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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Horlahdgold(m): 10:16am On Oct 13, 2022
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 10:20am On Oct 13, 2022
satandeterrible:

Take it to sexuality thread and watch those ashewo beer parlour boys derail it.
Whatever must be said, should be said here.
Sexuality section will attract a lot of crazy simps.

I REASON WITH YOU

BECAUSE THOSE GUYS MIGHT TROLL UBUNJA

SINCE HERE IS AN AMORAL SPACE I GUESS UBUNJA SHOULD DROP THEM ON THIS REDPILL THREAD

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:51am On Oct 13, 2022
CaveAdullam:


Baba calm down and read that post by @shadayaKnight, shared by heartofcity12.

Everything you said validated that post.

The red flags where obvious but you and your friend were busy doing lover boys. And heartbreaks like this makes many men stay longer in the rage stage when they become exposed to the redpill.

"I nor too simp that year sha because I broke and I still broke ehen. But I sha waka barefooted from St Albert to Management science field when her shoe cut for road. I give her my leather palm slippers come begin dey trek for road and bush inside university my broda...and that friendzone nor fit get part 2 for this life. I don wise up sha".

"Smartb0y and Martinez39s...i nor call una mouth for this small story make I share o".

Winks.
I always go offline when the hot conversations are trending cry

**Sighs***

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 11:27am On Oct 13, 2022
Tonnyray:
Belated birthday wishes bro.
At 19 I had no social life. With the advantage of hindsight I know it was good for me. Consider yourself lucky bro.
Cut off social media or better still tame it if you want to make tremendous progress in life. I see too many young folks totally consumed and destroyed by it already. The most heart wrenching thing I see these days is full grown bearded men in their late 20's totally sold to the dopamine bursts from pixels on their phones. There are 3 in my organization that our HR has identified and queried at least once. I have personally penciled one for termination by end of the year. He's in my department. Productivity zero. Initiative zero. Contributory value zero. Yet this guy will forever be glued to viewing videos on tiktok, statuses and instagram in the office. I have invited him for a hangout on 2 different occasions to help him however I can. Tried so hard to make him realize that the society we live in has zero tolerance for men who don't got their sh!t together. A babe can get away with plenty of such crap, some "cool" dude will still wife her up, as a guy you simply can't. All my entreaties were to no avail. As far as I'm concerned I need to act in the best interest of the organization now. He's a goner. The shock therapy of losing a N200k/month job might be all that's needed to rewire his cerebral cortex.

Why did I go into all this? You need a real life my guy. Your generation is just as blessed as it is cursed. Blessed with all the wherewithal to succeed right at your fingertips, as in just clicks away. Cursed with distractions on distractions on distractions. The choice is ultimately yours. Define your values. Define your goals.
Sign up on LinkedIn not instagram or tiktok or twitter or any of these hopeless apps that are wired to serve as distractions. That is my candid advice. Start taking necessary online personal and professional development courses.
Network with people in your chosen career path. Find mentors. Follow people that have made positive impact in society. Forget about "celebrities and entertainment stars" they are a curse to your generation. Focus only on people who have walked the paths you seek. Who have achieved meaningful things.
Money is good but do not let it be a major motivation just yet. If you put in the next 5-10 years into learning the right things, you'd have set yourself up for a lifetime of earning the wow $$$. The goal is to make money even in your sleep. Even I am on this quest my brother.
Meet real people, play down online dalliances, but be very, I mean extremely choosy who you allow into your space. Only people that will positively impact you and aid your trajectory in life.
I could go on and on but this is it in a nutshell.
I wish you the best bro.
Many more years to celebrate.
Thanks. I would not forget these words.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:32am On Oct 13, 2022
Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself,ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. You should not rely on a woman's moral compass or emotions to override her hypergamous programming.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 11:34am On Oct 13, 2022
JESHAL:
Women are smarter than men in relationships, for they settle down as their value drops, whilst men do as their value rises
So true

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by satandeterrible: 12:04pm On Oct 13, 2022
JESHAL:
Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself,ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. You should not rely on a woman's moral compass or emotions to override her hypergamous programming.
1000% Factual.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McOluOmo: 12:49pm On Oct 13, 2022
Mubbyleey:

We can't wait man, Sexuality Section it is then... But i don't think that'll be necessary tho since this is a red pill thread or page. And again, since anything can be shared here.

