Bull crap, this can't happen in Africa.

That man should just goan start another family, all over. This one didn't work...
hahahahaha

Wrong moves by the girls. VERY Wrong !!
Filming this and showing it to the world VERY WRONG MOVE!!!

The mum should have put a stop to this because the marriage can never be the same again.

Kadoso Mutairu! E choke am!

seunmsg:


Lol. I can bet you’ve never heard of federal audit unit and posting from pool in the federal civil service. Go and learn how the federal civil service works and stop disgracing yourself on a public forum.

seunmsg:


Lol. I can bet you’ve never heard of federal audit unit and posting from pool in the federal civil service. Go and learn how the federal civil service works and stop disgracing yourself on a public forum.

Kadoso sàlàyé!

The children have no right to ridicule their father. It is husband and wife matter.

WillyCassey:
I hope if it is the mother that cheated and they're bashing her like this, all those people rilled up there will still be supporting her.

Cheating is not normal, and should not be encouraged from both genders. The fact we take it in Nigeria does not make it a norm, in many places you lose your job and friends for Cheating.
As for the dad, if you want respect, respect yourself. It is not rocket science.

Shut the trap in your head.

Kewtt:

Shut the trap in your head.

Lol, because the truth is too difficult for you to handle?
You can't shut me up unfortunately. Continue in your vituperation and you'll be banned.

Kewtt:

Shut the trap in your head.

Because you can't handle the truth? Unfortunately you can't shut me up.

The only thing insecure people like you know is, arrogance, bullying, intimidation, and insult. It does not work for me thou.

Abelino:
I'm very much proud of you Bro for this write up. Your level of reasoning is top notch. Nice one...

Thank you, bro., someone has to say the difficult truth sometimes.

PeachtreeReside:
Wrong moves by the girls. VERY Wrong !!
Filming this and showing it to the world VERY WRONG MOVE!!!

The mum should have put a stop to this because the marriage can never be the same again.

Why didn't the father do it instead? Why is it the woman's responsibility when the children are also the man's?

emerged01:
The children have no right to ridicule their father. It is husband and wife matter.

So, when a man abandons a marriage or a woman does the same, the impact on the children shouldn't be considered since the marriage according to you, na husband and wife matter only?

Ecne:
That man should just goan start another family, all over. This one didn't work...
hahahahaha

I swear. He is living with monsters. He should learn from his mistakes and start all over again. He has failed on this project. Let him dust his feet and try another project.

Firstcitizen:
I swear. He is living with monsters. He should learn from his mistakes and start all over again. He has failed on this project. Let him dust his feet and try another project.

So, when he does that, will his DNA in those kids be erased as well?

You lot think U.S.A is like Nigeria or Africa where you can wickedly abandon your own flesh and blood in effort to "start again" with another woman. Go ask those before you wey don try am see how dem end up.

Kobojunkie:
So, when he does that, will his DNA in those kids be erased as well?

You lot think U.S.A is like Nigeria or Africa where you can wickedly abandon your own flesh and blood in effort to "start again" with another woman. Go ask those before you wey don try am see how dem end up.

President of the US. So dear president the huge number of dead beat fathers in the US live in Africa abi..People that don't even know MMA telling us about the US lol

Firstcitizen:
President of the US. So dear president the huge number of dead beat fathers in the US live in Africa abi. People that don't even know MMA telling us about the US lol

So, you are advocating the man joins the league of deadbeat dads, many of them living like criminals running from child support? See advice biko !

Kobojunkie:
So, you are advocating the man joins the league of deadbeat dads, many of them living like criminals running from child support? See advice biko !

Try talk with a bit a intelligent reasoning. You just painted Aftica as inferior where parents abandon kids and I have countered you with the fact that the US is worse.

Secondly cutting them off is advisable as they are monsters and will drive him to suicide afterall 3 are above 18 and he owes them nothing.

He has failed to raise normal kids. Everyone deserves a second chance.

Firstcitizen:
1. Try talk with a bit a intelligent reasoning. You just painted Aftica as inferior where parents abandon kids and I have countered you with the fact that the US is worse.

2. Secondly cutting them off is advisable as they are monsters and will drive him to suicide after all 3 are above 18 and he owes them nothing.

3. He has failed to raise normal kids. Everyone deserves a second chance.

1. I painted Africa as inferior by stating a fact?

If you meant that as a counter, I am afraid it was a miserable one given that parents are technically not able to up and "abandon" their kids without consequence here, hence the reason why I explained that many of the deadbeat dads live their lives almost as criminals they are running from the law wherever they go. The same is not obtained in much of Africa, particularly Nigeria, where a significant number of men, and women, abandon their wards without consequence.

