This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have
decided that I will apologize to you publicly
I'm sorry

firstly I'm sorry for making you feel worthless, I never meant to body shame you. half the time I was high and the other half i was just joking, I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, I rarely compliment how beautiful you are. I'm sorry

secondly I'm sorry for never being there for the kids, each time I see them, I was already half drunk, I didn't want them to grow up seeing me as nothing but a drunk so I pushed them away. I'm sorry

thirdly I'm sorry for not supporting your dreams, I didn't want you to go to the university because I didn't want to take care of the children while you were away, I wasn't ready to step up and be a father and you were against hiring a nanny because you fear that the children might be abused (sexually, emotionally or physically), that's why I ask for more kids, I see how you take care of the children with so much love and understanding. honestly I was scared. I didn't want my lavish lifestyle to end, I wanted to be at the club instead of staying home with the children, even the part time you were talking about still sounded stressful to me at that time. I'm sorry.

lastly I'm sorry for all I have put you through. for all the late nights, all the cheating. since we grew up poor, we didn't get to live a lavish life. I wanted the finest things in life and I allowed it to get to my head. I didn't mean to impregnate that girl, yes I did sleep with her raw but I gave her money to buy afterpills.

She was trying to blackmail me using the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby. I didn't know what to do, I was scared. I begged her to abort it but she was demanding to much. she thought I was rich, I explained to her that you are the one with the money not me, that's when she threatened to tell you about the pregnancy if i don't pay her off, the money she demanded was too much,I don't have that type of money but I know you do. I had to tell you. I'm sorry

I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.

I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.

So, the wife was sincerely right in all she said?
I didn't read all before exiting the thread because I thought all was too much coming from one man, so I didn't comment either as I was waiting for the 'other side's version of the story', but I'm kinda shocked now.

Well, you can still fix your marriage by also apologizing to her directly.
Be the dad your children need and the husband your wife wanted.
It's a path to lasting marriage.

Also, you've got to let go of the 'single-guy's lifestyle'.
You're a dad now. A husband. A mentor you ought to be.
Giving your family the love ant attention they need and deserve.

Your wife got fed up, how much more your kids?

As a father, it is of paramount importance to bond with your children.
Do not overlook that as it is very risky for your children not to miss your absence. It's when you grow older, you will understand.

You're not going to be young forever. A time will come when you won't be able to go clubbing, drinking, etc anymore. So, unite your family. Be there for your wife and children. They need you as much as they need their mother.

And I hope your wife finds this and accept your apology.

I don't know why I have doubts.
Until she confirm it's you,I'd take this OP as an imposter

For now

Man pls do.


I like men who accept responsibility and accept to change their ugly behaviours. No-one is a Saint not even me but I don't joke with my family,that is because if the home isn't convivial u won't be happy yourself.

Pls,make your wife happy and make it a priority because it would go along way in making the children to be happy with u. Remember your children are watching everything that goes around the house and they react thereafter.

U are not a bad man as far as u have accepted your faults and willing to change,pls keep it up and may God use this opportunity to renew and replenish whatever u may have lost in the past.

Congratulations in advance.

Wow! This is serious..
We are getting somewhere, Indeed your wife did not lie about all she posted here.
May God see you guys through.

Iapologize:
This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have
decided that I will apologize to you publicly
I'm sorry

firstly I'm sorry for making you feel worthless, I never meant to body shame you. half the time I was high and the other half i was just joking, I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, I rarely compliment how beautiful you are. I'm sorry

secondly I'm sorry for never being there for the kids, each time I see them, I was already half drunk, I didn't want them to grow up seeing me as nothing but a drunk so I pushed them away. I'm sorry

thirdly I'm sorry for not supporting your dreams, I didn't want you to go to the university because I didn't want to take care of the children while you were away, I wasn't ready to step up and be a father and you were against hiring a nanny because you fear that the children might be abused (sexually, emotionally or physically), that's why I ask for more kids, I see how you take care of the children with so much love and understanding. honestly I was scared. I didn't want my lavish lifestyle to end, I wanted to be at the club instead of staying home with the children, even the part time you were talking about still sounded stressful to me at that time. I'm sorry.

lastly I'm sorry for all I have put you through. for all the late nights, all the cheating. since we grew up poor, we didn't get to live a lavish life. I wanted the finest things in life and I allowed it to get to my head. I didn't mean to impregnate that girl, yes I did sleep with her raw but I gave her money to buy afterpills.

She was trying to blackmail me using the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby. I didn't know what to do, I was scared. I begged her to abort it but she was demanding to much. she thought I was rich, I explained to her that you are the one with the money not me, that's when she threatened to tell you about the pregnancy if i don't pay her off, the money she demanded was too much,I don't have that type of money but I know you do. I had to tell you. I'm sorry

I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.

I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.

KICK HIM OUT

He is not sorry!

inside life.

I said Romance section should be renamed Fiction section.

nairaland would soon be renamed as Nollyland.

