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Akinboyo1:
Please, I need to ask, is there TESTOTERONE in female's body?
I think this is a male hormone and has nothing to do with females o.
Please shed more light.

Bamrems:
This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


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Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Adun27:
The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Adun27:
We were not married when she cheated

Godmother:
The worst thing you can do is bring your marriage issue onto nairaland. By the time these small, small, unmarried folks with very little marriage experience finish with it, you'll be divorced, bitter, and full of regrets.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Adun27:
The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, [b][/bbut she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.]

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.

merits:
Must you sex?just three months.

Kavod:
No one was born a SIMP or RED PILLER, Na our experience and upbringing categorize us. I can bet this guy would have really loved his mother and she went through HELL for him to be this patient and caring. Perhaps his mum is Late, or out of marital union, GUY we have to look out for each other on this Earth because these women go know say their babes na Ashana and them go still pretend just for the Man to fall in Love. You said you were not born to be a SIMP? DUDE, EVERY BASTARD MAN WAS ONCE A SIMP. WETIN YOU WAN TELL ME GUY? SAY YOU BE ORLANDO BLOOM OR BRAD PITT OR Johnny Depp abi na BEN AFFLECK? All these guys one woman don use them wipe ground times without numbers, even me self. I HEAR WORD BY FORCE.

Alusiizizi:
Take a load of rubbish, throw in some medical jargon and sure, some gullible among us could actually believe that the pap you just wrote actually bears substance. Your kind are all the same, if you aren't supporting homosexuality by appealing to pop psychology balderdash then its female promiscuity with testosterone, menopause and other such "scientific" terms shamelessly used to punctuate pure nonsense.

obaaderemi:
Don't mind him. We all have urges but what differentiates us from animals is our ability to control our urges. When a person cheats in a relationship, it's lack of self-control.

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

jeff1607:
As if you no get ur own shortcomings, give advice and if you can’t go play with sand.

It is because of people like u , folks tend to bottle up their experiences

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

LikeAking:
He will God undicmatized her?

dontrulee:
Nawa ooo
My future wife no fit try this nonsense with me
Deny me sex?
Behave irrational?
Impossible!

Bro, to tell you the truth, you're part of the problem. And solving this is not too difficult.

Adun27:
The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)