*My husband last longer in bed than my boyfriends but he had never satisfied me sexually* *I don't want to cheat on him and I need sexual satisfaction*

Some years back when I was working in an estate agent office, a woman with 2 years old baby whose shop was adjacent to ours approached me and said, " You seem to be very calm, secretive and wise, can I share my pain with you?" I quickly dropped my book and said," please go ahead".

She said without any introduction,*"My husband last longer in bed than my boyfriends but he had never satisfied me* *I don't want to cheat on him and I need sexual satisfaction*. I asked curiously,"do your man engage you in pre-intimacy before sex? She said yes! Do you reciprocate? She said yes! Do you feel anything during the pre-intimacy? She said No!

Initially, she showed it that she's not enjoying it but when she observed the man wanted to be observing. She started faking it. Then I asked; How did your ex do it that you enjoyed it. She said once they roll their hand gently at the line that divides her back, she got in mood. What about your husband? She said, my husband only suck my br...,kiss me,touch my thigh and my hair. He even do kiss my neck and earlobe. Ok, why didn't you tell your husband what to do? She replied," I want him to discover it by himself. That way, I will be happy.I told her, you might not enjoy your marriage till you turn old. Go and tell him the part that turn you on and let's see if it will work or not.

The following day, she brought a Malt and said thank you! What I experienced yesternight is as if I had never had sex before since I was born.Even, my husband was happy and this morning before he went to work,she giggled with joy, we had it again.

Lesson; stop saying your partner should have known what you want. If he/she didn't know, say it! You'll safe your relationship better than losing it while waiting for them to detect it. Thank you and I hope you learn something from this true life story!

Yes speak up, not everybody can read minds and make pre-intimacy your forte.

Nice one op.

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My husband last longer in bed than my boyfriends but he had never satisfied me sexually* *I don't want to cheat on him and I need sexual satisfaction*

Some years back when I was working in an estate agent office, a woman with 2 years old baby whose shop was adjacent to ours approached me and said, " You seem to be very calm, secretive and wise, can I share my pain with you?" I quickly dropped my book and said," please go ahead".

She said without any introduction,*"My husband last longer in bed than my boyfriends but he had never satisfied me* *I don't want to cheat on him and I need sexual satisfaction*. I asked curiously,"do your man engage you in pre-intimacy before sex? She said yes! Do you reciprocate? She said yes! Do you feel anything during the pre-intimacy? She said No!

Initially, she showed it that she's not enjoying it but when she observed the man wanted to be observing. She started faking it. Then I asked; How did your ex do it that you enjoyed it. She said once they roll their hand gently at the line that divides her back, she got in mood. What about your husband? She said, my husband only suck my br...,kiss me,touch my thigh and my hair. He even do kiss my neck and earlobe. Ok, why didn't you tell your husband what to do? She replied," I want him to discover it by himself. That way, I will be happy.I told her, you might not enjoy your marriage till you turn old. Go and tell him the part that turn you on and let's see if it will work or not.

The following day, she brought a Malt and said thank you! What I experienced yesternight is as if I had never had sex before since I was born.Even, my husband was happy and this morning before he went to work,she giggled with joy, we had it again.

Lesson; stop saying your partner should have known what you want. If he/she didn't know, say it! You'll safe your relationship better than losing it while waiting for them to detect it. Thank you and I hope you learn something from this true life story!