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Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Coldie(m): 1:17pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
SeriouslySense:2nd guy isn’t my friend for that matter, a friend of mine that stays far away begged me to help him as I live close to the airport he came through. Na so o I didnt even know he stole my things until weeks later when i was looking for something 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Orgasmgiver123(m): 1:18pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
OyinO:Na from small pikin them dey know better pikin How she go get mind dey seize remote for house wey no be their own One of the reason why I kick people with my rainboot Damn... nasty... I'm out of here 5 Likes |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Nobody: 1:18pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
house10studios:By your standard, I agreed I failed. But the OP is the Chief examiner here and not you. He'll assess on his grounds & score me. Assisting someone doesn't have to be for weeks. Sometimes, hours matter too. U may hate my story but that same story may add value to someone's life out there. I didn't put up my story for people to appreciate it. It was put up for the OP to understand that life can go either way. Not always rosy. Finally, the OP didn't write an ESSAY. He wrote only 2 sentences. You may be having refractive errors and such needs lenses 4 adjustment. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Topmaike007(m): 1:20pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Stephen2324:bia you are talking to me without calling my name 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by toprealman: 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
EmemObong03:I for like pay you the 40K on his behalf....but |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Britishcoins(m): 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:You was so childish for that character of urs 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Topmaike007(m): 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
WilsonBright935:any kind of help is different,I can help you with money to get apartment but we should live together he get as he be...I am talking from experience 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by toluxe0075: 1:23pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Help if you can but let the person know how long you would offer accommodation. |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Haveyoueatentod: 1:23pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:you no fit use your Dickson slap her ear |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by pstemma1990: 1:24pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
atheistandproud:U see where ur mind go? 2 Likes
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Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Jackossky(m): 1:25pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
I will. I would accommodate. Shout out to those who ccommodated me in the past. Friends, and distant people that I do not know. I plan to bless a church for letting me stay for a night. 10 Likes |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by BATified2023: 1:25pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
SETHARTHUR:most people u help will always turn u to enemy at d end of d day My 2 principles for now Don’t let anyone squat with u….the last one I allowed is a drug abuser n he always soak all my cups with drugs n to add insult upon injury he can straff anything in skirt,it got so bad that he started bringing secondary school girls home anytime I wasn’t. It got so bad that it was my landlady that reported him to me,if not that she knows me well she for think say I know about it The second one is……don’t borrow anyone money just give out how much u can afford I borrowed one fool that call himself pastor 10k n I have made up my mind not to borrow him money again cos of his precedent but this guy come my house for straight 3 days with much begging so I have to BORROW him till today he never pay back It’s over 3 months he didn’t pay n just 3 days ago he told me to borrow him 3k I just cut d phone cos I no wan use vex talk U have to see the annoying message this guy sent to me He even said he has lost all respect for me despite still oweing me ooo,this guy sent voice note of over 4 minutes but I no wan hear am cos I know say I go vex so I just dey look am This Nigeria ehn,just help yourself n lock up for them Nazgul e b like say na d same thing we experience ooo 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Jackanda1(m): 1:26pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Nicepoker:including your aunties, sister and mum? |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Orgasmgiver123(m): 1:26pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Haveyoueatentod:That time, I never get Dickson, na prick I still get that time 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by DeLaRue: 1:27pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
It is not always as clear-cut as that, but generally, one has to be careful. If you have young children, including a girl, and you don't have a room that is in another section of the house/compound, then consider putting your guest in a hotel (if you can afford it). I generally would hesitate to accommodate a non-family member. I would lodge them in a hotel. Even if I have a family member staying the night )(except parents), I usually sleep with one eye open, literally. Anything more than a night or two is overstaying a welcome. The whole thing is just not worth it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Socratiz: 1:28pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
It is not proper to present your experience as a format for everyone to adopt. You may have had a harrowing experience with siblings who stayed with you after your marriage but that may not be the experience of others. It would have been more helpful if the writer gives reasons why couples are not advised to accommodate siblings after marriage than to make a blanket pronouncement not to accommodate anyone. This is one dimensional thinking whereas life comes in different dimensions. Life plays different balls with each person. Don't think all your problems are solved because you're married, and that you can throw others away. Be helpful when you can. The table can turn at any time. 3 Likes |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Awoleesu(m): 1:28pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Stephen2324: I concur absolutely! |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Even LANDLORDS have kids who plead to be accommodated elsewhere Just Be careful and prayerful in Life! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by LegalWolf: 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
SETHARTHUR: See, accommodation issues are not things that fly from heaven. I still find it difficult to conceive of a scenario where accommodation problem will just happen unplanned. Its just like naming ceremony - they are things you will have time to prepare for and not just rush to live with someone. Anyways, I pray we do not have accommodation problems and those who do, I pray they find comfort. Like the OP, I find it difficult to let someone into my space. |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Crvrider: 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123: . .or you mean parental control 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Konjiboii: 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
I remember during my uni days that I had to accommodate a girl I was helping to process her admission, best decision I ever made. I hardly spent money for foodstuff and the house was always neat. She was a virgin but her head game was Mia khalifa worthy. 6 Likes |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by miqos02(m): 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Pells1:ok |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by nedekid: 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Slawomirr:Oga, well said! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by meobizy(f): 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Cryptic topics are for jobless Nairalanders. I have things to do. |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Bigfish121(m): 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Also don't borrow people money.jist give what you can afford to loose. 2 Likes |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by nedekid: 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
SETHARTHUR:Are you swearing for him? You should have used "may" and not "will". 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Tony4000: 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
My guy I once squatted some 6 years ago is the one sending me cars i sell now and make good profit. He is now based in New Jersey with his family. nobody knows tomorrow bro, 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Nicepoker: Me I will direct her to go sleep on the "Street Culvert" far away from my building. That's how merciful I can be to the bitches. 1 Like |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by gosmoney(m): 1:35pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
SETHARTHUR:forgetty dey never do u strong thing I be victim person wey I accommodate to comot for house nw na wahala wey him talk say na just a month him wun use since last year o and I need privacy |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by Epinbiz(m): 1:36pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
sincerely,na regret go end am |
Re: No Matter How Sad Their Story Is, Don't Let Anybody Move Into Your House by delerx(m): 1:36pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
Guy where u Dey since? Slawomirr: 1 Like 1 Share |
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