2. Your advice rings like the foolishness of a man who was arrested for killing his daughter. The man's excuse, or at least it read like one, for killing the daughter, and then burying her in a shallow grave was because she held his dick during an alternation between them.

3. He failed to raise "normal kids" and you don't see how that potentially means he is a terrible parent and shouldn't think of attempting that, raising other kids ever again particular since kids aren't tissue paper you can use and toss for your own purpose.

Kobojunkie:
So, when a man abandons a marriage or a woman does the same, the impact on the children shouldn't be considered since the marriage according to you, na husband and wife matter only?

Bro,the children are not in any way hurting father. You may think the insult means anything to the man,they have only succedded in hardened the heart of their mother. Are they going to marry another man for their mother? If they do, is any there assurance that another man wont cheat on their mother?
The only time children can interfere in this kind of scenario is to preach love,if they are so hurt that they cant they should quiet.
Husband and wife will always find a way to settle. If I were in that position,I will only tell me my mum that you know the reason you chose this man, he has offended you you just have to forgive him. Later i will know how to talk to my father not in her presence to avoid bad blood in the family.

Kobojunkie:
1. I painted Africa as inferior by stating a fact?

If you meant that as a counter, I am afraid it was a miserable one given that parents are technically not able to up and "abandon" their kids without consequence here, hence the reason why I explained that many of the deadbeat dads live their lives almost as criminals they are running from the law wherever they go. The same is not obtained in much of Africa, particularly Nigeria, where a significant number of men, and women, abandon their wards without consequence.

2. Your advice rings like the foolishness of a man who was arrested for killing his daughter. The man's excuse, or at least it read like one, for killing the daughter, and then burying her in a shallow grave was because she held his dick during an alternation between them.

3. He failed to raise "normal kids" and you don't see how that potentially means he is a terrible parent and shouldn't think of attempting that, raising other kids ever again particular since kids aren't tissue paper you can use and toss for your own purpose.

If you think cutting off 18 olds has consequences in any part of the world even in Africa that you falsely label because of what you think of the western world ( usual African low esteem mentality) I guess there is no point responding to your type.

Kids are not tissue paper and those monsters aint kids anymore. Know that and know everyone deserves happiness. He should learn from this failure and try again. He already lost this one

Firstcitizen:
1. If you think cutting off 18 olds has consequences in any part of the world even in Africa that you falsely label because of what you think of the western world ( usual African low esteem mentality) I guess there is no point responding to your type.

2. Kids are not tissue paper and those monsters aint kids anymore. Know that and know everyone deserves happiness. He should learn from this failure and try again. He already lost this one

1. So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach.

2. Have you ever known anyone to learn from failure by running away from his mistake?

No guess there it's already writen i the writeup there

Mindlog:
Premium humiliation.

I guess they are Ugandans based in the US.

Kobojunkie:
1. So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach.

2. Have you ever known anyone to learn from failure by running away from his mistake?

1.I guess you never listened to the convo or watched closely. Only the one sitting by the dad is below 18 and still does not stop him from walking away from that toxic volcano and starting a family elsewhere. ( even better for the mental health of the last one). Same advise goes to the woman.

2.With all due apologies you made mistakes in your first relationship and I guess you went back to it after 10 years to correct it abi. The Internet is a history book what those young ladies have done will never go away but consume. Every successful person has made mistakes in the past and failed. You know what they do? They appraise the situation and where it will cause further failures they try new things. Marriage na do or die? Cut off the hand that causes your sin before we hear a case of murder suicide in that home

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't the father do it instead? Why is it the woman's responsibility when the children are also the man's?

He is very guilty of what he was accused of the wrong and would not be able to caution the kids thats why the wife should have covered his shame by asking the kids to shush.

Firstcitizen:
1.I guess you never listened to the convo or watched closely. Only the one sitting by the dad is below 18 and still does not stop him from walking away from that toxic volcano and starting a family elsewhere. ( even better for the mental health of the last one). Same advise goes to the woman.

2. With all due apologies you made mistakes in your first relationship and I guess you went back to it after 10 years to correct it abi.

3. The Internet is a history book what those young ladies have done will never go away but consume.

4. Every successful person has made mistakes in the past and failed. You know what they do? They appraise the situation and where it will cause further failures they try new things. Marriage na do or die?

