MisterRuk:
What I would say could be cringeworthy to many, but let me talk:
I've come to believe that marriages are important in the society. In fact marriages could even be the oldest form of human association ever known. Almost every human civilization, country, religion, and culture despite their differences and levels of development recognise the institution of the union between a man and a woman/women. They say families are the foundations of society but marriages are the root. Couples produce offsprings who become members of the society.
Marriage has brought about advancement in human civilization because without it our ancestors would have been risking the possibilities of incest. Imagine two siblings, a brother and a sister in a society where there is no marriage. They possibly don't know their father as it's mostly the mother who will bear the burden of child raising. The siblings become of age and their sexual capabilities begin to reveal, the male who may not be motivated to go outside and find a mate could use his sister to satisfy his sexual urge. Without a marriage which eventually bring forth children, it would be difficult for the older generation to pass on useful knowledge and skills to coming generation. If a man could easily satisfy his sexual need on any female he finds it becomes hard for him to build because he has nothing to loose and no children to father. Civilization would remain stagnant that way.
Even society itself is a form of union between two opposite forces: the government and the people.
So if we as men begin to condemn marriage as a trap, we might laying foundations for a society built on sexual promiscuity and eventually chaos.

nice analysis. Families are really the foundation of any society that's why even the New World Order luciferians are working overtime to break up the family. The family creates balanced individuals who can think for themselves and have honour and values, and a lot of the times families are religious and religious people from strong families are some of the most ardent patriots. This puts the family unit directly against the likes of the illuminati.

Then to your point, Are we against marriage as the Red Pill?
Not really. But marriage, especially in the West has become toxic for men. But this side (Africa) there's still a chance for an enduring union. Every man must weigh the pros and cons for himself and make up his own mind. Indeed marriage does have its own benefits for us. And I also understand Rollo Tomassi himself is married?

Women make rules for the betas
And break the rules for the alpha

The beta-male are at the lowest of all the heirachy table of SMV

The alpha males is at the top of the table they are the prize, they have abundant of women in their disposal
Women treat them like a king because they have many options women have to try hard to impressed them before they can be chosen
They are the one which women wants to share or passed their gene with because they are the best to women
They are the ones women go for when the are h0rπy
They are the ones which they want to make their babies with (best offspring)
They are biologically attractive to women because they make the top list of their hyperghamy



The bata male are at lowest they are like slave to women they are the one which women make rules for because they don't have a options they have to adhere with the rules , each time they brake rules they are punished heartlessly

Women don't give a shi**t about their existence because they are invincible to them they are the one who struggle to impress the women simply by what they can provide that can meet up their needs at that particular time
In as much as they can provide their needs they keep the relationship with them

The moment they cannot provide what they need the become resentful and avoid them immediately.

What determine the category you belongs:-
1. Your status
2.Your mindset (alpha - winner mentality) (beta- loser mentality)
3. Your self-confidence
4. You Psyche
5.Your experience with women ( understanding women nature)

ubunja:
the most cruel games Bro. That's the problem with marrying a non virgin especially if she's been sleeping with chads and Tyrones/alphas/select men,, when she has to compromise and settle with a Beta for survival, instead of her being appreciative instead she starts hating and resenting the Beta.
In the Beta's mind he deserves respect and honour for saving the woman but in the Woman's mind the Beta deserves to be punished for "taking advantage" of the woman's plight and using the power of money to have her.
If a woman has been dealing with chads and Tyrones/alphas/select men and she happens to have her own money she won't stoop low to deal with any Beta. She'd stay single and fucc these top men till she goes down the grave. If these top men per chance vanish from the face of the earth or there's a problem with the supply thereof - the woman, with her own money, would rather stay celibate, go lesbian or even kill herself before she allows any Beta to touch her. This is the end point of Hypergamy: extreme quality control of the human species where non deserving, sub par genetics must not be given any access whatsoever to the womb.

