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Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by chemberlin(m): 2:47pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
I was expecting something from this story and I didn't see and that part is that he is assaulting you. Since he is not then I advise don't leave. Look for ways to get things going to train your kids. He will be tired of his new found life style and get back to his senses. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by fidel2(m): 4:40pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Kayan mata @ work. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Romanoff(f): 4:45pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
chemberlin: Really? If it's your wife doing this to you, will you accept this type of advice? |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Romanoff:fk offf biatcxhxhx |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Mom007(f): 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
If you are leaving, leave his children for him pls. At least before he should be thinking or talking of taking another wife, his children should be fed and in school. The new wife should also have a hand in raising his children. Failure to do this, just be prepared to either leave of your own accord and fend for your yourself and children or you sit there and take whatever he dishes out to you. You left a mans house because of misunderstanding, still beg him to come take you back... Can't you see you were not wise? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by kelspinall(m): 6:22pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
nsogbu akarie |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by zuby4real10(m): 6:30pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
This is the highest level of "see finish" i have ever seen in my life. He pursue u nd ur children out of his house for allegedly doing him nothing wrong nd u r still the one begging to come back. It is all obvious that both you and your family are depending on him for survival and he is now feeling exhausted and frustrated. Everyday we keep on telling young girls to hustle and make their own money b4 going into marriage but laziness and greed will not not allow them to hear. I have came across a female friend that told me that she is too beautiful to do any hard work just to make money. She said God has already made her rich for been beautiful. Which woman with her own money to take care of herself can tolerate this nonsense from any man.? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Johnnyboy6757(m): 9:03pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
balmingilead:the problem is more spiritual than physical. If u really want ur husband back u have to bend ur knees to pray.. If u DNT believe in prayers n u want ur husband to come back to you n luv only u. Send me and email. I'll tell u wat to do. There's nothing as sweet as husband's and wife's luvin demself unconditionally. Cheers |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by seanwilliam(m): 10:51pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Rozross:100% you’re so on point . God bless the man , When a woman demands for bread, give her bakery ! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by seanwilliam(m): 11:00pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Ethanuella:I personally won’t welcome such invitation too. In as much as I didn’t pursue her out of my house , then her family shouldn’t expect me to come over and settle the matter. Honestly they will waka Will their legs to my house and BEG me.. It’s very normal for husband and wife to fight , but engaging third party without my approval will worsen the situation. Also the woman should be honest and tell us what transpired between them. I bet her husband is a very sensible and reasonable person, even a mad man will have 5 min calmness, there must be reason for the man’s reaction. It’s impossible to just wake up and say you’re done with someone without a genuine reason . |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by worksmart(m): 11:37pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
So nobody spotted that the thread was sponsored by the products that OP is trying to sell in the last 3 or 4 lines of the writeup . The story was just created as a vehicle to help promote OP's products . Notice OP plays no further part in the thread after their original post |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by 9japride(m): 1:20am On Oct 13, 2022 |
Issues get different levels, we don't really know the degree of seriousness of the issue you had with your partner? I believe the man must be very hurt. I suspect cheating and betrayal of trust. Most times is very difficult for a man to accept a cheating wife especially when he has been suspecting her and she keep denying it and eventually it turns out to be done with someone close to him. Normally, marriage matters dey get as eh be, because both parties will like to paint the other bad just to look good. If you were wrong try show that you have changed and continue talking to he's family members and close friends to intervene on the matter. It's well. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by chigoziri2403(m): 5:36am On Oct 13, 2022 |
What was the cause of the initial fracas |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Mercury12(m): 6:53am On Oct 13, 2022 |
If you can get him to rent an apartment for you and the kids it would be better. This is for your safety because from the way you talk I don't think you have such strength to taken much toxicity that usually comes from polygamous home and to make it worse your husband claim he does love u anymore. It would be better you move on and if he ever comes begging don't accept |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by tunjijones(m): 6:54am On Oct 13, 2022 |
