Based on what you wrote your wife need dickk, get a better solution and beat the hell out of her honeypot

Originalsly:
Get the man's number .... call him up .

Hello ... I'm just calling to make you aware that your life is in danger. I learned you are having a relationship with my wife .... but that's not the problem ... my days are numbered but I'm not the type to drag others down with me ... friend or foe. Did my wife let you know she is H.I.V positive? I guess she didn't... the same way she didn't tell me. If you didn't know... well... you know now. I suggest you take a test and hopefully ... you somehow test Negative. Thanks for hearing me out.



It doesn't matter the depth of the relationship .... that man will not believe a word she says and the relationship will crash.

Only a simpleton would lay a threat to another man because of a woman.
What kind of effeminate men do we have nowadays?
This is so sick.
Spits!

How will you be crying as a man because of a cheating woman, man up bro and put your energy into something positive? I would have advised you to file for Divorce but I am considering your Kids here. The Man she is actually cheating with will definitely dump her soon. She will regret her actions and want to come back, just that she will be coming back with multiples infections because I am sure they won't be using protection.

Freelane33:

Don’t take advise from unmarried men or bachelors
Seek advise from married people

It's surprising the kinds of matters people bring to this place. The place is full of degenerates and teenagers, yet a grown man will come here to receive lessons on how to be hardened against his wife by red pill boys who are likely not into any meaningful relationship and are trying to have revenge on the girls that didn't date them through him.

If he values his marriage, he should talk to his wife and seek help from people who know what they're saying.

When will the tech/programming section have something new and thrilling? Getting tired of the drip here.

Stop asking her for sex for now , and make sure you continue the normal things you used to do at home, because if you don't do it for your family, who else are you going to do it for..
In addition, after work, come home, freshn up and pretend as if you receive a call and respond that you are coming to meet the person at the same hotel room, then stroll out and have some fun;
I bet you, she wouldn't be able to handle that for 2 weeks..
"Make sure you do this for 2 weeks"

Some women like to cheat but can't withstand seeing dere husband to do such before dere own very eyes...
Also, prepare for words of war from her ooo; some are kind of selfish when come to such...

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Cutehector:
First to cry na him or her dey at fault..


Lets hear from her side of the story. Bring her in here.

The first to present how case seems right until the other party comes to cross examine him

Slynation:
Nah, he already have 2 kids, and neglecting them for the sins of their Mom is not ideal, the best way is to ghost her, treat her like she never existed in that house...

-Never beg her for sex anymore...

-cook and eat your own food even if she cooks (trust me, she will one day eat what you prepared in a bit to get your reaction, but say nothing)

-Be more closer to your children than ever, take them outing let them have fun...

Then watch the transformation...

Respect!!
This solves almost all problems not just marriage, natural balance is the most perfect balance anyone could set, living the problems to get solved on its own

Zonefree:

He's SIMPly in love. A man in love is a foolish man. My last relationship with a Nigerian girl made me understand that it takes a man without brain to love a Nigerian girl.

So you are telling us your father doesn’t have a brain for loving your mother?

Kids of these generation..

she’s back with her ex sir or a new man. You know the truth, you just don’t want to accept it. Until you start father another man pikin before your eyes go open!

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Lol

Her eyes go clear when the man deceiving her refuses to come take charge openly as her man.

Makes sense.

Start getting sex elsewhere too but do it with protection so that when her madness stops you don't infect her with a disease you contracted while playing away matches

You're more concerned about the man not infecting the woman but hoping the other man is using protection. What if he isn't?

HeadNigga:
She is cheating. You have one option which tis to throw her out(divorce). Her eyes go clear when the man deceiving her refuses to come take charge openly as her man.

Two bad options

Start getting sex elsewhere too but do it with protection so that when her madness stops you don't infect her with a disease you contracted while playing away matches. I hope the man is not digging her raw though coz in her case she will not only bring back a deadly disease but a bastard too.


The last option which is not an option is to endure coz you have endured enough from what I read. Endure cheating? Hell no. Man up

Please if you can't control your emotions anymore separate for a while. I say this so you don't explode someday and do the regrettable.

JASONjnr:
How you people let women control your emotions is beyond me,..

Honestly!
Very pathetic set of men
Running to nairaland to post nonsense

iLegendd:


Don't be afraid of marriage because of things you read online. Most of the men that post about their marriage issues and their wives misbehaving are naturally weak men with zero balls or options.

If you judge marriages based on these men, you'll think all women are evil. Some of these women's evil and cold attitude starts because their men became weak and submissive or weak and abusive all of a sudden.

They've lost the power and charm they used to have because of a new bad habit they picked up along the line.

This is why men should know a lot about the female phycology and read lots of real men's dating books before they marry, but no, these men don't read sh!t.

All they do is read to pass exams and graduate with at least 2.1 or 2.2, focus on making money and using sex enhancement drúgs. They don't know how to lead like a real man.

So, I don't blame their women. If I was a woman and I'm dating one of these weak men, I will surely misbehave. I can't be submissive to a weak man or a man who isn't in control without being controlling.

What are the books to read.
Recommend one or two of them.

The only remedy to a cheating wife is divorce. Don't even think twice about it.

Berrityga:
I've worked hard to put myself in a position where women can't tell me no. The only emotions I show a woman is the feeling of me cumming.

Yinmu… na mouth una just get for social media.
Jeff bezos, elon musk and co got dumped by their partners, so who the hell are ya?
Mtchww

You are a weak man, I can't have a wife and she answers call in our bed late at night, and in the aspect of sex maybe u are not playing ur path well, check ur current form lately

ObamaMessi:
Excuse me idiot. Do look at the monika you are replying b4 u vent ur stupidity. i might have slept with ur wife and u are her typing ur idiocy.