Ubunja say no more chairboss
In just a short words all men need to level up themselves since it's hard to see Virgin to marry.
Never settle down with with either Single mum or A lady above 23 not even 25.

One of my guys once dated a single mum girl
There is two things i detect to him on why he should never date her in the first place is

She is older than him i think she is 22 yrs while my friend is around 20 yrs.
Being single mother at tender age.

This my friend never take heed to my advice
All those time i never even come across REDPILL but i just sense it why should he be dating single mother when young girls are wanting you because this my dude is a very handsome guy.
I remember when the girl left her phone with him unlock because it has issue.
Naso my guy enter her Facebook begin see her sex with her baby daddy and other guys and she is about to visit one and the other.
Me just dey laugh inside and out. Tell him i don tell you sey this girl no be am for you instead you dey form lover boy, guy say he go breakup with her para para para.
After sometime i saw them settle i ask him you no breakup with her again.
He said he love her some much that she would change.
Long story cut this girl show this my guy hell on earth.
After that this guy start another hook up girl like that i tried caution he shun me.. from there i delete and unfriend on any social media i have him.
A very talented and handsome just making girls to use him anyhow.

tosaino95:


Ubunja say no more chairboss
In just a short words all men need to level up themselves since it's hard to see Virgin to marry.
Never settle down with with either Single mum or A lady above 23 not even 25.

One of my guys once dated a single mum girl
There is two things i detect to him on why he should never date her in the first place is

She is older than him i think she is 22 yrs while my friend is around 20 yrs.
Being single mother at tender age.

This my friend never take heed to my advice
All those time i never even come across REDPILL but i just sense it why should he be dating single mother when young girls are wanting you because this my dude is a very handsome guy.
I remember when the girl left her phone with him unlock because it has issue.
Naso my guy enter her Facebook begin see her sex with her baby daddy and other guys and she is about to visit one and the other.
Me just dey laugh inside and out. Tell him i don tell you sey this girl no be am for you instead you dey form lover boy, guy say he go breakup with her para para para.
After sometime i saw them settle i ask him you no breakup with her again.
He said he love her some much that she would change.
Long story cut this girl show this my guy hell on earth.
After that this guy start another hook up girl like that i tried caution he shun me.. from there i delete and unfriend on any social media i have him.
A very talented and handsome just making girls to use him anyhow.

it's tragic when a young man doesn't understand his own value and worth. He has a low self esteem and doesn't think he deserves more. It's a shame. A lot of men are like this. Problem is these single mothers can be cute. A lot of these single mothers have an appeal to them that a man has to actively resist.

On the topic of guys with low self esteem,, I used to know a guy who was drop dead gorgeous, such that even ladies would stop him in the street to talk to him. Dude was too good looking. But you know what? The last time I heard of him he was slaving away at some farms .... What a waste of talent.

And finally, Yes guys need to level up. But it must be mentioned that the quickest way to move from Beta to Alpha without improving anything or changing anything about yourself is to CHANGE YOUR LOCATION. That's the cheat code. Cause different places have different standards of attractiveness. An extreme example is if you're average in the City then you go to the village, you'll (generally) instantly be one of the top men over there. Now even moving from one city to another will affect your Alpha/Beta. Plus the ease of access to sex varies from city to city. Some places sex is easy to get. Some places sex is hard to get.

Like I have already said, different places have different standards of attractiveness...Let's say you move to a city with a lot of good looking people, even if yourself you're handsome, you'll instantly see your Alphaness slide down cause competition will be fierce. But if you move to a city with a lot of ugly people, you instantly rise up the ranks. A lot of you Naija guys may be having a hard time with women over there, but just a relocation to Southy will instantly change everything. This side Nigerian men are generally regarded as high value although you guys have to slow down with the spending on women - Cause it tends to get a lot of your countrymen exploited.
This relocation to get better is also what is the basis of the American Passport Bros movement. Where a lot of these guys are struggling with women in the US but in Latin America and Asia they're at the very top of the pyramid, and very much in demand.

