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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by meobizy(f): 1:52pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is a fact of life which some people will engage in while many won’t. It is not an achievement in any way. Many who married young back in the day are suffering terrible divorces now. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by HantaVirus(m): 1:53pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
mjuvey3: Nothing but the truth |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
ur assumptions are correct, marriage is not an achievement |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Annahh(f): 1:56pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is an achievement. I want to be married. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Jman06(m): 1:57pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is an achievement only for the ladies. It gives them the opportunity to dump their problems on their husbands. You see even a jobless lady running her mouth anyhow for her husband who has to go out even under the rain to make money lest hell would be let loose by jobless madam. If not for the love of children, many men would not get married and even those who mistakenly marry would run out in a short while. But children are something else! Once they are there a man is greatly motivated to work harder and make more money to keep them taken care of and happy. People like to deceive themselves that marriage is about companionship, but that is never the case. Many men would rather prefer the company of friends than that of women. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 1:58pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LagosIsForIgbos:so stay sterile and don't chase after women. A man without responsibility is likened to a riffraff. Stay unmarried and remain a junkie at 50. NOTE: If marriage is not vital you won't see STATUS in any document. There is no justification for a grown up to remain unmarried. It is cawardice. Pls leave Africa and go to Europe and remain a Junkie at 50 yrs. If your parents had that mentality, u won't be breathing on planet Earth. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by LordIsaac(m): 2:00pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
First, define achievement, then we will take it up from there. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:00pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Bigchristo: Who told you that the single white women are happy being single? Abi don't you see them falling for boys online just because no man? That someone laughs everyday doesn't mean he/she is happy. If you are not happy in your home, others are #MARRY_RIGHT |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Tzar(m): 2:02pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is only desirable but not an achievement! Jesus, Paul, Anna, Martha, Jeremiah, Ruth, Joseph, Nehemiah and Mary Magdalene are examples scripturally. If you find your marital soulmate, good for you. If not, live your life to the fullest! You can procreate without marrying too! |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Indispensable85(m): 2:05pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
It's a big achievement |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:06pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
womenareapezz: If naija women are a problem why do people travel as far as UK and America and still comeback to find a wife from home? You think you are smarter than them? |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by jesusjnr2020(m): 2:06pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985:If marriage was an achievement in God's sight, Jesus would have married to fulfil all righteousness. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by LagosIsForIgbos: 2:08pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
[quote author=Ajehkpako4naija post=118465176] so stay sterile and don't chase after women.I fvck women, and it's a biological process. It doesn't make me less human. A man without responsibility is likened to a riffraff. Stay unmarried and remain a junkie at 50.Come to my area to see married folks doing internet fraud, rituals, killings and armed robbery. Your argument holds no water here. NOTE: If marriage is not vital you won't see STATUS in any document.Married or not, when you have money, you can do anything you like. There is no justification for a grown up to remain unmarried. It is cawardice. Pls leave Africa and go to Europe and remain a Junkie at 50 yrs.I've been to Morocco and Tuvalu, unmarried people are making waves. Even Telsa said "A married man can never be an inventor". If your parents had that mentality, u won't be breathing on planet Earth.Even if my parents didn't marry, they'll still be useful and be valuable to the society. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by womenareapezz: 2:10pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MissLAP:sorry! I don't engage convo with gorillas! |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
ShaqFu: Please don't pass your judgement based on the failed marriage you've seen for when you see a happy couple you will want to get married again! The problem is that most men proposed to their wives by mere looking at their breast and nyash. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ednut1(m): 2:12pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
You are 37 years op . True or false. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
womenareapezz: Then stop passing unrealistic thoughts on public forum. You want to poison people's minds from marriage. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MikeofAfrica: 2:14pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ajehkpako4naija: You mean that a 25 years old homeless amajiri with two wives and six kids is more respected in the society than a 40 years old CEO that has not seen the right woman? Money is what separate Men from Boys. Marriage suppose to be a crown for boys that had graduate to men by making money. As a young man, the ripe age for you to take risks and overcome poverty is btw 30-40 years. Marriage can hinder you from taking risk hence if you rushes into marriage without first making money, you will likely remain in poverty till death. There is nothing wrong in marrying early but if someone is from a poor home and wants to be an acheiver on Earth, then early marriage should not be option unless the bride is from a rich home that can assist him. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Adeolajude(m): 2:15pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Who are you to set for other people what should be there achievement. It's just a pity how people carry other people's wahala for head like cap . Even you in your grandeur, what u call a real achievement in ur life is the lowest point for another person. So live ur life and let others live theirs. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 2:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:So that man who jumped in the River and drowned himself sometime this year didn't have love when he looked into his child's eyes daily? Or was the child some sort of emere that deprived his Father of this love you speak of? 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:17pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
It's not an ACHIEVEMENT at its onset, but the character you marry can make it an achievement. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 2:17pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
meobizy:Then marriage isn't a fact of life but an option in life. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by womenareapezz: 2:17pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
jesusjnr2020:Jesus and even Paul specifically said it's better not to marry! But this particular aspect of the Bible, many people always shy to read it In all aspects. As a man is better not to marry and have the whole peace of mind than to marry a liability these days 99.9% of Nigeria women are all liability and looking for who to dump their poverty lifestyle on Ask a woman "what do you bring to the table" either those apes say they are the tablet themselves or bring rest of mind, peace and love! If you are the table you are still classify as a liability because a table is always empty unless someone put something ontop The moment you realise that women ain't worth it that's the very moment you are free from all useless manipulation 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ModCaller: 2:18pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231: Marriage is not a solution to loneliness. If you're lonely, don't look for a wide or husband, look for friends |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:Stop lying to folks because you are afraid to be alone.. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by zionstaar75: 2:19pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985:that's why u are bitter. Marriage makes u responsible, it makes u plan more for the future � its not just about you. It makes u more patient. There are tons of benefits in being married. I married very late because I was thinking like u,its been 10 years now but I wish I'd married 20years ago |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by strongman07(m): 2:19pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Well, for me marriage is not achievement but I'm soon planning to marry and two reasons why I want to marry is to take care of my wife and love her the way she deserves... I'm not getting married because I want people to congratulate me or see me as anything special... |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by rollywise(m): 2:20pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LagosIsForIgbos: Na mama and papa dey train pikin o |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Pootle: 2:20pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
not an achievement just a phase of life to be accomplished in ones life time |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Moh247: 2:20pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
My marriage to DJ Cuppy would be an Achievement Go and verify |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by meobizy(f): 2:20pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Yes. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by LagosIsForIgbos: 2:21pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
rollywise: But the West you revere said Na papa and papa or Na mama and mama dey train pikin. What changed? |
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