Just like satandeterrible said, Taking it to sexuality thread will give room to ashewo beer parlour boys to derail it.
I go with his statement that "Whatever must be said, should be said here."
Sexuality section will attract a lot of crazy simps which i agree with as well.
Supported

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by princekami(m): 2:45pm On Oct 13, 2022
HARDESTNIGGAINT:





BOSSS, WHAT DO THIS ELITES GOT WITH THIS DEPOPULATION OF THING??

Money, resources, ability to reshape the world amongst many other reasons, but when you hear depopulation, what should come to your mind is the black race.
The first screenshot was a quote from the founder of planned parenthood.
We Africans are sitting on a truckload of resources and we are ignorant of it so basically those that need it will surely come for it.

I won’t say to much today because the screenshots speak for themselves.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 3:02pm On Oct 13, 2022
SAY NO TO THIS SCAM

THIS POST IS JUST LIKE YOUR GIRL SAYING YOU STOP GOING TO THE GYM

IN ORDER WORDS THIS PIC IS TRYING TO EMASCULATE CERTAIN "BOYFRIENDS" TO SUCK BREAST AND FORGET ABOUT THE GYM



YOU WILL NEVER HEAR OR SEE THE "MEDIA" SAYING WOMEN SHOULD STARE AT A MAN'S DICK FOR 10 MINS FOR A HEALTHY LIFE



FLASHBACK BOUT SOME YEARS AGO
THEM MEDIA BE SAYING MEN SHOULD DRINK THIER MOTHER'S OR BLOOD SISTERS "URINE" COS THEY SAID IT CURES MALARIA

WHO CAN REMEMBER THIS VIVIDLY?



BUT YOU WILL NEVER HEAR THEM MEDIA PREACH WOMEN SHOULD DRINK THIER FATHER'S OR BLOOD BROTHER SPERM OR URINE TO CURE THEM FROM GONORRHEA OR MALARIA

EVERY BAD BAD SHITS WOULD BE THROWN AT MEN'S FACE

WHAT A BIG SHAME


MOST CERTAIN "BOYFRIENDS" WILL ACCEPT TO STARE AT BOOBIES FOR 10 MINS THAN TO HIT THE GYM

BROTHERS, IF YOU LOVE THE GYM, HIT THAT MOTHERFUCCKING GYM


"NO BRA DAY" IS EVEN CELEBRATED

THIER MUMU GO SOON DO

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by princekami(m): 3:07pm On Oct 13, 2022
Just imagine if they can sterilize humans through forced vaccination for atleast two generations that should greatly reduce our population. The second image “the children of men” is a old movie about how women were no longer getting pregnant everybody became infertile. In the movie humans had been sterilized.


Guys I’m sorry I dumped this here but he asked me a question and it’s only normal I reply him.

Abeg The great Ubunja please teach us the next step and those of you that don’t want that kind of discussion and you are still here on the redpill thread LISTEN UP
Rollo Tomasi the founder of Redpil says “Game is the Application of the Redpil”.

Meaning redpill lessons are just theory but Game is the practical aspect of it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sapy442: 4:16pm On Oct 13, 2022
HARDESTNIGGAINT:


I REASON WITH YOU

BECAUSE THOSE GUYS MIGHT TROLL UBUNJA

SINCE HERE IS AN AMORAL SPACE I GUESS UBUNJA SHOULD DROP THEM ON THIS REDPILL THREAD

If it's going to be explicit Don't you think the mods will decsend on it and censor or even remove it entirely from the thread..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 4:28pm On Oct 13, 2022
princekami:
Just imagine if they can sterilize humans through forced vaccination for atleast two generations that should greatly reduce our population. The second image “the children of men” is a old movie about how women were no longer getting pregnant everybody became infertile. In the movie humans had been sterilized.


