Unyimekelvin:
how did you reduced yours cos, I have tried still, this shit keeping using me

First you admit you have a problem,and want to rid of it. Which you have done now.its a huge step.Try delete ALL your porn from every devices.Strive not to watch it.Take steps to stop masturbating. A day here,a week there,a month.We are people with our habits. With time you will see you can do without it.Even when you are down or alone.You will be fine

Unyimekelvin:
how did you reduced yours cos, I have tried still, this shit keeping using me

Your subconscious which makes you do, has been taken over by lust of flesh and pride if life. When you take over your subconscious you get rest.

How?

Quote me for direction

I feel your pain bro' I believe your right hand muscle will be bigger than your left hand muscle by now' If e no good for your health quit.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

the reason why u feel bad is because the act has dominion over you. Create a time table for when you’ll play bet( say only weekend matches and not virtual). Also if you masturbate countless times weekly, choose 2-3 days in the week in exception to Saturday and Sunday(worship days/eve)
What you must know is you can’t stop betting and masturbation cos it’s easy to come by. It’s not the action that hurts you, it’s the hope that you can stop that kills you. So accept what you are and control yourself by limitations.

[quote author=Unyimekelvin post=115899798]I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying no



Bros you can come out of these vices clean and clear. Call me let me show you how. Thanks. 08069079336

Unyimekelvin:
without what I'm trying to overcome, girlfriend is another set of burden.

A burden that will save your life

Go and find work that will keep you busy throughout the day daily, and your problem will start reducing

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

masturbation is not wholly bad, it's too much of it that is bad. For instance food is good but try eating too much of it and you will understand what am talking about �

The main problem is Gambling. Sex/Masturbation/Porn is a cool off, the damage has been done. No amount of Sex or porn can make you forget totally the money lost on gambling. I have been there and only GOD with a very conscious effort on your own side can make you overcome.

1st - Forgive yourself.
2nd - Decide and vow never to do Gambling again, deactivate your bet accounts.
3rd - Ask God to forgive and strengthen you to keep to your decision never to go back to Gambling.
4th - Stay away from friends and all social networks that gives you bet/odd updates.
5th - Writeoff all your financial losses, just let them go. You will build wealth via other legitimate means. e.g. Labour or skilll.
6th - Get a Job that can get your time occupied.
7th - Avoid staying alone, stay with family members or true friends who don't do any of those shits.
8th - As for the sex desire. Avoid porn and masturbation. Invest in real relationship that is aimed at marriage with a decent lady, not the type that would lead you further away.

It's achievable as long as you have decided and actively pursuing it. God be with us!

Unyimekelvin:
like what are you trying to say now, I needed advice not this shit you are saying.

fucker boy

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Hey, pray to God to heal you, take your mind and heart off all what you have lost and set a new path for yourself......trust me, you will be marvelled at your level of progress.
Remember trust God and be determine to get yourself out. Cheers and God bless!

Unyimekelvin:
what is 10k per week,talk about 80k sometimes 150k.. can't just calculate My Long losts

if you are staking this high, it means you are not betting bcus you lack money or because you are alone

Two things that makes a man play betting is to earn more money or just for the happiness (there's this joy that cones with standing at the front of that virtual and forecasting matches) this joy is the addiction, it will always draw you back to play again an again *when you are addicted to anything you are always happy why doing the stuff, but feel remorseful immediately after*.

The big question is why are you playing betting? You want to ride Benz, u want to build mansion etc is that your problem why you play betting. You have to identify the reason why u are playing betting Before you could stop it, what do you want to achieve that makes you think betting is the fastest way for you to achieve that.

During my days, I played betting bcus I needed money to see my self through school, bcus I was alone, I was even more addicted to betting than you are. I stopped the moment I started making little money daily and weekly that is enough for my upkeep, schooling, feeding and clothing. Atleast at that stage that is all my needs.

From my experience, the only two way you can stop betting addiction is either betting kills you, or you kill betting. Nobody can advise you from quitting betting, you will have to advise yourself. Kill it or it kills you

The only advice I have for you is once you stop, don't ever try playing again. Even if the game is 100 percent sure, do not play it. it will draw you dipper the very moment you played again.

Right now I don't even know the fixture of any premier League matches again, sometimes I even miss my favourite team matches because I don't know when dey are too play

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

You know.you have a problem and you know you aware supposed to stop, so help yourself and stop.

Eleyigidgan:
funny enough the person who introduced me into masturbation and taught me how to masturbate, his name is Unyime

Someone taught you how to masturbate? That's quite strange. Most people start this on their own, and keep it a secret from people around them.

