Spiritual217:


Blaming the men
Are the women stupid enough not to have the freewill to say "No" and hustle (no b ashawo hussle)

Fahvvy:
@ednut1

An adult female makes a conscious decision to become a who.re and rather than hold her accountable for her own actions, you're blaming other people?? What kind of stupid reasoning is this?! ...

And even if you're saying "demand creates supply" are females piece of goods?! Don't they have free wills to make their own choices?!

So like this now, a man will go and steal and rather than blame him you'll say "well, since there's a demand for rich men and you know that the country is bad, I had to steal to become rich" ...

Mtttwwwwwww SMH ...

Fahvvy:


The sooner you realize that men and women are different and are held to different standards the better for you ...

Just as when it comes to financial matters, men are held to a higher standards than women (a woman can be broke and jobless and still be respected by her man, but for a man? Nahhhh, not so much....)

So also when it comes to sexual related matters, the females are held to a higher standards than men ....

It's not fair, but that's how it is ...

FreeSpirited:

U are a foolish juvenile....take ur woman asslicking to Facebook...

FreeSpirited:
Once a lady realises she has a banging hot body, probably from so much admiration from guys and men, the next lofty agenda on her checklist is to become a prostitute.
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This is so rife and has been confirmed time and time again in our society, and I'm sick of it!
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I seriously suspect most beautiful ladies with killer body and i have zero regard for them, as they are quick to take advantage of the attention they get just to cash out, why? Under the veil of that killer body is a chicken brain with low self esteema. I don't even rate them.
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It's one of the reasons i think a child should be educated, and not only that, a girl child must be handled with strict hand when growing up, Infact unnecessary friendship and peer forming should be discouraged. Rather, skill building, moral and intellectual development should be fostered in them.
All our girls are now ashawo, i mean the ones with hot body, even when they are ugly o..
..See them everywhere on social media, Tiktok, Instagram, Tinder, shame go cash u, and they are brazen and shameless abt displaying dier bodies.
To marry these days is really a big risk cos most ladies of nowadays actually believe in the idea of sleeping with anybody for Money. Most guys have married prostitute in disguise...
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If your babe have a banging body, I sorry for you.
If you have a babe with killer shape and she doesn't have this spirit of Ashawo, or coded ashawo, you are a lucky human being indeed




I wish they can have a shift in mentality.

Lvgirl:




My brother it will be so hard for them to shift focus ..all they want is quick cash. A girl and her friend came over to my friend place to give her BJ. Very innocent looking girls. I was mad at him but what can I do. The guy jus flew into the country from Poland.
This girls have nothing to offer well may be a very few sha.

sweetman2022:

I can see you and your cohorts in crime quoting me just to justify your lusts towards sex. You guys are afraid of receiving what you created. You guys want to go around and sleep with numerous women then come tomorrow and said you are looking for a virgin. I can't stop laughing at you guys foolishness. You guys will marry those girls one way or the other. You guys believe sleeping around make you alpha or grows your ego as a man. You will still come in the future that your wife is cheating on you because that is what you deserved.

Yusufisraelj:


You must be fantastically stupid, why insult him like that?

You argue with facts not emotion's.

Back to your useless topic, it travel both ways you can't expect morals in females while men take advantage of the weaknesses (financial in this case) in women.

However as it will always be stated in the intelligence community you always have a choice to choose between right and wrong.

But again I'll say may your troubles be small, because if some people explain thier life to you, you most likely don't have an answer. If you've been opportuned stay humble and shun careless lifestyles rather than pass blames.

Offkos some ladies deserves what comes to them likewise the men.

AishaDant


You're still on about me and him when I don't even know him. !

AishaDant:



I'll just assume you're a dirty old witch on here seeking relevance.

I said what I said.

AishaDant:


You're not just a dirty old witch. You are an insane dirty old witch.

I'm in my early twenties and my profile picture is me.

Now you can drink acid and die because my beauty is going to last for a very long time and you wish I was running of men to admire me. Keep wishing!

Dirty old witch!

Divay22:

You live in warri abi?

Fahvvy:


My chief....
You sound like a smart man who is living in a deluded and fantascious reality...

One thing you need to understand is that Men and Women are different and they're both held to different standards...

In an ideal world, what is good for the gadner would be also good for the goose, but in this reality, it's very far from it...

In this reality sir, it is inexcusable for a man to be broke, but for a woman, not so much... If you bring a broke man and a broke woman and present them before the society, the man will MOST DEFINITELY suffer more backlash than the woman ever will (that is if she will suffer any at all)...

Same thing applies here sir, a woman sleeping around is inexcusable and she is bound to suffer more backlash than her male counterpart...

It's not fair, but that's the reality we live in...




Oga men and women are not the same o!!!!!!
If you understand this, you will see the "erroneousness" of your write up ...

You say men sleep around and yet turn back to criticize the women who do, that's true, but don't very wretched and broke women also criticize men for being broke?? and yet when they do, I don't see you take this stand I don't see you also open threads and make comments that hold women "accountable" isn't that hypocrisy? ....