Naija no be Yankee. In Naija, you want to be a high value alpha man, then you must be a man with abundant resources. I don warn una well. Go hustle and comot mind from words coming from useless old men like Ubunja. Una no wan hear. I feel very sorry for all of una wey dey listen to that idiot!

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Even when you are very attracted to a woman you have to have low tolerance for undesirable or disrespectful behavior.

High value people don't take shit people. When you feel she is being disrespectful, bitchy, exploitative, or taking you for granted, you need to purnish her for that.
Don't tell yourself, "she's only testing me" or "she's just a woman."

No bro, she's misbehaving. When a girl start misbehaving, you should not laugh it off or ignore it; because by doing, you're rewarding her bad behavior. You should purnish her immediately.
Same way women withhold sex to purnish a man. The best way to purnish a woman is by withdrawing your attention from her. Withdrawing attention can mean different thing depending on the circumstance. It doesn't always have to mean instant walking away, break-up or cutting of every form of communication with a her. You can still be interacting with a woman but you have stop giving her attention. Let her see in your attitude that you are turnoff and unimpressed with what she just did or say.

Make sure she apologize directly or indirectly before you start giving her full attention again.
Many women are simply spoilt and manipulative-- and that want to have their way at any cost. You've got to train them to be respectful and submissive to you.

Boss you said the truth.. I remember joining a youth choir eary this year, moste of our Choir members are within the age of 18 to 25.. and we are more than 50 members in our Choir because our church is a very big church.

We are just 4 that are within the age of 30 to 33, only three guys had car. 1 drives Toyota the second one drives Lexus while me I drives Sienna 205.

I have never approach any girl in the Choir be it they will take my number from the WhatsApp group and dm .. they even offer to come to my house on their own..

When ever we have a youth concert these girls always took provocative picture with me without minding if we are in church or not.

Same thing also happens to the 2 other guys with car..

If not that I run inter State I handling stay around, I for done bleep like 25 of them..

Ubunja you understand the game wella

ubunja:
it's tragic when a young man doesn't understand his own value and worth. He has a low self esteem and doesn't think he deserves more. It's a shame. A lot of men are like this. Problem is these single mothers can be cute. A lot of these single mothers have an appeal to them that a man has to actively resist.

On the topic of guys with low self esteem,, I used to know a guy who was drop dead gorgeous, such that even ladies would stop him in the street to talk to him. Dude was too good looking. But you know what? The last time I heard of him he was slaving away at some farms .... What a waste of talent.

And finally, Yes guys need to level up. But it must be mentioned that the quickest way to move from Beta to Alpha without improving anything or changing anything about yourself is to CHANGE YOUR LOCATION. That's the cheat code. Cause different places have different standards of attractiveness. An extreme example is if you're average in the City then you go to the village, you'll (generally) instantly be one of the top men over there. Now even moving from one city to another will affect your Alpha/Beta. Plus the ease of access to sex varies from city to city. Some places sex is easy to get. Some places sex is hard to get.

Like I have already said, different places have different standards of attractiveness...Let's say you move to a city with a lot of good looking people, even if yourself you're handsome, you'll instantly see your Alphaness slide down cause competition will be fierce. But if you move to a city with a lot of ugly people, you instantly rise up the ranks. A lot of you Naija guys may be having a hard time with women over there, but just a relocation to Southy will instantly change everything. This side Nigerian men are generally regarded as high value although you guys have to slow down with the spending on women - Cause it tends to get a lot of your countrymen exploited.
This relocation to get better is also what is the basis of the American Passport Bros movement. Where a lot of these guys are struggling with women in the US but in Latin America and Asia they're at the very top of the pyramid, and very much in demand.

