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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by MufasaLion: 2:18pm On Sep 30, 2022
BigCowHornn:



I couldn't help but smile when i read this.
Got to Ajegule slums in Lagos. You will see a family of 10 all living in one room. And just when you think there is no other space 2 or 3 relatives will show up and pack in there.
It's everywhere that why it's so crowed in that area. It hard to see a family living in more than one room down there no matter how many they are. Some of the families have been living there for generations too.

I kid you not.

And they will still blame rich people, government or others for their misfortune. Disgusting creatures!
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Painsoother(m): 2:26pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


And preference is based on level of enlightenment and willingness to accept change!

Goodbye!
Nairaland enlightenment as usual, ok.. we have heard u.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Firstcitizen: 2:29pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.

If na studio apartment these rabbits they breed e for nor good? More like rodent holes
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by SmartyPants(m): 2:30pm On Sep 30, 2022
Blaqputin:

Tah....commot body, why didn't u make the comment. Dey form nonsense.

I came when the thread was at page 2. How could i have commented in the top 5, you uneducated slowpoke?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by sweetman2022: 2:31pm On Sep 30, 2022
Some of you want poverty to disappear over night when the country is in shambles. Millions of people are raised in one room and it won't stop today or next 20 years in Nigeria. You are talking of a country where so many graduates are paid less than ordinary 50k and you expect them to live in flats.haba where una keep una sense sef. Parents need to find a better way to have sex even in one room especially the way this children learn things so fast and quick. Some also choose to be negligent and irresponsible towards training this kids. So please don't expect people not to live in one room and raise kids. It will be as if you are denying the reality of things around you.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by princewarri1985: 2:36pm On Sep 30, 2022
Lewisjohnson:


grin grin grin u surpose learn new Sex Styles from der
if you see all these uncles and aunties they look so innocent and you will think they only do missionary style or they dont have sex atall but na lie they do impossible sex styles
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Mabco: 2:37pm On Sep 30, 2022
Karen2024:
As soon as my child is a year old, to his or her room.



That is if u have more than one room
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Mabco: 2:42pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Everybody likes comfort but many are lazy to work for the comfort. Comfort don't come to people, you work for it!

Don't even call anybody a lazy one. Some have this job waiting for them by their parents or other connections without more merits than others that were waiting before they graduates
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Slynation(m): 2:43pm On Sep 30, 2022
DeGLORIOUS:
Lamed analyses. Are the parents also witches? Is it a crime to be awake at night? A girl of 8 years? Bed shaking everywhere? And you expect that the girl should be sleeping. Only someone whos senses are dead
Use your head, they said the same room and not the same bed...So common sense should tell you she's sleeping on the floor
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by donziller(m): 2:48pm On Sep 30, 2022
Waiting una discuss reach that level
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Oceanjagaban: 2:50pm On Sep 30, 2022
Karen2024:
As soon as my child is a year old, to his or her room.
Your own too much calm down
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Sep 30, 2022
princewarri1985:
if you see all these uncles and aunties they look so innocent and you will think they only do missionary style or they dont have sex atall but na lie they do impossible sex styles
Dats why I always target all dis Deeper life girls grin grin
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by general111(m): 2:58pm On Sep 30, 2022
mmsen:


Why did the state of things in the country not stop these animals from having children that they cannot take care of properly?
what about those who became poor after having five kids?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Realguyman1(m): 2:59pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Everybody likes comfort but many are lazy to work for the comfort. Comfort don't come to people, you work for it!
Oga let person hear word jor. Which kind laziness you dey talk about? Is it not this same Nigeria system that doesn't encourage hard work and humility, and you are saying people who are not living comfortable are not because they are lazy.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by crafteck(m): 3:00pm On Sep 30, 2022
Better thank god for your own sey u fit afford more than a room
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Aladdin1(m): 3:03pm On Sep 30, 2022
Its not by their choice i assure you.rather its because of poverty and the condition they found themselves.when i did the job of a census enumerator during the last census that was done in nigeria several years ago.i met a man who had eleven children and was living in a one room apartment with his wife and all his children.you can imagine the degree of poverty that family have suffered and seen.and it would not be an unusual occurance for the children to have seen and heard their parents having sex.rather it would be a reoccuring decimal in the equation of their squalor ridden existence.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:03pm On Sep 30, 2022
ITbomb:
Do you think it is their choice to stay in a one bedroom apartment?