I'm not saying it's fair sir, but this is the world we live in in ....

And argue all we want, this will not be changing anytime soon, you might as well try and figure out a way around it....



You keep talking about men "changing their Orientation", how about the women? Aren't they beings with the ability to choose? Can't they say no to premarital sex knowing fully well that they will be more societal backlash on them than their male counterpart?

Lemme paint you a picture sir...
If you and I were to do business together, let's say you contribute 99million and I contribute 1million, who do you think should be most careful?? You right??

That's simply because if things goes south you have more to lose than I do, so wouldn't it be smart for you to do all your checks and balances? Wouldn't it be smart for you to be extra careful knowing fully well that you're the one who would suffer the most consequence??

Apply the same thing here sir...
A woman knowing that she has FAR MORE to lose when it comes to issues such as this, shouldn't she be the one who is most careful??

I know it's not fair, but it is what it is...

Thermodynamics:

I'm a man and I don't sleep around, the truth is, I'm still a virgin, I've dated only 3 girls in the past. I broke up with the 3 of them because they kept pressuring me for sex, till date 2 of them are still on my neck trying to come back.

I did not allow them because I do not want to waste their time, I cannot marry any of them. They both have an history of abortion and also have a reasonable amount of body count.

I never smash anybody future wife, why I go come marry person when many men don smash. Shuu

etrange:


You are absolutely right. You don't deserve that at an individual level. But the point is, it's a collective bargain. Men sleep with women. The only plausible outcome is that men would like marry women that other men have slept with. Expecting any other thing is illogical. Of course, they're virgin girls out there, but they are as rare as you, my friend. And many of them might end up with undeserving men. Like I said, it's a collective bargain. For there to be a change, both genders must key in to the single partner mindset at least.

AishaDant:


You're not just a dirty old witch. You are an insane dirty old witch.

I'm in my early twenties and my profile picture is me.

Now you can drink acid and die because my beauty is going to last for a very long time and you wish I was running of men to admire me. Keep wishing!

Dirty old witch!

FreeSpirited:

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Young guys who marry those evening newspaper gals that have shared the coochie to a whole community are so naive that they pay for it
One reason i dont do relationship with ladies over 25......bye bye...except to smash and run...
Infact any lady above 25/26 upward on social media is a No No for me

AishaDant:


You're not just a dirty old witch. You are an insane dirty old witch.

I'm in my early twenties and my profile picture is me.

Now you can drink acid and die because my beauty is going to last for a very long time and you wish I was running of men to admire me. Keep wishing!

Dirty old witch!

Thermodynamics:


Other men can marry a non virgin but not me, I'll not value the woman, I'll end up maltreating her and having various side chicks.

No matter how you look at it or what you believe the truth is, a woman's virtue is way more important than that of a man, thats how it is and that's how it has always been. A man will take care of his wife for the rest of his life, both financially and otherwise, anything that concerns the woman is on the man's head, the least she can do is to come into the marriage with her dignity intact, not with a body count of 500 where several men have spanked her in the ass.

After sucking several men's prick for years you now want to come and expect me to treat you like a queen, that will never happen.

etrange:


The entirety of your argument revolves around "it's not fair, but it is the world we live in". You've come to accept what men do as the nature of men. You don't think it can be changed or, to be frank, you don't really want it to change because it would cut short on your freedom. So you make your side constant while trying to change a dependent variable. Any science or even social science student would tell you it's a waste of time. It only helps you win arguments but it doesn't bring about any practical change.

One could say that women sleeping around is not fair but it's also the world we live in. However, the truth is, there's nothing like "the world we live". Everything is subject to change. You can't keep doing the same thing over and over again and expect a different result. In our homes, we monitor how the girls dress, how they talk or walk, who they talk to, how they cook, etc., and prepare them primarily to be good dependent humans. We give the boys the laissez-faire to virtually anything. Then at the end, we throw these same boys and girls into the same society and expect one gender to keep saying "no" because, even though it is not fair, it is the world we live in. What you fail to realize is that humans doing anything for money is not fair but that's also the world we live in. And no, I don't need to create threads about women that broke-shame men, we already have a lot of that created by my fellow men.

Seriously, if you're really okay with the world we live in, what then is the essence of this thread? If figuring out a way to live with it is the only option, why are we having this chat? This thread exists because we know that these things could change. The only problem is that we're selective about what we want to change. We want to have it all. We want to keep sleeping around with girls and we also want these girls to be decent virgins so we can marry them later. I don't think anything describes eating one's cake and still having it more that this. This is not a girl vs boy thing. It only becomes that when one gender is not ready to put in the work. But the moment we realize it's our collective responsibility to change things, then all hands will be on deck to reduce prostitution, and believe me, it'll also eliminate broke-shaming men.

etrange:


You're a virgin, you can keep looking for one. That's valid and I really hope you find one. But to be practical, this argument we're having, regardless of who wins, will not change anything. If I say yes, a woman's virtue is more important, and then y'all keep writing epistles about the decline in morality, nothing changes. That is because 1 + 1 can never be 3. It is impossible for men to be sleeping around and the society will be full of virtuous virgins. So regardless of how you look at it, it is still give and take. It is also impossible for the market to have an extremely high demand and suppliers will not supply. That's not how the world works (borrowing my friend's expression, lol). You have to manage your expectations just the way you expect me to manage mine. The only practical solution is for men to be held as accountable as we hold the women. Anything other than this is all talk.

You guys don't like it when women request for money. You write threads about wives not bringing anything to the table. But from this your post, it's obvious you don't want that to change and that makes me wonder why you then complain. It's almost as if you guys are more interested in winning arguments than changing things, and that's why you just say whatever will support you at the moment. Sir, humans will do anything for money. This is not a gender thing. We have guys who do yahoo, rituals, armed robbery, etc. You think these guys would think twice before doing prostitution if they had vaginas? Didn't you see the thread about Mandigo men from the Gambia sleeping with old white women? It is not good for women to sleep around, but the moment you justify men sleeping around is the moment you defeat your own argument by yourself.

Fahvvy:



My chief....
I didn't create "this"...
And yes you're right, I don't think it can be changed, the world is far too mes.sed up for "this" to be changed, so rather than wail about it, the smart thing to do is work my around it...
Because let's be real here, do you sincerely believe that an age long practice that has been going on for hundreds of years, will simply change because "all hands are on deck"? ...

Your argument is that things can be changed if "all hands are on deck", maybe it can, maybe it can't, but my argument is simply that on this matter all hands will NEVER be on deck, so what's the use of wailing?! The pastor's that have been shouting morality for years, have there been any real change? The government that has placed stiff punishment, has there been any change? And yes, there are people who do anything for money and that's not fair! But guess what? It's the world we live in!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also, those threads you talked about, they were created by mostly women, do your research well sir.

I'm not okay in this world, infact I hate the extent of the moral decay I've come to see, but hate it all I want, I still have to live in reality and the reality is simple.... men and women are held to different standards, they always have been and they always will be and I'm not going to fight it because that's a losing battle in my opinion...

What you're saying sounds very good on paper, but is it feasible to implement? nahhhh, I don't think so... I think if we want real change, let's just destroy the entire world and start afresh ... But getting the hands of 8billion people to be on deck on this matter is literally IMPOSSIBLE in my own opinion...

And you're say reducing prostitution will reduce broke shaming, that's incorrect sir... I would argue that stopping broke shaming is what will reduce promiscuity amongst men...

Lemme paint you a picture with a popular quote amongst ladies...

Imagine telling a man that "broke men deserve no pus.sy", imagine telling a man that "broke men shouldn't have an erection talk more of being in a relationship", do you then expect this man to stick to one woman after he has crossed the borders of broke-ness, not really ....

You're a very smart man sir...
However, I don't think you've come to fully see the world for what it is, or maybe it is I who is too much of a realist-pragmatist to see a possibility for a change....

Either ways...
Show me the "how" (not the "why" behind your ideals and I'll gladly jump on it, but until then, I will navigate my life and that of my family in a way that yields maximum profits from this messed up world ...

Thermodynamics:


Where did I say I support women demanding Money from men? Maybe your misunderstood me, yes, men sleep around but the truth is, it became worse since women started dressing semi naked on the streets, back in the days, virgin women were common and that was because women had value then, they dress very well.

Men are very very very visual, you can't keep showing me cold water when I'm very tasty and expect me not to drink, not drinking that cold water will feel like torture and that is what I'm currently going through.

I see semi naked women everyday and I feel drowned in pains, when I was with one of my ex I don't allow her walk in front of me and I don't look at her boobs, If I do, my sense will almost vanish. She doesn't dress decent, part of the reason I ran away, but how many men have such restrain?

The truth is, women want and liked to be f*cked, that's why they are being f*cked, they spend millions on surgeries just to enhance their bum so they can temp men.

I know you'll say I'm blaming women but I'm not, I'm just saying, women are the ones who have the power to control the level of fornication in the society.

FreeSpirited:

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Young guys who marry those evening newspaper gals that have shared the coochie to a whole community are so naive that they pay for it
One reason i dont do relationship with ladies over 25......bye bye...except to smash and run...
Infact any lady above 25/26 upward on social media is a No No for me

Tokskob2008:
She get killer shape or she no get, she go still prostitute. Killer shape na just added advantage.

ruggedtimi:
if she carrys an iphone and has tinder or badoo app logo in her phone...95% chance that she is into hk- up

omonighovic:
I can categorically say that most girls in Nigeria are into transactional sex due to greed, poverty and hunger. it's nothing new

From girls in territory institutions to working places.

A typical hookup girl charges nothing less than 20k for the night and who are the patrons ? Men of course.

If there's no Demand ,there won't be any supply.

lusid:
at the end of the day, one unsuspecting simp will marry them. Do you know most of them are coded prostitutes?