Dabronze:
It's always men fault
Because women can do no wrong

She said accidentally have sex with them. What does she mean? Like ah ah staright 30 minutes of penetration and she says it's an accident. How? Women and accountability.

@luminouz how far

ubunja:
it's tragic when a young man doesn't understand his own value and worth. He has a low self esteem and doesn't think he deserves more. It's a shame. A lot of men are like this. Problem is these single mothers can be cute. A lot of these single mothers have an appeal to them that a man has to actively resist.

On the topic of guys with low self esteem,, I used to know a guy who was drop dead gorgeous, such that even ladies would stop him in the street to talk to him. Dude was too good looking. But you know what? The last time I heard of him he was slaving away at some farms .... What a waste of talent.

And finally, Yes guys need to level up. But it must be mentioned that the quickest way to move from Beta to Alpha without improving anything or changing anything about yourself is to CHANGE YOUR LOCATION. That's the cheat code. Cause different places have different standards of attractiveness. An extreme example is if you're average in the City then you go to the village, you'll (generally) instantly be one of the top men over there. Now even moving from one city to another will affect your Alpha/Beta. Plus the ease of access to sex varies from city to city. Some places sex is easy to get. Some places sex is hard to get.

Like I have already said, different places have different standards of attractiveness...Let's say you move to a city with a lot of good looking people, even if yourself you're handsome, you'll instantly see your Alphaness slide down cause competition will be fierce. But if you move to a city with a lot of ugly people, you instantly rise up the ranks. A lot of you Naija guys may be having a hard time with women over there, but just a relocation to Southy will instantly change everything. This side Nigerian men are generally regarded as high value although you guys have to slow down with the spending on women - Cause it tends to get a lot of your countrymen exploited.
This relocation to get better is also what is the basis of the American Passport Bros movement. Where a lot of these guys are struggling with women in the US but in Latin America and Asia they're at the very top of the pyramid, and very much in demand.

Exactly change of location is a real cheat code. It's something I've experienced. And I'm going to experience again. This time I want to optimize it like Optimus prime. I got there pvssies were thrown at me from left to right but only fvcked one hoping to come back home and continue from there but it's been so difficult. But now I've accepted fate until I change location again with my experience now I know how to go about it but with moderation sha.

MJBOLT:

I Actually Posted this on my status this Evening Immediately i saw the picture

MJBOLT:

Man Thinks Buying Rolex will get him to get close. When others are pleading to buy a car for her and the one probably getting all her time doesn't care about her.... Many Men really need to wise up seriously....

I tell my single friends that if they're not financially stable that is,if they're not having any sort of investment and an account that can feed Three Mouths for A full year without it shaking them or disrupting their businesses,they should never be desperate for marriage... Only A fool will believe the saying that if you marry,them doors will open for you...





https://www.nairaland.com/7428215/married-living-single

SOZINN:




She said accidentally have sex with them. What does she mean? Like ah ah staright 30 minutes of penetration and she says it's an accident. How? Women and accountability.

That's women for you?
they like to cover up their ugly action in order to protect their reputation they always wanted to be viewed as holy saint that can do wrong!

To walk away is super power!

LutherSanchez:
Man Thinks Buying Rolex will get him to get close. When others are pleading to buy a car for her and the one probably getting all her time doesn't care about her.... Many Men really need to wise up seriously....

Some rolex are worth over $70,000. more expensive than many cars bro. For perspective $70,000 is around NGN50,000,000.

