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Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Jman06(m): 4:02pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
CheapHomes1:Ok, do you just wake up and get married just like that, without money, jobs or personal business In this part of the world |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MikeofAfrica: 4:04pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ajehkpako4naija: We are not saying that people should not get married. What we are saying is that people should stop seeing marriage as an achievement and a priority in life. Hence a Single man should see making money and building a carrier as a priority. When he has made enough money to sustain a family and laid a solid foundation for his carrier , he can now happily get married. It is only a fool that uses his first savings for marriage. Marriage should be a secondary adventure for a man after he had fufilled the primary adventures. This is what differentiate an educated youth from an amajiri in the north who sees marriage as the greatest achievement on Earth. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by frozen70(f): 4:06pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
9jayes: Marriage favours men, once they marry you, they don't want to see another man near their wives They can be very jealous |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by CheapHomes1: 4:14pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Jman06: You haven't answered my question. Who asked you become a "suitable marriageable man just so you can get another individual who would become your 'companion' in this world so full of people"? |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Brownshoe: 4:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
So those people who didn't find God's women means they have not achieved huh bunmmy5: |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Bigchristo: 4:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MissLAP:See your small brain you think young white people fall for romance scam? They’re smarter than you do, na old women Dey fall for those things, mind you I never said I am not happy in my home, but those people making marriage a big deal pushes people who aren’t ready to marry when they’re supposed to be hustling and building careers that will help their future, in Nigeria someone that’s not financially buoyant will be subjected to pay long list of traditional marriage rights and also rent hall spend little savings just to impress people that’s he is marrying after then suffer start those family members and friends who advise you to do it will be in their homes enjoy their life while you will be running around paying debts and also finding a means to care for your new family be wise lots of people are suffering behind close doors in their marriages which you don’t know 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by BiGVEEN58(m): 4:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I like that. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MikeofAfrica: 4:22pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: You keep missing the point. Marriage is wonderful , every man on Earth suppose to get married one day and have his own family. However the problem is young men and women have turn marriage to their greatest ambition on Earth. No man or woman with that mentality has achieve greatness on Earth. How can a young man of 30 yrs earning a salary of less than #100,000 start thinking of marriage. Can't he delay the thought of marriage for few more years and try acquiring more education that will improve his salary or even use his savings to start a business. He will eventually get married when he becomes financially stronger and has laid a solid foundation for his carrier. If we see marriage as the greatest achievement on Earth then we are the same as the amajiris in the north who can sell all their inheritance at an early age so as to marry a young girl of their dream. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 4:23pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
womenareapezz:your dad's erection u mean |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by DownChelsea(f): 4:23pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:Can a human with friends, neighbours, colleagues, business associates, staff, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, adopted children, countless societal legacies AND close extended family members.... be said to be lonely? Even at 60?? 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Flamemignon1(m): 4:24pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:You just proved my theory 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Prettychild(f): 4:32pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985:Marriage is an achievement to some and may not be to others. For the fact people are posting pictures with their spouse, it’s not to oppress anyone but it’s you who is viewing it with jealousy that is why you are feeling oppressed. In a nutshell,Stop viewing people’s happy moments with jealousy. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 4:34pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
LagosIsForIgbos:sorry to add a successful man at 25. I repeat a SUCCESSFUL MAN at 25 getting married and fulfilled is better than a SUCCESSFUL MAN at 45 yrs and yet single and looking for Mrs right! The time factor is a vital role in this concept, so if u like keep on chasing money till 50. It will be an error to go for school runs at 65!....Lol |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 4:35pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
DownChelsea:I sound gibberish |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ProfGday(m): 4:36pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
I see assworshippers..... This is all have seen |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Danisaint112(m): 4:38pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231: So what happens if they stay there for that long? |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by MATEX30: 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Marriage is not an achievement, yet a woman will leave his farhers house and even change her surname to the man she married and the man and women status in the society will be upgraded and they will be respected more in the society, yet people claim marriage is not an achievement, so why are u folks getting married then ?? Well, here is a gospel blog to help you know God better Visit here --- https://centralmedia.com.ng/ |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by TheRealestGuy(m): 4:43pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231: If you need "your child" to deter you from suicide then I'm afraid you have a much bigger problem to contend with than whether you're married or not. Besides you don't have to be married to have a child, do you? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by godofuck231: 4:44pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Danisaint112:a Swedish death |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by maasoap(m): 4:45pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985: If you are lucky to marry your soul mate, it will be the greatest decision and accomplishment of your life! But if you marry a wrong person, it will be your worst decision ever made. Everyone should try and marry the right person because you don't want to joke with loneliness from your middle age till old age. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by godofuck231: 4:45pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
DownChelsea:yep , ask lekki babes during the lockdown or those in Europe who committed suicide due to the covid lockdwn 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Danisaint112(m): 4:46pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231: Like the swedish will kill the person or what? Don't get you? Because I know people that have been living there all their life. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by stephenponti(m): 4:46pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Dont marry wait until you are 65yrs you will know if its achievement or not 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by maasoap(m): 4:50pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
DownChelsea: Even in addition to having your own biological children, you're still very much prone to loneliness if you don't have a wife or husband. This is because none of these people would be waiting for you at home everyday, your children will move out eventually at certain ages. The only person you are going to grow old with is your partner. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by InvertedHammer: 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985: / MARRIAGE IS AN ACHIEVEMENT. There are stages in life. \ 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 4:56pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
godofuck231:You concluded that the love when he looked into the eyes of his child every day ought to have kept him from committing suicide. Now you rope his wife into it because that conclusion of yours turned out to be nothing but bullsheet? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by BaddestQueen(f): 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Moh247:shatap stop talking nonsense |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
TheRealestGuy:Huge issue indeed! |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by jessylaurel(f): 4:59pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Abi1985: Stay single in peace and let the married stay married in peace. Enough of all the 'marriage is not an achievement' bullshit. . Deep down everyone wish to be married. |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
maasoap:Wow... so all the married men and women out there who remain lonely and are ever looking outside for someone to come make them whole are what? It hasn't occurred to you that the reason many of our married men and women continue looking outside of marriage for a sidechick and a half or the other has to do with loneliness in marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ShaqFu: 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MissLAP:I'm not passing judgement on anything because of what I've seen. I believe you don't know when you get married, you let go of a whole lot of things, even the things you love... Now here you are passing judgement on men, as if the men held a gun to the woman's head and forced her to accept... |
Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by maasoap(m): 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
MikeofAfrica: You can't wait forever and you shouldn't wait forever! Acquiring more education is not a guarantee of more success, individual should just know when to stop postponing. I have a friend, (age mate) I have been telling to get married since 2015 but he kept saying he wants to struggle a little bit more. We were doing business together at the time but not anymore. My first kid is 10 this year and my friend hasn't yet married. And he's not more financially buoyant than me. |
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