FriendsAndFans:
she owns her body,, you dont feed her.
WHy do you think she has to answer you ? you dont even know if she has started her menstrual cycle or maybe Okada don jam her.. you are only concerned about you Dick-activity

if it was davido that called her would u think she wouldnt pick smh

Matix222:


Okay thanks bro I’m hurt cux I really do love her and todays is my birthday yet she didn’t show up for me I can’t just believe it but no problem I move on no going back

Bro,you have to ghost her and don’t return her Calls nor text..for your own sanity move on with your life and career…..develop yourself and ladies of different seizes will come your ways

Matix222:


I’m 20

Wetin u dey find for relationship i guess you're not even paying her bills

20yrs u don dey Bleep this world don spoil

Just let her call you back when she has the chance, then she will explain, also, you shouldn't be giving someone too many calls, you don't know the situation that person might be in

Yeah that’s what I feel she went to a guys place she was making statements of some sort yerstaday I knew it will amount to thisYeah that’s what I feel she went to a guys place she was making statements of some sort yerstaday I knew it will amount to this...

Matix222:


Is the end I’m going to meet her at her place and request for her phone and go through her texts and calls

do you really think she is going to give you her phone

Mekanus:
Go and do your mums dishes then.

is he not old enough

Nazgul:

That's childish if you ask me...save yourself that stress. Doing such would only complicate things cos it would end in a shouting competition and believe me you can't win such against a woman. And at the end, she'll play the victim leaving you worse than how you are.

If she cared she would have kept her promise and celebrated your birthday with you.

My advice is that you ghost her and move on, ignore her calls, ignore her chats, just move on.

maybe she went to church

JustPowerApps:
Relax Op, no be today she don dey bleep another ngga. This one will come and go, another dude go still bam am tomorrow

Also you have not seen the end of war by pushing her away, the next girl you will meet, another guy don do am, dem go still do am while you are at it

That mean everybody Don chop breakfast already

Matix222:


Yeah that’s what I feel she went to a guys place she was making statements of some sort yerstaday I knew it will amount to this

don't break up with her yet. Don't even mention about her sleeping around. Just make certain you are your own pound of nack from her. She go fall in love with you in later month, then booommm: break up with her

If this is what ladies face.... Omo women sef dey suffer wetin be this

Honourably move on with your life don't give your heart to someone who has no regards for you. The worst you can do is to force a relationship or force love. Reciprocity or mutuality is the word. The babe you are worried over is crying for another dude. Foolish Girls psychology is wired differently the one who loves them, the cheat on him, treat him badly. When you show a woman you love her, you have relenquish power to her to do what she can do to you at will. When a man loves his vulnerability is exposed and a foolish immature girl will take him for a cruise, not untill later she realized she had a gem and lost him.
Mature ladies treat you differently because they understand what love is and how to recieve and appreciate it.
You are with someone who has no regards or cares about you. To her you are just one of those things. There is a way you handle a lady show her you love her but also show her if she mess up you will ditch her. I did that to one of my ex she cried her life out, I cut her off and her family, my last ex I did do same to her she was shocked as well she thought I would never or I could never do such to her.
Understand that you are the price, woman wey you go marry put for house and feed her na you go come dey drink Panadol.
Man up man. My current girlfriend dares not do some nonsense arround me, she did somethings I told her bluntly this will be the last time she would do such and it has not repeated itself, last night I brought her attention to something she was like she is very sorry about that.
Onces a woman or lady looses respect for you she has lost love for you, you don't need to worry about trying to impress her because doing so you all end up spending yourself, emotionally, physically, financially and otherwise and still in the end she will dump you. Ladies connect their sustained love to a guy base on respect, the more she can respect you for you, she knows you can't be treated anyhow the more she can be able to handle fact that even though she knows you love her she can't just mess arround you.
Your girlfriend abandoned your birthday and decided not to come see you. Op candid advice move on you deserve better.
She no seemed you... She is not dating you oooo...

Na you dey make her jealous yesterday, now it's her turn.

Enjoy the torture while it lasts.

henndukwe18:
maybe she went to church

Why didn't she wish him happy birthday before going to church?

How many minutes would it take her to type...I'm in church I'll talk to you later?

Whatever excuse you'd try to come up with for her, she clearly isn't interested in the op.

