Gerrard59:


Cut Nigerian women some slack. The same happens everywhere. Women are naturally hypergamous. Singaporean ladies judge a man by where he works, and ditto for young Japanese women. The latter is even worse as they judge by the university first before the company. The belief is that as a grad of a top university, you would get plum jobs. It is the same everywhere. The difference is in the wealth/poverty ranking of the country. The poorer a nation, the more desperate the women are.

Gerrard59:


To be fair, having sex with different women is sweet, at least to testosterone. It is the primary reason many men cheat. My issue with sleeping with womanising is the high effort, low returns design. A man spends so much time and money to last for maximum 30 minutes. IMO, That is a poor ROI. So overall, no gain in it.

ednut1:
well you are right, i said some not all . its funny how the world has turned out, My female friends too have told me this LinkedIn stuff too or when they move abroad. Men Wey no send them before suddenly arise from the dead with I liked you then but was shy, are you still single etc. The society is heading for destruction be that o.

pocohantas:
It is normal and happens everywhere. Even men are not left out. So I wonder why they are ranting here like it is a o female problem only. I went on LinkedIn and updated my profile and in less than a week, I was getting different messages asking if we can connect offline. No need to stress it. I am an adult and know what I came there for. I simply declined and left the LinkedIn for them.

If you put yourself out there and you look good, the opposite gender MUST come for you. Even your own gender would come. Women message me too and I am not even abroad, but since they can’t come via love, they simply give different sob stories. I have plenty secondary school mates doing that on FB.

It is the same thing on IG…

Some of my friends say my social media pages looks fake and if they didn’t know me, they would say it is one of those accounts for trolling. I left them that way to reduce (man) troubles.

Everybody likes good things!

sharpwriter:

But me, I no see any of ya profile and you dey run from me

Gerrard59:


Cut Nigerian women some slack. The same happens everywhere. Women are naturally hypergamous. Singaporean ladies judge a man by where he works, and ditto for young Japanese women. The latter is even worse as they judge by the university first before the company. The belief is that as a grad of a top university, you would get plum jobs. It is the same everywhere. The difference is in the wealth/poverty ranking of the country. The poorer a nation, the more desperate the women are.

pocohantas:


Lol. Nairaland is an anonymous forum filled with lots of wild animals.

Jovialjune1:
Is this some sort of bragging right or what? Because I'm trying to understand the need for creating this type of thread? Smh.

ednut1:
why are babes getting triggered na. I said some girls not all girls. Na just observation for discussion. Make una dey calm down na

Jovialjune1:


You didn't have to create a thread like this with screenshots, so unnecessary, stopping low like most dregs in this section, making them generalise and say trash about naija females, you didn't even caution them on first page, how exactly do you think ladies will react to this kind of thread?

Gerrard59:


Cut Nigerian women some slack. The same happens everywhere. Women are naturally hypergamous. Singaporean ladies judge a man by where he works, and ditto for young Japanese women. The latter is even worse as they judge by the university first before the company. The belief is that as a grad of a top university, you would get plum jobs. It is the same everywhere. The difference is in the wealth/poverty ranking of the country. The poorer a nation, the more desperate the women are.

ednut1:
its not that deep, Poco self talk mam angle .

franchasng:
This is the summary.



All women of all races are first attracted to a man's success before any other quality. It is only rich, ugly older women that are attracted to handsome guys.


To majority of Nigerian ladies, especially those below 38yrs, they believe any guy living abroad or having pictures with white people in the background or luxury cars and luxury backgrounds is rich so they will definitely try their luck, blame them not. We ought to put the blame on our successive failed leaders who are also men that looted the destiny of Nigerians away

Jovialjune1:


Finish

Ednut1, delete this thread

franchasng:
He doesn't need to delete it because no matter the complains and whining guys do online and even offline, whenever they are ready to marry, they will still pick a wife from one of our ladies, unless he wants to end up as a gay



I used to bash Naija ladies in the past too, but more exposure and experience have taught me better. These things are normal all over the world.


Any man that has the opportunity to travel around some cities of the world will realize that it is not just Nigerian ladies that love men for money, its worst in developed countries.


In countries like The US, an average black guy can never get a young hot white blonde until he makes it big in entertainment or sport.


It is the nature of women all over the world, and the reason Al Pacino said:


When you get the money, you get the power, and when you get the power, the world is yours.

Jovialjune1:


Finish!!!

Ednut1, delete this thread

pocohantas:
It is normal and happens everywhere. Even men are not left out. So I wonder why they are ranting here like it is a o female problem only. I went on LinkedIn and updated my profile and in less than a week, I was getting different messages asking if we can connect offline. No need to stress it. I am an adult and know what I came there for. I simply declined and left the LinkedIn for them.

If you put yourself out there and you look good, the opposite gender MUST come for you. Even your own gender would come. Women message me too and I am not even abroad, but since they can’t come via love, they simply give different sob stories. I have plenty secondary school mates doing that on FB.

It is the same thing on IG…

Some of my friends say my social media pages looks fake and if they didn’t know me, they would say it is one of those accounts for trolling. I left them that way to reduce (man) troubles.

Everybody likes good things!

Persephone1:
You all want ladies to shoot their shots, make first moves, chat guys up first etc. Now that you have that you are here calling them desperate and all sorts. I may never understand Nigerian men.

Peace be unto old fashioned ladies out there

Magnoliaa:


Sighssssssss.

Oro awon okunrin, ka fi senu, ka da ke ni.

Infact Oro won suu mi..

Awon apoda to hun gbe enito beere tiredi naa leyin lo fa.

BOZZKJ:
Babe chat you up, if you no de interested you shun her politely, which one be say una go carry matter come here just to make dem look bad n disgrace dem. Dat year weh I de active for FB, babes from other countries de send me DM, we go chat normal n e end Der...na wetin b d big deal cuz babe (s) chat you first (you go come open thread just to cast dem).

Golan007: