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Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

know just block her

Wire here.. make sure u use condom .. she dey find money ..

If she do you Waka shege, why haven't you blocked her on all platforms? It seems you're enjoying the show. Continue!

I hope say you know say na 25th is less than 2 weeks from now... She dey find gift..
I don receive "Hi" tire this Christmas period... Them no dey hide am again..

DROP THE DICK ON HER!!!

tollyboy5:
I can't be just friend with a lady. If I ask you out , I already have intentions if you say yes.
I'm not asking you out for friendship but if I wanted friendship I'll say it from the first instance that we should be friends maybe we can later go beyond friendship.

I think the way guys make friends are different from girls. I can't call random person my friend the way ladies scream bestie upandawn.

People of values can become friends not with people of "send me card" , "sub for me "

But you guys still misbehave when yo meet females of value. You ll think her jovial attitude is a green light to initiate romance and few days to the romance, una go dey look for how to off her pants. SMH.

Send her AMOS 3 VS 3 that solves your problem.

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

Zonefree:
He's a weakling. Weaklings hardly block kpekus. They always believe, one day the kpekus will be merciful and offer them the juice.

Rest kwanu..

She is keeping him in waiting..terrible character most ladies exhibit

Enemyofpeace:
so you fit be person friend without sex? You wey I know very well pass anybody for here

Where you know me?
I can be your friend. Haven't you heard of platonic relationship?

Divoc19:
Kiss am for corner.

Are you normal?

alingo2013:
Girls always bill they male friends so male friends should start learning how to ask for sex

not always true

Sweetplum:
Where you know me?
I can be your friend. Haven't you heard of platonic relationship?

platonic friend wey don die since hook up was born.

padi94:
You dey go toast girl for December, shey you no well ni?

Now she don see how to hook you to collect money without even agreeing to be your girlfriend.

Gbam! I always tell guys, NEVER toast a girl in December, wait till February 15.

Baba, you've got upper hand here. Bring another babe to picture and it will make her feel so jealous and wanna gamble with her kpekus. Na free chop be that . Nor cast the update o

AdisaOwala:
Are you normal?

Mo doubt eh

Enemyofpeace:
platonic friend wey don die since hook up was born.

It's still existing. Especially at work place. Cos their are work place that you dare not v sexual relationship. So...the platonic bond ll be there. Na there I know boys they train to be civil with females. Let me give you a hint, at law firms.

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

Ask her what she wants.... We can't answer that question for her!

Ahmed0336:
Most times, when a naija girl says no they'd want you to keep persuading and chasing them around.

But what they don't know is that, No time to check time. Into the Next!!!!

Yes

real niggas don't ask girls out too early, bring her into your world and she will give you kpecus. if she she's worth dating she will show interest more than you. asking a Nigerian girl out directly is like telling her you want to knack her outrageously.

I like post like this , OP this girl is using you to catch trips, she's manipulating you to boost her self esteem, my advice to you is to cut off from her totally,block her, when she calls you form too busy, if you jam her on the street just say hi or watsup and keep it moving, DO NOT PAY HER NO MIND. if your intention is to fvck her and run all this could be dangerous but if you truly want to date her then follow my advice to a tee, Her brain will glitch and she will be all over you.

My PM is open for men that need advice.my time is not free though.

mecuries:
she wants to retain the friendship.....it's obvious. Because she is friendly with you is not a green light to enter a relationship....Nigerian men,can't you just be friends with a lady without wanting to go down her panties? That's your main motive in wanting a relationship

I surprised you are talking like this. Don't you know she will take advantage of friendship and milk the guy dry?

jessylaurel:
She's not your enemy for refusing your offer to date her that's why she's still chatting with you. Guess she's more mature than you.

Na lie, it will get to a time. She will start asking for money

tollyboy5:
I can't be just friend with a lady. If I ask you out , I already have intentions if you say yes.
I'm not asking you out for friendship but if I wanted friendship I'll say it from the first instance that we should be friends maybe we can later go beyond friendship.

I think the way guys make friends are different from girls. I can't call random person my friend the way ladies scream bestie upandawn.

People of values can become friends not with people of "send me card" , "sub for me "

You are mature

Sweetplum:
not always true

It's mostly true

Sweetplum:
It's still existing. Especially at work place. Cos their are work place that you dare not v sexual relationship. So...the platonic bond ll be there. Na there I know boys they train to be civil with females. Let me give you a hint, at law firms.

I don't want platonic relationship, I want vawulence in bed

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

You have her contact. Ask her what she want.
Why will u ask us that question. Are we mind readers.
End ur problem the same way you started it.

Sweetplum:
not always true

It is very true, as a guy that us to have many female friends I got tired of the sex sef, some even come plan blank to offer sex for cash, at a point I just got tired of it and started saying no to save my money became the better option, some still call to “check up on me" when there are broke Sha but I don't give them face anymore, I always thank God I had sense to always use condoms then I should be having three or four kids by now

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

Tell the whole story op.. during the toasting how much you spend

Bleep the hell out of her

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

invite her over. Beside how themtake dey toast babe?.

AllDModsAreMaad:
I dey experience same thing like this. I have a girl like that.

Although, she told me she is in a relationship but it is obvious she likes me but doesn't want to cheat on her guy.
Maybe she doesn't want to put all her egg in a basket and at the same time want to remain loyal and faithful to her bf.
The confusing thing is I have a soft spot for her and every pointer shows she is the kind of woman I need and she acknowledges that but her loyalty to her present relationship dey taya me.

I have other girls showing interest but because any relationship I'm going into now will likely be a serious one that may lead to marriage, I'm just buying time to see whatsup with her.

You're buying time over a girl that has you as backup, in case the other guy doesn't workout?

Other girls like you, but you don't like them... Simply because you're fawning over a girl that is loyal to someone else?

Why don't you pray for your own loyal girl that will stick with you even if other guys are trying to pry her away?

You want to go into something serious...

Baba, you no be small pikin again oh.

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

She expected you to press further but you didn't. Now she is giving you a second chance.