Wotoporiously speaking

If I were you after calling once I won't call again or text either, I won't even say a word after that day until when she decides to call or come, if she decides not to call or text even after that day, she won't hear from me too even till Jesus come.

I will go about my business as usual, No be fight, no be quarrel, na just simple understanding of life, I rest my case.

Matix222
We still dey wait for you here to go and come...

Konji Dey worry you, calm down, when she is done she will come and u will do ur own.

Street property belongs to no one

I told OP he is jobless, chasing after babe. Ubunja this boy needs your help

Matix222:
My girlfriend is supposed to visit me today as is also a very special day to me( my birthday) she said she will be coming in the morning and won’t go to church since then I have called her up to 17 times no response including texts is she probably fvcking another guy now so couldn’t respond? I need advise

it is not necessary to call her 17 times and even send that message,if you call twice,that's enough,stop acting desperate,she has options better than you,move on and ignore her if you have tested the pussy,if not try and test the pussy then move on

Nazgul:

Why didn't she wish him happy birthday before going to church?

How many minutes would it take her to type...I'm in church I'll talk to you later?

Whatever excuse you'd try to come up with for her, she clearly isn't interested in the op.

you guys should stop assuming a girl is cheating whenever she is not available

Matix222:


I’m 20

20 and you're thinking about woman, I pity your future

henndukwe18:
you guys should stop assuming a girl is cheating whenever she is not available

Go back and read my previous post I never said anywhere that she's cheating. My submission was that she cares less about him. When you care about someone everything that concerns him would mean a lot to you. When you care less, he would be the one to keep reminding you that you forgot his birthday, and other things that mean a lot to him.

henndukwe18:
That mean everybody Don chop breakfast already

Nasoo my brother

Rubbish!
Just imagine this nonsense thread on this forum

Remijuice:
Matix222
We still dey wait for you here to go and come...

She is cheating on me I caught her she couldn’t deny she told me she went to farm I was like who and you went to farm she couldn’t reply when I asked her sister her sister told me she just went out but didn’t go to farm all her lies where faulted she is clearly cheating on me

Nazgul:

Go back and read my previous post I never said anywhere that she's cheating. My submission was that she cares less about him. When you care about someone everything that concerns him would mean a lot to you. When you care less, he would be the one to keep reminding you that you forgot his birthday, and other things that mean a lot to him.

ok

You are childish.

Matix222:


She is cheating on me I caught her she couldn’t deny she told me she went to farm I was like who and you went to farm she couldn’t reply when I asked her sister her sister told me she just went out but didn’t go to farm all her lies where faulted she is clearly cheating on me

So person wey dey farm no dey answer calls

No vex, you hear. Na small pikin still dey worry her..

Just forgive her you hear..


Take yourself out and relax, after that take your time and call her and assure her that you have forgiven her, that you don't even want her explanation self..


She will realise that you are not like the other guys that she is giving her body to and will now turn around and love you whole heartedly..


I wish you luck.

Remijuice:



So person wey dey farm no dey answer calls

No vex, you hear. Na small pikin still dey worry her..

Just forgive her you hear..


Take yourself out and relax, after that take your time and call her and assure her that you have forgiven her, that you don't even want her explanation self..


She will realise that you are not like the other guys that she is giving her body to and will now turn around and love you whole heartedly..


I wish you luck.

She couldn’t even lie she was stammering is okay sha I have healed already was just surprised

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

If I were you after calling once I won't call again or text either, I won't even say a word after that day until when she decides to call or come, if she decides not to call or text even after that day, she won't hear from me too even till Jesus come.

I will go about my business as usual, No be fight, no be quarrel, na just simple understanding of life, I rest my case.

We move
No time

If u had been practicing the principle of abundance mentality as advocated by Ubunja in his Red pill thread, u wouldn't have been bothered by her absence.
U may not even notice her absence because u would have been with other girls more worthy than her.
But because u failed to amass other girls & u were depending on only one girl cos u wanna be a faithful simpish boyfriend, this bitch has u by the jugular & she's treating u like shit cos she knows u have no option.

dmgr:



We move
No time

Rule number 2; always trust your instincts

Please elaborate ooh. Gist no suppose end here.

So when you got to her house ehee? What na hapoen