Guys I’m sorry I dumped this here but he asked me a question and it’s only normal I reply him.

Abeg The great Ubunja please teach us the next step and those of you that don’t want that kind of discussion and you are still here on the redpill thread LISTEN UP
Rollo Tomasi the founder of Redpil says “Game is the Application of the Redpil”.

Meaning redpill lessons are just theory but Game is the practical aspect of it.
people don't realise that after the Corona virus the clock started ticking. We're literally in the New World Order it's only a matter of levels.

Mandatory vaccines are the game changer. Cause if you can force all citizens to get a jab on pain of job loss and being cut off from public participation - and almost 90% of citizens take it, then the vaccination program becomes a tool that can be weaponized against the masses eg load it with sterilizers. It's scary crazy.

And remember Kanye West's bank account been removed from this other bank meaning we're about to enter that phase where the powers-that-be can cut off your finances if you're deemed a nuisance.
The night is only starting. It will take time for the tyranny to mature but the seeds have started to germinate.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sapy442: 4:37pm On Oct 13, 2022
ubunja:
Basically...
Your writings are mostly self explainatory, but this part confuses me;
It is also why women get the most heart broken over a man who doesn't give a shit about them - cause women are with this man for the way he makes them FEEL not how he himself FEELS about them

because if they don't care how he feels, then him not giving a shit about them should not be an issue

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sapy442: 4:50pm On Oct 13, 2022
ubunja:
people don't realise that after the Corona virus the clock started ticking. We're literally in the New World Order it's only a matter of levels.

Mandatory vaccines are the game changer. Cause if you can force all citizens to get a jab on pain of job loss and being cut off from public participation - and almost 90% of citizens take it, then the vaccination program becomes a tool that can be weaponized against the masses eg load it with sterilizers. It's scary crazy.

And remember Kanye West's bank account been removed from this other bank meaning we're about to enter that phase where the powers-that-be can cut off your finances if you're deemed a nuisance.
The night is only starting. It will take time for the tyranny to mature but the seeds have started to germinate.

There's an angle from which I have viewed this coronavirus of a thing, I have always believed it to be the altimate game changer for the new world order.
Coronavirus helped Europe to escape an economic breakdown, with so many elderly citizens sitting in retirement and waiting for pension and a govt not willing to pay that pension.....here comes coronavirus which helped Europe get rid of most of her elderly citizens, cutting cost for the health insurance companies, and the govt don't have to pay pension anymore.
Also most casualties of the virus were people with underlying health conditions, meaning of not for the virus a whole lot of people would have still been alive utilizing their health insurance frequently, but since they are no more the health insurance companies gets richer.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2022
BigBashiru:


29 or 30yo can't cos they are powerless....its the person that has power that sets standards....that's why teenage girls set standards and can even attract top politicians including Senate members! That's power right there
Are You Stupid Or Under Some Spell Of Your Old Cargo, Sperm Depot.
Abi You're Female Understand Male Moniker.
Because i have watching you since you always talk about getting marry.
And you always type rubbish most times.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oshokhai69: 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2022
princekami:


Money, resources, ability to reshape the world amongst many other reasons, but when you hear depopulation, what should come to your mind is the black race.
The first screenshot was a quote from the founder of planned parenthood.
We Africans are sitting on a truckload of resources and we are ignorant of it so basically those that need it will surely come for it.

I won’t say to much today because the screenshots speak for themselves.

Must you answer a question that you have absolutely no clue what the answer is? For your mind, you go think say you be sharp guy with this jargons wey you just type abi??

The elites want depopulation to decrease crime and fight/scramble for the world’s scarce resources that they control.

