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Why you type on the internet misleading people who don't even know what life entails, know that situation don't inform anyone. Your only prayer should God should allow you face situation that will not take away your lots.

I have a lodge in Lagos, sometimes people come with money and become stranded to the extent they have nothing to eat. Some never feel they would be stranded. So, when you paint a story to suit your feelings/emotions see things differently.

EdwardRandy:
I'm currently accomodating a girl in my house. She asked for one month, but omo, she don stay reach 3 months (sept till now). Giving me one excuse or the other.

I told her this morning she has to leave, I won't listen to her lies anymore. I'll tell the estate security not to let her in.

Funny enough, I never for one a day asked her for sex at all because I don't want anyone to see it like I'm taking advantage of her. But the babe way no straightforward.

just tell her that the time u gave her is up...

Thank God u did not touch her in any way, I can accommodate a fellow man, but not a lady... Because it's against our pastoral ethics.

traihit:
This is why it's good to have the Holy Spirit in you.

Sometimes 'angels' may come unawares. Sometimes devil's may come in form of angels with sweet stories.

The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.

Your message is clear

that's unfortunate.

Coldie:
2nd guy isn’t my friend for that matter, a friend of mine that stays far away begged me to help him as I live close to the airport he came through. Na so o I didnt even know he stole my things until weeks later when u was looking for something

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

I dey feel you

He be like say your eye don see shege
Dooh!

Another one I also advise my siblings is that no matter what nor allow your friends know the internal problem in your family...if you want to hold a discussion on anything that has to do with the family and your friend is around please just postpone that discussion...

Well said

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

Landlord travel and see.

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

I dey feel you

He be like say your eye don see shege
Dooh!

Another one I also advise my siblings is that no matter what nor allow your friends know the internal problem in your family...if you want to hold a discussion on anything that has to do with the family and your friend is around please just postpone that discussion...

As much as I like this, however, reason is there are no true and loyal friends again and a friend could turn enemy any time. People change.

Pells1:
me permettrez-vous plus de votre maison à l'étranger? Sweetvie

NO PERMIT THEM OO, BEFORE YOU GO CARRY SNAKE ENTER HOUSE

That's your own. Someone housed me for 6months and when I wanted to leave he said why not stay with me till the rest of your training. You see, it's all about been raised fine

Know what to do and when to do them.

I cook, I buy foodstuff.. The necessary things I'm suppose to do I did them.

Orgasmgiver123:
Yo babe
It ain't stupid to my fans
Nice meeting you
No talk pass your self

I'm not a babe please. I'm a man. Nice meeting you too but stop issuing threats. You may end up having your own ass kicked as you go about in your ass kicking misadventures. Take care Remote Boss

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To these issues of life, there are no general rules.

I had an ugly experience with this sometime in 2013. It was not my house, but my office. I had a childhood classmate. We went to the same Nursery, Primary and Secondary school. Coincidentally, we found ourselves in the same University. Let's call him Jim.

According to him, he was down in Business, so he started coming to my office to while away time, while waiting for opportunities. This guy started crossing boundaries. I told him he could stay in the first office and do whatever he wanted, but not come into my own office, because most times, I was busy doing some work, and did not want distractions.

The guy disobeyed my order - started barging into my office with alacrity.

Many times, he would ask me for Transport money back to his house. If I tell him that I'm not responsible for his TP, he says I'm insulting him. Before you know what's happening, he's spoiling for a fight. He just wanted us to fight, so he could destroy the property in my office.

According to him even if we get to Police, they will say it's a case of 2Fighting, and urge us to go and settle our rift amicably.

One time he slapped my secretary because he wanted to see me, but the girl told him to wait in the reception (which was a standing order I gave in my office), so that he could call me on intercom. He slapped the girl and barged into my office, pointing his hands at me and telling me that I'm using my secretary to insult him.

There was one time I gave him a job to do. He did it haphazardly. Even the client who owned the job could not take it. I complained about how he did the job. He told me he was not interested in whatever I was saying, and insisted I must pay him his money. According to him, he has done the job. He physically assaulted me in my own office because of that. I had to hire another person to job.

