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Re: Men Rethink This by diogo23: 2:19pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
@Muffassa girls go still hustle of course. Back in the days men like to be the provider so the girls will have no excuse. These days I noticed men now want 50/50 and they still complain about flirt, disrespect and cheating.
Go and work stop following shut cut it kills
Re: Men Rethink This by anthonyuncle(m): 3:49pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys
is this the only way to make money?
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2022
Additional source of income cheesy
Guys don join self cheesy
anthonyuncle:
is this the only way to make money?
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:10pm On Dec 08, 2022
This applies to not all men and women but we are waiting to see how it goes.
It's actually spells liberation to the world and that is also a good thing in disguise.
I was only saying men should not complain

Fahvvy:
Since we're going to be comparing men of those days with modern men, I believe it's fair we do so for the women, don't you think so :-
And guess what?
Men are beginning to realize that the equality thingy is truly to their benefit and thus this trend is only just the beginning, let's see 10years from now grin...
Re: Men Rethink This by Joshmuch: 4:10pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
It's not being superficial, it's nature.
Just as it's hard for a woman to walk up to the man she likes that's how a man should assume a fatherly role in a woman's life.

There are exemptions though as some girls are born to have it all then this rule doesn't apply because her father has done it all .

Being a man is being able to provide material needs for yaself and ya babe.

Being a man is not maturity for ejaculation



I like the bolded part though

But if you don't hear my needs how will you know where to assist
Divoc19, stop saying nature cos nature is tired of you . Nature said the order should be women submit, man dominate. Women nurture, respect and be loyal, men provide, protect and love. But you people don't want to nurture (support), respect or be loyal, but you want to be taken care of, you even want equal rights, how more confused can you be?
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:13pm On Dec 08, 2022
Mind you, not every lady wants equal rights and not every guy is a alpha male

Joshmuch:
Divoc19, stop saying nature cos nature is tired of you . Nature said the order should be women submit, man dominate. Women nurture, respect and be loyal, men provide, protect and love. But you people don't want to nurture (support), respect or be loyal, but you want to be taken care of, you even want equal rights, how more confused can you be?
Re: Men Rethink This by Joshmuch: 4:15pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
Mind you, not every lady wants equal rights and not every guy is a alpha male
You're right though. What kind of lady are you? Equal right or no equal rights?
Re: Men Rethink This by benqo01(m): 4:16pm On Dec 08, 2022
Truth is if men stop giving girls money dey will die of hunger
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:23pm On Dec 08, 2022
No equal right.
I don't have the physical strength abeg
I like to be pampered cheesy
Joshmuch:
You're right though. What kind of lady are you? Equal right or no equal rights?
Re: Men Rethink This by Silentgroper(m): 4:33pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
She doesnt give puccy. She dont want us to get it 4rm other girls too.. Men are humans, we've got to empty that tank...

If man spends on a girl, would she spend on him back, i mean she's suppose too right? Just like she gives him her puccy and he gives her his dick. Potato potahto!
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2022
Chai undecided
Silentgroper:
She doesnt give puccy. She dont want us to get it 4rm other girls too.. Men are humans, we've got to empty that tank...

If man spends on a girl, would she spend on him back, i mean she's suppose too right? Just like she gives him her puccy and he gives her his dick. Potato potahto!
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 4:40pm On Dec 08, 2022
Will you feel in charge when you don't give?
benqo01:
Truth is if men stop giving girls money dey will die of hunger
Re: Men Rethink This by Silentgroper(m): 4:42pm On Dec 08, 2022
benqo01:
Truth is if men stop giving girls money dey will die of hunger
Seconded!
Re: Men Rethink This by qtguru(m): 4:46pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
Here I was thinking , women had opportunity to other alternatives.

The main headache on this section is guys dealing with students/brokies who don't work, date a hardworking lady not someone hustling from guys.
Re: Men Rethink This by qtguru(m): 4:55pm On Dec 08, 2022
Besides which women doesn't take your money, even the ones in your family bill you, because Egbon.

undecided
Re: Men Rethink This by tochez24(m): 5:38pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
It's not being superficial, it's nature.
Just as it's hard for a woman to walk up to the man she likes that's how a man should assume a fatherly role in a woman's life.

There are exemptions though as some girls are born to have it all then this rule doesn't apply because her father has done it all .

Being a man is being able to provide material needs for yaself and ya babe.

Being a man is not maturity for ejaculation



I like the bolded part though

But if you don't hear my needs how will you know where to assist
You're ultimately foolish and i pity any man in your life..... Let me not see better any day i assume a fatherly role for any girl that is not my wife!!!! I have left that years ago for all bloody simps.

Nigerian women are all useless, all of them..... For me, if she's not a virgin no relationship/marriage.
Re: Men Rethink This by Dangrace01: 6:38pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
Hustle money from other guys what does that mean
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2022
qtguru:
Here I was thinking , women had opportunity to other alternatives.

