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Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Bahamas95:
One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.

Nelbless:
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TUANKU:
Involve the Police ASAP don't listen to those people asking to let her be. We all do stupid things when we are young. Go get your sister bro.

AllDModsAreMaad:
I thank God for our last born, he has learnt a bit from experience and now one of the wisest in our family.

The only sure way of correcting this would have been to marry her out but I doubt if that can still be possible now she has eloped.

Nelbless:
24

Germi9:
I share that sentiment of not wanting a female child cos wetin i see for my younger sister hand, from one problem to another ,it was like a curse on her

aisha1314:
If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

And this your sister is older than our last born but our last born no fit behave like this, infact that one is a core introvert with zero tolerance for being seen in public anyhow

Your sister is at that age where her clitoris is scratching her, from her behavior I know say that one na core extrovert and she see all of una as stombling block to her extrovert doings hence her frustration and actions, well since she has decided to go left, it's either the street gon keep her safe or hurt her but it's up to you to decide the roll you're gonna play in it cuz the thing be say pikin wey wan spoil go still spoil even if she's being locked inside a cage.

Follow your heart and treat the case with caution and understanding to bring a safe landing for both ends

Nelbless:
UPDATE :


I had taken my time to read divers comments here and must say a very big thank you to everyone here that had contributed 'CONSTRUCTIVELY' may none of you experience this episode, sure some may turn judgemental of this, but I pray no one experience this, cos we may be accused of spoiling her, neglecting her, over protecting her, not knowing the personality or full pictures....etc

SURE IT MAY APPEAR WEIRED PLACING A RESTRICTION ON A 24 YEAR OLD, BUT WHAT IS FAMILY FOR? SHE HAD BEEN RAPED, SHE HAD FALLEN INTO THE DEN OF KIDNAPPERS ON FOUR OCCASIONS ONLY FOR GOD TO INTERVANE...ON EACH OCCASSION AS THOUGH SHE IS MARKED FOR ....


ANYWAYS I HAD INVITED THE GIRL TO OUR FAMILY HOME, SHE CAME (COS MY LITTLE SISTER HAD BLACK LISTED THE NUMBERS OF EVERY MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY), AND SO RIGHT BEFORE US, HER FRIEND CALLED HER, ONLY FOR HER TO TELL HER THAT SHE HAD RAN LAST NIGHT, ITS A VERY LONG TALE, AND A VERY DIRTY ONE TO GO INTO...BUT I DO HAVE ONE ADVICE TO GIVE EVERYONE HERE, PARENTS OR SIBLINGS ....COS THE ROOT CAUSE OF THE PROBLEM HERE IS HER ADDICTION TO SOCIAL MEDIA, WHERE SHE MEETS FOLKS WHO SWEETS TALKS HER INTO LOVING THEM, THEN DEMAND FOR HER NUDE, WHICH SHE OBLIGES TO.

AND THEN FOR SOME REASONS THE PARTY CRASHES, AND SHE GOES EXTREMELY DEPRESSED AND EVEN MAKES SUICIDAL REMARKS, AND THE CIRCLE CONTINUES...

ANYONE CAN BLAME THE FAMILY, BUT MAY YOU NOT HAVE A PROBLEM CHILD AND HAVE A FAIR EXPERIENCE OF WHAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH.


INDEED ITS NO EASY TASK RAISING 'MOST GIRL CHILD'.

Zonefree:
There's nothing you or your family members can do again, your beloved sister has been dickmatized.

How do you guys even expect to cage a 24-year-old Nigerian girl

Benz03:
Pls do not allow her learn from experience
experience might be her worst teacher

aisha1314:
If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.

Nelbless:
24

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Zonefree:
There's nothing you or your family members can do again, your beloved sister has been dickmatized.

How do you guys even expect to cage a 24-year-old Nigerian girl

Bahamas95:
One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.

Nelbless:
24

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Bahamas95:
One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.

Divay2:
Just imagine Girls of nowadays

She must be somewhere enjoying Dick

Nigerian ladies and Dick are like 5 and 6

Nelbless:
24

Divay2:
Just imagine Girls of nowadays

She must be somewhere enjoying Dick

Nigerian ladies and Dick are like 5 and 6

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Hmmm marrying her out, it would have been better for someone who's willing and ready cuz that girl wey you see so no dey ready for that kind settlement now because she's still trying to figure out a lot of things socially, emotionally, mentally and physically, let's just say she's still testing the waters. So marrying her out is a no no from where I stand.