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Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by lawrenzooo: 1:21pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman:Point of correction there is no relationship between earnings and education. Thank you. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Afolashade00(f): 1:23pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
okoroemeka: Hey, I always read and pass because I try to avoid drama at all cost. Moreover, I'm a very busy person but I'm here to debunk your statement which is totally untrue. How did you come to a conclusion that those that finished university over 5years ago can no longer be virgin and if they are they have factory fault in her p*****. Stop generalizing, it doesn't work that way. They are alot decent ladies out there who are still virgins even after the years you mentioned and there is nothing wrong with them. I finished university four years ago and I choose to keep myself and there's actually nothing wrong with me. I'm not marketing myself neither will I stoop so low to do something like that. I got standards too, so pick what works for you ,get your facts and figures right before you generalize. If I tell you all men are scum or all men are rapist, how will you feel? Words build, words Mar, please use them carefully . Thank you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Munzy14(m): 1:25pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman:You have your doubt and worries already on your palm. If you don't see her as your Queen, let her go.. You don't manage a partner in marriage.You marry who you wake up every morning, smile and Thank God. Happy searching bro. Lastly, remember life can flip in seconds. E dey happen steady. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Bassmetrics: 1:29pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Dear Op, marriage itself is a risk. This is a perfect case with my closest friend. All d picture u painted above were similar. In his case, d guy (a graduate n financial stable) lowered his standard to even marry a sec sch drop out from a poor home. D girl later showed him pepper.His Inlaw turned him to a cash-cow. As I type this, he is separated from his wife. But note, everybody can't be same. It didn't work for him don't mean it won't work for u. Just follow ur heart 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by idsamoo(m): 1:38pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
If you really have standard,how did you get to the level where a lower level get so close to you to the extent of thinking of marrying you? You really don't know your taste as claimed guy! |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by satandeterrible: 1:54pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
PhantomThief:Facts 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by satandeterrible: 1:55pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Montaque:Go and marry her na. Mumu |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by goodmike7: 2:04pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Juliearth: Secondly, when men use virgin as a criteria to judge women i laugh..your wicked mothers,mother in laws, sisters and wives were once virgins abi? That same girl you think is humble will humble you at the long run when is sees an opportunity. Stick to your standard and regret than reducing your standard and still regret. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by anitaonoru2: 2:04pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Why is it so hard to get a perfect person as a life partner at this current time? |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by kernniejay(m): 2:20pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman:I gave somebody this advice yesterday and I will still repeat same to you. By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely while you are about changing your mind, it will be too late for you. Talking from experience, most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best. When a woman loves you first before you love her, count yourself very lucky. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Josephfidelis(m): 2:24pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Simple, further her education after marrying her and build her however u want |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by JJuanMiguel: 2:28pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
kernniejay:Are you saying you can get married to someone you don't love? |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by kernniejay(m): 2:36pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
JJuanMiguel:You can give that person a chance for a relationship. Love grows. I know what I'm saying. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by showafrica(m): 2:42pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman: You spoke like an entitled and autocratic person but I won't judge you that way because, you are on the right track as to what you want. It is important to marry a lady of the description you listed you want. It helps ease the tension in man. However, there is something I see that is very expensive and cheap at the same time. (peace of mind). Brother, anything that gives you peace of mind is the best for you no matter how cheap or costly it is. If this girl gives you peace of mind, '' kidnap' her from her family and mould her to your taste and standard. People make people, everybody came here with nothing. So you can make her if she has the potential. However, if you see any traces of leaching or lack of enthusiasm, growth and productivity in her, RUN. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by alphaNomega: 2:53pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman: Guy, remove your head from that relationship. She will be a very good friend, not likely to be a good life partner. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Dmores: 3:07pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Just pray over it,she could be blessing in disguise, some people are like diamond in the mud,standard or no standard if you loose her you might see her later looking amazing and you would wish you had not abandon her |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by obinna58(m): 3:13pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman:Baba harden up, no marry out of pity, by the time you own 100% of expenses and realise it's not even enough for her(it's always not enough) the little beauty you see in her will disappear completely. Never lower your standard instead upgrade it |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Wwwq: 3:22pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Yeah |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by fyzaila: 3:28pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Op pretend to loose your job and you're broke and see her reaction. Then you'll know if it your money that is attracting her or otherwise 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by placeofallure(f): 3:42pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
satandeterrible: You're more terrible than Satan. Satan is wise and cunny but you have been depleted of anything called common sense. Did you say prostitute? Allow me to rant my rant - Your mother wey spread her smelly toto as dem dey hammer com birth you, a bastard, is a prostitute! Her mother before her, is a prostitute. Your sisters, aunts, sisters-in-law, nieces and cousins join are all prostitutes! Omo ale jatijati! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Fairview1: 3:58pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman: First, Narscistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a treatable mental disease, even though many people don't know that! You may consider to seek help if you don't mind. You can easily pass your message without over magnifying your status. Secondly, what's this thing with standard and marriage? Who set the rules? Perhap you should reconsider your conversation with your friends and closer relatives. The question should be on character and interest for personal growth and self development. If she is ready for all that, go ahead and shoot the shot! |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by kacglobal: 3:59pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
fyzaila: N keep this up for a year. Then you will see 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by mankan2k7(m): 4:11pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Y8 Ebenman: Pride goes before destruction. You think having more financial advantage will give you a stable relationship? You don't deserve that girl. A lady that is hardworking and made money on her own without selling her dignity in this present Nigeria is an asset. Go and marry those spec u had wanted to marry. I see you regretting this. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Bossmanmoves(m): 4:16pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin: Yes I can. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by waititi: 4:44pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
generalwo:werey ,na your papa ogun go kill since you no fit talk the nonsense wey you wan talk without insult. Otondo |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by VladimirPutiin(m): 5:23pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Bossmanmoves: Lool Goodluck bro |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by generalwo(m): 5:30pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
waititi:..... Foolish pikin... Make thunder split your abdomen into 1024 pieces..... U first insult... Them insult you back u Wan die..... Make werin you nor know kill you..... Ozwine |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by davidadenrele: 5:34pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Wealthyonos: There's no point insulting OP, is is there a problem asking for advice or candid opinion. |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by goodheart01: 5:36pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Wealthyonos: And what’s wrong with his English? Or u just want to show yourself? Even those who liked your comment should be as dumb as u are because they actually didn’t read through what he wrote to ascertain if u are right or not. Or maybe they cannot actually comprehend simple English. U are the one who needs to go back to school if u find what that dude wrote there grammatically defaulting. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by waititi: 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
generalwo:mumu . I sha Know say your sense no dey work. infinite idiot |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman:Just be true to urself bro. U don't sound like she means anything to u and u have already made it obvious but she seems to be hell bent on having u. It's a dangerous game. When it gets worse she will start blocking all ur chances of ever dating the girls u like. Just let sit her down and let her know why u both can't and won't work before it gets ugly |
Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by purples25(f): 6:13pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
The best thing you could do, is ensure you don't take the virginity of a girl you never planned to marry. Also find a way to apologise for your words towards her. Make sure she knows she is valuable, but that this dating thing comes with feelings and find another way of letting her know that though she is valuable, you don't have those feelings. I repeat, the best thing you could do for a virgin you don't love and won't marry, is not to touch her. 1 Like 1 Share |
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