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fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

You dey craze!

Neptunium:
She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.

Wow

During her session, she may not be thinking about you. Wish you new generation well

ur wife d masturbate u dey complain, u no happy... smh....

Now, i don't understand why a partner will be ignoring or starving his or her mate! ... unless it's for medical reasons or distance I don't see why you should not TRY, at least, to feed your partner when you yourself is not hungry/no appetite.

Atleast try or make effort or compromise to give it to him/her for the fact that no one else is permitted to do that!!!!!!!!!

No one can be sooo busy throughout a 24hr day that you cannot spare a 5min quickie!!! Same goes to calls.

I repeat, DON'T STARVE YOUR PARTNER OF SEX!!!!!... unless he or she is a maniac(then get help/solution)!

NB: I'm not married as at when I typed this, but future bae please take note!!!

You're a very mature man. But to be honest, are you sure that she really loves you? If she loves you, why doesn't she care about pleasing you?

Have you talked to her about it? If she likes masturbating so much, why not allow her to do her thing but together with you? Why not learn what she likes from her?

Don't be passive aggressive when she approaches you. It's not a healthy way to resolve problems in relationships. Talk to her instead. If she loves you, she will try to make adjustments.

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

Neptunium:
She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.

Where did you get all that information from? If she's damaging her body, won't she feel pain and stop? Men who masturbate excessively, do they damage their dick? You make no sense mehn.

Shame on you. Why expose your wife in public?
You don't understand the meaning of your marriage vow

Na sex cause this long story, problem

sex na food ?

riverbird:
But how can you be starving your partner sexxx?, It's a torture more worse than killing the person

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me,
make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

Fakum or whatever your name is be aware that you are a husband from the pit of hellfire.

How can you marry a fine woman and after five good years of marriage and drubbing her you become tired and uninterested to continue to screw her well well. It appears that you are enjoying seeing her suffering by masturbation of herself. Be sure that your wife will soon fall into the waiting arms of a more worthy man that will satisfy her sexually. At her age it is not offence to have sex with any other man particularly when the husband is unworthy like you have described yourself to be. Big shame on you. Irresponsible man.

Fyi, most women like sex more when they have born a child and nurture it and wean it. Therefore requesting a husband to do his family duty is not a shameful act and more women should do request.

Fakum, whatever type of work you are engaged in please create enough time to do your family work. If you are feeling tired or weak after a days hassle kindly eat powerful meals like akanmu or ogi mixed with water and milk. The women know good food that can keep you strong and ready at any time. Other options include going to meet your father to tell him this your stupid story and ask him how he overcame it during his time. If your father is late look for other elderly man around you and complaining.

Don't let me hear your wife wants a divorce because you are not up to it. Mugu.

KosiGee:
Which signs?? Why are you all against the woman? This man knows the answer to his problem but he doesn’t want to act. The woman in my opinion is ok. She just need this man to be a man and do his job.

Btw...both of them wan k.

That's not the issue bro, the woman is a strong addict.

Do you know what it means for your wife to be masturbating in your presence, and after that deny you sex??
And you're saying the man should act, which act are you talking about again, what do you want him to do??

seenga:
sex na food ?

E pass food o

Wenti you like for oral wen b say na u de give nor b say na u de recieve m.......wenti u like for Bleep wen u de sick one man's poison is really another man's food.......disgusting

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

From what I can deduce from your long Epistle to Sex, your wife love masturbation like madness; you love cunnilingus like madness. Therefore I can safely advise both of you to continue to feed your passion for madness in sex.

fakum:
Hmmm, to b honest i might not be happy with the turn out of things but giving her a free hand is a decision i'm hppy about. Marriage is not a cage or prison, it should be enjoyed freely and the worst thing from my experience is if you cage a woman or girl child, they tend to do worst with or without you knowing. Na God ooo, this thing no get any 100% sure way ooo, lets just hope and pray for the best.

Thanks

Gentlemen, there you have it. No disrespect Sir,but you feeling not happy in this situation clearly shows how her self-service is and had been a threat to your bragging cunnilingus game. Are you one of those guys who are in the habit of asking women after fvcks: Hey bae"how was my performance".

Bros, sorry to burst your bubbles, maybe she never found you sexy in the first place. Its even obvious you crave her more than she does to you. You need to hear this, your wife has an imaginary Chad thundercork(definitely not you) who she sees during masturbations. And I think the pic of the guy/girl is on facebook.

mokset123:
have you heard of throat cancer, my brother stop the oral and use your hands at best

I feel like vomiting here,can you imagine

Neptunium:
She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.

