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Moniya4Real:
Bro, I feel your pain and I can relate.The probability is high that your wife is cheating however, I advise you take thing’s calmly.Do not spy on your wife but try to have a deep conversation with her that is really Germaine to the issue at hand.
Once a woman starts to cheat, it put the relationship in danger than when a man does, this is because, women are more loyal to their emotions. Especially a woman with a high sex drive. I pray you have the wisdom and courage to surmount this stage of your marital life.

There's nothing to talk about with an untrustworthy mate.

"I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused."

HeadNigga:
She is cheating. You have one option which tis to throw her out(divorce). Her eyes go clear when the man deceiving her refuses to come take charge openly as her man.

Two bad options

Start getting sex elsewhere too but do it with protection so that when her madness stops you don't infect her with a disease you contracted while playing away matches. I hope the man is not digging her raw though coz in her case she will not only bring back a deadly disease but a bastard too.

The last option which is not an option is to endure coz you have endured enough from what I read. Endure cheating? Hell no. Man up

Very Wrong Counsel of Deceits. Pls Talk sense into her with the attendant implications for both of u and Children. SecureConfirm ur Fears about her impropriety. Report to the Family...her Mother if Alive or Her Pastor/Female of ur Fesrs and Observations for in-house Counselling...and Where She Continues Separate from her,but do not Divorce...

May be she is now cheating on you, and she reaching clamax , so need no need coming to you

ObamaMessi:
Who is this idiot typing foolishly like mofo?

Probably part of the simp committee talkinbout sit her down and talk. Bleep that.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

You've gotten fat and don't care for yourself like you did when you were trying to attract her. Go to the gym, eat right, take a shower and be her sugar daddy. Look good and sexy for her. Otherwise she will get a side piece. And we can't blame her, because women are visual creatures.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Solution: Get yourself a call girl

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

The last time I had sex with my wife was Match, I cannot even tell anyone. I'm just enduring it secretly. No human being has ever heard it from me.

leody:
Pls guys don't get married again stories of marriage i read the previous week is up to like 7 wetin happen?
You guys should stop getting married every Saturday to avoid this stories.

Truly, marriage scares many young people today. This op's marriage story is really pathetic.

But I believe the reason and real motivation for marriage is LOVE.

No matter the storms in marriage, once there is LOVE, it will survive and be stronger.

Many marry for selfish reasons not LOVE.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Man don't stress yourself
Go and apply for WhatsApp spy
U would surely notice all she's doing through your phone

dont you worry Mr man...
there is often dry and rainy weather
life is not a strait jacket issue
dont see yourself alone as Mr. right in this matter because it always takes too to tango
particularly in a union or relationship like marriage
but the man needs wisdom to tame the lion in every woman
Let me ask when have you bought her a fine GHANA WRAPER LAST?
when last have celebrated her birthday with her with a handsome gift?
i am speaking as a guidance counselor
these are som of the wisdom in a marriage to keep it from breaking away!

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Oga...you better run that woman Street before she kill you....no gentleman for marriage..you either be the boss or be the puppet...!!!

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

u cry ke That's where u fvck up bt I understand ur level and stage. it's is a learning stage in love bt u have to know that crying won't correct the problem only right actions will.

Don't always let a woman have her way. she will take u for granted or a fool. In this case u taking care of the children giving her more time and energy to cheat(if confirmed)

2, If she even suspected of cheating do u secret checks immediately and If she's covering her tracks or resisting ur direct request, make it known to her that she's cheating and u know it untill u proves it otherwise to u.

Don't tolerate ambiguity or doubts in ur marriage. it gives room for nonsense to fester.

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Don't be stupid.....
This is a serious matter here

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

First, go back and cry to God cos is the originator of marriage.

Secondly, have a heart to heart talk with your wife to know the reason for the sudden change and don't speculate for now.

Thirdly, show her more love . Love can't be too much.

Above all, give your life to Jesus Christ if you have not cos He is the head of the home.

God bless you

swarley75:
This your opinion will only ginger some women the more, a few married women i have as friends always say that as long as their husband is dropng money for food they dont care if he keeps malice with them for a year. Them go say if he is tired he will come and beg them. How will you feel as man if you are dropping at home yet your wife is sleeping around and she doesn't allow to sleep with her?

As a man you need to take charge of your household or your relationship.

Perhaps you don't understand what I said earlier, how can you be ghosting someone and still drop money for food... I mean she's just like a mannequin in that house!!

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Men life span have been reduced because of troubles they face at home with their wives

What kind of men do we have these days?


Simps

Crying? For what reason?

Wife doesn't have privacy in her husband's house, collect the phone from and confirm what you are suspecting her for and then if actually is true. Flog her out of your house.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

i would advice you seperate from her for a while maybe she will fine tune herself back ,dont let one woman kill you for nothing life will not stop

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

I suggest you should so everything possible to get access to her Whatsapp/Facebook from there you may be able to know why her sudden change of attitudes.

Ensure DNA test is carried out on those 2 children.

Lastly If you found nothing incriminating then sat her down and enquire the cause of her behaviors.

arejibadz:
I'm sorry but you are a mumu man

How would you feel if someone typed that about you when you're down?
The man is frustrated.

This is a serious issue talk sense into her that what she needs........

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

wicked soul.

BeardedMeat:
Your father is the idiot for not using protection.

Excuse me idiot. Do look at the monika you are replying b4 u vent ur stupidity. i might have slept with ur wife and u are her typing ur idiocy.

Zonefree:
He's SIMPly in love. A man in love is a foolish man. My last relationship with a Nigerian girl made me understand that it takes a man without brain to love a Nigerian girl.

you never change. You also don’t fail to amuse me

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Lmao, you always cry because of your wife denying you sex? Bro, just get another girl.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

For any marriage to work, the woman must love the man more than the man loves her.



Any man that marries a woman he loves more than she loves him is on a very long thing.



Na women de uphold marriage not man

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

She just simply got tired of your attitude.
Believe me she had piled issues upon issues and can no longer endure you.

Hope your income is still stable because 90% of women loyalty is on money. If you still have stable income get a maid to help you in home chores and look for sex outside pretend that all is well

She married you cause of your mumuness cause she knows she will get away with it in marriage.

Nothing to tell you.

ridbell01:
Hope your income is still stable because 90% of women loyalty is on money. If you still have stable income get a maid to help you in home chores and look for sex outside pretend that all is well

lol

iLegendd:
Don't be afraid of marriage because of things you read online. Most of the men that post about their marriage issues and their wives misbehaving are naturally weak men with zero balls or options.

If you judge marriages based on these men, you'll think all women are evil. Some of these women's evil and cold attitude starts because their men became weak and submissive or weak and abusive all of a sudden.

They've lost the power and charm they used to have because of a new bad habit they picked up along the line.

This is why men should know a lot about the female phycology and read lots of real men's dating books before they marry, but no, these men don't read sh!t.

All they do is read to pass exams and graduate with at least 2.1 or 2.2, focus on making money and using sex enhancement drúgs. They don't know how to lead like a real man.

So, I don't blame their women. If I was a woman and I'm dating one of these weak men, I will surely misbehave. I can't be submissive to a weak man or a man who isn't in control without being controlling.

Rubbish tslk