Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by sweetrace(f): 11:09am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Neptunium: She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration. How? |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Dareal90s(m): 11:09am On Dec 14, 2022 |
polite2: guy that red flag was bad enough for you not to have married her. She will ever prefer masturbating dan having you. In fact some even still touch thier clit while u re fucking them There is always red flag in every relationship, no perfect situation. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by adekennis(m): 11:09am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
Sit her down, tell her with a straight face you understand her addiction with masturbation but she also need to understand that she dey starve you of sex say you are considering having a side chic so you wont be bothering her too much for sex all the time since she prefer masturbation than sex, trust me she go change shaparly cos no woman want her husband have side chic..lol 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Bluffly: 11:10am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
Look here, Oral is not healthy for you. So because of Oral, you want to go outside and be Oral. Guy go buy samsu ol they do 1 hour before you cum, she will forget her masturbation. Focus on the real deal and not some tongue wagging shit 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Family matter ! I no dey chuck head there 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by frog12: 11:14am On Dec 14, 2022 |
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Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Edicool46(m): 11:15am On Dec 14, 2022 |
You are not just doing your job well. |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Gospel2Day: 11:18am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Both of you are se.x perverts. Your marriage bed is defiled by abominable sex acts. Why judge her and excuse yourself, when the both of you are doing what Satan and his demons taught you through por.n? You LUV ORAL. She loves fingering and rubbing herself. Both of you are headed for HELL FIRE, unless you REPENT. Any se.x acts outside of lawful marriage and apart from missionary position is deviant and devilish. No fingering. No oral. No anal. No placing the joystick in-between the breas.ts. No lesbian se.x. No gay se.x. If you are not yet married, you have NO BUSINESS with se.x, whether solo se.x or any other acts of physical intimacy. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by maureensylvia(f): 11:19am On Dec 14, 2022 |
This your post can make someone Hot...
Communicate with ur wife about ur RIVAL with u 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Kelvinskillz: 11:20am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum:
you are right about preferring masturbation but about touching her clit, she doesnt do that, its even war when i try to touch her there during love making, strangely. It is well sha. I'm not regrecting marrying her, aside this, she is perfect for me, she is a good woman ooo just that non is 100%. Your type is rare to find, I hope she appreciates having such a wonderful man as a husband 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Ade1177: 11:22am On Dec 14, 2022 |
What about a full housewife that can go 6months without having any form of sexual arousal
Even if its to cheat outside
Both in and outside nothing
Some people don't fancy sex atall 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:23am On Dec 14, 2022 |
The best inventors and artists were also |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by bekpo(m): 11:24am On Dec 14, 2022 |
mariahAngel:
And not adultery itself? So, when does it become adultery? U r a suspect! |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Kene4u(m): 11:25am On Dec 14, 2022 |
So MouthAction doesn't count as cheating? |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Sukkyy2010: 11:29am On Dec 14, 2022 |
No partner is perfect, you have just discovered your partner weakness ( you have your own). Now you've got to sit her down for a discussion on how you both will conquer the chronic addiction.
