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TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

You are 29. Don't lock yourself down in any nonsense relationship. Within 2 months of meeting a guy, you should define and discern the direction the relationship is headed.

Please don't allow people waste your time for you.

You are already wasting your precious time as you rightly mentioned.
Learn to love those who love you and not those you love.
Love is give and return.
The equation cannot be balanced if it's one way like yours.
My dear, you are begging for love. And you are being unduly used in the process.
Learn to keep your legs closed.

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

You are forcing yourself on the guy!

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

Because of the bolded, I'll advise you. You call him boyfriend but nigga sees you as just another cum pit so move on with your life if you love yourself.

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

You don't have problem with his stinginess but you mentioned it. There is nothing wrong with you not liking his stinginess

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

Breakup with him and date me biko

No such thing as a long distance relationship. Either or both parties will definitely have another person they can be with physically at request.

Olayinka8793:
And here I am looking for a commited girl to have something serious with while the play boy you called a boyfriend is nonchalant towards you and the relationship.
Anyway, should you decide to dump him and meet a guy who will value you and be committed, holla me, I am looking to settle down in the next 6 months, you won't regret it.

A sexxx starved marauder appears

fman:
What are you waiting for?
Breakup and come date me.
I promise I go get ur time.
U deserve better than being a side chick to him.
I go make u main chick.
Trust me

Simpo

He wasn't dating you, so no need for breakup, you're a just a SIMPly female. Just stop your obsession already and you'll be fine

Niwdog:
The truth is that the guy have multiple girlfriends
The guy in question is not in any serious relationship including yours
This type of guys that's how they behave till they settle down
If you serve am breakfast e go belike you serve am beer, he won't send

And before you know she forgets all the advice here and runs back to him. Women are naturally attracted to men who don't send them, even though it's clearly written on the wall. You will be surprised there's one mumu dieing to have her attention but she prefers to be someone else's scrap

SPAMBOX7:
Simpo

Verified.

Drsnives:
My gender can fuc.kup..
Without even verifying op's post or hearing from both sides to know if the fault lies with her yet you are already calling your fellow guy, hussler a swine.. shame on you

Don't mind the simp. He did tha so she can reply his pm who knows

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

i think the people that comment gave u a genuine advice.
I was actually expecting insults but i was happy about the comments.

Its time to let ur head decide than ur heart

Hmmmm, please leave that guy and save your self some heart breaks

SPAMBOX7:
Don't mind the simp. He did tha so she can reply his pm who knows

Lol. I hate niggers like that..

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

please shine your eyes

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

You’re dating yourself dear

Onitemhi:
No dull ham my sisteq just waka jeje from being a sex product

Thank you very much

jayslim7:
Talk to him about your concern again, if these attitudes continues, pls go find someone else. U just need to confirm that he is not serious with u.

I've complained about it severally and I realized I should minimize it so I won't be a nag.

dontrulee:
Hmmm... I believe your side of the story though it may not be the complete story. Sorry for all you've been through (such is life and we all have our shares of ups and downs). Unfortunately a relationship that is one sided will not last long and from what you posted, the guy is just wasting your time and using you to cure his sexual urge. You're a queen, pack yourself and move forward. Trust me, there is a guy out there who will do everything within his power to make you happy. If you want to enjoy a relationship, your partner must love you more than you love your partner if not, you'll not be happy in the relationship. Take care of yourself.

PS: You can't change a man, you've noticed the red flags already, are you bold enough to move forward?? Wishing you the best in Life

Thank you very much sir, I appreciate it[color=#006600][/color]

TS2911:
I am not desperate sir

get out of that relationship and stop being a slave

TS2911:
Thank you very much

no worry jawe my sistes just take two chilled bottles of heneiken and move on with ya cool life

Drsnives:
Lol. I hate niggers like that..

That's how stars simps do

You're already dating yourself. You're scare did leaving that relationshipYou're already dating yourself. You're scare did leaving that relationship...

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

Don't mind him. Come and date me.

Just move on with your life. Do not stay were u are not valued. If a guy doesn't love you and a girl doesn't love you ... Just walk away any relationship not mutual is headed for the rocks

You go soon taste breakfast. Go ask wetin burna boy said about breakfast. Urs would be served cold aha.

Drsnives:
My gender can fuc.kup..
Without even verifying op's post or hearing from both sides to know if the fault lies with her yet you are already calling your fellow guy, hussler a swine.. shame on you

Shame on you too.Why are you crying louder than the bereaved?

Onyiiobi7735:
Shame on you too.Why are you crying louder than the bereaved?

No wonder our opposite gender don't take us serious cos of simp like you. Am sure you are the type that thanks a lady for accepting your friend request. Woo

Drsnives:
No wonder our opposite gender don't take us serious cos of simp like you. Am sure you are the type that thanks a lady for accepting your friend request. Woo

Lol! You are so pathetic.Who's talking about that with you? Keep crying, sentimental fool.