The straw that broke the carmel's back was when he started talking and hanging out with some people who I know were Yahoo boys and bringing them to my office, under the guise that it was his office. At this point, I knew that I could no longer save this guy. I had to get the Police involved. Our relationship got frosty, thankfully.

He went on to tell other classmates that I was a wicked person. I really don't care what he tells people about me. I just thank God that this dude is out of my life for good.

Before I let any other person in my space, I have to screen him/her thoroughly.

traihit:
This is why it's good to have the Holy Spirit in you.

Sometimes 'angels' may come unawares. Sometimes devil's may come in form of angels with sweet stories.

The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.

Una don come again.

Orgasmgiver123:
Hehehe
Na her twin brother

Leemao

yes o...made a wrong move like that it was a clusterfuck

EmemObong03:
True.
Since 2007 till now, I am still licking my wounds. The guy duped my family friend 40k with fake admission

One mr Okezie James duped me of 25k in 2012/13 Oko poly admission. The guy will never go free because I am coming for him no matter how long it takes.

vawulence mode for just one night people

Orgasmgiver123:
Hehehe
That's how my mum accomodated her co worker's daughter when she was home alone.
I came back from school during holiday and this girl started dragging DSTV remote with me, a whole me, olori oko bam bam. I nearly press her neck that day, thank God for self control


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

But you give her Orgasm abi you no give her?

But you can let a woman stay indefinitely as she carry front she carry back she too package... I kant leafa

Golden advice

Even your closely related family member

from personal experience ,only accommodate INTROVERTS. you will be the one begging them to extend their stay when ever the decide to leave. introverts are very sensitive to what you like and what you don't like. most times the contribute in one way or the other to the up keep of the house. EXTROVERTS on the other hands are lively friend to hang out with ,but accommodating them in your house don't always end well

I usually give friends my car, assets to use cos I feel once I'm not using it, it's wasting... Omo, I shock d day I asked a friend to let d me his car I wanted to pick someone from the airport...

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

if you have room for them why not but set your boundaries

OyinO:
because of common remote, you wan show say na you get house. You may meet that girl in a whole different level tomorrow. Even tomorrow no know tomorrow.

The lady had no reason to be dragging remote with him after all they accommodated her and she should have respected herself in that house. This is what we call entitlement mentality.

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

Nor be lies and also when lending money out to friends be prepared to keep it on your mind that you can do without that amount of money should the friend fail to pay back to avoid stories that touch the heart

Nicepoker:
Assist whenever you can. Someday it might be your turn. No matter the tears of a Nigerian girl I won't allow her sleep in my balcony. She can manage the dog's kennel after all they are all bitches.

lol,easy bro.

magictonic:
I had an ugly experience with this sometime in 2013. It was not my house, but my office. I had a childhood classmate. We went to the same Nursery, Primary and Secondary school. Coincidentally, we found ourselves in the same University. Let's call him Jim. screen him/her thoroughly.

Chai... Nollywood scripts are real

Kenneth4u205:
from personal experience ,only accommodate INTROVERTS. you will be the one begging them to extend their stay when ever the decide to leave. introverts are very sensitive to what you like and what you don't like. most times the contribute in one way or the other to the up keep of the house. EXTROVERTS on the other hands are lively friend to hang out with ,but accommodating them in your house don't always end well

You be guy wey sabi

That's true and I learned this the hard way. While serving, there was this very familiar seamstress who we always went to mend our clothes. We corpers lived together in a flat and one day we found that the woman had been kicked out of her house due to failure to pay her rent.
We decided to house her for a couple days until she could square out. Big mistake.

Turns out the woman was mentally disturbed and had been trying to keep it hidden. At night shed go wild and start punching everyone around her. She'd go hysterical and paranoid. Once even going so far as to accuse one of the corpers of using scissors to cut her hair with the intention of using it for ritual. It was hellish experience and got so bad that we had to practically kick her out of our flat.

Since then I resolved not to be so quick to play the good Samaritan