Iapologize:
This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have
decided that I will apologize to you publicly
I'm sorry

firstly I'm sorry for making you feel worthless, I never meant to body shame you. half the time I was high and the other half i was just joking, I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, I rarely compliment how beautiful you are. I'm sorry

secondly I'm sorry for never being there for the kids, each time I see them, I was already half drunk, I didn't want them to grow up seeing me as nothing but a drunk so I pushed them away. I'm sorry

thirdly I'm sorry for not supporting your dreams, I didn't want you to go to the university because I didn't want to take care of the children while you were away, I wasn't ready to step up and be a father and you were against hiring a nanny because you fear that the children might be abused (sexually, emotionally or physically), that's why I ask for more kids, I see how you take care of the children with so much love and understanding. honestly I was scared. I didn't want my lavish lifestyle to end, I wanted to be at the club instead of staying home with the children, even the part time you were talking about still sounded stressful to me at that time. I'm sorry.

lastly I'm sorry for all I have put you through. for all the late nights, all the cheating. since we grew up poor, we didn't get to live a lavish life. I wanted the finest things in life and I allowed it to get to my head. I didn't mean to impregnate that girl, yes I did sleep with her raw but I gave her money to buy afterpills.

She was trying to blackmail me using the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby. I didn't know what to do, I was scared. I begged her to abort it but she was demanding to much. she thought I was rich, I explained to her that you are the one with the money not me, that's when she threatened to tell you about the pregnancy if i don't pay her off, the money she demanded was too much,I don't have that type of money but I know you do. I had to tell you. I'm sorry

I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.

I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.

I believe this apology should be a one on one thing plus I pray your change is genuine.

Blakjewelry:

I believe this apology should be a one on one thing plus I pray your change is genuine.

he opened his account not up to 3 days ago. Both stories are lies

Some of these stories on NL be like say you dey whine us.
"Sey you dey whine me ni, sey you dey whine me ni?"
Anyway, if this is not tales by moonlight, OPs wife, don't listen to him o.
He's not repentant and just doesn't want to lose his meal ticket

Sigh......is there like a special type of highness attached to creating fictional stories from nowhere? Or is it just joblessness? Cos I don't understand how anyone will derive pleasure in seeing people argue or gender war, cos this story is definitely tales by moonlight concorted by one person bored with life, abi na Seun, Seun if na you jewo bai bai nobody will beat you

Rubbish!

So what happens to the side chick and pregnancy? Will your appologises fix that too?

Ybaby:


KICK HIM OUT

He is not sorry!

I also don't believe this. He's only sorry because he's about to lose his cashcow.

When a man has something to lose he becomes meek and gently and appears to be contrite. Otherwise, he won't care!

Blakjewelry:

I believe this apology should be a one on one thing plus I pray your change is genuine.

Genuine my foot!

He isn't sorry at all.

Let his wife take him back and he will become worst than ever.

ferhyntorlah:


Genuine my foot!

He isn't sorry at all.

Let his wife take him back and he will become worst than ever.

Well I believe everyone deserves a second chance.

A

That the first poison gave you diarrhea doesn’t mean the second won’t kill you.



Enough said.

You guys aren't giving up, right? Anyways, try making the stories better so you could actually sell them to nollywood producers. The important thing is to tie the stories better and make it more realistic

Ahmed0336:
I don't know why I have doubts.
Until she confirm it's you,I'd take this OP as an imposter

I doubt it
If you read the lines and you have been following the story ..you will understand that it's 85% likely to be the hubby...but then who knows anything happens here

But if it's true ....
Nairaland is connecting families...


I remember the thread of the unmannered woman from another African country whose husband came on here to say his side of his story

I hope everyone that was calling the lady unprintable names can now realize their foolishness.

Iapologize:
This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have
decided that I will apologize to you publicly
I'm sorry

I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.

I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.

All your public apology cannot hold water. Go and apologize to her and stop disturbing public peace. If she wants permanent peace she will never take you back because your repentance is only fake as a result of what you will lose if she kicks you out. Hope your sorry ass is already kicked out of her house and never to be reaccepted?

All this tale by moonlight.
People get time sha

Anikulapo

I just hope this isn't another super story.

Iapologize:
This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have
decided that I will apologize to you publicly
I'm sorry

firstly I'm sorry for making you feel worthless, I never meant to body shame you. half the time I was high and the other half i was just joking, I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, I rarely compliment how beautiful you are. I'm sorry

secondly I'm sorry for never being there for the kids, each time I see them, I was already half drunk, I didn't want them to grow up seeing me as nothing but a drunk so I pushed them away. I'm sorry

thirdly I'm sorry for not supporting your dreams, I didn't want you to go to the university because I didn't want to take care of the children while you were away, I wasn't ready to step up and be a father and you were against hiring a nanny because you fear that the children might be abused (sexually, emotionally or physically), that's why I ask for more kids, I see how you take care of the children with so much love and understanding. honestly I was scared. I didn't want my lavish lifestyle to end, I wanted to be at the club instead of staying home with the children, even the part time you were talking about still sounded stressful to me at that time. I'm sorry.

lastly I'm sorry for all I have put you through. for all the late nights, all the cheating. since we grew up poor, we didn't get to live a lavish life. I wanted the finest things in life and I allowed it to get to my head. I didn't mean to impregnate that girl, yes I did sleep with her raw but I gave her money to buy afterpills.

She was trying to blackmail me using the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby. I didn't know what to do, I was scared. I begged her to abort it but she was demanding to much. she thought I was rich, I explained to her that you are the one with the money not me, that's when she threatened to tell you about the pregnancy if i don't pay her off, the money she demanded was too much,I don't have that type of money but I know you do. I had to tell you. I'm sorry

I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.

I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.

I don't think you have realized all the nonsense you did to her

Let her carry out her threat then you will take drinks and family members to beg her back if you are sure that your head has gone through factory reset

At least the both family will know that you were the one that was the problem the family had, especially your own family