Oh God! I blame ASUU!

Dirtyyansh:


Only a simpleton would lay a threat to another man because of a woman.
What kind of effeminate men do we have nowadays?
This is so sick.
Spits!

The man is pained and obviously wants his wife back ..... what do you suggest? Most men wouldn't have to ask what to do in such a situation.

Women should know their duties in their homes as nurturers, after God is your husband then your kids. Am so sorry about your marriage. I think you need to closely watch her and pray for a way out of all this.

efelicity:
She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids.

Hi, when a married woman cheats, she does so to her husband, not her own children.
When she (your wife) stopped preparing her own children to school, even cooking for them....it shows she's immature and selfish. Cheating on your man should not reduce your love for your kids.

You are a nice man, for you to feel so much pain, it shows you've invested so much in your marriage. Keep taking care of the kids and always try make the home lovely when they (the kids) are home. They shouldn't get wind of what's happening it's dangerous to their mental health (if they are 5 years and older) they won't ever forget that their mum cheated, it may amaze you but it's true.

Op, to be frank with you, it's your wife that needs advice.

swarley75:
All this for a cheating wife?

These are clearly the signs of a cheating woman as started by the OP.



My own advice is you need to take charge of the marriage by instilling fear in her mind, you can only do this by beating to stupor. You can ask her to cook one day if she refuses then use that opportunity to tear her one big heavy slap.



See if a woman doesn't fear you, she can't respect and if she doesn't respect you she can't love you.

...op no listen to this advice oo

Oga boss be calming down.! Marriage is more to that than just sex. So play your cool, be a loving father u always are, take her for a pregnancy test if possible, std's is also another factor that can reduce sex drive; get her tested if possible, and lastly, lastly look at your wify bright side.. Thus, be passionate about the womans hormonal imbalances.

Slynation:
Nah, he already have 2 kids, and neglecting them for the sins of their Mom is not ideal, the best way is to ghost her, treat her like she never existed in that house...

-Never beg her for sex anymore...

-cook and eat your own food even if she cooks (trust me, she will one day eat what you prepared in a bit to get your reaction, but say nothing)

-Be more closer to your children than ever, take them outing let them have fun...

Then watch the transformation...

Thanks for this bro. These kids polluting the whole place don't know anything about life talkless marriage.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

First things first, ignore all those who say your wife is cheating. There are women who cheat and show zero warning signs.

Second, time to talk with your wife. Ask after her day, listen to her as she talks about the day. Gossip with her. Laugh with her and smile with her.

Third, help your wife. Clean the dishes after mealtimes. Help.clean the house. Buy her something.

Note that i have said that you should not talk about seggs and all that...yet.

Start communicating with your wife. The way i see it, you are not doing that. You are also far more interested in having madam meet your needs than you meet her needs.

Want to know why women cheat?. Women want to be listened to. Many men who snatch other men's women don't go into the woman's house and demand sex like that. They listen to the woman and make her feel like someone is hearing her. ( that's the short version of what two playboys told an interviewer about their wife catching strategy)Have you been listening to your wife.? Are you listening to her? Or is she just a erotic doll for you? Only one that walks and talks and can reason?

Go and listen to your wife. Ask after her work, her life, her friends, etc. Talk about the kids. Stop listening to the people who say.she is a cheat. Stop thinking too much about you.

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

First class werey..
I truly like your sarcasm , its well compose.
No doubt you're still single but you will understand his pains in due tine.
80% of wives push their husband to the hands of side chic.
Nowadays wives are truly evil.
The OP should just take it easy and setup a trap for her.

Originalsly:


The man is pained and obviously wants his wife back ..... what do you suggest? Most men wouldn't have to ask what to do in such a situation.

That lady would kill him if he doesn't let go.
She's not in love with him anymore, so better for him to move on with his life and take custody of his children.
Who takes back a cheating wife?

Horrible advises here plenty. One advise to get a small girl to counter cheating wife, i laugh in Spanish.
A more reasonable approach is to confront your wife and address the sex issue at home, divorce your wife if she is cheating with evidences ASAP. There is no need to go back and front with a cheating spouse, the trust is already broken. Stop giving her money except she use the money for the kids and marry a faithful woman.
Move on, stop crying. People cheat and move on

Coolguy34:
Well the elders has spoken up there but if you need my help I can teach you how to clone her what'sapp and read her messages directly on your phone or laptop but you will pay me a token tho... .

Check my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

How much is the token

Microwhy:

First class werey..
I truly like your sarcasm , its well compose.
No doubt you're still single but you will understand his pains in due tine.
80% of wives push their husband to the hands of side chic.
Nowadays wives are truly evil.
The OP should just take it easy and setup a trap for her.

Na person wey lose guard women dey chop their eyes.
I have been married for 10years with 2 beautiful kids. They live in the UK, and each time we have issues over the phone, I tell her point blank, I am not afraid to lose her even though she is now my mother.
Need I tell you, I met my wife as a virgin, and I conducted DNA on my two boys when this paternity fraud became a thing.

No dey talk like Obote.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

I feel for you dear. Consult specialists who could assist you to uncover her dirty secrets and then throw her out of your life and those of your family. Endeavor to get incontrovertible evidence and don't make the mistake of towing the line of reconciliation or forgiveness because it doesn't work.
This type of woman can waste you to continue with promiscuity.