| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Richy4(m): 3:16pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Arizoner:
then why is God interested in fornication? how do you mean by God being interested in fornication buddy?
If what I am thinking is what you meant, just the way Government of the day is interested in people breaking the law, that is what I thought.. The difference between God and the Government is that he is a merciful God/father but don't take his mercy for granted.. he is still a consuming fire..
Just get the licence for bedrooms matters, by getting married. With that, it will not be seen as fornication. 
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Ikea81: 3:18pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Don't waste money getting a divorce, just get another apartment and walk far away, since she likes staying alone..then get yourself a 21 year old hottie and Bleep twice daily, double on weekends. Don't make the mistake of getting another old tired layer in their 30s 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by steryj(m): 3:18pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
. Best advice so far. This is actually for me the only difference is that mine loves sex but that pisses me off when I think of her shortcomings. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Mummyfour(f): 3:19pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
clockwisereport:
Na brezz and nyash dey confuse them. They no dey hear word until e do them voom for eye. I dey tell you o.  2 Likes |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by moshino(m): 3:20pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Marriage should be ENJOYED not ENDURED. If a woman you married is making you feel this way at this stage, please for God's sake, LEAVE that toxic union, it's not even MARRIAGE at this point. NOTHING is worth thinking of suicide, and NOTHING is a "LIFETIME MISTAKE". |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by FireUpNow(m): 3:20pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
yinkeys:
When religion, culture etc. deceive many people into marriage without telling them the consequences it's not religion, culture and co as you suggested. It's in every man to have his own family. If he isn't ready for marriage then why go into it in the first instance. When he dey spread the lady legs dey fire he ever regret? |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Richy4(m): 3:26pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Danniedpastor:
Bro, be careful what you teach. God will not choose a wife buy God can guide your choices. He can tell you when you are about taking a wrong decision. This is dependent on how much you submit to his leading.
So, she didn't ask a wrong question. We are still saying the same thing but u don't understand my language probably..
When I quoted that he who finds a wife finds Good thing and obtained favour from the Lord
What do you think "obtained favour from the Lord"mean to you?.. was it not the same as him guiding your choice?..
I have given my takes on what I think buddy, And there's no way everyone must accept it.. that is why we all like freedom to make choices..
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by EdiskyHarry: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
I hate to read rubbish like this. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Dayaa: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Have you tried having a deep talk with her? |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by HonestJOE: 3:29pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Are you my twince in the same problem? Exactly what I'm going true. Mine has gotten to the stage of divorce this Christmas since my life is being threatened severally for voicing out my dissatisfaction. A fine good looking man with good heart like me? I cook, wash, does everything myself. I mean, we cook, eat & even sleep differently. My pain is my son whom has been the only reason for the marriage to still be standing in pretence up till today. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by OdefaGirl(f): 3:29pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
. This guy has issues in real life..... |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Moh247: 3:30pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
OdefaGirl:
This guy has issues in real life..... What kind of issues do you have, yellow pawpaw woman Or this is also how you starve your innocent Oga for house 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by victorazy(m): 3:30pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Divorce na |
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Mimicle101: 3:32pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Lanre1st:
Don't kill self because of woman, if you go to another woman it's equal to suffering ×3.
1. She doesn't take correction: this normal attitude of a woman, they don't take correction at once, to correct them is a gradual process. Even If you marry small girl or your student because she respect you, the day you marry the respect shoe is off
2. She doesn't have drive for sex: Larger percentage of women do not have drive for sex as men(especially busy one) It's natural. It appears they satisfy you with sex before marriage, just because you are not living together and you have less responsibility. But you know the reality after marriage, just try to carefully deal with it to protect your home it's important.
3. She is not serious about generating money: all men should know this, husband is the one responsible for finances in the family. Anything your wife earns or contributes is to support. Even most time if she takes care of 10% she will she is doing more than her husband, if she contributes 20% she will claim of being the only one doing everything in the house. Women save their earnings for their self, pressurize husband to bring. Nowadays women like having assets than their husband while they earn very lesser compare to him.
People only manage their marriage. You can ask your dad or elderly husbands privately they will tell they are managing the situation. Don't ask publicly, every Men praise the wife outside, some will even said they never fight for once.
With these 3 excuses you mentioned, it's not what is uncommon to most homes, discuss with your wife and dont expect quick change. Manage your home Poster, Here is what you need to know and understand about your situation. ..... So what ever you are going through is not a new thing to any married man. Atleast at some point. Don't kill your self. Take a walk if you can't. do any of the advices above. But i can't guarantee that the next woman you may settle with as a wife would be any difference. Marriage is no longer a bed of roses to men. That's why I am now advocating for polygamy if you can and have the resources. Atleast you can legally jump from A to B and from B to A if one starts Acting up as it's in the Nature of women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 3:37pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
na2016:
This doesn't work. Some women are just terrible nowadays only wants to slay. You will see where I wrote Divorce can be triggered if all that does not work. Without exhausting every thing if he leaves the woman , he will meet a crazier woman |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Niccoloimhotep: 3:39pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
. first time you will ever talk intelligently. Nice But you’re still an idiott though |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Solofresh2: 3:39pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish. Shut Up please! |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by toprealman: 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
You guys should take dating seriously. Rather than focus on bwestyy and big buttt only.....other important things to look out for are there. She always gave you be the idea of who she truly is but you be ignored. Why, you don't see what you are not looking for! Please don't consider killing yourself. Worst case scenario, you can start all over. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by toprealman: 3:43pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Mimicle101:
Poster,
Here is what you need to know and understand about your situation.