Hmmmm.....

It may not be their choice o, but they should know how to arrange themselves for when the girl is not there.

A wise couple will look for how to enroll the child(ren) in some sort of lesson in the evening so that they can have some privacy.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Amayabor1: 3:11pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Everybody likes comfort but many are lazy to work for the comfort. Comfort don't come to people, you work for it!

Lol. All these people sef. So all the hardworking people in this world are successful?

Hardwork, hardwork, bla bla bla. You work hard pass some people wey dey mould block or some okada riders?

Success in life is not based entirely on hardwork. If it was, then all hardworking people in this world would have been successful.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by MufasaLion: 3:16pm On Sep 30, 2022
Firstcitizen:


If na studio apartment these rabbits they breed e for nor good? More like rodent holes

They think more of having kids than being financially buoyant.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by maasoap(m): 3:21pm On Sep 30, 2022
general111:
Its not owk, but the state of things in the country has permitted it
ITbomb:
Do you think it is their choice to stay in a one bedroom apartment?

If that's the case, then it is up to the parents to change the time of their actions to the periods that kids are not around.

Slynation:
The question we should be asking is why is she awake by that time when things are happening between two legally married couples...?? Is she a witch or aspiring to be one.

Lol. People wake at different times in the night. Even their noises and disturbances could easily wake her up.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by solufemiwa(m): 3:28pm On Sep 30, 2022
Very necessary for parent to have a separate room.

But my kids will leave their room exactly 2am to come and join me and my wife on our bed. At times, I leave bed for them to sleep. I told my wife is high time we start locking our door at the back.

Anytime I get match with my wife. I have to lock the door first before the room owners march enter our room in the middle of the night.

Kids of nowadays are very sensitive one must be careful if you really love them. A boy 3 and a girl 6yrs. But these people will never sleep over in their room grin grin
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Sixfiguresmart(m): 3:32pm On Sep 30, 2022
How do you know the number of kids that they have? Do not ever say that of a human being again. Never you compare
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by stanisbaratheon: 3:33pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.

You had to go there grin
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Nyceguy92: 3:35pm On Sep 30, 2022
[quote author=ObamaMessi post=117124788]

Do not start what you cannot finish.

What is it the 8 years old was telling you about the parents? Readers are not mind readers.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by GlobTrotter: 3:37pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.
you will just open mouth and talk nonsense. You think they like it that way? Do you know what it took them to make that nasty decision?

You have to be sensitive soketomesm.stop talking trash
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by buzorcharles(m): 3:40pm On Sep 30, 2022
general111:
Its not owk, but the state of things in the country has permitted it

Oga they need to check the routine time. Daytime sex won't kill them. Those couple is loose and don't care abt what their kid know or sees
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by princewarri1985: 3:44pm On Sep 30, 2022
Lewisjohnson:

Dats why I always target all dis Deeper life girls grin grin
those ones go be worst, non be lie oh.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by frankson1(m): 3:48pm On Sep 30, 2022
general111:
will a man have millions in his account and still live in one room with his family?..







Either way, whether you believe it or not, the society will still have poor people and it's not possible for everyone to have millions in an account.

Parents who live in a room apartment should know the time to mingle.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by general111(m): 3:50pm On Sep 30, 2022
buzorcharles:


Oga they need to check the routine time. Daytime sex won't kill them. Those couple is loose and don't care abt what their kid know or sees
your opinion tho
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by AuroraB(f): 3:58pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Everybody likes comfort but many are lazy to work for the comfort. Comfort don't come to people, you work for it!
A truckpusher/gravedigger etc would have been richer than you and your millions of people undecided
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by mmsen: 4:02pm On Sep 30, 2022
general111:
what about those who became poor after having five kids?

You shouldn't have five children in the first place. Every child you have is essentially a mortgage. One that most can ill afford, financially or with regards to time.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by ObamaMessi: 4:13pm On Sep 30, 2022
frozen70:


Am still wondering what kind of discussion you may have been having with her before she told you that, then your closeness to how may be worrisome

I hope you didn't tell anyone to avoid nonsense suspensious things related to what she told you
My closeness with kids help them alot. No cause for alarm!

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