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God1000:
The relationship wasn't built on true love, but on money and material things, that's the reason for her new behaviour and cheating since that money isn't available again

Just let her go, the earlier the better

This is why I laugh when ladies set ridiculous standards forgetting that something can happen tomorrow, that's when true love will prevail, but some of them aren't even ready to endure with a man when the chips are down

As a lady, if you date or marry a man because of his money, what happens when that money is gone, you dump him and move to another man, that's nonsense

Sorry about your situation, you will find another good woman.

And how many relationships are built on true love? Is it the guy in turkey she is really in love with? Or the other guy she is banging in nigeria? She is not even faithful to any of the 2 so when is she really going to date someone she loves?
Anybody taking a woman serious in this generation is waiting for a rude shock

blazingblender:
Mehn this is so painful sincerely...
Why is love so hard to find ?
True love ....
Is scam
The only person you can love truelly is yourself
..
Sometimes we don't even love our selfs

Bro don’t let anybody deceive you. You don’t need any stupid love to be happy or achieve your dreams in life.
I have come this far without a woman’s love.
Travelled, made money, enjoyed without a woman’s love.
Yes, I date women and I enjoy them but that is as far as it is. I don’t take them serious

emmaodet:
Bro don’t let anybody deceive you. You don’t need any stupid love to be happy or achieve your dreams in life.
I have come this far without a woman’s love.
Travelled, made money, enjoyed without a woman’s love.
Yes, I date women and I enjoy them but that is as far as it is. I don’t take them serious

Lit
But at some point if you see true love you will know it's sweet while it lasts

[quote author=cocoboss post=116137334][/quote]Tbh, I don’t think it is the book that worked.

Deep down, your guts has been telling you something is wrong and your woman is cheating, you only had to face your fear by taking the bold action.

Love is a sensation. Why should you expect loyalty from a lover ?

If you want loyalty, find someone loyal and love them. You just love anything and expect loyalty in a country where most ladies and funded by hook up

blazingblender:
Lit
But at some point if you see true love you will know it's sweet while it lasts

Well, I don’t need true love.
They should keep it.
What I need from a woman is respect, rest of mind, good sex and food etc not true love.
True love is intangible and can’t be quantified or seen like the things I mentioned.

It's so painful cocoboss, you have learnt the hard way and it's a pity it's people with good intention that suffer this mostly...


Be like we go start to dey share photos of these jilters alongside the thread so many of us out there can know who to avoid because as you dumped her now, another innocent fellow will fall in...

She is only begging you to get the phone back, because you have set back her transactions for days before she gets another....

...

emmaodet:
Tbh, I don’t think it is the book that worked.

Deep down, your guts has been telling you something is wrong and your woman is cheating, you only had to face your fear by taking the bold action.

Very true, it was not the book, the signs were there, with communication not frequent as usual but he still did not believe she could do it, my experience, I just lock up till the day the truth will be made known in the open as she gave excuse of been unable to show up, and when truth came out I messaged her to let her know and we have not even seen since then.

op you never see anything...I pray the worst hit you hard.. nonsense

keep carrying woman matter for head..id*ot

Klass99:
Innocent fellow, kwa? E be like say you don haze and you dey high.

Kayode there's nothing innocent about you people no dey deceive yourself abeg.

Hahahaha, both gender are guilty and both gender are victims, na make we no jam bad person. At least we will know who to avoid because this game some of us have conscience and can't hurt people's feelings, I can speak for myself.

cayorday89:
Very true, it was not the book, the signs were there, with communication not frequent as usual but he still did not believe she could do it, my experience, I just lock up till the day the truth will be made known in the open as she gave excuse of been unable to show up, and when truth came out I messaged her to let her know and we have not even seen since then.

My brother. You own good ooo
I don’t need any useless love to be happy in this life.
Keep your love. Anything that doesn’t pay my bills is useless. Love doesn’t pay my bills and it is useless.

emmyluizzz:
op you never see anything...I pray the worst hit you hard.. nonsense


keep carrying woman matter for head..id*ot

Of a truth op effed up, but he no need the swear wey you dey carry give am... I feel his pain and I am sure he has learnt, only that he will have double minds and doubt the good ones from now on..

emmaodet:
My brother. You own good ooo
I don’t need any useless love to be happy in this life.
Keep your love. Anything that doesn’t pay my bills is useless. Love doesn’t pay my bills and it is useless.

Oga Emma, you don marry na, we still dey market and parents no get two prayers pass this time next year na with wofe and children especially on b'days...

