₦airaland Forum

phemmyfour:
It's the upbringing giving to most of them got. Their success in life is tied to marrying a wealthy man

nazicartel:
This one deh find trend. They are all the same. Most of these girls will make your life uncomfortable if you don't have money. The best is to avoid them

Yewandequeen:
Very nice.

Na yahoo Boys spoil most of them and the worst part is they dont earn 1kobo yet want to be living large.

If many of these ladies work hard and know how hard it is to make money they will appreciate the effort and every penny of a broke guy.
No one wishes to be broke

pansophist:
The calabar girl just put all of us in a long thing.

Lollittaa:
MEN caused it. Sex is supposed to be free or at least, women should pay men for sex.
But y'all got greedy and whatnot to chase what's out of reach.

Heartfelt727:
Help with data oo abeggi

cooooooks:
Send funds. I do long time.

Lollittaa:
You're off the menu

pansophist:
Yes, men created this monster. Its the irresponsibility of Nigerian men that made Nigerian woman what they've come to become.

I know because I have lived in at least five countries, visited dozens more, and always study the social and intergender dynamics in these places. Make I clear you another story.

I remember when one Turkish girl would never had sex with any guys while on student dormitory, she would flirt, kiss and romance but sex? Never. Sex de hungry her, but she knows the problem that awaits her back home if she does not retain her virginity.

It would be hard for her to get married, since in Muslim countries, virginity is prized high. Her behaviour was shaped due to the what the men who have created Turkish society will never accept, and it's either she moved out of Turkey if she wants to be promiscuous, or live up to what the society expected from her by retaining her virginity.

Meanwhile in one country in West Africa wey de close to Cameroon, a woman will be nacked by useless boys, then a responsible man go come marry am in a grand style, and give her the treatment that a woman who kept her virginity should receive. So men actually downgrade the institution of marriage themselves.

We somehow destroy all mechanism to hold women accountable. No matter how they mess up reach, men somehow go exempt them from the consequences. Meanwhile, if a man didn't worked hard and use his life do better thing, women will hold you accountable by ignoring you. They are quite brutal at that.

You don't even have to go far to see the dynamics. Northern Nigeria is more Conservative than the South. Go to Chad and Niger, you'll see the same thing. Virgins everywhere. Naija men, una f up big time.

emmaodet:
Panso, thanks for your contribution on my latest thread.

You once said something about cheap flights within Europe less than $20.
Is it still available? i am planning vacation next year and weighing my options.

pansophist:
Yes. Check Ryanair.com and wizzair.com. then maybe transavia.com and easyjet.com. but the first two are the cheapest.

Depends on where you're going, but from major airports like London Stansted/Gatwick or Dublin Airport, you'll fly almost to anywhere in europe for less than 20 usd.

I flew for one euros before but that was a promo, but ten to twenty euros are the norm. So it's actually cheaper to fly to another country, than to take a taxi to the airport. Isn't europe great?

emmaodet:
Thanks bro. Will check them out.

o wonder you do travel regularly round europe but with my nigeria shenghen visa, i shouldn't have issues traveling within europe?

pansophist:
Women may be hypergamous, but it is men that facilitate hypergamy. If hypergamy is a passenger, then men are the driver and the conductor. Women are integrators, not creators.

For example guys that have being with women from other countries always testify how non-materialistic many of the girls are. Your so-called yahoo boys would be ignored in countries like Norway or Slovakia because the men over there didn't use money to demonstrate love.

I remember going on a date with a Finnish girl and as a fresh-of-the-boat naija boy, I wanted to pay for the date as my duty but she refused. Like not refuse as a ploy to make me intensify my desire to pay, but proper refusal like no, don't pay for me.

She sees herself as a matured adult that is responsible for herself and not a burden to others. She believe its unfair to make me pay when she is not even my gf yet. And to not make me have a bad impression of her. She respect herself.

And its because the men in those countries didn't create an obsessively materialistic society. Look at our music, movies and culture, money is god. It is glorified and no matter how evil a person is, money will make him an angel. Nigerians worship money, it comes before morality.

Which makes the country a fertile soil for materialism and hypergamy to germinate and strong. The girl you're confessing love to has hundreds of men in the dm giving her free money just to appreciate her beauty. Buying her expensive phones, but the end result is that you damage alot of this Women. They become lazy and entitled.

Because when you train someone to know how to spend, flex, enjoy, without knowing the virtue of hardwork, you've created problems for yourself. I know so many guys that are broke as hell, some work in factories, but their younger sisters are all living large without working. How can you explain that?

These girls will go into their late 20's and 30's, creating stupid rules that a man earning 100k is not good enough for her. Would you blame her? She is reacting base on the prevalent culture of her society. Men creates the society, and women integrate into it. Let that sink on.