Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

But, HIV no be death sentence wey sopoz weigh you down na.

Na kidney failure?? Noo..
Na heart-attack?? Noo..
Na blood cancer?? No...
Na heart surgery u need?? No...

Ur own health challenge better pass plenty people own.

Go heart2heart center. ALL your questions would be answered.


Modified,

Na me talk am "Person wey get HIV and under drugs better pass some people wey feel them dey healthy". Why I talk so? Some people think they're healthy but, are walking with critical sickness unknowingly. Eventually, they slump and die. But person with HIV might have been tested and they know the kind of drugs and treatment needed for him.

Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

Congratulations


53 mentions for just congratulations!!
Wow
Now you people can see how it feels in terms of women [the lack of sympathy for women ]

Lolz op congratulations again, may God add baby mamas to your achievements... Chop and clean mouth is the key,More pussies to your dick, fuvk hoes and dump is the key, HIV/AIDS IS THE KEY

A fool just commented above me!!

Are you male or female

Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

Just keep taking your medications, you will start feeling better with time.

Ensure you take them regularly, and as you should.

Don't lose hope. It's not a death sentence. God bless you.

Hrmmm, please don't spread it.

You will overcome it. Stick to medications man.
It's gonna be fine.

By

Hezzyluv:


But, HIV no be death sentence wey sopoz weigh you down na.

Na kidney failure?? Noo..
Na heart-attack?? Noo..
Na blood cancer?? No...
Na heart surgery u need?? No...

Ur own health challenge better pass plenty people own.

Go heart2heart center. ALL your questions would be answered.

Do they have a branch in Benin?

Jeon:


Congratulations

Thanks I guess

Greatzeus:

What symptoms did you have,and how long after exposure did you go for test?

I don’t even know when I was exposed, I just sent for the test last week

Passpands:


I don’t even know when I was exposed, I just sent for the test last week

Passpands:
By

Do they have a branch in Benin?

All over Nigeria.

-University of Benin Teaching Hospital, Benin City, Edo state

-Irrua Specialist Hospital, Irrua, Edo state

-Central Hospital, Benin city, Edo state

St. Philomena Catholic Hospital, Benin city, Edo state

I'm so sorry about this sad news. pls cheer up and look for a HIV support group to register so you don't feel all alone . may God restore you to health.

Damn bro!

Why do you people make mistakes like this?

They're so many challenges in life and now you have added this one to your life now

I hope you find the strength to carry on because it won't be easy at all. The very day you saw the test results that you are positive, your mind has stored it forever, there's no amount of thing you'll do that will make you forget about it. You'll always be worried about it. That's why sometimes, I hate my mind, they're so many things I wish to unlearn, erase and forget but my mind can't erase it so it's stucked in my mind.

(PLEASE DON'T FEEL SOMEHOW, I JUST WANT TO TELL A TRUE STORY THAT HAPPENED IN AUGUST 2021)

I know somebody that likes sleeping with anything wearing skirt, he visits Ashawo house like 4 times every week, he's a young handsome guy, he's 23 years and has a gas filling shop not far from my house, me and some other guys decided to pull a prank on him, or should I say a lesson that will put fear in his body because we wanted him to stop womanizing.

One of us had a sim he picked from the ground sometime ago and was only using it for cheap data plans, we used the sim to text this our guy posing as one of his girlfriend/hooker that he should try and go for test that she found out that she's HIV positive.

The next day we decided to go to his shop, I stopped my guys and told them we shouldn't just go like that, my cylinder was about finishing, so I carried my cylinder in disguise that was what brought me to his shop, though I had intended refilling my cylinder but because of this I had to do it that day.

So on getting there, we all hailed his name and stuffs like that, but he was very moody, we all knew it was that text we sent to him but we all pretended as if we had no clue, we kept teasing him but he was so dull. I jokingly told him "Guy, I no say na money dey worry you, no worry E go come before this year end" he just said "baba, no be money oo" I asked him what's up, he just kept sighing and stuffs like that.

Me and my guys left after he was done filling my gas cylinder. So, after some days, I went back alone since I'm more closer to him than the other guys, this time around his eyes was red and he was still sobing.

