The children should move on and think about the legacy they want to leave behind for their own children.

Else, same will be said about them.

They would have told him while he was alive.
They're just cowards, speaking against the dead when he can no longer defend himself.

I have seen children born outside of marriage come back to the father to claim their rights against the wishes of the man and the stepmother.

But e no abort you Abi?
E train you go school Abi?
E no let you starve or dey homeless Abi?

I’m shenking my dad’s burial.

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Abeg go sit down.
Say e rosy for you no mean say e rosy for everybody.

For the first time truth was told in a burial..

Normally ones person die, e don turn saint..Even people with questionable character.

Anyways, Thank God for some of us that had and still enjoying a home filled with love and sacrifice.

Nawa o....How man go leave wify and kids just the spend on top one yeye small girl wey go leave am Japa outside

Again I hope this is not another case of mothers and home politics of brainwashing the kids to look down on Local man

EBMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

What they did in that biography is simply what makes someone "Igbo". Always tell the truth even to elders and people in authority. "Diplomacy" is the baptismal name of lies and deceit. It has no place in the Igbo society.

Which "legacy" can a tailor leave
for his children apart from sewing machine❓❓

GoooodHardDick:

You have no right to call a man stingy except of course you're a beggar.
However, I except by now you must have gotten a job and be useful to yourself and family. stop depending on men for survival

I think I've warned you never to quote me in your broke life again . What is your problem? Biko leave me alone .

Am I the cause of your brokeness and poverty stricken life? . Be warned for the last time. Nonsense!!

My father left me with nothing too. Even throughout my little education, he never bought me a pencil not to talk of food but when he was alive and old and got siick, my wife and I took him to the hospital for treatment and I tried my best sending him money when I am called upon. During his burial I paid equal amount of money with my other brothers that he took care of. But that is life, I have come to understand that I will never do the mistake my dad did to my kids. Shalom

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

What does he owe them besides education?

Ungrateful children, bringing them to the world should be a legacy, and he gave them education which gave them the audacity to express themselves arrogantly

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

You're very right

Kids are happily taking their mothers surname, getting married without fathers consent nowadays.

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

hmm deep..

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father show he did unspeakable things. The children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

By just merely looking at a picture...you could just make conclusions? If you were 'sensible',you won't judge from a side of the story since the man is dead and can not defend himself...may God not give us disasters for children

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father show he did unspeakable things. The children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

Talkative, FEM

Very useless children

Children brainwashed by a bitter, scorned wife/ mother .

Their own Children will probably write same about them in the future.

Na turn by turn

donpapa:
They should go and face their lives too so that there kids won’t say the same about them

Hope you are not a bad Dad too. I am suspecting you.

Sharaaap u motherfucker

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father show he did unspeakable things. The children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

He brought u kids into this world at least, stupid shidren

JORDAN202:
HEY


ANY CHILD THAT COULD WRITE SUCH FOR ANY DEAD PARENT, IS A WICKED ASSHOLE.

YOU WERE AN ADULT WHEN HE WAS STILL ALIVE, YET YOU DID NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO CONFRONT HIM.

IF YOUR STORY IS TRUE, YOU SHOULD HAVE CONFRONTED THE MAN BEFORE HE DIED SO THAT HE CAN EXCERCISE HIS RIGHT TO REPLY.

MAY YOUR OWN CHILDREN DO THE SAME OR WORSE TO YOU UPON YOUR DEATH.

Confront him how? Do you know if he has been advised by so many people to change his ways and he refused? Please don't blame them, let them tell the story as it is. Not all lies lies in tribute

Roboto11:


What does he owe them besides education?

He owes them plenty: food, shelter, emotional and mental support, prayers, financial support, advice, love and care. That is what parenting is all about!

Some of you need classes on proper parenting.

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Your reasoning is shallow.
Seems you've never seen a narcissistic parent

Chee59:

Your reasoning is shallow.
Seems you've never seen a narcissistic parent

Spot on.

misan1977:
He brought u kids into this world at least, stupid shidren

He had sex. Someone else bore the burden of bringing them into the world.
Having children is not a gift to them if you abandon your duties towards them.

Petty and unnecessary!

The dead feel no shame nor remorse.

You are simply bringing shame and reproach to yourself and mother.

Your father gave you life... His seed ensured you had an existence.

Some children are wicked

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Lagos2Berlin:


He owes them plenty: food, shelter, emotional and mental support, prayers, financial support, advice, love and care. That is what parenting is all about!

Some of you need classes on proper parenting.

They don't appear to have been homeless.

If they were not left to be sick, he educated them, he has done his bit.

In pursuing those things - a home, education and health he therefore did the others.

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father show he did unspeakable things. The children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!