Lie. Not true

feranmi143:
Yo fish, you saw a lot of red flag before you got married but you ignored it, the very movement you let that pussy control you, sir you are gone, denined you sex for almost a month but she mastubate often, you both need to work on your sex**al life. sucking for an hour YOU NEED TO BE GIVEN AN AWARD, don't plan on cheating, have some nice time with her, if still the same treaten to marry another lady

Also lie. Fact a woman masturbate is not a red flag. It's a matter of preference

Neptunium:
She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.

Hmmmmm....I have been thinking about this side effect to female masturbation

Tombrown3:
This your story self dey one kind.

If she doesn't touch her clit, then how does she masturbate? How do you give her MouthAction without stimulating the clit?

You want to tell me she masturbate with deep penetration and avoid the clit? Yet denies you same penetration?

Women who masturbate are more clitoris concentrated than penetration. Even a virgin can masturbate and get orgasm while her hymen remains intact.


This your story self.

I'm out of here

Hmmmmmm

Jaapu:
If you don't mind. What does putting them on their toes mean and entails. make I use this opportunity learn.

It means making them feel like you have the capacity to keep a side chick or cheat on them, when in actual sense you don't have any or even planning to have any.

The endpoint is to have the capacity to make them jealous.
Jealousy keeps some kind of women In check.

Manofmannnn:
I feel like telling you to shut up!

You are free to, but it doesn't mean I will obey you.

bepositive11:
You're a very mature man. But to be honest, are you sure that she really loves you? If she loves you, why doesn't she care about pleasing you?

Have you talked to her about it? If she likes masturbating so much, why not allow her to do her thing but together with you? Why not learn what she likes from her?

Don't be passive aggressive when she approaches you. It's not a healthy way to resolve problems in relationships. Talk to her instead. If she loves you, she will try to make adjustments.

A sensible mature man will never put his mouth anywhere near a woman's vagina, a place where various FILTHY fluids are discharged and to top it all, A PLACE WEAR SOME OTHER MEN HAVE DEPOSITED SPERMS. IT'S LIKE NOT MINDING TO EAT A FOOD SERVED IN A CLEAN PUBLIC TOILET

marcopollo:
@ fakum , I feel you, Bro. But you know what? My wife also masturbates, though I'm also good in oral s*x. She's not a s*x freak like myself. It's good we're on the same level of s*x drive. The thing is, when she masturbates, that's not the best time to have s*x. I allow her do her thing. At least if need be we'll do it like the next day or any other day. But in your case, your wife's s*x drive has dwindled. I wonder what could be the cause? Have you guys discussed on that? If so, what did she say? Denying you s*x is not good. Please you guys should talk about it and find a middle ground or some compromise.

0ral sex on a woman you didn't disvirgin...

0ral sex on a woman some other men have DEPOSITED SPERMS into her public holes several times... Did you know that SPERMS can stay hidden and alive in a woman's vagina for up to 7 days?...

0ral sex on a hole were various FILTHY DISCHARGES ARE REGULARLY RELEASED...

TELL YOUR WOMAN TO INSERT HER FINGER IN THERE AND LICK IT ... SHE CAN NEVER BECAUSE SHE KNOWS IT'S DIRTY AND UNHEALTHY...


Giving a woman you don't know her true BODYCOUNT head is like not minding to eat a meal served in a clean public toilet (inside where you shît).. THINK ABOUT IT!

YOU GUYS STINK!!!

fakum:
lol. Bros that threat thing no dey work, she will only change for few period and back to default setting, we have gone trough tat lane before. Of the truth i saw it, she was truthful enough to tell me but i never knew it will get to this.
its not an award thing ooo, once you love seeing then having that amazin toe curling orgasm, you wont even know when till will pass. Iit can be discomforting sometimes (especially for late cummers) but then, the end result is always fulfilling.
Today that see was touching me, with vex self i neglected her, something i don't do but felt bad after. Imagine, after weeks ooo, i wanted telling her to go continue her masturbation but didnt but definietly i will tell her, next time..
She is an awesome wife though.

Thank God say you know say you marry better wife...

No allow this kind yeye news make u loose your peaceful home oooh...

Kuku do your best,cum and go ur merry way..

Don't try to impress any bitch...

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
!

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You and your wife need Christ. MouthAction is a sin. Just as Indecency and masturbation. Not only does it jeopardize your health, it also lead you into other forms of sexual immorality. No wonder you are now contemplating adultery.

riverbird:
Yes the op wrote that his ones so sweet wife now prefer messing herself up all by herself rather than doing it the muffucking right way like they used to do before while mixing it with masturbation, now get your muffucking assss of my mention or I turn you into a two headed tod.

bloody nonsense motherducker.

Tantaly dolls to the rescue?

Ameduedwin:
bloody nonsense motherducker.

Fucking kangaroo

Prick and Toto matter

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

You guys will be fine. This change prolly began after she birthed una first