The fact is if population growth is not checked, one day one day, the poor will wake up and start robbing, killing and eating the rich. That’s the rich man’s greatest fear.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 5:13pm On Oct 13, 2022
this level of disrespect is legendary grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 5:41pm On Oct 13, 2022
Sapy442:


If it's going to be explicit Don't you think the mods will decsend on it and censor or even remove it entirely from the thread..


EXPLICIT OR NOT EXPLICIT WHICH EVER THREAD HE CHOOSE TO POST IT
THE SERMONS WOULD STILL BE CENSORED

NOTHING STOPS THE MODS OF NAIRALAND FROM NOTICING IT EVEN IF HE CREATES A SEPARATE THREAD FOR IT

BECAUSE I KON TALK SAY MAKE UBUNJA SHARE AM FOR THIS REDPILL THREAD NA DAT WAN GO KON MAKE MODS VEX CENSOR AM ABI??


YOU HAVE NO POINT BRO

UBUNJA ENDEAVOUR TO ENLIGHTEN WE LIKE ME THAT WANTS TO HEAR

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2022
Chai
Simps will not kill me

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:50pm On Oct 13, 2022
Having money doesn't make one alpha in every area especially when it comes to dealing with women, you can have it and women will teach you a lesson, you having it doesn't make you immune to their wiles and shit tests, making money and understanding female nature are two completely different things entirely,be ambitious,be productive but don't equate that to invincibility when it comes to dealing with women, that's why redpill awareness exist to expose the game to you as it is.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RikudoSennin: 5:57pm On Oct 13, 2022
ubunja:
people don't realise that after the Corona virus the clock started ticking. We're literally in the New World Order it's only a matter of levels.

Mandatory vaccines are the game changer. Cause if you can force all citizens to get a jab on pain of job loss and being cut off from public participation - and almost 90% of citizens take it, then the vaccination program becomes a tool that can be weaponized against the masses eg load it with sterilizers. It's scary crazy.

And remember Kanye West's bank account been removed from this other bank meaning we're about to enter that phase where the powers-that-be can cut off your finances if you're deemed a nuisance.
The night is only starting. It will take time for the tyranny to mature but the seeds have started to germinate.

We are currently living in the Orwellian times brother. Corona was created by the US for their sinister plans. It worked partly due to the shutdowns and the mandatory vaccination but it also woke people up to see how they have been living miserable lives, just working for the elites.

Kanye West account through Chase bank will be terminated this October ending. This is why i don't put my money in big banks. PayPal also included in their terms and conditions this month that they can fine anyone found disseminating disinformation for $2500.

In 1984(i recommend everyone on this thread to read this book, and also WE by Zamyatin to get themselves prepared), the big brother controls everything including information. Anyone following the SMO in Ukraine with an open mind knows that the information spewed by the west is all lies and the big brother controls everything.

It is why every African should support Russia, China and Iran on this fight against globalists. Russia is the only country standing between their plans for us in 2030 where we will own nothing and be happy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:02pm On Oct 13, 2022
Sapy442:

Your writings are mostly self explainatory, but this part confuses me;
It is also why women get the most heart broken over a man who doesn't give a shit about them - cause women are with this man for the way he makes them FEEL not how he himself FEELS about them

because if they don't care how he feels, then him not giving a shit about them should not be an issue
cause the woman wants this man for herself since she has strong feelings for him, but she can't keep him cause he's pursuing his own heart's desire - hence him leaving the woman brokenhearted.

To add, A man's own feelings for or against a woman don't play a role in a woman's attraction. You may like a woman or you may hate a woman that won't stop her from being attracted. The reverse is also true,, you may like a woman or you may hate a woman that won't make her become attracted.
Hence it must never be any man's duty to make a woman fall in love with him.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 6:41pm On Oct 13, 2022
Uptheante:
Guys, I have noticed that most males both boys & adults in Nigeria are far too simpish beyond what I have always assumed.
This my conclusion is premised on many scenarios I have witnessed, the latest & prominent ones are :

