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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by zanshi: 1:15pm On Dec 11, 2022

Niggas wey born female children i throwayy cap for una.

One they just feeeel likeee!

Sope otilor

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by faithfull18(f): 1:18pm On Dec 11, 2022

Fiscus105:
If ur story is true , I'm very sure she entered the trap because of greediness and mentality of turn man to ATM.

Did you purposely turn a blind eye to the fact that the man is using her daughter for money huh

Pele, this is what happens when your mind is programmed with the herd mentality you follow online, you won't be able to reason well.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by BritishAirways: 1:22pm On Dec 11, 2022

are you sure you raised your daughter in kindness ?

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by ceeceeuwa: 4:11pm On Dec 11, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating the guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation he is a Gold digger and gigolo he has 7 children by 6 women people from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life we have talked to her to no avail she left the house and disowned us. she got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge. We didn't know that she was getting married it was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok , he showed me the footage we are heartbroken we have lost sleep and appetites ,there is nothing we can do to stop her we don't have her contact nor her adress she has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. she went to her sister old house she heard them arguing about money he use her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing she agreed only for her to blocked her till date, she has changed house . We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas, I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad

She will learn the hard way! It is just that as parents you will always feel that pain knowing that your offspring is going through a difficult time. Just pray her experience will not mare her for life.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Foodqueen(f): 4:11pm On Dec 11, 2022

Sorry about what u are going through.

Give her time, she will definitely be back when she becomes his baby mama.

Guys like that don't change.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by frozen70(f): 4:44pm On Dec 11, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating the guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation he is a Gold digger and gigolo he has 7 children by 6 women people from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life we have talked to her to no avail she left the house and disowned us. she got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge. We didn't know that she was getting married it was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok , he showed me the footage we are heartbroken we have lost sleep and appetites ,there is nothing we can do to stop her we don't have her contact nor her adress she has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. she went to her sister old house she heard them arguing about money he use her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing she agreed only for her to blocked her till date, she has changed house . We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas, I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad

At this point, you guys will not throw the baby with the bathing water

Find away and call the them to congratulate them and start relating with them. As if nothing happened

She will learn her lessons but whatever you guys are telling her is not enough to teach her lessons

Is what she will pass through from that guy that will teach her the lessons of her life

Just wish her well
She is the crazy type and age has choosen her path

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:57pm On Dec 11, 2022*

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating the guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation he is a Gold digger and gigolo he has 7 children by 6 women people from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life we have talked to her to no avail she left the house and disowned us. she got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge. We didn't know that she was getting married it was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok , he showed me the footage we are heartbroken we have lost sleep and appetites ,there is nothing we can do to stop her we don't have her contact nor her adress she has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. she went to her sister old house she heard them arguing about money he use her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing she agreed only for her to blocked her till date, she has changed house . We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas, I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad

you claim to be disowned then you moan about her getting married without your knowledge what did you expect when she had disowned you

For now watch from a distance, if this is going to be a lesson for her let it be, while you watch she will come back on her own

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by GreaterFuture(m): 9:22pm On Dec 11, 2022*

Ahmed0336:
Na small pikin dey worry her.

That ain't small Pikin, that is Juju.. confirm Juju!
He has 7 children, 5 women? That ain't small Pikin at all!!

OR... She has a very unique mental illness, (maybe contributed to/compounded by the parents) quite intricate, and it is manifesting like this.

OR
These person/parent ain't saying the full truth, maybe there is a lot more to the story (Which very likely is the case, any which way...)

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Neptunium(m): 9:34pm On Dec 11, 2022*

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Lapotech: 10:20am On Dec 14, 2022

Mercury12:
Life is full of lessons. We only students in life. At the end of the day she will come to know her good decisions as well as her bad decisions but until then keep her in your prayers.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by meobizy(f): 10:21am On Dec 14, 2022

She’s a grown woman. She’ll learn.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by SocialJustice: 10:23am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

Big gbola addiction. Let her be, provided she's not endangering her life.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Way4orward: 10:24am On Dec 14, 2022

Her choice.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Akalia(m): 10:24am On Dec 14, 2022

She's a responsible adult so respect her choice of man. If there are lessons for her to learn from her choice-good or bad, let her learn it and become a better person thereafter. You can't advice a woman in love, it's waste of time and wisdom.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by TenQ: 10:24am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

Give your daughter two years, don't send money and don't call. The gold digger if true would have Japa and your daughter's eye cleared.

For now, there is absolutely NOTHING you can do about her or the situation, so give yourself PEACE!

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 14, 2022

Kobonaire234:
If this is real, let your daughter go in peace.

