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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by koladata(m): 1:22pm On Nov 17, 2022
you didn't add canada grin
godofuck231:
Wait make you reach 50 , every rope you see will look like a suicide instrument, you don't know what loneliness does to the human mind, try and live in iceland or Denmark for 5 years alone

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by BigBashiru: 1:23pm On Nov 17, 2022
godofuck231:
when you have love even your child looking into your eyes daily ,telling you "i love you" that alone will deter you from suicide

That's for the well brought up ones.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by spartan117(m): 1:23pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abi1985:


Old enough to be married
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by blacksam01: 1:23pm On Nov 17, 2022
its an achievement abeg!
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by FashionCookie(f): 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2022
zuby4real10:
It is an achievement only to women cos they are always at the receiving end that's why they are the ones pushing nd desperate for it.
So it's not achievement for the men spending their money to do it abi?
Thank God women don't pay dowry in this part of the world. Some men would have been coming here to say the woman begged to pay the dowry if not they wouldn't have married them. undecided
Una dey make person laugh I swear.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by jeffokoh: 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2022
Na so the life be..
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ajehkpako4naija(m): 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abi1985:
Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.

Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.

Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.

If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.

Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.

Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.
you sound like a pained person. Don't deceive yourself bro. Marriage is an achievement. It distinguishes MEN from Boys. A successful married man of 25 years with a kid is more respected by nature and the society and more honourable to God than a 40yrs old CEO still jumping from one skirt to the other shying away from responsibility. Get that into your fragile skull.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Muna400(f): 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2022
It is when u are happily married and enjoying your marriage.. It's also an achievement when u and your spouse are best friends and there is love, respect, laughter and understanding in it... It's a very big achievement

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Omorefe1975(m): 1:25pm On Nov 17, 2022
You are on your own after marriage...na word!

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by judedwriter(m): 1:25pm On Nov 17, 2022
Better to be single and be mocked than to be in a regrettable, loveless and hypocritical marriage.

Most women would do anything to be married, some even to a wrong person. Sad isn't it?

Marry only when you met the right person.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Pimine: 1:25pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abeg who give this pikin phone take type this rubbish? I was expecting to read a mature take on the issue only to be disappointed. Chai undecided

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Parizz: 1:26pm On Nov 17, 2022
southsouthking:
It's just by choice.
No one can pressure me into getting married.

I once watched the video of a man at the mall who went to get pampers for his lil child, on seeing the price tag at the sales shelf, the matured man burst into tears.
That was when it dawned on me that marriage na for men nor be for boys.

Forget the paparazzi of photoshoot and glamorous wedding o.
After wedding na marriage.
Respect to every married men and women out there, you guys are doing great.

Modified: if it were to be in the 70s 80s and early 90s I'd risked it, but you see these modern days, anything marriage dey fail my liver and kidney join self.
you will enjoy free sex
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Bigchristo: 1:27pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abi1985:
Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.

Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.

Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.

If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.

Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.

Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.
Its only in Nigeria people make big deals out of marriage and childbirth a white woman or man can decided not to get married he or she will still be happy with his or her life, marriage is not for everybody, na only who never see waiting Dey follow marriage Dey envy couples wey dey snap pictures, before you start talking rubbish I have been married since 2016 I have 3 kids so not be new thing to me

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MrColdsweat: 1:27pm On Nov 17, 2022
Marriage gives you a home. Your own home.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by womenareapezz: 1:27pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abi1985:
Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.

Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.

Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.

If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.

Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.

Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.
don't marry NAIJA women simple undecided

Those female gorillas park a whole lots of mental problems as give away gift angry

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by rainlover(m): 1:28pm On Nov 17, 2022
TastyFriedPussy:
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by DanAugust2021: 1:28pm On Nov 17, 2022
TastyFriedPussy:
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by RPG2020(m): 1:30pm On Nov 17, 2022
Lobish selling their female children all the name of marriage angry
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by chymdyx(m): 1:32pm On Nov 17, 2022
zuby4real10:
It is an achievement only to women cos they are always at the receiving end that's why they are the ones pushing nd desperate for it.

God bless you!!! I pity men who allow themselves be pressured or coaxed into getting married anyhow..I was almost a victim..but God helped me

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Antoeni(m): 1:32pm On Nov 17, 2022
For Women Na Major Achievement ooo

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by themindpen(m): 1:32pm On Nov 17, 2022
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by dododawa1: 1:32pm On Nov 17, 2022
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Lama70(m): 1:33pm On Nov 17, 2022
Op, I don't know the reason behind this.

For your information Marriage is a very big achievement. Very very big one for those who consider it so. Especially person like me!
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by emerged01(m): 1:33pm On Nov 17, 2022
Dont be deceived! Dont judge marriage with badnews in some marriage. Marriage is an achievement because you will feel fulfilled with a good partner and lovely children.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Elly1(m): 1:33pm On Nov 17, 2022
He who finds a wife
Finds a good thing

Not land or car, so it’s generational blessings
So deal with it

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by HantaVirus(m): 1:34pm On Nov 17, 2022
My future wife will enjoy smiley
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by advanceDNA: 1:34pm On Nov 17, 2022
Go and tell that to women that get cars, houses, and millions tgey ddnt work for after marriage...

If u marry strategically.....u go know say marriage na acheivement......

Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ShaqFu: 1:34pm On Nov 17, 2022
Marriage isn't an achievement. This is a standard fact well known. The high rate of divorce and infidelity is testament to the fact that marriage isn't an achievement.

Those who are carrying it on their heads as if it's an achievement, are empty and hollow inside their marital life. They will never let you know this, all they will make you see is the falsehood they post on social media and the likes. Believe me, these people are weeping inside.

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Lovenorth: 1:34pm On Nov 17, 2022
Marrying a wrong person is not an achievement

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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by bunmmy5: 1:35pm On Nov 17, 2022
Hmmmm, Marriage is one of the greatest accomplishment of every living things on earth according the plans of God for man.

Firstly, The bibles says he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. What is more in this word that favor of God?. The only ceremonial event Jesus ever attended and merry on earth was the wedding in Canaan.

The first marriage on earth created the world we currently live in.

Therefore, if you are privileged to find the Gods woman for you life do not hesitate to do the right thing as commanded by God.

Note: Marriage is not meant for everyone same where everyone cannot become the Governor or President.

Thanks you all

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