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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by KosiGee(m): 2:21pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Obviously, this guy can’t read or write Igbo properly otherwise he wouldn’t be using that fan. How can someone close to him not spot the mistake or is that how they say and pronounce ‘the poor’ in Igbo. Akaoma jide aku, Ogbenye alacha aka.
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Jman06: Please show me one wealthy man today in the world that became successful without a woman? In Nigeria today, I can bet that 80% of finances in homes today are from the woman in the house, politicians exempted. Please stop peddling false narratives here, if you don't want to get married simply and quietly remain single. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Favmil101(m): 2:23pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Oga go and marry nd stop this nonsensical reasoning |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Flamemignon1(m): 2:23pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:You do realize this is the 21st century right? You don't need to be married or have kids to curb loneliness,just because someone is lonely doesn't mean they are alone. You could be in the midst of people and still feel lonely 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by phemmyfour: 2:24pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985:It's an achievement. Don't downplay what others have but you don't have. That's a witchcraft spirit |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ekems2020(m): 2:27pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Lol This is sentimental talk from societal brainwashing. I wish you saw the pains and disgust in the eyes of the so-called early planters who can hardly man-up to their so-called responsibilities I hope you know how much a cup of garri, rice and beans is today as you're preaching your open-ynash sermon �. No de bite yourself o. Respect by nature? Hahahaha...how? Respect by society? Lols...don't have the capacity to provide for your family and let's see what the same society will say about you...otiku respect. And who even made this an achievement? Society! The same hypocrite society that will lynch on you! Toooor.... Shying away from responsibility...which responsibility? Who mandated the responsibility? Who is society? If not a band of people who feel this is right and that is wrong. Abeg mek person hear word jhare. Ajehkpako4naija: 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by rollywise(m): 2:28pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LagosIsForIgbos: Ok keep it up |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by joepepsy(m): 2:28pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
You still a baby. Ajehkpako4naija: |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:31pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985: Your heading and your write up are saying two different things. If you are concerned the way some married folks like to flaunt the fact that they are married or the fact everyone keeps asking "are you married" and putting unnecessary pressure on you, that's understandable. But to say marriage isn't an achievement, you didn't give any point to support that claim |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by womenareapezz: 2:32pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ajehkpako4naija:you talked like an illeterate Statistically proven! Married men cheat a lot than single men! So what you are talking is practically meaningless! A high percentage of men are not happy deep down in Their marriage life and wish to be single I know your type! Once you see a 16yrs old girl you quickly develop an election 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by KennethEnyi(m): 2:34pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Bobbiee: Omo this one make sense o |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by KennethEnyi(m): 2:34pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LacyPantSniffer: Children….which are in itself a liability |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by EmmaLege: 2:35pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Faposky95: 2:36pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
before i got.... i read the 21 marriage commandments...... ...it was kinda late to back out.... i told myself that if i can, then marriage will be an achievement....... check these days(been for like 9+ years)....... i see now why it is...... |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MikeofAfrica: 2:37pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
emerged01: The issue is that in Africa where majority of the young men see marriage as an achievement, they spend their youthful days thinking and working for marriage. Hence once they get married, they feel fulfilled and have no future ambition. Mainwhile, their counterparts in Europe and America who are not passionate about marriage are daily thinking of how they will break new grounds in business and science. For them, marriage can even be neglected if it will become a hindrance to their carrier. Out of these two categories of youths, which did you think will be more successful in this world? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by dalongjnr: 2:37pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is a big achievement. You can't have a subset unless you have a set. I.e,you have to be complete in almost all ramifications before thinking of marriage,getting and staying married. It's not for Cowards and incomplete people but for perfect builders and forgivers. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:37pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ajehkpako4naija: Marriage is an achievement but it doesn't distinguish men from boys. There's no hard and fast rule to it. Are there no married men who don't give a dime for family upkeep? Are you telling me that there are no married men jumping from one skirt to another? Was the late Ataga not married when he was sleeping with chidinma, a school girl young enough to be his daughter? so he was "responsible" and respected by God because he was married?Keep all this responsibility bullshiit for one side as if marriage automatically confers on a man or woman the status of a god. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by SaLongs1(m): 2:37pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:Those countries you mentioned don't share your view at all. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Dshocker(m): 2:39pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Omo marriage is the greatest achievement of an average Nigeria lady.... 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Selfmotivated: 2:39pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is part of life fulfillment so it's an achievement |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by SaLongs1(m): 2:40pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
dalongjnr:from your words you might not be married seeing as to how marriage does not stop people from human vice but some actually get worse. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:40pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MikeofAfrica: Which one is "carrier"? Marriage is an achievement anywhere in the world. There are many successful married men and women in Africa and in the west so I don't know where you got your theory from that marriage hinders professional success |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:42pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
KennethEnyi: How are children a liability? |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:43pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MissLAP: How did you arrive at your conclusion "that 80% of finances in Nigerian homes today are from the woman in the house"? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ballack1(m): 2:44pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
It is |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
A thread for the frustrated zero marriage material crew.
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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Jman06(m): 2:46pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MissLAP:Story for the gods! I have two elder brothers who are married. I also have neighbors, friends and acquaintances who are married as well. Therefore my post stems from what I see happening around me. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 2:47pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Jman06: Marriage is for things that you say it isn't for. The fact that certain people use it the wrong way doesn't change it's purpose. That's why the late Myles Munroe said "when purpose is unknown, abuse is inevitable". Don't blame marriage for not working. Blame people for not knowing the purpose of marriage. Someone like you doesn't understand it's purpose. By the time you get in and start failing, you will start blaming the marriage |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by dalongjnr: 2:48pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
SaLongs1:Hahaha.... Hmm married? My children ,the beautiful fruits of the marriage are already doing well for themselves. You linking vice with marriage is parallel. Person wey don bad,don bad. Marriage hardly change anything. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MikeofAfrica: 2:51pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
bunmmy5: Making money is the greatest achievement that a man can attain on Earth. Money is the horse that will carry the Cart of marriage for a man. Hence when a man sees marriage as a priority and rushes into it without first having a good investment , he is simply puting the Cart before the horse. Such a man is a fool before God and will not receive any favour from Him. It is the investments that you made before marriage that will receive His favour and blessings after your marriage. In other words, God will use your wife to multiply those investments of your youth. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Streetmovement(m): 2:51pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LagosIsForIgbos: Wotoporiously speaking No be chise o 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Hassanmaye(m): 2:52pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Slmgirldippussy:Slim girls really got it |
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