1. A young guy ( about 20 yrs old) who happened to be a friend to my kid bro, gisted me about his experience in a Nigerian University somewhere in southern Nigeria.
He told me that he went to a lecture hall to attend lecture, he met another friend of his who was sitting in the front row & he sat down on the only available empty seat close to his friend.
In most Nigerian public universities, the lecture Halls are mostly too small to contain all the 100 level students who mostly attend lectures together irrespective of department. For a student to get what the lecturer is saying, he has to get a front seat. Hence, many of them come very early or delegate their more punctual friends to reserve seat for them in the front.
Now, when this my kid bro friend sat down, his supposed friend never mentioned anything about reserving the empty seat for anybody o, infact, they were even gisting.
Now, a girl arrived while they were gisting & asked his friend for the seat she claimed she had asked the other guy to reserve for her ( entitlement mentality ).
The guy now turned against that my bro's friend & was even ordering him to vacate the seat for the girl ( seat that he met empty o ). My bro's friend initially refused & the other guy started yelling at him & even creating a scene just to collect the seat for the girl. All his friendliness disappeared at that moment.

Some random guys even appeared from nowhere & were even threatening my bro's friend to vacate the seat for the girl immediately or they will deal with him. Nobody supported my bro's friend throughout this event. Other guys there were either against him or were minding their business, but the other girls there
all sided with the girl. The girl in question even stood by the side arrogantly, waiting for her the whole drama to be over so that she can occupy the seat that was never hers.
Seeing that he was outnumbered by the gang-up of those guys + his 'friend' , my bro's friend vacated the seat for the girl.

He told me this story during their break & I quickly remembered the Red pill tips of Ubunja, Glycolysis, Martinez, Jeshal, Cave Adullam,etc, about how simps betray their fellow men because of women.

Why do so many guys behave like that? lipsrsealed
This post of yours remind me of when i was in secondary school there is this guy.
me and him do share the same desk so one day a new came in and the teacher teaching at that moment said one of us ( Students ) should make space for her.
So this my guy because he know this girl outside school he said i should leave the desk for her,
i was like are you mad or senseless that is how
matter escalate.
We fought each other when the teacher left our classroom and the most shocking thing you won't believe this guy used charm to fought me.
He confessed to me at school closing time.
Even i thought of it because immediately we stop fighting i was just sleeping all those most sleepy animals.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haynnie: 6:48pm On Oct 13, 2022
I come in peace.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brokeloser: 6:48pm On Oct 13, 2022
JESHAL:
Chai Simps will not kill me
What a very foolish man.At his age he no get sense.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 6:55pm On Oct 13, 2022
Martinez39s:
Guys, this is an addition to the Jamie Somers story I shared here earlier in two posts. I wanted to add it then, but I had to postpone. Check the links below
First post
Second post

The Jamie Somers story was a paternity fraud case that involved a fabricated DNA test. Back then, few years back, this story got me looking into ways in which a paternity test result can be forged. Of course, we can guess how, but I was surprised few years back to see that there are organisations out in the open that specialise in fabricating DNA test results. A quick google search will reveal the websites of these companies. Here are few of them:

https://fakepaternitytest.com/

https://www.fakeababy.com/products/april-fools-day-prank-fake-dna-test-laboratory-style (this company makes it look they are just helping you pull a prank, whereas they involved in helping you commit paternity fraud)

https://www.fakednatest.com/
https://www.fakednatest.com/fake-paternity-test-results/

The last two links are from the same organisation. This organisation even have the pics of its CEO and other staffs.
just look at those two clown grin grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brokeloser: 7:07pm On Oct 13, 2022
PayPal has backtracked on their foolishnes.But I'm sure they were just testing the waters.Information is being censored on a daily basis and those who do not conform are being persecuted.In a class of 33 only 1 person stood for the right thing
https://www.nairaland.com/7379924/university-students-demand-professor-fired#117507236

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 7:19pm On Oct 13, 2022
tosaino95:
This post of yours remind me of when i was in secondary school there is this guy.
me and him do share the same desk so one day a new came in and the teacher teaching at that moment said one of us ( Students ) should make space for her.
So this my guy because he know this girl outside school he said i should leave the desk for her,
i was like are you mad or senseless that is how
matter escalate.
We fought each other when the teacher left our classroom and the most shocking thing you won't believe this guy used charm to fought me.
He confessed to me at school closing time.
Even i thought of it because immediately we stop fighting i was just sleeping all those most sleepy animals.
There are so many guys who easily turn against their fellow guy just to please a woman

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kingsince95(m): 7:21pm On Oct 13, 2022
Hello kings.