In his words he said "Argh! I won die bro, I won die!" I asked him what was the problem, I still thought maybe he was afraid he might have contracted the disease or something, To cut the long story short, he had gone for the test and it turned out he was positive, he said he went to 2 different hospitals.


I felt guilty for him somehow because he wasn't even aware he had HIV and I did it to help him abstain from sex and hookers not knowing he got hit by the disease already. He opened up to me like everything how he regrets his life and if he had known, he wouldn't have been such a d!ck.

I bet you, till today, he hasn't gotten over it, even though I see him laugh and gist when we sit out in the evening, he tells me he goes to bed with regret and cries his eyes out, that he only tried to forget it with laughter and highness but he still comes back to reality mostly when he's alone.

He told me if there's a permanent cure for it, that even if it will be the reason he does blood money so he can afford the fee, he'll do it.


MODIFIED: I see people quoting me as if I don't know people can get HIV through other means other than through sex, like wtf is wrong with all these Nairaland online professors and doctors?

This is one of the reasons I want to deactivate my account and start visiting this site as a guest

Not replying any mention, if you like kill yourself. I said what I said.

Greatzeus:

What did you noticed that made you go for test?

You just want to get info from me, you can actually just google symptoms of hiv. I d

fman:
A fool just commented above me!!

They don't know how the guy feels, mistake or not, this isn't something to joke about.

Well, so many maniacs are just online looking for people to ridicule.

Go heart to heart center,it's not a death sentence may God deliver you.

Be strong bro, you're not the only HIV positive guy, just adapt to living with it.

Passpands:


Thanks I guess

please don't mind jeon, she has no humane feelings!!
To her, everything is a joke!
Please don't let depression or stigmatization take a grip on you. Live with it and be productive.

A slowpoke just stated above me!!

Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

I work with HIV people, and I must tell you that one thing that weigh infected people down is stigmatization and worry. Please don't worry too much as the virus can only become deadly when you worry too much, fail to adhere to drugs, don't live w healthy lifestyle and become scared of stigmatization. If you can win the fight against these factors then you'll live a long and have a normal life. Millions are living with the virus and they are fine sir. It's not a problem at all

Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

That's very sad. Finding out you have something like that can be seriously devastating. Just take the drugs properly and try to live a healthy lifestyle ie eat balanced diet, no smoking, alcohol or drugs. Also make sure you go for proper counseling. Don't worry, there is help and support out there for you. Many people who have HIV are able to still live fulfilling and happy lives.

Hezzyluv:


But, HIV no be death sentence wey sopoz weigh you down na.

Na kidney failure?? Noo..
Na heart-attack?? Noo..
Na blood cancer?? No...
Na heart surgery u need?? No...

Ur own health challenge better pass plenty people own.

Go heart2heart center. ALL your questions would be answered.

..

It's very normal to feel down after getting to know one has the virus. it's no longer a death sentence, but the idea of living with the virus and taking drugs for the rest of one's life is nwvr funny..

lets not downplay it by comparing it with other disease conditions.

Op will definitely adjust to reality.

Seun Dominique Mynd44 Nlfpmod

Front page please, this guy needs more input on how to go about this.

Jeon:


Congratulations

You've been sitting on your heart for years!

You literally said this with your full chest?

MoneySEASON:




You've been sitting on your heart for years!

You literally said this with your full chest?

NAH ME SEND AM MESSAGE?

NO BI CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH CATCH AM [ HUNTER BECOMES THE BUSH MEAT ]. next one would be a BABY MAMA

when we tell them to abstain from fornication they keep on mocking, calling us holier-than-thou, in this 21st century.

Jeon:




NAH ME SEND AM MESSAGE?

NO BI CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH CATCH AM [ HUNTER BECOMES THE BUSH MEAT ]. next one would be a BABY MAMA

But it still doesn't warrant you to troll him.

People make mistakes you know, let's try to be professional and caring online. It cost little or nothing.

MoneySEASON:



But it still doesn't warrant you to troll him.

People make mistakes you know, let's try to be professional and caring online. It cost little or nothing.

WHO CARES?

Jeon:


WHO CARES?

As you don't care it doesn't stop others from caring

Hope you don't ever need someone's care or help whenever you're in trouble!

MoneySEASON:


As you don't care it doesn't stop others from caring

Hope you don't ever need someone's care or help whenever you're in trouble!

Still don't care