My OP take my advice, ABEG continue betting and masturbation. But one day, nobody go give you sense to tell u to STOP both, although masturbation can't be completely stopped but I'm sure when you start to develop weak muscles around your waist that you can't manage walking a little distant. Am sure this signs will show when u enter ur 30s. Na that you go give your brain upgraded REBOOT.
This is a lesson i learnt as a chronic bettor and masturbator
Oga continue, I'm sure you will learn the HARD way

NewSoul:


You are wise, I like you. But you are not 100% correct though. Stopping masturbation is not by "drawing closer to God" if you know how many pastors, choristers, youth preachers, deacons and deaconesses are under the bondage of pornography and masturbation, you'll be alarmed. You mean they "are not drawn close to God enough"?

You maybe right about deactivating betting account as since I deactivated over a year ago I have not returned to it.

She can't understand... The addiction affects guys in a different way than it does for girls. So, she is thinking from a female point of view.

I was shocked one day like 12 years ago when my pastor was telling me about the number of workers in the church that come to him with this problem.

Goalnaldo:
I started masturbating at 18 now I'm 30 I still indulge in it. It's better than raping someone or sleeping with someone you don't know their health/medical history But you see that virtual, God! The ultimate destiny destroyer.The debts I'm owing today is because of that. I became a liar, something else because of it. Someone started a thread of how he overcame this addiction but didn't finish it. I don't know if bet companies settled him or what

Pls can you share the link to the person's post?

Goalnaldo:
I started masturbating at 18 now I'm 30 I still indulge in it. It's better than raping someone or sleeping with someone you don't know their health/medical history But you see that virtual, God! The ultimate destiny destroyer.The debts I'm owing today is because of that. I became a liar, something else because of it. Someone started a thread of how he overcame this addiction but didn't finish it. I don't know if bet companies settled him or what

Link to the thread pls?

Unyimekelvin:
i tried this, but after a week i went back to it again

Buid your will power and fight it with your last breath

frozen70:


I like the way you are monitoring my post

Back to your question

This guy in question is asking for help, so he needs advice on how to come out of his addiction before it gets to the level of the other guy in the post you are talking about

This guy is a bachelor and he needs to find his bearing before he looses all

This one is tired and willing to come out of those nonsense life style

The other guy in that post you are talking about is a complete nuisance who is not even seeing the problem he is putting his neck into

He already has a family yet gambles and live stupid life

So his wife should continue to suffer because she wants to keep a marriage that have driven her into depression

My dear, they are two different people in this issue
One is tired and wants to come out while still young

The other one is complacent with his stupidity and sees nothing wrong with it

Chai. You're always on point ma. I'm always on the look out for your posts.

To solve an addict is to pick another addict or channel the energy differently, we are all beings of habit. To solve masterbation, go and marry the gal of ur dream, to solve betting addiction, start playing a lesser betting game or style, since you play virtual a lot switch to real life games dat takes longer time to Finnish, and u can accumulate with small money to get that big effect, how long you want play #100 to #200 slip before it will reach the 10k to 40k u play daily. If this advice does not work , wait for it to injure u, wen it injures u, ur eye go clear, nobody go tell u to stop.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Unyimekelvin:
I'm ashame to say it

I know but you have to if they love you.

Are you shy talking to girls?

I taught I couldn't control my urge for sport bet till I went broke nobody tell me. Guy be resolute to stop it. Disable your ATM link to the bookie or take the extreme measure of not having an ATM. We guys don masturbate one way or the other Don't beat yourself over that but you gat know when to quit. Get busy like really fucking busy. If you can't afford a gf have some call girls within reach. Lastly always pray. Ironical abi, Addiction is from the devil. God is merciful him self dey pity us.

Kobojunkie:
All you have stated above simply reveals your lack of exposure to what is mental illness and what addiction truly is and how devastating it can be.

The statement in bold amounts to saying that a mad man can easily disallow what is madness since he admits to being mad. Or a cancer patient can stop the cancerous growth in his body since he admits to the reality of the growth. Reality does not work the way you pretend.

On the contrary, you sound stupid and ignorant.....

I stated clearly that addiction is a process....

At every stage of a certain addiction, the addict seems not to do something about it and it will keep regenerating to a difficult state .. Before it gets to the stage of madness... The addict have a reason to disallow it...