God1000:
Lol, democrats have a wider and broder vision of inclusive democracy, they embrace everyone regardless of race, gender and creed

Stop feeding off liberal lies. Satanism, LGBTQ+++ trash, affirmative action, wokeness, abortion even up till birth, soft on crime, lawlessness, Marijuana and other drugs enablement etc is your definition of inclusive democracy?

You claim to believe in God but you support democrats that even wanna change the meaning and true purpose of Christianity.
In the past we do have conservative democrats now all we have is socialists on steroids. They ain't even liberal anymore.
The democrats are even the real racists.

Wake up from liberal bubble!

cayorday89:
Oga Emma, you don marry na, we still dey market and parents no get two prayers pass this time next year na with wofe and children especially on b'days...

Bro, don't let anybody put pressure on you to marry.
Time has changed. We are not in the era of our parent so they don't know what is happening or how bad and damaged the modern women are. They just want you to marry.
They think the modern woman is ready to endure like them that drank garri with hubby, went to farm, stayed in one room apartment with hubby (toilet outside the house, kitchen in another place) etc
Who does that now?
Abeg, enjoy your life Kayode . Enjoy am ooooo
If you see reasonable girl that is ready to hustle with you, fine if not abeg maintain status

Forgive her, but never take her back

Bruv just move on, she ain't worth your love.
I can relate to this, similar thing happened but mine was I got scammed by a real close friend she warned me about that she doesn't like him and she's been bleeping one guy she claimed is her distant cousin, started bleeping another dude she met on facebook and slept with her baby daddy some months back. These hoes ain't loyal bruv

emmaodet:


Bro, don't let anybody put pressure on you to marry.
Time has changed. We are not in the era of our parent so they don't know what is happening or how bad and damaged the modern women are. They just want you to marry.
They think the modern woman is ready to endure like them that drank garri with hubby, went to farm, stayed in one room apartment with hubby (toilet outside the house, kitchen in another place) etc
Who does that now?
Abeg, enjoy your life Kayode . Enjoy am ooooo
If you see reasonable girl that is ready to hustle with you, fine if not abeg maintain status

Thanks boss, for the enjoyment sef I never even gallant not to talk of carrying another's cross.

immortalcrown:
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference?

If she no beg, how she go take get the phone to communicate with her other lovers, at least op is out of the equation, must lack of phone make her lose others too?

cayorday89:
If she no beg, how she go take get the phone to communicate with her other lovers, at least op is out of the equation, must lack of phone make her lose others too?

Actually the begging continued when I gave her the phone but I know she’s trying to manipulate me , hence why I will never forgive her

I don’t pity you, reasons best kept to myself.

cocoboss:
Actually the begging continued when I gave her the phone but I know she’s trying to manipulate me , hence why I will never forgive her

If it's the forgiveness she needs, give her and let her go with a stern warning that you don't want to see her around you or anywhere close to you, if not you will continue from where you stopped rendering help financial wise.

FettyWilliams:
Bruv just move on, she ain't worth your love.
I can relate to this, similar thing happened but mine was I got scammed by a real close friend she warned me about that she doesn't like him and she's been bleeping one guy she claimed is her distant cousin, started bleeping another dude she met on facebook and slept with her baby daddy some months back. These hoes ain't loyal bruv

Na waaa oooo
How many people she come dey bleep? Including you making 4?

Are you a bet9ja cashier

So sorry bro. Kindly assist me with that prayer material.
You can WhatsApp me with 8157626332.
Thanks

The girls of today are runz material not wife material. Ashawo is inside their blood.

immortalcrown:
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference?

we women are confused lot

What you’ve gone through is the norm in most relationships. Some people are in the same situation as you but haven’t found out yet. I have a buddy who is based in Australia, he visits Dubai twice a year and he organizes women from Nigeria to join him, most of them are married, engaged or in relationships.

Your relationship is temporary, even when you marry, someone else could take her. Whatever you would regret doing for her if you find out she’s cheating, don’t do it. Imagine how much you spent on her and her brother, if you saved that money as back up fund you would have something to fall back to when your business took a hit.

Omooo.
I learnt long time ago.
Those people's greatest weapon is manipulation. Once d money is not there again omo forger it they will betray u. So always keep ur money in ur pocket. Wat makes it always painful is d amount invested just to show u can take care if them.nothing like love bro.
Take hrt.

Wotoporiously speaking

And they one's that don't benefit shit from you all in the name of love will start saying that men are scumb.

Soldier up my nigga, No loseguard again

Sorry bro.
This problem will surely happen in any relationship when one party is the one making sacrifices to make it work and the other offer non but feel entitled.
It will be so difficult for you to move on due to your investments into the relationship but the dog will move on easily.

cocoboss:
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