get mountains of problem before?,,u want men to spoil u without doing the same,,do u think men are foolish these days?..no man wants a liability, u should know that and know peace..
If na me be ur boyfriend i go just chop ur kpomo and push u far away...

Kendaboss:
I don't blame you at all, I blame the Simps you've been meeting, if not what's all this over bloated ego for someone who can't provide her basic needs?
Have you sat down to ask yourself, what if there were no men to cater for me, how would I cope?

LOL. Simps indeed.

Did I tell you I cannot cope on my own? You people want independent women? Independent women my foot. Been there, done that. E no dey pay las las.

Komu1048:
Oga on the average I earn between 60k to 80 per month. I live well with my wife who earn 30k from her teaching job. Though the money excludes my rent coz I only pay rent when I win a well paying painting job. Inside I pay nepa bill, GOTV sometimes , put food at home, transport my self around the city, do low budget faaji n make very little savings. It’s not easy sometimes but we haven’t begged neither have I taken any Loan from bank or app. I know dey do pass myself n my wife have been given me the most peace any man can think of. I hope things change real fast for me sha

Resist the urge to shalaye....especially to people who dont deserve it....

BeanmanX:
Between me and u who get mountains of problem before?,,u want men to spoil u without doing the same,,do u think men are foolish these days?..no man wants a liability, u should know that and know peace..
If na me be ur boyfriend i go just chop ur kpomo and push u far away...

Normal rantings from a frustrated NL boy. Like say sex no be mutual enjoyment. Kai. No sense for your head at all. The mileage no dey count.

I don't have time to trade words with you when the outside world holds better. No time for classless and unnecessary gender wars. I have learned to pick my words subtly and softly. Let me go fry some pancakes. Kachifo.

PlayMaker14:
Dear Zzor/Rozcol, the imaginary daughter of Lulu Briggs,

Let me start by telling you that I earn 92k monthly and I can categorically tell you that I fend for myself and my siblings and if the thought of settling down with a Nigeria lady ever cross my mind, then I will go ahead and marry her comfortably with that same monthly salary... I will still carter for all her needs even if she's a working class or liability.

Life is all about planning, you don't have to be on a monthly wage of 5mil for you to marry and be comfortable, with 100k, you can marry, live a comfortable life and enjoy your stay on earth.... You just have to plan and work smart.

So if u marry her on ur 92k and keep taking carebof her needs and 2 years later she got a gr8 job and earning 600k and her needs and taste adjust cos she go dey see how her colleagues are spending...will u still be able to meet up with her new taste on ur 92k salary....

Life is not defined and anyone can make money....paying all ur wives bills doesnt make u a man....just find sensible , supportive wife

Am doing great without jobs or 100k, the lord has being taking care of my family and living large more than many