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| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by ceeceeuwa: 2:34pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
99% of post on this thread reaks of double standard. The blame is usually on the female like it's the duty of the female alone to make a marriage work. It takes two to tango! |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by mogxy: 2:35pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
doctore212: ![]() doctore212: |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Munzy14(m): 2:45pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Tallesty1:I tire for this marriage case.. Nothing beats marrying when one is ready, matured and prepared with one who understands him/her. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Munzy14(m): 2:49pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Lmao...You? The day ladies will summon your case to the Igwe in council..na wotowoto all angles. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by edoairways: 2:51pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:Why are most marriage seminar centred more on women than men |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Munzy14(m): 2:53pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
jeromestarks:The virgin noise is becoming unbecoming.. ![]() You guys seems to bypass character nowadays..A virgin with a nasty attitude is still a recipe for disaster.. Character and understanding keeps the marriage..Not virgin or non-virgin. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by edoairways: 2:57pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BigYash:That is not true |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Munzy14(m): 3:00pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
edoairways:A woman is the centre of the marriage..She keeps home. If she fails, the home has failed to stand. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 03, 2022*. Modified: 7:53pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
There are many Secrets to Success. But one that is rarely mentioned is the ability to endure Boredom. Anyone that ones to succeed at anything in this Life must learn to endure Boredom. Research shows that people who have a high tolerance to Boredom usually have stable lives. Note: 22% of the world's top 100 billionaires studied some kind of engineering. My advise is that let each partners study themselves very well, especially their strengths and weaknesses, and build a Marriage system that takes into account the personality traits of both partner. As a Determinist I believe that people's behaviour are mostly shaped by their external conditions, So the best tactic involves the shaping external factors in your control to produce the desired behaviour. The truth is that the procedures for success are usually long, boring, time consuming and exhaustive. When it comes to marriage the best advice is to not follow the crowd, because if you do what everyone is doing, you will get what everyone is getting. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 3:16pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Note: This is simply the opinion of an individual who is not a certified marriage counsellor, in case of marriage problems, it is advisabke to refer to a Certified Marriage Counsellor. •In order to Engineer a Successful Marriage let's define what marriage is. Marriage can be defined as the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship. Let's see marriage as a system with many interconnected aspects. In order for the whole system to work well the parts have to work even better Components of Marriage • Both Partners • Friends of Either Partner • Family Members of either partner • And Later on: The Children Factors that may Indirectly influence marriage: • The Media Mass media: T.V, Radio etc Social media: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. Note: The reason why i put the media is because, the kind of information we out in our minds affect our behaviour and our behaviour affect our marriage. Note: I may not be able to finish this article today, so i may have to continue tomorrow. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Arkmanbuddy(m): 3:27pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Baba, you dey vex gan o! |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by hustla(m): 3:29pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:True |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 3:32pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
edoairways:They are not centred around women, women just show more interest. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by KennethEnyi(m): 3:36pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
That’s because marriage is a fundamentally flawed institution that was created to imprison people in the mindless continuation of this pointless tragic human life and shitty existence |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by zedman1(m): 3:36pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
zed7:My mind skipped a bit when I saw your moniker. I almost started wondering when I commented here, lol.... and reading through, your ideology seems quite similar to mine. I don't believe there are any rules or manuals to keeping a marriage or making it work. If you guys flow, you flow, no dos and don'ts or any seminar is guaranteed to save a broken home if it's not meant to be. I'm married too (four years) and what I simply did was ditch my former idea of wifing a slay queen. It saved me much stress. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by elonize(m): 3:53pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:yeah ,u r right,ppo dey marry everyday, naso ppo dey divorce everyday.. Garbage in,garbage out ![]() |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by damoobaba: 3:54pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
femo86:You're not likely to EASILY find in Lagos, Calabar, Port Harcourt, Abuja, Benin, Asaba , Warri etc, but believe me, you can try osogbo, Akure and some other TOWNS where standard of living is low or you can target NOBLE FAMILIES where ladies were PROPERLY brought up. You met a random lady in Lagos who's here to look for money and you happy say you don find wife, my laff dey laff you. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by madridguy(m): 3:57pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Chai I pity the guy and his family though. Corridon: |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by elonize(m): 3:58pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
JaskanFactor:on d issue of looking for cheap place. No vex,sm women drown their husband in sorrow by looking for expensive rent to live in. Av seen smtin like. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by elonize(m): 3:58pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