1. Again,So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach

2. If you made mistakes in your first relationship and the relationship eventually ended, you don't go back to the relationship after 10 years in order to learn from the mistakes you made. Instead, you accept and confront the mistakes you made in order to learn learn them. You don't learn from that which you do not accept consequence of or responsibility for.

3. That makes no sense at all. The internet is a history book, yet near none of what I have posted online has come back to date to consume me in the manner you presume. Even my college record online pretty much out there with not even my person interested in looking at it.

4. So successful people run away from their past failings is what you are attempting to assert here?

PeachtreeReside:
He is very guilty of what he was accused of the wrong and would not be able to caution the kids thats why the wife should have covered his shame by asking the kids to shush.

You are begging the question here.. why is the woman the one to cover the man's shame of cheating on her?

Enumerator:
No guess there it's already writen i the writeup there

It wasn't written when I made the post, it was updated way after as the OP only pasted the video and few words which did not highlight where they are from.

Kobojunkie:
1. Again,So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach

2. If you made mistakes in your first relationship and the relationship eventually ended, you don't go back to the relationship after 10 years in order to learn from the mistakes you made. Instead, you accept and confront the mistakes you made in order to learn learn them. You don't learn from that which you do not accept consequence of or responsibility for.

3. That makes no sense at all. The internet is a history book, yet near none of what I have posted online has come back to date to consume me in the manner you presume. Even my college record online pretty much out there with not even my person interested in looking at it.

4. So successful people run away from their past failings is what you are attempting to assert here?

1. This repetition and deliberate myopia shows you lost every argument

2. Why did you end the relationship rather than correct things. Your argument is diametrically opposed to the points you are making.

3.Good you said that. I was not referring to you by the way.Now this their damage is online hence we are sparring on the basis of it and the damage can never be repaired. Its even worse if you go by the 14 year resentment spilled by that young woman.

4. They don't run away. They learn from the mistakes, appraise the situation and where it will lead to collosal damage They use the knowledge and lessons to try a new venture.

I guess you prefer when one of them picks up a pistol so you can comment on the news of murder suicide

Firstcitizen:


Do you realise that with this logical reasoning you are responding to someone that shows every evidence of being an imbe.cile

More imbecilic male logic from you and the other imb_ecile males on the thread. How it must shrivel your scrota to think fairly.

Keep supporting other im_beciles home and abroad. After all, you all wield peenises. It's where your brains reside.

Logic indeed. More like backflips to support imbecilic men at all costs.

Kobojunkie:
1. Again,So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach

2. If you made mistakes in your first relationship and the relationship eventually ended, you don't go back to the relationship after 10 years in order to learn from the mistakes you made. Instead, you accept and confront the mistakes you made in order to learn learn them. You don't learn from that which you do not accept consequence of or responsibility for.

3. That makes no sense at all. The internet is a history book, yet near none of what I have posted online has come back to date to consume me in the manner you presume. Even my college record online pretty much out there with not even my person interested in looking at it.

4. So successful people run away from their past failings is what you are attempting to assert here?

Why do you bother with one of the most stupid pro-male posters on the forum? If you aren't thinking along his braindead lines, you will be sickened by his opinionated rubbish male logic.

Firstcitizen:
1. This repetition and deliberate myopia shows you lost every argument

2. Why did you end the relationship rather than correct things. Your argument is diametrically opposed to the points you are making.

3.Good you said that. I was not referring to you by the way.Now this their damage is online hence we are sparring on the basis of it and the damage can never be repaired. Its even worse if you go by the 14 year resentment spilled by that young woman.

4. They don't run away. They learn from the mistakes, appraise the situation and where it will lead to collosal damage They use the knowledge and lessons to try a new venture.

I guess you prefer when one of them picks up a pistol so you can comment on the news of murder suicide

1. I had to repost the comment as it seemed to have gone over your head.

2. If you, for example, cheated on your ex and she demanded an end as a result, do you force the relationship to continue all so you can correct things for yourself? Abeg, try to properly reason these things.

3. You are not making any sense me. If everyone knows their father cheated on their mother,how is that damaging to them?

4. So, they don't run away from it. Finally, we are were we ought to have been from the get go.

Lol...now a red herring?

Kobojunkie:
1. So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach.

2. Have you ever known anyone to learn from failure by running away from his mistake?

More male logic for you.

They will assume everything and anything to defend men and create situations that don't exist for women once they feel they can get a foothold in their gender bias logic.

Switch the genders in the story and watch his next crusade.