LutherSanchez:
Man Thinks Buying Rolex will get him to get close. When others are pleading to buy a car for her and the one probably getting all her time doesn't care about her.... Many Men really need to wise up seriously....

celebrity women are never worth it. Just for ego and nothing else. Some guy over here in Southy paid about a million rands bride price for some popular girl and threw her a lavish wedding,, just a few short years later she divorced him and left, the lady didn't even bother getting pregnant inside the marriage. Now dude, after spending all that much, doesn't even have a kid to show for it. Smh.. He's just as she found him.

fattprince:

Exactly change of location is a real cheat code. It's something I've experienced. And I'm going to experience again. This time I want to optimize it like Optimus prime. I got there pvssies were thrown at me from left to right but only fvcked one hoping to come back home and continue from there but it's been so difficult. But now I've accepted fate until I change location again with my experience now I know how to go about it but with moderation sha.

it's true. Change of location. As well as change of circles. Can do the trick. Sometimes the circles we move in are the problem. For example What I've noticed in Southy, a guy who drinks will have more women than a guy who doesn't drink. Cause lots of women love alcohol and they'll go where they can find it. So even if you don't drink, just hanging out with guys who do will change your circumstances.

Alvelt14:
If we are been realistic, it is good to teach men on how things are done which is what this thread is about but if you keep ranting that you are alpha. Sorry bro you are no alpha.
The way to live is not always evil, have standards and boundaries but not evil not expecially in a bluepilled world, you will be bitten.
By saying not always evil, I do not mean you should be nice always. You will be eaten alive
There is no rules to live but maintain a balance, think for yourself and act depending on the situation.

No matter how you do, you will still collect if you are destined to collect. If you like act nice or arrogant, you will still collect.

ubunja:
it's true. Change of location. As well as change of circles. Can do the trick. Sometimes the circles we move in are the problem. For example What I've noticed in Southy, a guy who drinks will have more women than a guy who doesn't drink. Cause lots of women love alcohol and they'll go where they can find it. So even if you don't drink, just hanging out with guys who do will change your circumstances.

That's very true too. But this one is what I've witnessed but not experienced. I've always thought of mingling with guys but it just doesn't work, I'm a loner and an introvert. I feel I can't add value to the circle and I don't never want to be treated like a leech and I enjoy my own company so... But let's see if I serve sha (NYSC) I might have to force myself to make friends cos man isn't an island. It's hard to succeed (financial and relationship wise) without a circle or close friends.

We find it funny that the same group of men that are against the Redpill knowledge and principles are also the same group of men complaining that we getting all the attention and connections from women wherever we went/go.

They just don't understand how a "childish women hating, irresponsible misogynist" like us be getting all the love and attention from women while women loving White Knights and responsible real men like them are being friendzoned...

They just don't understand how the same girls that confidently told them they hate and dispise men like us with passion are sending us nudes, be requesting and ending up as some of our freakiest FWB....

Even the married ones don't understand why our names always come up whenever they be discussing with their wifes or why their wife's be comparing them (The husband) with a toxic misogynist like us...

You guys are lucky I don't do married women...

Simps be wondering how the same women who refused to respect and submit to them even with all the love, care and sacrifices They be receiving.
Are willingly submitting and respecting guys like us...

SIMPle men be wondering how the same girls/women that called/messaged them for urgent 2k are also the same women sending guys like me 200k on the weekend just to have the privilege to hangout and be seen with us.

Modafuckerrs be lucky I still have some moral principles if not, I be snatching, their women...

Those of you that choose not to embrace the Redpill, pray guys like me don't come across your girlfriends.
Because If we do, I promise you.
You will be friendzone.

LutherSanchez:
I tell my single friends that if they're not financially stable that is,if they're not having any sort of investment and an account that can feed Three Mouths for A full year without it shaking them or disrupting their businesses,they should never be desperate for marriage... Only A fool will believe the saying that if you marry,them doors will open for you...





https://www.nairaland.com/7428215/married-living-single

This is something that scares me about marriage and that is you must PERFORM!

The financial commitments, paying bills, being a provider: you have to produce consistently and unfailingly for at least 20 years of your life. No rest!

As a single person, you can afford to be broke and penniless but it's hell if you've got a family that depends on you and as a man.

Can't count how many cases of married men I've seen who went broke in marriage and are yet to recover.

It's just scary!