JaskanFactor:on d issue of looking for cheap place. No vex,sm women drown their husband in sorrow by looking for expensive rent to live in. Av seen smtin like dat |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by damoobaba: 4:05pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
doctore212:Apparently your reason for marriage is for sex. Don't worry you'll get the one that will satisfy you but don't come here to scream cheating if she has other customers she satisfies or WHAT DO YOU EXPECT from a SEX GIVER. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by bonnyhope: 4:06pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:So reading books will stop women from seeing their ex Shm..m Just do what work for you No formula for this thing |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by zeeek(m): 4:06pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
This is because of the consistent preaching of prosperity. Do your findings, divorce is more among the Pentecostals. They even think it is wrong to say "for better, for worse" during solemnization. Messages of love, peace, mercy, forgiveness and holiness should be preached more. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Corridon: 4:08pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
madridguy:His father is somehow rich. He has a large piggery farm and other side biz. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Chetas81(m): 4:08pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe:but all angels |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Chetas81(m): 4:12pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
ednut1:IN AFRICAN CONTINENT |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by prophetfire: 4:25pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:So it's men that are responsible for marriage crashes then? |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by madridguy(m): 4:31pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
It is okay then. Fear grip me before make e no be say na the family 6 months savings dey take go marry the snake girl. Corridon: |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by justuschi50: 4:33pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
womenareapezz:guy calm down. Na so u hate naija girls, we men are partly to blame sha after corrupting dem with money. U as a men fit change bad girl to good |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by zanshi: 4:33pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Heathrow44:Have it at the back of your mind say your women fit dawg you it helps you take some descions with common sense as against using emotions. |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by elonize(m): 4:33pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
I've been seeing this word,if a lady has more than 2 body counts....and all dat... Na d body count u 1look bfor u marry.guys too have body count,so I dont want to c such words cos u will b judging d matter frm 1 angle. Body counts or not..genuine withdrawal frm such..can give u peace of mind.n dey can learn values,norms n morals.change is d only permanent tin. I only pity those girls doing hookup in their state,because wen time for marriage cms,such girl wud have slept with all d men in d state n no parents esp mothers will allow such,anoda extreme foolishness frm most of d ladies these days.d level of arrogance n ignorance is very high.d girl only cares abt 20,30 n 100k per nty.in dose days, dey travel to oda state to do dis. Most guys these days are something else... I saw a comment sm1 made abt pastor destroying marriage, dat 1na fake pastor. Without ur pastor,u can pray n ask God for guidance. Also ur pastor,d real 1 o.can tell u wat God showed him concerning d marriage if it will work or not.many who has gone against wat d God revealed, has never know no peace in their marriage n it scattered. Eg,if d pastor says DAT God is showing him a man dat is always punching pillows n u shudnt marry.u go ahead to marry,all ur face go dey swell up everyday.. At first,d marriage will b sweet den after Smtime.it will show forth. Aside frm spirituality, u need to look if at her mentality, her home training, d kind home she cms frm. First, u do dis ,den u ask God... Dats just it.. Smtimes, marrying for beauty or because he has money is a ditch,it dont end well. I think dat modern day ppo av left these tinz n dey suffer for it,a girl n a man with vision, spiritually compatibility. Am not born again ,but wen we see d truth,let's say it. May God help man pikin Those not wanting to marry,n u prefer baby mamas..kudos to u.cos ur eyes go soon clear n just know u dont have wat it takes ,d balls to own a family.our forefathers married n died at old age.renew ur mind on this subject |
| Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by JaskanFactor: 4:34pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
elonize:youre right women push thier men into the trap, and even mothers thier children. But its the culture the women have picked up from the government scientists behind television and programming of culture. They want people to aspire to a lifestyle thats a trap. But the city lifestyle comes with a package of stress and sleep deprivation that dehumanises a person. The city life style is a lie, its not for average income people and below, if you want to keep your sanity. In the cheap area i moved to to regain my sleep and sanity, 99% of the takeaway food is total rubbish, its boring area, but my rent is much cheaper, i sleep much better, my spiritual awareness increases with less effort. The sky is darker and stars brighter. If everybody knew the truth about what they are giving up to live city life, Lagos and Abuja will be empty in short order. In Europe this is now catching on as people a waking up to the knowledge, people are moving into vans, boats, forest , mountain cause now they can see the beast runs the world, there is no more need to try keep up with the jonses. The owners of the world want everybody in the big cities , that's why they have all their terrorists in the rural areas. So even that lifestyle is not without its challenge , but id rather die where i can sleep, rather than where my mind is feast for demons in the noisy busy unaffordable city. And they want everybody in the city cause its easy to turn off the food supply, by closing all the roads. If you dont think they planned that from over 100 years ago , then dont know nothing., Cause in normal times every street had a small farm, and those who removed that design from city planning were setting a trap . |
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