Why can't most women make their own money? Later you pple will be competing with men. I hate lazy women who can't make a living by themselves without a man. It's so common in Africa. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 13, 2022 |
Someone says he doesn't want you and you're still there begging even with another woman already in the picture. Receive sense. Like someone said, the other woman could have a deadly disease and you would be doing yourself a lot of good if you leave now that he has not touched you instead of risking your life with a dog. This is why sometimes, I'm at peace without a man because they all end up being the dogs they are. Not Worth being with. Marriage my foot. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by garriAndsugar: 8:45am On Oct 13, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:Continue consoling your lonely self.. after you will come here to start asking useless questions about men |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Elevation(m): 9:04am On Oct 13, 2022 |
You really need prayers and good counselling from spiritually and emotionally balanced individuals, people with wealth of marital experiences. I can recommend someone for you, no charges but sincerely you'll become more serious than before. DM |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Medianna(f): 9:10am On Oct 13, 2022 |
worksmart:You mind nairaland amebo gang? I thought i was the only one seeing market strategy here. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Iamicekid(m): 9:24am On Oct 13, 2022 |
Candidlady: She should first start by telling us what she did to the husband or what happened to make the husband tell her to leave in the first place, her just saying they had a misunderstanding doesn’t cut it, and also doesn’t she has a job why must the husband be the one doing everything, u wan manage with am but it’s still not your money, even In the managing the man will still be the one paying for everything and u come online saying u want to manage with am , abeg get out |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Ayomivic(m): 9:50am On Oct 13, 2022 |
balmingilead: All you need is prayer. Your husband might be under spell. He might eat vegetable. Actually ,we don't know what actually happened between both not you since you didn't say it to determine who is at fault but the lesson all women who are still in love with their husbands should learn is that don't ever pack out of your husband house to look for solution even if your husband ask you to do so except if he had became so violence that your life and that of your children is at stake. If not never abandoned your House to stay with anyone Secondly, don't ever threatening your husband that you will packout As I said , we don't know if your husband is under her spell .ale sure you pray for your husband. Do good that can make him realize what he is doing and becareful of yourself and your children from her because she can do anything things to get what she needed If you are a good wife . Let his parents talk to him , let his friend talk to him . ready to do away with all he complained about you that he don't want. Let all people you know he respected talk to him on your behalf like his pastor etc. If he refused to pardon you that means . He is under her spell and all you need is good behavior towards him and fervent prayer. May the good Lord save your family from strange woman. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by CivilEngineer90: 10:13am On Oct 13, 2022 |
This is how mother in-laws break up their daughters homes. What reasonable woman will ask her daughter to leave her husband's house without making moves to settle their issues. Well even in some tradition it is a taboo for a woman to leave with the kids so I suggest you hang in there or go back to your mom. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by urbobo20(m): 10:16am On Oct 13, 2022 |
My only advise for you,is that, if you are leaving pls leave the children for htm to take care of and start your life again then change environment but if you decide to take those children along my sister u are on your own , no man will marry u not in this buhari government that I will train other people children before my own |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Nobody: 10:46am On Oct 13, 2022 |
garriAndsugar: I thought I warned you to stay off my mentions? I won't warn you again or grant you the honor of exchanging words with me. |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by Israeldan1(m): 11:27am On Oct 13, 2022 |
I repeat this almost all the time to everylady I date or my friend if you want a man to love you with all his heart treat you well and respect you Be dependent on your own Request less from him He will respect you But don't prove like a boss U will lose the respect Just sort out bill on ur own If possible for him too � And thank me later If he has sense he won't wanna get things from u too much because of later insult... |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by frozen70(f): 11:35am On Oct 13, 2022 |
balmingilead: The only thing that you can do is to respect him and be loyal to him Dont challenge his authority just be humble For the main time, stop telling him not to marry her Submit your request into prayers to God Pray both day and night Is only God that can change his mind Am sure by now you have learnt a bitter and big Lesson |
Re: I Need Advice, I And My Husband Had Some Issues And He Asked Me To Leave. by garriAndsugar: 12:47pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:I can't leave you lonely I will be feeding you with attention so you won't be hungry |
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