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nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer

AntiWailer:
Calm down. Sit her down and talk to her.

Let her know how frustrated you are about this, Give instances and what your expectations were.

Hear her out too and try to work things out. As for sex drive, it is normal ladies lose their sex drive because of several factors. Just sit her down and hear her out.

Let divorce be last option, suicide is not an option at all.

shortgun:
We always want God to do things we can always do ourselves.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

livinbygrace:
Omoh , just marry for 10weeks ,though I am 44yrs but if what I am going through now is the real definition of marriage ,then marriage is total rubbish .How I wish I remained single and keep having baby mamas Instead.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

Terror48:
Shut up there? You guys disgust me so much with this attitude.Nigeria is a religious country and the most corrupt.Go to every street in Nigeria, you will find a church and even mosque,yet there is still corruption everywhere.

Wuppdex:
And what will he (God) do ? Black man and sense of divinity, sometimes common sense in making long life decision helps better than imaginary prayers and beliefs

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

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writeprof:
GOD IS STILL IN THE BUSINESS OF GIVING WIVES OR HUSBANDS TO HIS CHILDREN & THOSE WHO ASK HIM.

I am a living proof. Many proofs exist to back it up.

The fact that God gives one a spouse does not eliminate challenges at all though.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Richy4:
God is not in the business of choosing a life partner for people anymore..U can bring anyone, and he will bless u.

The Bible says he who finds a wife finds good thing and obtained favour from God.. the key word is HE,.

The last time he found a partner for a human being (Adam), he was blamed for it...
"The woman whom you gave to me... Made me do it"... He is no longer in match making business

What OP need is couples therapy...no two ways about it... That might help to restore those Sparks he saw before taking her to the altar...As for bedroom matters, that is also teachable... hormone induced pills that boost sex drive might help also.. I guess nurses and doctors in the house can throw some light in that...

Killing oneself because he/she felt they made the wrong choice is old school in my opinion.

ufotty2001:
I don't just know most ladies are not interested to learn what generates money.. I have forced my girlfriend to learn online skill she refused.. she is so comfortable with this her 30k job that do not take her to anywhere. That is why I want to break up with her

Wisfem:
Good advise, a little jab of dopamine can make her seek for sex all day... Killing him self is an illusion ..

onuman:
The first time I am liking your comment.

White men and women are mostly disaster because of the monogamy thing of white culture.
Nigerian men and women smile with polygamy, except Nigerian women who embraced white man's culture.

nahzyla:
[s] If this story is true and not figment of a crazy misogynistic man's imagination.
Op, do you have sex with her in a loving way or you just dive in and dive out as if you are sleeping with a prostitute, thereby making her feel like she is being used and causing her to hate intimacy with you?

You said she is always right and she doesn't take corrections, what about you? Do you regularly make stupid decisions or are you a terrible decision maker? It might be possible she is always right because she is smarter than you and has more common sense. It doesn't make her a bad person. Examine yourself.

As for the money making skills you claim she is not willing to learn, what skills exactly have you introduced to her? Some people are not entrepreneurs naturally for instance and if you introduce entrepreneurship to them they lose interest, some people are not naturally good programmers so if you try to teach them programming they shy away.

Many boys on this thread will advice you to divorce your wife simply because you said she isn't giving you sex, men are just obsessed with sex, as if it's life and death something, I no understand una. Don't rush to divorce, look inwards and be objective and see if you carry any of the blame instead of pointing fingers at your wife, then have an objective discussion with your wife to let her know you are not happy with the lack of intimacy (I know that's the most important thing to you among all the flaws you listed) and other things you are not happy about. [/s]

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Princessdainty:
Hahahaha commit suicide Kwa!? Gbogbo eleyi o necesstri. No be lie sha, most Nigerian women and men alike do not know their duties as a husband or wife.

Anyways, @Op, Double your hustle and get a side chick to balance your mental health. As you don enter this one already.

Womanhood & Feminity, Masculinity & Manhood class should be a compulsory course after your degree for men & women that desire marriage.
Let's curb the baby mama culture and absentee father. Enough of the trauma black child

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.