The OP admitted it.... It shows that he wants to start a process of disallowing it ... The next thing is for him to fight it. Either by reducing his frequent visit to porn sites and bet houses to having absolute control of his mental stability.

If the OP decides to follow your reasoning, he will get to a stage of death or madness.....

And if your opinion is right.. Learn not to accuse others of having zero exposure to things ....

I am not compelling you into buying into my opinion... You quoted me first and I stand my ground.... You should go teach your kids how to let addiction kill them because it's a mental illness and can't be controlled...

You can take a clue from the quote below...

Bribri:
I taught I couldn't control my urge for sport bet till I went broke nobody tell me. Guy be resolute to stop it. Disable your ATM link to the bookie or take the extreme measure of not having an ATM. We guys don masturbate one way or the other Don't beat yourself over that but you gat know when to quit. Get busy like really fucking busy. If you can't afford a gf have some call girls within reach. Lastly always pray. Ironical abi, Addiction is from the devil. God is merciful him self dey pity us.

hector:
You will be fine. Jusy masturbate and sleep. Thays whatii am doing now.

Bros, you want to wound persin with laugh this early morning?

Shollay20:
Am addicted gambler what I did to stop my own addiction.
1. Bet9ja
2. Merrybet
3. 1xbet
4. Nairabet
5. Betking
6. Sportybet
7. Msport
8. Betpawa
9. Bonanzawin
10. Naijabet
I have loss close to 4 million keep accumulating.
Now I emailed bet9ja to delete my betting account permanent it took Ages. Before I got it done. I did it to remain nine betting account and I left one Betpawa behind.
For the past 4 month. I did not bet on any sports events. One day feeling of winning big with 1000 came to my mind, I try to login to bet9ja and others betting account I got the same message your betting account is permanent ban, he pain me,. I say manutd, Chelsea, Arsenal man city must win their first match. Now I remember I have Betpawa account I try to login it enter and fund my betting account with 1000, before I knew anything 30000 went to sambisa forest. I emailed to Betpawa sharply to delete my betting account permanent it was done. Up till now I never bet.
@OP just delete your betting account.
Betking I emailed them to get my account deleted but they refused for like two weeks. I wasted like 80000 until I bumber them with plenty messages they now agreed to get my betting account deleted permanent.

Lol are they playing against trees..

Unyimekelvin:
what did mean by an attention??
If you don't have any shit to say waka abeggi...

Wey you!!.

Rest abeg!!!

fuck419:
The main problem is Gambling. Sex/Masturbation/Porn is a cool off, the damage has been done. No amount of Sex or porn can make you forget totally the money lost on gambling. I have been there and only GOD with a very conscious effort on your own side can make you overcome.

1st - Forgive yourself.
2nd - Decide and vow never to do Gambling again, deactivate your bet accounts.
3rd - Ask God to forgive and strengthen you to keep to your decision never to go back to Gambling.
4th - Stay away from friends and all social networks that gives you bet/odd updates.
5th - Writeoff all your financial losses, just let them go. You will build wealth via other legitimate means. e.g. Labour or skilll.
6th - Get a Job that can get your time occupied.
7th - Avoid staying alone, stay with family members or true friends who don't do any of those shits.
8th - As for the sex desire. Avoid porn and masturbation. Invest in real relationship that is aimed at marriage with a decent lady, not the type that would lead you further away.

It's achievable as long as you have decided and actively pursuing it. God be with us!

Forgive Yourself. True & Deep.

grandstar:


I know but you have to if they love you.

Are you shy talking to girls?

yeah 100%

OP. I don't know if you can handle it but it is a simple suggestion.

Anytime you masturbate or play bet, punish yourself by fasting for 3 days or dash the person you hate the most 10, 000 Naira.

Once you harbour the punishment more than you enjoy the acts, you will be motivated to stop those acts.

Even the richest people in the world masturbate, guy na gambling be ur problem,just try replace the urge to gamble with another good habit there are step to stop gambling,mind u don't just stop it once if u try to force urself out u will still go back and become worst,first step, start from making out budget for gambling,2nd step, reduce ur staking, 3rd always buy expensive food or cool drink and be drinking while gambling, 4 don't always hope to win,take it as fun, 5th,think about the business ur doing which is gambling,ask urself how are they making this money that u want to win, if people should be winning this game how can their business survive, not even in one week, after paying taxes, paying their workers paying rent, fueling data etc, and u still want to go and collect Money from them is just a scam both visual, live bet, and so on are all scam, don't. Don't think of quick rich, success comes gradually.

Suicide the best option for you at the moment...

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now