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ednut1:
you are assuming everyone there is in finance

konvicted77:
Mehn wants women to also work, earn money and support the family.
but tell them to help in domestic chores to also support the family... hell will fall.

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

VeryWickedMan:
I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Fearyourcreator:
You too mumu ... Whats my name ... Tell me about me ... You over mumu ...

NigeriaB:
This one too much na ..

I know a guy earning 26k monthly and the wife is doing nothing ...and they are still together

VeryWickedMan:
I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Stop being unrealistic, your 92K can't do anything.

For example, I tell you I want to make my hair and I need 10-15k, would you count that as "ridiculous demands"?

DPlanB1:
I paid a brother of mine a visit this afternoon and I must confess the young man is doing well despite having 6 soldiers to feed (kids) funny enough his salary is slightly above 100k
Your mindset as a man and the understanding of the woman plays an important role in rising ur family
100m monthly may not sustain a family if wisdom is not applied
May God see us thru

Rozross:
Stop lying please

Kinzo0917:
. You think everyone spends recklessly like you?

seanwilliam:
you people forget that most people don’t rely 100% on salary .. how can your brother maintain slightly above 100k ( let’s say 120k) with 6 children… how how ?? Are they living in zamfara?



See you need to be practical pls.

kennyclassic:
Problem with nowadays ladies is that they don't look at the bigger picture. Why not intuitively ascertain the man's ambitions and his willingness to elevate. But no, all they do is asking what he earns monthly like one of my ex girlfriend was asking me. After my own observations I decided to end the relationship, she came back asking for us to continue. You think it's all money-money, till you meet the man that has all the money but missing the Numero Uno traits of a partner. Money is important, but look out for other important traits, knowing the man is willing to work his way out of penury and believing in him as you work together as a team. As he earns 100k, earn even if it's 50k or something. Contribute as well...

Ingredient88:
your name is Mumu man, 70years old mumu.

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

leksymaxy:
I was earning 60k when I met my wife while she was earning 180k, and I did not even know back then, I told her what I earn and she said we can make it work, through are connections in the teaching line, I was able to get a teaching job at festac for 130k and she later got a job of 260k for same festac, she was the one planning the relationship when I was earning 60k and she never complained about anything, I so much respected her because she made the relationship and the marriage so beautiful because she did not do unnecessary billings and always there to even cover my shame when I don't have much on me. Ladies of nowadays should learn how to help their men not turning them to poverty alleviation programs, if you pops can't get it for you when still young, why do you now put pressure on another man's son to do it for you?

VeryWickedMan:
I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Rozross:
Rent, you can hardly get a room selfcon below 150k, feeding? Transportation? Health? Clothes and miscellaneous expenses? I need a genuine and true breakdown. See ehn most people you talked about living happily under the 100k monthly have supports they are not telling you of. I hate to pretend that all is good when I know I’m sweating it within. Let’s be realistic

Rozross:
Going by your story, that’ll be 150k if the lady agrees to make 50k abi? So please sir kindly break it down for us on how you are going to be spending that 150k monthly to raise a family in this present NIGERIA. Your analysis will go a long way

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Rozross:
Most of these toxic men here are in their 20’s , it’s never a good thing to date a Nigerian man in his 20’s , they’ll choke and suffocate you. So much immaturity reeks all over them.

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.