The main headache on this section is guys dealing with students/brokies who don't work, date a hardworking lady not someone hustling from guys.
Re: Men Rethink This by Truvelisback(m): 7:01pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
Are they Orphans?
Re: Men Rethink This by Truvelisback(m): 7:08pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
It's not being superficial, it's nature.
Just as it's hard for a woman to walk up to the man she likes that's how a man should assume a fatherly role in a woman's life.

There are exemptions though as some girls are born to have it all then this rule doesn't apply because her father has done it all .

Being a man is being able to provide material needs for yaself and ya babe.

Being a man is not maturity for ejaculation



I like the bolded part though

But if you don't hear my needs how will you know where to assist
Fatherly role? Are we their father? Fatherly role should be carried out by their biological father.
Re: Men Rethink This by Great0ne1: 7:20pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
You are a complete waste of space. A Dumbola. So your parents spent all there money and Sent you to school, to graduate and start been a parasite? You can go and start doing hook up. Las Las them go use you do money rituals
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 9:46pm On Dec 08, 2022
Maybe cheesy
Truvelisback:
Are they Orphans?
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 10:55pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
Am not a feminist

If the world should go 50/50 then power will shift from men to women.
Men are scared of that

I can bet that you as a man will not be comfortable when your wife is working as much as you do at home because you will want to play certain role as a husband while she plays hers as a wife.

It can't be 50/50
Just garbage upon garbage.

Let's switch Role. I'll do the house chores, cook, babysitting, bedroom duties, respect you and give you peace of mind always.

Then you do your own part by going out to look for our means of survival by all means. I don't want to hear stories whenever you are back. Remember you will have to also setup an Enterprise for me. By extension, Care for my Immediate families and put them on your Payroll lol.

You people always think to be a Man Is easy. I will rather come as Woman In my next life.
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 11:04pm On Dec 08, 2022
benqo01:
Truth is if men stop giving girls money dey will die of hunger
Nigerian Girls/Ladies Precisely.
Re: Men Rethink This by Divoc19(op): 11:09pm On Dec 08, 2022
I will come as a man next time

Truth be told.
All gender have their challenges though.

No one is better than the other

Evolutionlove:
Just garbage upon garbage.

Let's switch Role. I'll do the house chores, cook, babysitting, bedroom duties, respect you and give you peace of mind always.

Then you do your own part by going out to look for our means of survival by all means. I don't want to hear stories whenever you are back. Remember you will have to also setup an Enterprise for me. By extension, Care for my Immediate families and put them on your Payroll lol.

You people always think to be a Man Is easy. I will rather come as Woman In my next life.
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 11:14pm On Dec 08, 2022
Divoc19:
I will come as a man next time

Truth be told.
All gender have their challenges though.

No one is better than the other
Okay from "A Poor Background In Nigeria" right?

Answer this and I will take you very serious and give you absolute respect.

And lastly who told you one Isn't better and valuable than the other? Keep deceiving yourself.
Re: Men Rethink This by stormborn28(m): 5:10pm On Dec 13, 2022
Divoc19:
Of course they have hand to work
They are also built to be in need of some kind of support system



Because they are pressurized to work so, any work na work is what they are doing selling boxers in disguise for hookup. Real men know these
Hmmmmmmm....the last statement very educative...
Re: Men Rethink This by JOACHINpedro: 11:54am On Dec 21, 2022
Evolutionlove:
Just garbage upon garbage.

Let's switch Role. I'll do the house chores, cook, babysitting, bedroom duties, respect you and give you peace of mind always.

Then you do your own part by going out to look for our means of survival by all means. I don't want to hear stories whenever you are back. Remember you will have to also setup an Enterprise for me. By extension, Care for my Immediate families and put them on your Payroll lol.

You people always think to be a Man Is easy. I will rather come as Woman In my next life.
I pity you in addy
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 12:00pm On Dec 21, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
angry
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 21, 2022
Divoc19:
You don't give her money
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys

Hmm

Guys
You like when girls don't ask you for money
You complain that girls like money
You don't want to give girls money
You want young and decent girl
You forget that girls are human that have daily needs too
So are u saying payin women 20,000 naira for sexxc is not enough?.....am I buying a house?? undecided
Re: Men Rethink This by Maxxim: 12:07pm On Dec 21, 2022
You don't want her to hustle for money from other guys
Real reason not to take you serious, so there's no other way to make money legitimately without hoeing around abi, I don clap for you
Re: Men Rethink This by Nobody: 11:04pm On Dec 21, 2022
JOACHINpedro:
I pity you in addy
You should rather pity your pathetic life.

As for me, I'm made already In this current life and In the Next.
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