Please I'll be needing everybody's input on this.

... At work, my department is mostly filled with women. I'm the only single (unmarried) young man In my department. I share same office with like 5 Young beautiful ladies (not hype).

Among these 5 ladies, there's one that's really attracted to me. I noticed some staffs already think I have something with her (emotionalIy) because she always like being around me even during meetings, the closeness and all. I also like her too, but I'm trying to be diplomatic. I don't want to mix emotions and business.


The thing now is, I'm not a type of guy that likes talking with women. If I don't have any plans of piercing a female, I see no reason to be talking with her.
But since they're my colleagues and we share same office, i just have to compromise.

I have this feeling that, if I continue talking with them it might lead to disrespect (see finish)... You know how women behave.

They always want me to talk with them. If I go silent for some hours they'll be asking me
"hope you're fine?"...
"This one you've been silent any problem?"

Sometimes, I had to put airpods on my ears during breaks just to pretend I'm not paying attention to their gist. So they wouldn't involve me in their discussion.

I already know what to do... But I need your inputs.

Please what should I do?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fearjah: 7:22pm On Oct 13, 2022
Tonnyray:
Belated birthday wishes bro.
At 19 I had no social life. With the advantage of hindsight I know it was good for me. Consider yourself lucky bro.
Cut off social media or better still tame it if you want to make tremendous progress in life. I see too many young folks totally consumed and destroyed by it already. The most heart wrenching thing I see these days is full grown bearded men in their late 20's totally sold to the dopamine bursts from pixels on their phones. There are 3 in my organization that our HR has identified and queried at least once. I have personally penciled one for termination by end of the year. He's in my department. Productivity zero. Initiative zero. Contributory value zero. Yet this guy will forever be glued to viewing videos on tiktok, statuses and instagram in the office. I have invited him for a hangout on 2 different occasions to help him however I can. Tried so hard to make him realize that the society we live in has zero tolerance for men who don't got their sh!t together. A babe can get away with plenty of such crap, some "cool" dude will still wife her up, as a guy you simply can't. All my entreaties were to no avail. As far as I'm concerned I need to act in the best interest of the organization now. He's a goner. The shock therapy of losing a N200k/month job might be all that's needed to rewire his cerebral cortex.

Why did I go into all this? You need a real life my guy. Your generation is just as blessed as it is cursed. Blessed with all the wherewithal to succeed right at your fingertips, as in just clicks away. Cursed with distractions on distractions on distractions. The choice is ultimately yours. Define your values. Define your goals.
Sign up on LinkedIn not instagram or tiktok or twitter or any of these hopeless apps that are wired to serve as distractions. That is my candid advice. Start taking necessary online personal and professional development courses.
Network with people in your chosen career path. Find mentors. Follow people that have made positive impact in society. Forget about "celebrities and entertainment stars" they are a curse to your generation. Focus only on people who have walked the paths you seek. Who have achieved meaningful things.
Money is good but do not let it be a major motivation just yet. If you put in the next 5-10 years into learning the right things, you'd have set yourself up for a lifetime of earning the wow $$$. The goal is to make money even in your sleep. Even I am on this quest my brother.
Meet real people, play down online dalliances, but be very, I mean extremely choosy who you allow into your space. Only people that will positively impact you and aid your trajectory in life.
I could go on and on but this is it in a nutshell.
I wish you the best bro.
Many more years to celebrate.

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