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Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by PeachtreeReside(f): 3:39pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
MIL should have been coming and going till the Godmother leaves. Your wife's logic is seriously flawed. 1 room is not comfortable for 2 talkless of 4 adults. Why do you people like to glorify suffering as if there is a medal to be won for being the most suffer heads of all SUFFERHEADS!!!!!!¡ Talmabout 15 people stayed in half a room for years and were rejoicing in that deplorable state of inconvenience.... Poverty of the mind and soul is a bad thing . Government should regulate housing ASAP!!! |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Helpout12345: 3:41pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
And be careful of all those teenagers advising up there. It's beyond their understanding at the moment. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Helpout12345: 3:46pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
kemjoe: |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by lekonso: 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
The mother in law would have waited till Wednesday after the godmother would have left. But now that the wife's mother has has already packed her load to your house, asking her to go back might look like an insult to her, so the best thing to do is to manage the situation till Wednesday when the godmother leaves and their will be space for you. It does not mean you weak, it is an application of wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Promosaver: 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Bayyajidda: You have to understand that the other gender get problem(big one),what will happen if she allows her fellow gender to stay But her actions are telling already |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Smyk13: 3:55pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Come o, I thought the mother in-law suppose to have been with her daughter during and after the she deliver, so as to help in taking care of both her daughter and grant child? Why did she have to wait until after some days when a godmother might have already done the hardest of the work before she decided to come over? Or, was she not aware that her daughter was pregnant and she is about to deliver? |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Gbadespet(m): 3:56pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
To me that mother in law na witch coz she knows there is someone attending to her daughter even while she stayed few street away from theirs,she only wanted to create trouble by coming and the wife is also at fault coz I know her mother must have informed her about her coming and she ought to have explained the situation of things to her and also advise her to wait till Wednesday... Both the wife and her mother get witch..shikena |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Babathanks(m): 4:03pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Candidlady:Is that a proper way to advice someone? Seems you are a saint |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Chibaby87(f): 4:06pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Your mother inlaw shouldn't come unannounced, she suppose to let you and your wife know before coming for omugwo. Pls settle it amicably. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by SPAMBOX7: 4:12pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
This kind people no need advice. Cos man wey no Sabi handle simple home matters like this no suppose marry sef but here we are. Anyways sha unto the next one 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Lexusgs430: 4:26pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Where have real men with real balls, vanished to ........ |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by pongwa(m): 4:29pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
UncleDaddy2017:pomo man na in you be. You no even get control inside your own home tue |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by stanisbaratheon: 4:30pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
You need to be bold in your marriage. You don't allow emotions to get the better of you. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by pongwa(m): 4:30pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Gbadespet:weldone witch spotter |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by pongwa(m): 4:31pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345:some teenagers get sense pass adults o |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Abusadiq01(m): 4:36pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
UncleDaddy2017: Which one be godmother again |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Helpout12345: 4:38pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
pongwa: You are right in some cases. Because I believe even stupid people get old. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by pongwa(m): 4:40pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345:succinct! |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Gbadespet(m): 5:06pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
pongwa:Is our work now,soft work |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by jamesbridget13(f): 5:32pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Why did you guys had to drag someone from another state knowing full well that ur mom n hers live close by. Godmother for come during dedication with that u will know it's for a few days highest. Now u just have to manage n accommodate them but if u know u won't be able to feed them comfortably please call your wife n explain to her to talk to her mom about d issue. But if u are sure feeding isn't an issue, just manage. The issue of where to sleep, ur wife should ask her GM to join them in d room. Concerning ur changing n using d rest room. Inform ur wife whenever u want to. She would ask them to all go out for u to use d convenience n change properly. If u just want to pee, kindly knock on d door n wait for a positive response before u step in. When u are in d rest room, kindly shut d door from d inside Please that is how most couple with limited space manage this omugwo thing. Remember some people dey face me I face you |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by achimendy(m): 5:34pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Candidlady: |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by achimendy(m): 5:38pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
[quote author=Candidlady post=116155636] You want your wife's mum to pack her kaya back to her house so your wife's so called godmother could stay Or am imissing something Stewpid question please 1. This her godmother who/what is she to you 2. Who invited the godmother over (something tells me you were the one that invited her) For her to use such lines My wife later came to me outside and was annoyed "that I dont welcome her mother in my house." Lemme drift a Lil please what is the gender of your kid? If it is a boy child kindly look for the neatest waste bin all the best to you In hausa we refer to people like you as BANZA KAWAI OR AKUYA |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by emmyN(m): 5:50pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Ruke1989:
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Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Joshcoli(m): 5:51pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
A woman who just gave birth is normally wild... Na simple thing dey trigger them Just manage the situation till everything normalise |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by wizkidblogger(f): 5:52pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
lol. if you na get 2 or 3 bedroom flat, all these drams won't have happened. abeg, guys should be very ready before getting married n making babes jare next story pls |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by LadyRosa(f): 5:54pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Oyiboman69: Lol. And then when he wants to take his bath,both women will stay on the sitting room untill he is done with his routine, morning and evening. Is it better one goes to reduce inconveniences? We are not abroad,but in Nigeria. What is applicable in Naija is what we are dealing with on this issue. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by seunmind44: 5:57pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Marriage count me out, baby mama all the way |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
OriOko88:.. he didnt ask. if he did, i would and will allow him into my dormitory. but i guess he went to his brother's house or slept at work those few days.. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Sarsaproko: 6:10pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Just manage until Wednesday nau.. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Bisolanaomi(f): 6:16pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Who invited Godmother sef |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Candidlady: I weep for the innocent man that will fall into your hands (Trap). I've been observing you closely than you think. I need see what you look like to help the innocent male folks. |
Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Eberex(m): 6:35pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
This one is heavy. The godmother must be fond with your wife for her to come all the way down to assist her. That alone is a sacrifice. The mother lives closeby and do visit her during the day and also know about this godmother. Did she show appreciation and grateful for the care the godmother has shown by coming far to take care of her daughter? Women are funny creatures you know? Communication was key here or the mother deliberately decided to inconvenience the godmother. Being her mother, yes she must come first but in this case I'm sure she knew she would be going back on Wednesday so why not sacrifice those few days and keep visiting during the day? As the man I don't see any wrong doing. |
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