You can book section with a sex therapist. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by achimendy(m): 11:33am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
Confused couple . He saw all the signs but he still went ahead to marry her. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by techcraftsol: 11:36am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Believe me, whenever she is in the act, she has picture of someone in her imagination straving her and it is not you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by KosiGee(m): 11:37am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum:
i have hinted her on that and she will end up changing for a week or two. This time, it will be the final talk we will have about this. You know the solution to your problems. Why did you bring it here. Both of you are wa nkers. You run your thing as you call it, she’s comfortable ‘running’ her fingers down there while you roast beside her. What a couple both of you are. She won’t even let you go down on her...yuck!!!. Why do you have to tell people you do that. I wish I could locate you and beat the pu ssy taste outta your tongue and mouth. How do people like you put your tongue and mouth between a woman’s legs??..you are even thinking of meeting a priest! What would a priest do for you? What da *#+%^ is happening to nairaland? Seun be careful. Ban all bitch ass ni ggaz from this site. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by techcraftsol: 11:38am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Yes, mostly its has to do with mental issues Ade1177: What about a full housewife that can go 6months without having any form of sexual arousal
Even if its to cheat outside
Both in and outside nothing
Some people don't fancy sex atall |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by RZArecta(m): 11:39am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
you're just a fūck boy who decided to embarrass his wife by exposing a habit she probably started as a teenager to the public instead of looking for how to help and assist her. Who told you to give us this information ? |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by afadi2410: 11:39am On Dec 14, 2022 |
mokset123: have you heard of throat cancer, my brother stop the oral and use your hands at best So MouthAction will give him throat cancer? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by GUNITGuy: 11:40am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Gospel2Day: Both of you are se.x perverts. Your marriage bed is defiled by abominable sex acts. Why judge her and excuse yourself, when the both of you are doing what Satan and his demons taught you through por.n? You LUV ORAL. She loves fingering and rubbing herself. Both of you are headed for HELL FIRE, unless you REPENT. Any se.x acts outside of lawful marriage and apart from missionary position is deviant and devilish. No fingering. No oral. No anal. No placing the joystick in-between the breas.ts. No lesbian se.x. No gay se.x. If you are not yet married, you have NO BUSINESS with se.x, whether solo se.x or any other acts of physical intimacy. Shalom. Pastor thanks for the Sermon 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by KosiGee(m): 11:41am On Dec 14, 2022 |
achimendy:
Confused couple .
He saw all the signs but he still went ahead to marry her. Which signs?? Why are you all against the woman? This man knows the answer to his problem but he doesn’t want to act. The woman in my opinion is ok. She just need this man to be a man and do his job. Btw...both of them wan k. |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by nairamaniac: 11:42am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Op you didn't tell us the dreams you had about her?
U said you refused to tell her. Are the dreams connected to this matter? |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Maysdevices(f): 11:44am On Dec 14, 2022 |
polite2: guy that red flag was bad enough for you not to have married her. She will ever prefer masturbating dan having you. In fact some even still touch thier clit while u re fucking them While some men encourage their women to touch their clits so they can get extra pleasure from sex, this one is successfully condemning his poor wife to a life of sexual frustration. You can’t fight the or come between a woman and her clit, all you can do pleasure it and make it yours. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by 00FFT00(m): 11:45am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
Bros, you love your wife, but you go still collect BJ outside?. Haba, fear God na. |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum:
you are right about preferring masturbation but about touching her clit, she doesnt do that, its even war when i try to touch her there during love making, strangely. It is well sha. I'm not regrecting marrying her, aside this, she is perfect for me, she is a good woman ooo just that non is 100%. U sound experienced, where's the clit |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Lol, this one na excuse for adultery you dey look for. We should all join hands to condemn her for masturbation but praise you for adultery? You haven't told us why she is refusing you sex |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Saig: 11:47am On Dec 14, 2022 |
fakum: Sorry my people this might be a bit long.
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
All this marriage stuff keep hitting me everyday. Gets scarier by the day. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by DARLINGTON869(m): 11:51am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Honestly, I don't even know where to come in. Maybe cos I am yet to get married 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by MufasaLion: 11:53am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Gospel2Day: Both of you are se.x perverts. Your marriage bed is defiled by abominable sex acts. Why judge her and excuse yourself, when the both of you are doing what Satan and his demons taught you through por.n? You LUV ORAL. She loves fingering and rubbing herself. Both of you are headed for HELL FIRE, unless you REPENT. Any se.x acts outside of lawful marriage and apart from missionary position is deviant and devilish. No fingering. No oral. No anal. No placing the joystick in-between the breas.ts. No lesbian se.x. No gay se.x. If you are not yet married, you have NO BUSINESS with se.x, whether solo se.x or any other acts of physical intimacy. Shalom. Stop gloating! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by Mrshocker(m): 11:54am On Dec 14, 2022 |
It’s not a big deal if it keeps her from fornication |