Sometimes, I think the marriage stuff is best left for the elite: middle class and poor men should just avoid.

I know, crazy line of thought and debatable too but it's just how I feel.

And for those who intend to go into it in the nearest future, don't have anything against you guys but omo you guys are brave oh!

Every marriage is always happy
No matter what happen

After a wasting 14yrs to raised another man offsprings with his hard earned money and aborted the pregnancy that belong to him you still called that "happy marriage "

Dabronze:
Every marriage is always happy
No matter what happen

After a wasting 14yrs to raised another man offsprings with his hard earned money and aborted the pregnancy that belong to him you still called that "happy marriage "

survival of the fittest.

Some men will say that you should be generous, but these girls don't care. They just want to bill bill and bill without showing no respect.

Vulcanheph:

Everything you said is correct... Sue to the high number of simps, this has led many women to think all guys can be manipulated.
This post reminded me of an experience I had last month at a Suya spot ....
I had gone there to buy Suya and the aboki was already atttending to two girls (that couldn't make up their mind about how much Suya they wanted to buy).
I started selecting my own and paid for it, while I was waiting for it to get prepared, I started making small talk with the girls, out of the Blue, one of them said that I should buy for them too, in my mind I was like "because I don smile and talk with una, una think say I be mugu".... I simply and firmly told them no that I won't pay for them , collected my Suya and left.
What really disgusted me was the manner and tone they used to ask me to pay, as if it was a God given right.
I was asking myself , How can you meet a total stranger and just start making demands ?.
TRP way is the only way.

With the way things are going with married women, marriage is becoming a "never an option for me" cause God, damn.

There is a married woman whose husband is an acquaintance of mine but the husband is a simp.

I was having dinner in her place and she was overtly flirting with me, like Jesus. Can you please respect your husband while you are in front of him?

The worst part is that he can't seem to say anything, only to say "she's been having a rough day".

Thank God for my core principles, especially regarding married women, cause she is just crazy.

She wanted to seduce me several times that I have been there but Nah, I didn't take so many pills to be overcome by lust.

@Ubunja @Martinez09 @Caveadullum @Heartofcity and others. Keep giving us more useful content and God bless.

hopefulLandlord:


Some rolex are worth over $70,000. more expensive than many cars bro. For perspective $70,000 is around NGN50,000,000.

Then The Real Question is,How can any Sane Man spend ₦50,000,000 for a woman that he doesn't even know,like how would any man even spend ₦50,000,000 for any woman on this earth That's not his mother?? That's Insanity Man

Dabronze:
Women ain't loyal Lol

Why she go even snap photos with am? See as the actor the embarrass her husband.

Boss I love your way die. Chai and struggling guys are collecting loans to go and marry. They will now bring children to the world to suffer.

Emotionss:
I am going to change my current church.
The number of women from my church and home cell unit that are volunteering to came "cook and clean" for me every weekend is giving me anxiety.

Even the residents pastor and elders are not helping matters.

Is it a crime to be successful and single ?
Why will I intentionally sacrifice my space, comfort and happiness for a woman ?

Why are they not persuading the struggling and unemployed brothers for marriage ?

They said we should get married so that we will not be lonely yet 98% of married men are lonely to the extent that loneliness is even ashamed of their loneliness.

They said we should marry so as to get unlimited sex. Yet married men are the most sex starved category of men in our society today....

How ironic that the number of married men that engages in masturbation are 50% more than single men...

Of all the reasons giving by society on why you should get married in this age and time, peace of mind, long life, happiness and good health are not part of those reasons....

Society are quick to tell men to take good care of their wife's so that when we grow old, sick and broken our wife's will reciprocate and take care of us.
But I can not help but wonder why society expects the husband to be the one to have health challenges and not the wife...

It's like this people are not informed.
For the fact that my name is emotions does not mean I am emotionally available oo they should wait maybe in 40 years time (that is in 2062) I might consider but for now,