She is a full grown adult. If she cannot see things clearly now, she will see it in due time...

Experience is the best teacher and if she don learn her lessons, please endeavor to bring her closer and forget the past, treat her well and nice... she's old enough to make decisions for herself

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by faceland: 10:25am On Dec 14, 2022

You have lost her (move on)... Just pray you gave her a good foundation otherwise it might get worst.

Cut her access to your money. Hopefully he doesn't manipulate her to crime.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 14, 2022

You can only pray she sees the light, there is nothing you can do at the moment, but mean while prepare to be granny's, since there's a precedent.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by zionzoe(m): 10:27am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Thank you

EXACTLY,

EXACTLY,

EXACTLY,

SHE GO COLLECT, COME BECOME BETTER PERSON.

AS A PRODIGAL PARENT JUST ENSURE THAT WHEN HER EYES DON CLEAR , EMBRACE HER BACK.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Pwettylinda(f): 10:28am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

The guy is fucking her really well and eating her pussy so well.

Your daughter is a sex starved turned addict now by the fucker.

She's gone. There is nothing you guys can do, she's been brainwashed by the druggy

If na for Naija na to wipe her better USB cord wey go reset her brain

She's been

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by JoeNL22(m): 10:28am On Dec 14, 2022*

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

The D is too sweet....

I have a girlfriend who won't stop calling me every 2 hours because I entered her a week ago. She wants me to marry her right now. I don dey avoid her since then. It's well. Back to the topic. For with Obi, a new Nigeria is POssible.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by franchasng: 10:28am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

God abeg oh, protect and guide my daughter as she grows into adulthood, may she never make the wrong choice or decision and may all devourers parading as lovers and boyfriends and fiance's and husbands never find her.

All my life, I made sure I treat ladies I came across as a man with dignity and human conscience, may my daughter never fall victim to evil guys disguising as lovers, this I pray this day oh Lord cry

This is so scary and heartbreaking to read cry

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by OLULAW: 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

Kobonaire234:
If this is real, let your daughter go in peace.

She is a full grown adult. If she cannot see things clearly now, she will see it in due time...

Exactly.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Eriokanmi: 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022*

This generation eeh! I comment my reserve. Hope she doesn't regret it later. Their likes would be quick to commit suicide when they can't bear the shame of returning home. Manners have eluded this generation. God have mercy.

A few days back, one boy celebrated his 3rd child which his babymama just gave birth to. He was so bold to post their faces here and the picture of himself and his likes were busy showering praises on him. We're busy copying the western people whom we are not. Where's our manners, our culture and dignity? You gave birth to 3 children yet, you refused to make it official by marrying her. We weren't brought up this way.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by erai30(m): 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

I'm sure she is listening to Timaya's new song right now, "As e dey sweet us, e dey pain dem, As e dey pain dem omo e dey sweet us". He who wears the shoe knows where it hurts, she is probably getting something money can't buy from him and that's why she is clinging to relationship. ; cool

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by AnonymustME(m): 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

Dickmatization is real
You can tell by the number of baby mamas he has that he must be blowing their backs out, that’s why it doesn’t matter to them if he’s a dead beat.
Your daughter bout to be baby mama 7

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by OhBritannia(m): 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

If by anyways her bills are still being cater for by the both of you.
Then stop sending her money and if possible block her source of income if the source is Link to you and your husband.

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Lukuluku69(m): 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

Abroad? There is little you can do. Too much freedom in that clime.

You said she is 22? I just hope that by the time she come to her senses no too much damage is done.

Also, you and your husband should be prepare and open to the fact that sometimes in the future, a damage child is coming back to you.

Then pray a lot. My people say what is good requires prayer (so that it won't go bad) and what is bad requires prayers too in order to turn good.

Prayers is not only for when things are good and rosy. Always pray for your kids. Always.

May your child return to you undamaged.

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Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by minasu190: 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

With time, she will understand..just give her time to do her madness

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 14, 2022

What type of play is this?

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by bekpo(m): 10:30am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

The abroad no get name?

Re: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by joyandfaith: 10:30am On Dec 14, 2022

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating.

The guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation. He is a Gold digger and gigolo. He has 7 children by 6 women.

People from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life. We have talked to her to no avail. She left the house and disowned us. She got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge.

We didn't know that she was getting married. It was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok. He showed me the footage. We are heartbroken. We have lost sleep and appetites, here is nothing we can do to stop her. We don't have her contact nor her address.

She has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. She went to her sister's old house she heard them arguing about money. He used her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing. She agreed only for her to block her till date, she has changed house. We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas.

I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad.

Show her some family love. She is 22 not a kid. Aja ti a so nu ki gbo fere olode.

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