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So what ever you are going through is not a new thing to any married man. Atleast at some point.
Don't kill your self.
Take a walk if you can't. do any of the advices above.
But i can't guarantee that the next woman you may settle with as a wife would be any difference.
Marriage is no longer a bed of roses to men.
That's why I am now advocating for polygamy if you can and have the resources.
Atleast you can legally jump from A to B and from B to A if one starts Acting up as it's in the Nature of women.
Polygamy, lol. Yul Edochie,please go away! |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Solofresh2: 3:44pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
BirtherOfKings:
Stop regretting and take action
Threaten her with divorce and keep praying for her. She will change ..get her pregnant too.works wonders This is a bad advice |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by pappilo(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
. correct nicca! You can always tell a man that has been served breakfast and is now wise. 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Perostick(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
. guy u don finished the matter, that's all. 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Solofresh2: 3:46pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Richy4:
God is not in the business of choosing a life partner for people anymore..U can bring anyone, and he will bless u.
The Bible says he who finds a wife finds good thing and obtained favour from God.. the key word is HE,.
The last time he found a partner for a human being (Adam), he was blamed for it...
"The woman whom you gave to me... Made me do it"... He is no longer in match making business
What OP need is couples therapy...no two ways about it... That might help to restore those Sparks he saw before taking her to the altar...As for bedroom matters, that is also teachable... hormone induced pills that boost sex drive might help also.. I guess nurses and doctors in the house can throw some light in that...
Killing oneself because he/she felt they made the wrong choice is old school in my opinion.
bull shit! |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Mimicle101: 3:46pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
HonestJOE:
Are you my twince in the same problem? Exactly what I'm going true. Mine has gotten to the stage of divorce this Christmas since my life is being threatened severally for voicing out my dissatisfaction. A fine good looking man with good heart like me? I cook, wash, does everything myself. I mean, we cook, eat & even sleep differently. My pain is my son whom has been the only reason for the marriage to still be standing in pretence up till today. �, hahaha aha I laugh bro. These is more common than we all could think of. And I don't think it will stop anytime soon. Rather the worse is yet to come, in the sense that, the devil wants to destroy the structure of marriage. To make woman the head and man of the home while man the wife. It's worse Especially when, the man business is not bringing much money to spend on everything. And the woman wants to compete and show off to her friends and the social media that she is doing much better. As in, Manage the marriage (enter kitchen make your own food, wash your own cloth, clean the house, make your self happy) or walk away. Lastly, It's becomes dangerous when the man is the type that vows never to cheat on there wife. But she refuse you? What do such men do then? [ Engage in mastbtn? These here is what most religious men engage in to relieve self. And most it's guilty of it. And not because they want to but there wifes refusal force them into it. ] Marriage is survival of the fittest to the man now. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by DonroxyII: 3:49pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moymoy:
Bro, I am 17 years in marriage. No woman turns out exactly the way you want.
Women are independent individuals with a mind of their own.
My wife persists in doing things her own way, majority of the time.
The way she was brought up and the way she is used to, is the way she will behave. Deal with it.
Any new character traits you desire to see in her, cultivate it gently. God will Keep On Blessing Your Home, Amen! That's Raw Fact right there by the Experienced! Men crying over women is like Adult Crying Over Being Beaten By Pre-teen ! It saddens Me, You just have to be a Man to Manned a Woman(Another Human Being) if not Your Eye go Comot! 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by WatchYourSix: 3:50pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
OfficialP:
My advice to single guys remaining: marry a woman who loves u, not who you love. Shikena.
Do this and have a blissful home ...people fall put of love too... and people pretend to love just to get married.. how will a man even know a woman loves him these days? Na to spread leg all these women sabi.... they hardly give u their money, help you in any special way or go out of their way for you.... |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Mimicle101: 3:51pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
toprealman:
Polygamy, lol. Yul Edochie,please go away! Lol, Kindly indicate your marital status please. Then choose. 1, Yul edochie / managing 2, suicide 3, cheating with side chick's and contracting Std And risking being poisoned when she finds out 4, divorce and Bibile states, divorce on grounds of adultery for the Christians. 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Solofresh2: 3:51pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
As a matter of fact,I Value my peace of mind a lot and if I correct you as a wife and you are proving stubborn,I will just pack your things out of my house without complain and if at all you will come back, you must have receive sense |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Perostick(m): 3:52pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.
Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer my guy there is a way u handle some matters,what of if the man do as u wish and it turn to something else.They world will still blame the man.so,this matter required wisdom. |
